#53: Pleasure vs. the Patriarchy: A Lesson in Self Love with The Magnetic Woman

What happens when a former Catholic schoolgirl discovers that pleasure isn't sinful but sacred? Lauren Joyce, known as The Magnetic Woman, radiates confidence as she shares her journey from sign language interpreter to pleasure coach who's revolutionizing how women connect with their bodies. Lauren's transformation began during a quarter-life crisis coinciding with her father's death. Seeking meaning, she stumbled into a personal development program that shocked her Catholic sensibilities but awakened something profound. Today, she leads a global community helping women break free from shame and conditioning that keeps them disconnected from their desires. The conversation reveals startling truths about pleasure in women's lives. Most can't even answer what brings them joy – not just sexually, but in any aspect of life. This disconnect stems from religious conditioning and patriarchal systems that teach women they'll be punished for experiencing too much pleasure. Lauren explains how this conditioning begins early, with girls suppressing their voices around age twelve, eventually losing connection with their own wants and needs. For those seeking to reconnect with pleasure, Lauren recommends starting with just five minutes daily of intentional focus on physical sensation. This simple practice dramatically lowers cortisol levels and helps regulate the nervous system. She discusses how alcohol often inhibits rather than enhances sexual pleasure by further numbing already disconnected bodies, and how taking pressure off goal-oriented sex creates space for genuine intimacy in relationships. The most powerful takeaway? "There's no upper limit on pleasure." In a world where heartbreak and loss are inevitable, why not experience as much joy as possible? Whether through her online membership "The Red Temple," her courses, or in-person retreats in places like southern France, Lauren's mission remains the same: helping every woman discover the magnetic, radiant being that already exists within her. Ready to reclaim your pleasure? What might change in your life if you gave yourself permission to feel truly alive? Send us a text Mocktails Or Messy podcast IG: @mocktailsormessy | TikTok: @mockmess Watch | YouTube Mocktails Or Messy Listen | Apple , Spotify , or wherever you listen to podcasts. Featured | #11 of Best Local Podcasts: FeedSpot