About this episode
From childhood trauma and addiction at age 11โฆ to being pronounced dead at 16โฆ to facing 25-to-life, losing everything in an FTC lawsuit, rebuilding from nothing, becoming a 600-employee CEO, speaking on Tony Robbinsโ stages, and helping thousands heal โ Ryan Zofay shares one of the most powerful transformation stories ever told on this show. In this raw conversation, Ryan opens up about the abandonment, violence, and addiction that shaped him, the rage that controlled him for years, the moment he finally forgave his father, and the deep emotional work that rebuilt his identity from the inside out. ๐ What Youโll Learn From This Episode ๐ง Why men chase money, women, status โ and still feel empty ๐ How childhood trauma creates lifelong patterns of โnot enoughโ ๐ฅ The psychology behind anger, avoidance & emotional addiction ๐ How to rewrite your identity and break generational cycles ๐ช How inner-child work & trauma processing actually work ๐งฉ Why rock bottom moments can become your greatest leverage ๐ผ Leadership lessons from scaling to 600+ employees ๐ค How public speaking builds confidence & emotional regulation ๐ฑ How healing yourself multiplies your success ๐๏ธ Why forgiveness โ especially of parents โ is the key to freedom Chapters 0:00 โ Filling the Void: Why Success Didnโt Fix the Pain 0:36 โ Meet Ryan: Trauma, Addiction & Rolling Deep 1:04 โ Growing Up Unsafe: Drugs at 11 & Streets at 12 1:45 โ Pronounced Dead at 16 & Facing 25-to-Life 2:50 โ Parental Abandonment, Abuse & the Origin of โNot Enoughโ 5:19 โ The Final Conversation With His Father 8:12 โ Emotional Avoidance, Trauma Triggers & Inner Child Work 13:44 โ Rage Addiction & The Path to Emotional Mastery 15:34 โ Hitting Rock Bottom: FTC Lawsuit, Loss & Reinvention 21:46 โ Masterminds, Purpose & Becoming a Transformational Leader ๐๏ธ APPLY OR CONNECT ๐ Apply to be on the podcast: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application ๐ฉ Business inquiries / sponsors: sean@digitalsocialhour.com ๐ค GUEST: Ryan Zofay - https://www.instagram.com/ryan.zofay/? ๐ผ SPONSORS QUINCE: https://quince.com/dsh ๐ฅ Fuel your health with Viome: https://buy.viome.com/SEAN Use code โSeanโ at checkout for a discount! ๐ง LISTEN ON ๐ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 ๐ต Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 ๐ธ Sean Kelly Instagram: @seanmikekelly โ ๏ธ DISCLAIMER The views and opinions expressed by guests on Digital Social Hour are solely those of the individuals appearing on the podcast and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, Sean Kelly, or the Digital Social Hour team. While we encourage open and honest discussions, Sean Kelly is not legally responsible for any statements, claims, or opinions made by guests during the show. Listeners are encouraged to form their own opinions and seek professional advice where appropriate. The content shared is for entertainment and informational purposes only โ it should not be taken as legal, medical, financial, or professional advice. We strive to present accurate and reliable information; however, we make no guarantees regarding its completeness or accuracy. The views expressed are solely those of the speakers and do not necessarily represent those of the producers or affiliates of this program. ๐ฅ Stay tuned for more episodes featuring top creators, founders, and innovators shaping the digital world! ๐ Keywords Ryan Zopay, Digital Social Hour, trauma recovery, addiction recovery, emotional mastery, inner child work, childhood trauma, father wound, healing journey, Tony Robbins speaker, We Level Up, leadership coaching See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .