089: Unicorning in ENM: Navigating Couples’ Dynamics, Self Awareness, Communication and Safety feat. Summer

Elle and Vee have Summer back for an encore episode after she shared her experiences as a trained submissive under two doms in Episode 088: Inside the Mind of a Sub . This time, she discusses her experiences and the lessons she's learned from being a unicorn for an array of couples with lots of different dynamics, and the girls put in their two cents from their own experiences. How do you become a unicorn in the ethically non monogamous lifestyle? (1:46) Navigating couples’ dynamics as a unicorn and establishing your boundaries. Why you should keep texting in the group chat. (9:12) Deferring to the wife/girlfriend, and holding their feelings in high regard. Feeling thankful for being invited in. (16:07) As a husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend: the benefits of playing separately as a unicorn. (22:20) Playing with a couple when you’re more attracted to one person than the other. (27:01) BDSM vs ENM: rough sex vs vanilla sex. (32:30) Questions to ask as the couple, and as the unicorn, before playing. (34:23) Best threesome positions. (42:50) Meeting couples on apps. Overcoming past experiences and being a couples’ first. (46:42) Listener question: tips to stay safe when meeting new people as a single unicorn. (49:59) What does this lifestyle (ethical non monogamy) bring to your life in the absence of having your own primary partner? (1:00:26) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.