036: Triggered: Bringing a Third to a Sex Party, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Perception Vs Reality

Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered. Vee shares her fears, desires and boundaries for this episode. (2:26) A challenge of having a third partner: balance. (3:57) Codependency, projection, and the stories we tell ourselves. (6:41) Elle discusses another potential challenge of having a third: feeling left out. (13:32) Elle's example of "the stories we tell ourselves" and the lessons learned. (18:16) Avoidance as a coping strategy. (26:36) Confirmation bias to support our stories. (28:47) Elle's plan/tools to deal with triggers in the future. (30:15) What Vee would do differently the next time she brings a third. (31:49) The Four Agreements. (45:08) How instagram impacts our mental health. (48:56) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.