026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms

In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including: What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is it offensive? (2:40) What do you think of when you think ethical non monogamy or open relationship? What words or concepts come to mind? (4:38) What changes have you observed in your friends since they started exploring the nonmonogamous lifestyle? (9:55) What questions do you have for people in the lifestyle? How does it work? (14:27) How can you watch your partner with someone else, without feeling jealous? Jealousy, hotwife, and cuckolding. (15:55) How can you be friends with someone who has sex with your husband (your metamour)? Friends with benefits. (21:44) How does emotional intimacy work inside versus outside the primary relationship? (26:38) How do you protect against STD’s when you have so much sex? What is fluid bonding? (32:38) How do you tell your family and/or children about your open lifestyle, or how much do you tell them? How do you balance your time between kids and your partners? (35:37) If you’re trying to get into girl-on-girl, how do you get comfortable playing with women? (44:46) Will you ever be totally sexually satisfied? (48:09) What happens when you get older or ready to settle down? Will you ever be with one person? (51:38) “Serial monogamist and flirt with a high sex drive and little inhibition” poses some thought-provoking ideas and questions about polyamory and religion, and questioning your own choices further. (55:02) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.