About this episode
After some thought-provoking conversations with monogamous (non-lifestyle) friends, Vee and Elle discuss what the word "vanilla" actually means to them, and pose the same question to a few of their CNM (consensually non-monogamous) friends at Hedonism II in Jamaica. What does “vanilla” mean to Elle and Vee as people in the lifestyle? (2:07) What is “spicy vanilla”? (7:24) Are we meant to be monogamous? (11:49) Using "vanilla" to describe career choices. (13:58) Offending monogamous friends with the use of "vanilla". (16:56) Polling ENM (ethically non-monogamous) friends at Hedonism on what "vanilla" means to them: The Builder (20:18) The Magician and Nikki (21:44) Chet (26:10) Slutlana69 (29:14) Josh (30:55) Chantelle (33:10) The final verdict: what does "vanilla" mean to people in the lifestyle? (38:40) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.