Walking the Tightrope, Hishtadlus and Bitachon in Shidduchim (with Q&A)

Delivered Motzei Shabbos 2/17/24 at Bais Yaakov Machon Ora 21:27 Shidduch Photos 27:13 Going out just to please the shadchan 29:11 Choosing a seminary based on shidduchim 32:30 Not giving up on ideals or being too picky 35:20 Support 37:06 Singles Events 38:58 Bashert 44:17 Allowing a younger child to go out before an older one 47:08 Essential criteria to give a yes 47:27 Family backgrounds in shidduchim 51:50 Taking a break from dating 53:05 Being tolerant of vices 55:48 Considering a shidduch based on future growth 57:39 Becoming a professional to support your husband vs. being home with the children 58:08 Saying no because of a smartphone 1:00:59 Pre-nuptial agreement 1:03:04 Parents pushing their child to meeting professional shadchanim 1:06:04 Closing Remarks