006: Freaksgiving: Hosting a Sex Party, Impact Play and Cultivating Joy

Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend. After the 2022 edition, the girls debriefed their weekend, including: How to throw a great sex party! Valuing comfort: what’s on the checklist when setting up as a host? (2:42 ) The girls share their intentions, and what they learned from implementing them, including communicating your desires in the moment, and acting on your sexual feelings. (8:33 ) Elle shares a fun, sexy moment and the girls talk about the benefits of private versus public play. (10:20 ) Vee shares a story about a foursome, and how that experience helped her exercise her intention of acting on it when you feel sexual, and how “breaking the seal” of sexuality gets you in the mood for more sex. (14:45 ) BDSM and Spanking: Elle gives the play by play of a BDSM impact play scene, Vee talks about what she gets out of being the sub in an impact scene (spanking), and how BDSM can help you go deeper. (19:10 ) Observing the difference in your energy when you’re at a party solo versus with your partner. (27:45 ) Prioritizing time with your partner at parties. (29:19 ) How to break the ice and force yourself to socialize with everyone at a party! (32:55 ) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.