Why I Taught My Horse to Chase Me with a Whip—and What It Taught Us Both

What do you do when you see someone chasing terrified horses with a whip? If you're Mary Debono, you teach your horse to chase you with a whip —and discover something joyful in the process. In this episode, Mary shares the surprising story of how a simple liberty game became a lesson in trust, body awareness, and learning to learn. You’ll hear how she transformed her horse Breeze’s traumatic past into a partnership built on joy and curiosity—and how their years of playful exploration allowed Breeze to learn “chase me with a whip” in five fun minutes. Literally! But this episode isn’t about tricks. It’s about why learning should feel good. Why change happens through connection, not correction. And why the most powerful reinforcement isn’t food—but the felt sense of safety and ease. You’ll also learn how this approach applies to dogs, to humans, and to every movement we explore with our animals. Resources: 📽️ Video of Breeze chasing Mary with a whip 😅 🔖 Girthy Horse? Simple Steps Make Saddling a Pleasure (blog post) 💥Learn how the Feldenkrais Method Ⓡ can help improve your seat, position, and balance on your horse! Free rider videos : https://www.marydebono.com/rider 💥 Want to discover how you and your horse can feel better in body and mind? Join the waitlist for our Move with Your Horse program and be the first to know when enrollment opens. Whether you're 25 or 85, this program is designed to help both you and your equine partner move more fluidly, reduce discomfort, and strengthen your connection through movement. Get Mary’s bestselling, award-winning book, “ Grow Young with Your Dog ,” for a super low price at: https://tinyurl.com/growyoungwithyourdog . Demonstration videos are included at no extra cost. ⬅️⬅️⬅️ Want to sit in a more balanced, secure way? Click here for all the details on our new series. Effortless, Balanced Sitting: A FeldenkraisⓇ Movement Series ⬅️⬅️⬅️ All information is for general educational purposes ONLY and doesn't constitute medical or veterinary advice or professional training advice. Please consult a qualified healthcare provider if you, your horse, or your dog are unwell or injured. Always use extreme caution when interacting with horses and dogs. About the Host: Mary Debono is a pioneer in animal and human wellness, blending her expertise as an international clinician, best-selling author, and certified Feldenkrais Method® practitioner. With over three decades of experience, Mary developed Debono Moves, a groundbreaking approach that enhances the performance, well-being, and partnership of animals and their humans. Mary's flagship online programs, " Move with Your Horse " and " Easier Movement, Happier Dogs, " provide animal enthusiasts with an innovative approach that combines the concepts of Feldenkrais® with her signature hands-on work for horses and dogs. Through this transformative method, both people and their animal companions discover greater harmony, ease, and connection. Visit https://www.marydebono.com to learn more about Mary's unique work