The Necessary Conversation
Family therapy through politics https://www.youtube.com/@TheNecessaryConversation
2d ago
In this midweek episode Chad and Mary Lou discuss Donald Trump's reaction to Rob Reiner's apparent murder. If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com
5d ago
šØ IMPORTANT NOTE: Haley is not on the show this week due to a medical emergency , but she is okay and recovering ā¤ļø This week on The Necessary Conversation , we break down another chaotic and disturbing week in American politics ā from a mass shooting at Brown University to Trump tweeting false information , a Venezuelan oil tanker seized by U.S. forces , new Epstein photos released , and Kristi Noem caught lying to Congress . š« Mass Shooting at Brown University A mass shooting at Brown University in Rhode Island left 2 people dead and 9 injured . Trump initially tweeted that the suspect was in custody ā then reversed himself just 15 minutes later , admitting the suspect was still at large. We discuss: Why did Trump rush out false information? What does this say about leadership during a crisis? Should presidents be live-tweeting active shooter situations? š¢ļø Oil Thieves Trump ordered a dramatic armed helicopter boarding of a Venezuelan oil tanker in the Caribbean carrying 2 million barrels of crude oil . Venezuela is calling it international piracy . We ask: Did the U.S. just steal another countryās oil? šø Epstein Photos Released House Democrats released new photos from Jeffrey Epsteinās estate , part of a trove of ~95,000 images subpoenaed by Congress. Photos include Trump, Bill Clinton, Bill Gates, Prince Andrew, Steve Bannon, Alan Dershowitz, and others in social settings with Epstein. We discuss: Did everyone in these photos know what Epstein was doing? š Kristi Noem Lied During a House Homeland Security hearing, DHS Secretary Kristi Noem falsely claimed DHS had never deported U.S. military veterans . She was immediately confronted live with a Purple Heartādecorated Army veteran she deported , then abruptly left the hearing. We ask: Why did Noem lie under oath? š° Trump Stealing Taxpayer Money? New reporting shows Donald Trump Jr. is tied to over $700 million in Pentagon contracts through venture capital firms he partners with ā awarded under Trumpās administration. We ask: Is this corruption or coincidence? āļø Goodbye Tourism Kristi Noem proposed requiring visitors from 42 allied countries to hand over: 5 years of social media history We discuss: Would this kill tourism? Should other countries do this to Americans? Is this mass surveillance dressed up as border security? š Trumpās Enemies List The White House launched a government-run āMedia Offendersā list , publicly targeting journalists and outlets Trump doesnāt like ā complete with a āHall of Shame.ā We ask: Should the government track journalists? How authoritarian is this? Where does this lead? š§ Simmer Down Mid-episode, we slow things down with a lighter question: If you could have had a different career, what would it have been? šŗ Watch the full episode š§ Available on all podcast platforms š¬ Drop a comment ā which story worried you the most? #Trump #EpsteinFiles #KristiNoem #BrownUniversity #ICE #PressFreedom #Authoritarianism #TheNecessaryConversation #PoliticalPodcast If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com
Dec 11
Mary Lou joins Chad for a midweek discussion about Trump's lies surrounding the idea and use of the word "Affordability." They play clips for one another from both sides of the political spectrum and even get into the breaking news about Pete Hegseth's war crimes. If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com
Dec 7
