Why Your Brain is Sabotaging Your Love Life—And How to Rewire It

Send us a text Finding love in 2025 feels harder than ever—but is it really just bad luck, or is your brain working against you? Dr. Kyra Bobinet, a physician, public health leader, and behavior change expert, reveals how the habenula —the brain’s failure detector—keeps people trapped in cycles of rejection, self-doubt, and endless swiping. In this episode, we uncover why men’s connection hormone, oxytocin, is being overused, why women are becoming more selective, and how dating apps are designed to keep you searching, not succeeding. More importantly, Dr. Bobinet shares science-backed strategies to rewire your brain for real connection and lasting love. If you're tired of modern dating struggles, this is the episode that might just change everything. Kyra's site and links: https://drkyrabobinet.com/ You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannette My free spicy handle is @annettetalkssex Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c Ask a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcast My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com . Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off with my code LRT15 Use code LRT15 at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more! https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content: She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.com Cheers!