Singles Speak Out: Dating, Shadchanim & The System

Dating in the Jewish world is anything but simple. We sit down with Dovi Neuburger (from Teaneck) & Eli Geller (from Lakewood), for the guys part. Then we (Gitta, my wife joined me) sit down with Nechami Tenenbaum (from Detroit) & Rachel Pekarsky (from Elizabeth, NJ). These four singles have very different experiences and opinions on navigating the shidduch system, dating pressures, and the so-called "shidduch crisis." We delve into: - The unspoken rules of matchmaking - How expectations vs. reality can break people - The stigma of being single in the community - Are matchmakers helping or hurting the process? - The brutal truth about dating apps vs. traditional setups More from Dovi here: His IG: https://www.instagram.com/dovineuburger/? More from Nechami here: Beauty Products (this link is for women): https://defiancebeauty.com/ Her Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-are-women/id1524865398 ✬ SPONSORS OF THE EPISODE ✬ ► Wheels To Lease: The Best Place for Your Next Ride For over 35 years, Wheels To Lease has offered stress-free car buying with upfront pricing, no hidden fees, and door-to-door delivery. Call today! → CALL/TEXT: 718-871-8715 → EMAIL: inspire@wheelstolease.com → WEB: https://bit.ly/41lnzYU → WHATSAPP: https://wa.link/0w46ce ► Twillory: Suits that are COMFY Use promo code: INSPIRE for $18 OFF → https://Twillory.com/ ► BitBean: Smart Custom Software Looking to scale your business? Contact Bitbean today for a FREE CONSULTATION → https://bitbean.link/MeEBlY ► Feldheim: Best Purim Books 10% OFF on Feldheim.com with code INSPIRE Out of the Fire 🔥 Discover the hidden lessons of Purim with Rav Moshe Weinberger’s powerful insights, guiding you to a deeper connection with Megillas Esther. → https://bit.ly/OutOfTheFireLL Gates of the Palace 🏰 A beautifully illustrated Purim story for kids, bringing Chazal’s timeless teachings to life in a way they’ll never forget. → https://bit.ly/GatesOfThePalaceLL Inside Purim 🎭 Unmask the deeper layers of the Purim story with Rabbi Aryeh Pinchas Strickoff’s fascinating insights from Talmud, Midrash, and Rabbinic sources. → https://bit.ly/INSIDEPURIMLL Join the Lchaim Book Club → https://bit.ly/3YsHoMp ✬ IN MEMORY OF ✬ This episode is in memory of: • Shimon Dovid ben Yaakov Shloima • Miriam Sarah bas Yaakov Moshe ✬ Donate and Inspire Millions (Tax-Deductible) ✬ Your generous donation enables us at Living Lchaim to share uplifting messages globally, enrich lives, and foster positive change worldwide! Thank you! https://www.LivingLchaim.com/donate Our free call-in-to-listen feature is here: • USA: (605) 477-2100 • UK: 0333-366-0154 • ISRAEL: 079-579-5088 Have a specific question? email us hi@livinglchaim.comWhatsApp us feedback and get first access to episodes: 914-222-5513 Lchaim.