About this episode
What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? In this episode, Vee and Elle sit down with M to chat about the catch-22 of having sex with your friends: how sometimes you sacrifice the quantity of sex for quality when you develop stronger friendships with your ENM partners. Strategy to turn the vibe sexy in big groups: “orgy boards”, taking a group vote with eyes closed, changing locations/spaces. (4:22) Why is it so much more challenging when trying to transition into sexy time with a larger group? (9:34) “Open door policy”: communicating intentions to the group when going off with one person. (12:19) “Emotionally weak people”: not taking answers personally as the asker of the question, and taking responsibility for your own triggers. (19:00) Strategy to avoid the challenge of transitioning into sex altogether: day orgies, new energy, and what creates desire according to Esther Perel. (23:41) Building sexual things up in your mind when you know there will be more opportunities. (32:53) How to disentangle from someone in an orgy when you want to move on to a different person or position. (36:45) M’s responses to past episodes: grinding while eating out and face-sitting. (40:04) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.