This weekās episode of The Necessary Conversation is a historic first: all four family members ā Bob, Mary Lou, Haley, and Chad ā are together in the same room at Bob & Mary Louās house. We break down the most disturbing and chaotic week yet in Trumpās second term ā including alleged war crimes , another Dozy Don moment, child-sex criminals being pardoned , over 1.17 million layoffs , and corruption spreading through the DOJ, FBI, military, and beyond. ā TOPICS THIS WEEK ā ļø WAR CRIMES ā The Double-Tap Strike Trump Wonāt Explain New reporting reveals that the Sept. 2 strike on a Venezuelan boat included a second missile deliberately killing survivors , violating U.S. military law and international law. Anonymous sources say Pete Hegseth ordered ākill everybody.ā Even Republicans are quietly asking for an investigation. Congressman Jim Himes called the footage āone of the most troubling thingsā heās ever seen. Questions we debate: Is it ever acceptable to kill survivors who pose no threat? Will Hegseth or anyone face consequences? Does the military still answer to the law? š“ DOZY DON ā Trump Falls Asleep Again Trump fell asleep during yet another televised cabinet meeting. His team released a suspicious āsummaryā of an MRI but not the scan itself. Trump says he doesnāt know what body part was scanned ā a claim no one believes. We discuss: Is Trump physically fit for office? Why wonāt he release actual medical records? Is this any different from what Republicans attacked Biden for? š¦ SIMMER DOWN (Mid-Episode): Family Jingle Bells Sing-Along Yes. We actually sing Jingle Bells together in the middle of the episode. It is chaotic. It is festive. It is us. š TRUMPāS PARDONS ā Another Child Predator Freed 44-year-old pardoned Jan 6er Andrew Paul Johnson has been arrested for horrifying child-sex crimes. He reportedly used his Trump pardon to groom a minor. Heās not alone: at least a dozen Trump-pardoned insurrectionists have since been arrested for violent or sexual crimes. We ask Mom directly: Are these the āheroesā sheās been defending? Why is Trump pardoning violent criminals and child predators? š MASSIVE LAYOFFS ā Worst Job Losses Since 2020 A new report shows 1.17 million layoffs in 2025 , a 54% increase over 2024. Economists blame Trumpās tariffs and economic mismanagement. We discuss: Why isnāt Trump addressing the layoffs? Is this āAmerica Firstā or economic sabotage? šØ MY OWN PRIVATE FBI ā Kash Patel Misuses Federal Agents New reporting shows FBI Director Kash Patel ordered agents to escort his girlfriendās drunk friend home ā and used government jets for personal travel. We ask: Is the FBI now just Kash Patelās personal concierge service? Why is Trump tolerating this corruption? āļø LETITIA JAMES & COMEY ā Trumpās DOJ Loses Again Federal grand juries rejected the political prosecutions of James Comey and Letitia James , leaving Trump with zero wins in his revenge-prosecution spree. We discuss: ā¤ļø THANK YOU FOR SUPPORTING THE SHOW If you enjoy the show, hit LIKE , SUBSCRIBE , and leave a comment answering: š Is Trump fit to serve? Should war crime investigations begin? Who do YOU think is right in our family? If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com
Dec 4
Haley and Chad hold down another Wednesday episode discussing their upcoming trip to Oklahoma to see their parents, as well as movies and TV shows from their childhoods. If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com
Nov 30
This week Bob is absent in protest of Chad's joke made on last week's live. Nonetheless, Haley, Chad and Mary Lou cover the top stories of the week and Mary Lou's mind might be changing. We discuss: š« NATIONAL GUARD MEMBERS AMBUSHED NEAR THE WHITE HOUSE Two West Virginia National Guard members, Sarah Beckstrom (killed) and Andrew Wolfe (critical condition), were ambushed right outside the White House. The suspect? Rahmanullah Lakanwal , an Afghan evacuee vetted and granted asylum by the Trump administration . Now Trump has: Paused all asylum decisions nationwide Suspended visas for Afghans Ordered 500 more troops into D.C. We ask: ā”ļø Who is actually to blame? ā”ļø Why did Lakanwal cross the country to do this? ā”ļø Is flooding D.C. with troops actually helping anything? š TRUMP TO PARDON HONDURAN DRUG KINGPIN Trump announced a āfull and complete pardonā for Juan Orlando HernĆ”ndez , the former president of Honduras ā and a convicted narcotrafficker who helped pump tons of cocaine into the U.S. At the same time, Trump is literally firing missiles at alleged ādrug boatsā with no proof. Trump says HernĆ”ndez was ātreated unfairlyā⦠right before Hondurasās