436. 95% of Self-Help is Crap, Start a Business Instead: Michael Ashabraner Hounds of Business

"Courage comes with practice, and you find confidence through that because you will win." "Stop wishing problems away. Warren Buffett has money problems. So do we." "I turn shit into fertilizer and teach other people to do the same." "Your business will only grow to the level you're willing to grow inside as a human." In this downhome episode of Better Call Daddy, hosts Reena Friedman Watts and Wayne Friedman welcome Mike Ashabraner , known as the Redneck Connector, to share his incredible journey of self-discovery and resilience. With a camo hat perched on his head and a heart full of passion, Mike dives into the importance of confidence and courage in both business and life. Mike opens up about his past struggles, including a lack of self-worth and his journey from being a firefighter to finding his voice as a leader. He emphasizes that true confidence stems from embracing personal responsibility and the courage to face challenges head-on. As he shares his mantra of "courage before confidence," listeners are inspired to overcome their own obstacles and pursue their dreams authentically. Throughout the episode, Mike discusses the significance of community, support, and the power of connection in creating a meaningful impact. He encourages listeners to stop seeking external validation and to focus on building relationships that uplift and empower. With humor and sincerity, he reflects on the trials of starting a business later in life and the lessons learned from rejection and perseverance. Wayne's insightful commentary adds depth to the conversation, as he highlights the dual nature of courage and confidence. Together, they explore the transformative power of vulnerability and the importance of sharing one’s story to inspire others. Join us for an engaging discussion filled with actionable insights, laughter, and heartfelt moments that remind us all to embrace our true selves and make a positive difference in the world. (00:00) Reena Friedman Watts hosts the Better Call Daddy show with Wayne Friedman (01:56) True confidence comes from self worth, not external validation, Michael says (05:55) Michael is a recovering alcoholic and now runs a successful business (09:17) I grew up very hard. Alcoholic, domestic violence. Just growing up. I had grandparents. Very good, uh, working class people (12:20) One of the very first success stories. The first. I became an impromptu dating coach (13:44) When you first started the business, nobody would have bet on you (16:53) Use principles, use wisdom. Aim for the stars. Have counsel too. There's stuff I'm glad I didn't do (19:36) In life and business, stop talking, start doing. That's what I'm talking about (21:57) You should laugh during a sales call because it's worth it, right (24:55) Michael: The only motivation to be doing this is courage (28:24) Self limitations is your number one problem (29:44) You say having courage builds confidence, but having confidence also builds courage Don't miss this inspiring episode! Be sure to like, subscribe, and share it with anyone who needs a boost of motivation and encouragement on their own journeys. Confidence, Courage, Personal Responsibility, Self Worth, Business Growth, Hounds Of Business, Overcoming Adversity, Supportive Community, Personal Development, Inspirational Stories, Entrepreneurial Journey, Inner Child, Mindset Shift, Impactful Leadership, Authenticity, Resilience, Family Legacy, Alcohol Recovery, Heart-Centered Professionals, Business Networking Connect with Mike: https://www.redneckfinancialcoach.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/redneck1/ Connect with Reena: https://bettercalldaddy.com https://linkedin.com/in/reenafriedmanwatts https://instagram.com/reenafriedmanwatts https://instagram.com/bettercalldaddypodcast https://www.youtube.com/c/bettercalldaddy We'd love to hear from you ! Drop us a review and let us know what you think. Your feedback helps others find the show! Show notes created by https://headliner.app