028: Navigating Emotional Triggers in Group Sex, and The Beauty of Day Orgies

In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning how to be an ethical porn consumer, and recapping Vee's weekend at a lifestyle party, including: How to deal with it as the unicorn in a threesome when there is an issue with the couple. (1:27) Listening vs giving advice when someone is triggered, and where to have the conversation. (8:26) What to do when the vibe is off between a CNM couple in a group sex situation (reading energy and holding space). (12:40) Fears, Desires and Boundaries: a tool to clear the air, break the ice and set expectations before the orgy. (15:38) What to do when you're triggered during group sex, and giving the couple space to regroup and get sexy. (18:22) Paying for porn: how do you find what’s worth paying for? (27:30) How do you know you’re watching porn that’s being ethically made? (30:30) Gemini Party Recap (34:32) - Connecting with and prioritizing your partner at the beginning of a lifestyle weekend. (35:37) - The difference between pool parties in the ENM lifestyle and vanilla pool parties. Friendships with the opposite sex. (39:34) - Day orgies, why having repeat partners makes for better sex, and compersion. (45:00) - Sitting on faces. (50:07) - The “comedown” from a big weekend: Strap ons, “pegging” vs “strapping”, how to have an awesome seven-person orgy, and how can you feel sexy in a big group? (53:33) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.