About this episode
Fourteen years ago, Amy Chua published Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother . It was received less like a book and more like a nuclear bomb. Here are some headlines from the time: “ Why I Will Never Be a Tiger Mom .” “ Why Amy Chua Is Wrong About Parenting .” “ Amy Chua Is a Circus Trainer, Not a Tiger Mother .” “ The Human Race Needs Elephant Mothers, Not Tiger Mothers .” “ Amy Chua's Recipe for Disaster and the Externalized Cost of Book Sales .” Then, just as the publicity around Tiger Mother died down, Amy came out with The Triple Package , about why some ethnic groups succeed. People called her racist. Then she came out in support of Brett Kavanaugh's court nomination in an op-ed in The Wall Street Journal (before he was accused of sexual assault by Christine Blasey Ford). Afterward, people accused her of misogyny and grooming. And she was almost forced out of Yale for it. Then, in 2021, she was accused of hosting boozy dinner parties during COVID lockdowns and “dinner party-gate” was born. Yale punished her by barring her from teaching her “small group” first-year student contingency. Fast-forward to 2025. And the tables have turned. Being a strict “tiger mom”? In. Free speech? In. Wokeness and hypersensitivity? Out. Covid lockdowns? Definitely out. Vicious character assassinations at Senate confirmations? Out. As Free Press reporter Peter Savodnik just wrote : “The ideas that Chua was pilloried for are suddenly back in fashion.” Just a few weeks ago, she attended the inauguration of the incoming president and vice president—one of whom happens to be her former student and mentee. It’s easy to be a weather vane—to go where the wind blows. It's hard to be Amy Chua—to stand up for your beliefs even when they are not popular, even when it means personal consequences. On today’s episode, live in D.C. during inauguration weekend, Chua explains how and why she won—and what it feels like to be vindicated. If you liked what you heard from Honestly , the best way to support us is to go to TheFP .com and become a Free Press subscriber today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices