About this episode
1. Why we should stop expecting people to forgive. 2. Rabbi Danya’s five step-by-step process for repairing a relationship. 3. What makes a good – and a terrible – apology. 4. What to do (and to not say) if you want to make amends and change. 5. Why repentance is a process that has nothing to do with the one who was hurt. About Rabbi Ruttenberg: Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg is an award-winning author of 8 books, including On Repentance and Repair: Making Amends in an Unapologetic World . She serves as Scholar in Residence at the National Council of Jewish Women, and her writing has appeared in the New York Times , the Atlantic , Salon , Time , Newsweek , and many other publications. TW: @TheRaDR IG: @rabbidanyaruttenberg