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In today's episode, Mark dives into some more pressing questions from parents who are struggling with their teens and young adults. From addressing severe outbursts and substance use in a high-functioning autistic teen, to knowing when it’s time to seek psychiatric help, Mark offers practical advice and empathy for families in crisis. The episode covers issues like adolescent depression, parent-child conflict and the impact of unresolved teen issues in adulthood. Mark emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, acting with love, and the power of community and counseling, all with a message of hope for families navigating the bumpy road of raising teens in today’s world. Have a question for Mark? We'd love to hear it! Submit your question today at markgregston.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Listen today as Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur discuss the reality that Christmas often brings conflict rather than peace, especially in families with struggling teens. They emphasize that parents must rise above the chaos by extending grace, offering love when it’s least deserved and avoiding the pressure to create a “perfect” holiday. Instead of withholding gifts or withdrawing emotionally, they encourage parents to affirm the relationship, set healthy boundaries and give teens space to regroup when expectations feel overwhelming. Ultimately, Christmas is an opportunity to model God’s grace — loving and moving toward our kids even in the midst of conflict. In a tough spot with your teen? Join Mark in Texas at one of his Families In Crisis Conferences. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to see our schedule and register! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark reflects on the lessons he’s learned as a parent and grandparent, emphasizing how small, consistent conversations build trust and open the door for deeper, life-shaping talks with kids and teens. He shares how both positive and negative voices shaped his own life, and how a handful of wise, older mentors profoundly influenced him through simple but powerful statements offered over time. Mark highlights qualities these mentors modeled and explains how their steady presence helped form his character and calling. He encourages parents and grandparents to embrace this same role, becoming consistent, life-giving influencers who listen well, speak truth and reflect God’s wisdom to the next generation. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's resources designed to support parents and grandparents in this adventure of raising teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every teen's journey is shaped by a search for identity — a need to take ownership of their life, make choices and discover who they truly are. Today, Mark sits down with two young women from Heartlight who share their struggles to find themselves amid high expectations and family dynamics. Both wrestled with rebellion — not just for rebellion’s sake, but as a way to carve out their independence. Their stories show how the process of self-discovery is rarely straightforward. Now, away from home, these young women are learning what it means to make healthy choices and grow on their own terms. Is the Heartlight residential program the right answer for your struggling teen? Learn more at heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Families in crisis often feel overwhelmed, isolated and “at the end of their rope,” but Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur remind parents they are not alone and real help is available. They explain that teen struggles are usually signs of deeper issues — not parental failure — and that progress often comes through small steps, strengthened relationships and seeking support. Parents are encouraged to focus on connection over control, admit they don’t have all the answers, and reach out for community or counseling instead of trying to carry the burden alone. Ultimately, this season is temporary — change is possible when families hold on, stay consistent and take steps toward healing. If you are at the end of your rope, Mark's Families In Crisis Conference may be the help and support you need. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/ineo05vp #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement . Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston dives into some of the toughest questions parents face with their teenagers today. From encouraging faith in a 17-year-old son who resists reading the Bible, to setting boundaries with a 19-year-old daughter living at home and finding the balance when communicating with college-aged children, Mark offers practical advice rooted in real-life experiences. He explores the impact of shaming, the challenges of parenting twins with different levels of maturity and how to maintain healthy relationships — even as families navigate new dynamics. If you've enjoyed our podcast, will you consider making a year-end gift so we can continue to make resources that help more parents and grandparents? Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/year-end-match to double your impact today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur explain that effective discipline flows out of a healthy relationship, not anger or authority alone. Parents often lean too far into being either “tough” or “tender,” but teens need a balanced blend of strength, gentleness, listening and compassion. True authority comes from connection, not control, and the goal is to reflect God’s character — firm when necessary, but tender, patient and relational at heart. Mark encourages parents to examine their own reactions, seek honest feedback, and pursue counseling if needed so they can model the calm, balanced strength their teens require. If you're struggling raising your teen, Mark has many resources designed to help! Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore blogs, podcasts, books and more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston shares how unexpected setbacks — including getting fired — became the catalyst for founding Heartlight Ministries and beginning a lifelong “journey to genuineness.” As he reflects on rejection, pride and unresolved personal issues, he encourages parents to consider how their own wounds and blind spots may be influencing their parenting. Mark urges moms and dads of struggling teens to start by looking inward, examining motives, addressing past hurts and embracing authenticity — before focusing on their child’s behavior. Ultimately, he reminds parents that self-reflection and healing can lead to a more grounded relationship with their teens. To learn more about Heartlight and see if this ministry can help you and your struggling teen, please visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Navigating the teen years can sometimes mean facing invisible walls — barriers of isolation, anger or uncertainty about how to let others in. Today, Mark sits down with two young men from Heartlight who share honest accounts of what shut them off from their families and peers. For Harry, the struggle was with isolation and the challenge of