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Send us a text Ever wonder why she’s not as turned on—or as fast—as you are? You're not alone. And she's not broken. In this episode, I’m joined by sociologist, intimacy coach, and TEDx speaker Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to unpack one of the most misunderstood issues in sex and relationships: the arousal gap. We’ll break down: ✅ Why men often feel ready in seconds—and women don’t ✅ What’s really going on when she “seems like she’s not into it” ✅ The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire ✅ How mental load, emotional safety, and shame kill arousal ✅ What you can do to actually close the gap—in bed and beyond Whether you’re a man trying to better understand your partner, or a woman wondering “what happened to my libido?”—this episode is for you. You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannette My free spicy handle is @annettetalkssex Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c Ask a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcast My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com . Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off with my code LRT15 Use code LRT15 at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more! https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!