E160 - Aaron Abke: 3 Hidden Beliefs That Keep You Miserable (and How to Break Free)

What if the very beliefs you’ve carried your whole life are the source of your suffering? In this episode, Aaron Abke returns to share insights on the ego, breaking down its three core beliefs that keep us trapped in cycles of fear, lack, and control. He explains how our misunderstanding of the ego causes unnecessary suffering—and how, when seen clearly, the ego can actually be an ally on the path of awakening. Aaron guides us through the process of moving from compulsivity to consciousness, releasing the illusion of lack, and embracing a deeper abundance that is not dependent on external circumstances. Momentous Creatine - Use Code KNOWTHYSELF for Up to 35% Off https://www.livemomentous.com Try Pique Life tea and save 20% for life & get a free frother: https://www.piquelife.com/KnowThyself Andrés Book Recs: https://www.knowthyselfpodcast.com/book-list ___________ 0:00 Intro 1:35 What Ego is & How It’s Misunderstood 5:12 How Aaron Woke Up To His Ego 10:01 Why Ego is Actually Essential & Useful in Moderation 16:44 Spiritual Bypassing & Misconceptions of Nonduality 26:33 Balancing Individuation with Integration 33:59 Reality of Oneness & Inter-Being 38:09 The 3 Beliefs of the Ego that Keep us Trapped 44:23 Ad: Momentous Creatine 45:29 Overcoming Lack and Embracing Abundance Mindset 1:05:16 Ad: Pique Life 1:06:30 Practical Steps to Transcending Lack in Real Time 1:25:50 The Opportunity Hidden in Challenges 1:35:52 Processing Intense Negative Emotions 1:42:04 Go From Compulsivity to Consciousness 1:46:26 Summary of 3 Steps to Emotional Freedom 1:49:41 Outcome Happiness: How to Find Inner Joy that Doesn’t Go Away 1:54:15 Releasing Control & Surrendering to Life 2:09:49 Growing Through Romantic Relationships 2:17:13 Finding Our Unique Purpose 2:25:00 Conclusion ___________ Episode Resources: https://www.instagram.com/aaronabke/ New Book: https://a.co/d/8F82w5t https://www.youtube.com/@AaronAbke https://www.instagram.com/andreduqum/ https://www.instagram.com/knowthyself/ https://www.youtube.com/@knowthyselfpodcast https://www.knowthyselfpodcast.com