election, where Trump is backing HernĆ”ndezās party. We discuss: ā”ļø Why pardon a druglord but bomb random boats? ā”ļø Does Trump actually care about drugs in the U.S.? ā”ļø Is this foreign election interference? š TRUMP CANCELS THE GDP, JOBS & INFLATION REPORTS In an unprecedented move, Trump canceled : The Q3 GDP report The Q3 jobs report The October inflation report Other key economic indicators For the first time in U.S. history , Americans have no unemployment rate, no growth numbers, no inflation data ā nothing. We ask: ā”ļø Why hide all economic reports at once? ā”ļø Wouldnāt he release them if they looked good? ā”ļø Can ANY future economic data be trusted? š„ SIMMER DOWN: Describe God. (Yes⦠it goes exactly where you think it does.) šµšø TRUMPāS CEASEFIRE BACKFIRES ā ISRAEL KILLS MORE CIVILIANS Since Trump bragged about ending the war, Israel has reportedly violated the ceasefire nearly 500 times in 44 days , killing hundreds more Palestinians ā including 78 people this week alone , mostly women and children. We discuss: ā”ļø Did Trumpās deal accomplish anything? ā”ļø Why is Israel still bombing? ā”ļø Is Trump lying about āending the warā? š¤ FOREIGN MAGA TROLL FARMS EXPOSED ā MUSK PANICS Elon Musk rolled out a new āAbout This Accountā feature showing where accounts are based. Within hours, users discovered: Many top MAGA accounts were operating from India, Nigeria, Eastern Europe, and Thailand Some of these accounts were frequently reposted by Trump Within 24 hours, Musk removed the feature We ask: ā”ļø Who runs these foreign accounts? ā”ļø Why was Trump amplifying them? ā”ļø Should Americans care where political content comes from? š LIKE, SUBSCRIBE & COMMENT: What shocked you most this week ā the ambush, the pardon, the hidden economic reports, or the foreign troll farms? If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com
Nov 26
Chad and Mary Lou share clips about Mark Kelly and the other lawmakers who reminded U.S. Military members not to follow illegal orders. If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com
Nov 23
This week on The Necessary Conversation w e break down everything: Trump suddenly loving Zohran Mamdani, MTG quitting Congress in a meltdown, Democrats warning the military about unlawful orders, Trump calling for their execution, his spiritual advisor pleading guilty to child sex crimes and much much more. šļø Trump Suddenly Loves Zohran Mamdani After calling Mamdani: āA communist lunaticā āA Jew-haterā āStupidā āTerrible-lookingā Trump met with him⦠and completely flipped. Now Trump says: āIāll stick up for you.ā āIām cheering for him.ā āIād be happy living in NYC under him.ā What happened in that private meeting? Is Trump now pro-Mamdani? Does this break the GOPās anti-Mamdani strategy? šØ Marjorie Taylor Greene QUITS Congress After turning on Trump over the Epstein files, MTG resigned in a wild video blaming Trump for treating her like āa battered wife.ā Trump mocked her, called her ālow-polling,ā and said she āwent bad.ā We discuss: Is this the beginning of a Republican civil war? Who is more MAGA ā MTG or Trump? Will she run for governor of Georgia? ā ļø TREASON? Trump Calls for Executing Democrats Six Democratic lawmakers ā many with military/intelligence backgrounds ā released a video reminding service members they must refuse illegal orders . Trump responded by demanding: They be arrested Tried for sedition Executed We break down: Should a president EVER call for the execution of political opponents? Why did Democrats feel the need to make this video now? Is this the impeachment moment? āŖ ICE Raids Churches in North Carolina ICE launched new raids in Charlotte ā including detaining people outside churches and causing congregants to flee into the woods. We ask: Should ICE be allowed to target places of worship? Is this still āgoing after the criminalsā? ⨠Simmer Down And we pause for a philosophical Simmer Down asking: What lesson do you think you were meant to learn in this lifetime? If you have a question for anyone on the show, record it in a 1 minute or under audio or video clip and send it to: thenecessaryconversationpod@gmail.com