About this episode
Rock bottom has a voice. Mine spoke to me from a stainless steel toilet in a prison cell at 23 years old, facing attempted murder charges after a party gone wrong. Each night, as Adele's "Someone Like You" played through the intercom, I'd stare through the tiny window slit in my door, contemplating how quickly life can unravel. My downward spiral began with heartbreak. After my first serious relationship ended, I chose self-destruction—drinking, using drugs, and numbing the pain rather than processing it. That path led me straight to a prison cell where fluorescent lights and crushing uncertainty became my new reality. Court dates brought hope that quickly dissolved into despair when no favorable news materialized. Yet something remarkable happened in that tiny cell: instead of surrendering to victimhood, I made an unshakeable commitment to fight for redemption, regardless of what lay ahead. For 2,000 days behind bars, I transformed that promise into action through consistent daily disciplines—working out, reading, writing, staying sober, and fighting through depression and anxiety. These weren't just activities to pass time; they were deliberate building blocks for the person I wanted to become. Years after my release, during a family vacation in Cancun, my three-year-old daughter spontaneously began singing "Someone Like You" as we walked under the lamplight. Tears streamed down my face as the universe revealed its perfect symmetry—the song that once symbolized my deepest despair now represented my greatest joy. My journey proves that transformation doesn't happen overnight but through thousands of correct choices made consistently over time. If you're facing adversity or feeling stuck, know that change is possible when you commit to fighting for it. Whatever stands between you and your dreams, push through it, learn from it, and keep moving forward. The storybook ending you desire is possible—and when it arrives, you'll understand that every struggle was preparing you for something beautiful. Will you make the decision today that your future self will thank you for?