making real-world connections after a hard move and ongoing depression. For Jacob, mounting anger and hurt from family wounds led him down a path of rebellion and risky choices. What ties their stories together isn't just what pushed them away — it's how they're learning to let genuine connection in. Interested in learning more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, join Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lefleur as they discuss setting boundaries for your family. They explain that healthy boundaries start with understanding what each child truly needs and tailoring rules by age, maturity and individual challenges — not just enforcing control for control’s sake. Mark and Courtney emphasize focusing first on relationship, then building clear expectations, household boundaries, and rewards that encourage responsibility and independence. Ultimately, they advise parents to adjust their approach as teens grow, and create a home that offers structure, peace and a place of rest for their weary souls. Explore all of the practical resources from Mark designed to help you as you raise your teen by visiting parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/ineo05vp #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement . Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston fields real questions from parents grappling with the challenges of guiding older teens toward adulthood. Drawing from decades of experience, he addresses issues such as fostering independence in 17- and 18-year-olds, setting boundaries with troubled teens, navigating the complexities of homeschooling, and providing support for teens with depression and anxiety. Mark offers practical advice on when to let natural consequences unfold, how to motivate teens who lack drive, when to intervene and the importance of clear expectations. Have a parenting question for Mark? Send it in at markgregston.com — your question may be answered on the show! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Many teens today grow up believing they’re owed privileges and constant attention. Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how this entitlement is fueled by parents doing too much for them. Mark encourages moms and dads to shift the conversation — focusing not on criticizing selfish behavior, but on helping teens grow in independence, responsibility and real-world readiness. By setting new expectations and saying “no” when needed, parents help their kids mature rather than stay dependent. Ultimately, breaking entitlement is a gift that prepares teens for healthy relationships, future jobs and adult life. If your teen is struggling right now, Heartlight, our residential counseling ministry, may be able to help. Learn more by visiting heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/ineo05vp #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement . Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens today are growing up in a world of online communication, constant negativity and shallow “expert” voices — leaving them hungry for real connection and honest guidance. Mark explains that parents often miss what teens truly want because they react to behavior instead of the deeper needs behind it. The nonstop criticism and shallow praise of social media make teens sensitive to correction and blind to needed truth. He urges parents to deepen relationships, engage face-to-face and speak truth in love to help their teens grow into grounded, responsible adults. Would you like to ask Mark questions about parenting your teen? Visit markgregston.com to submit a question today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Many parents notice their teens acting out — whether through rebellion, risky choices or shutting down — but what’s driving those behaviors is often a deep pain kept out of sight. On today’s episode, Mark Gregston sits down with two Heartlight residents who both reveal how hurts from their past, like adoption struggles, family loss, confusion and unmet expectations, shaped their choices and relationships. Both teens share how their journey at Heartlight is helping them face what’s beneath the surface, reconnect with family and begin real healing. Interested in learning more about the Heartlight program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Listen in as Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why teens might “spin out of control." They explain this can happen when they can’t manage life within the boundaries of home, which can lead to disrespect, dishonesty, risky behavior or shutting down emotionally. Mark explains that these patterns are often a cry for help, revealing deeper struggles teens can’t navigate alone. Parents are encouraged to recognize early warning signs, adjust home structure with clear expectations and seek outside support when needed. Above all, teens don’t actually want their lives to fall apart — they need intervention, guidance and a restored relationship with their parents. Join Mark in Texas at one of the Families In Crisis Conferences, an event designed to help parents who are struggling with their teens. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more or register! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/ineo05vp #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement . Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark dives deep into the real-life struggles facing families — from navigating a teen’s anxiety, depression and drug use, to managing explosive anger and the challenges of motivating older teens to take responsibility. Mark also shares some insights for parents of special needs children and discusses the importance of adapting parenting styles as culture rapidly shifts. Whether you’re seeking support for a teen in crisis, wondering if Heartlight is right for your child, or simply trying to foster deeper relationships, this episode provides heartfelt guidance and practical next steps. At your wits' end with your teen? Ask Mark for advice — your question may be featured on the show! Go to markgregston.com to submit a question. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur unpack why gratitude can be difficult for teens, especially during the holidays when entitlement and cultural pressure rise. They explain that real thankfulness grows over time through modeling, conversations, boundaries, and opportunities to work and give. Building a thankful heart takes patience, but it strengthens teens and prepares them for adulthood. Have a question about raising your teen? Ask Mark at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston for a devotional from Joel 1:3 as he explains why teens need wisdom, not just information. Through Scripture and a personal story, Mark shows how young people crave meaningful guidance over quick answers or disconnected facts. He encourages parents and grandparents to share their own experiences, speak truth in love and engage in intentional conversations. When adults lead with authenticity and vulnerability, they offer a legacy that lasts. To explore more of Mark’s resources for parents and grandparents of teens, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When teens act out, it’s often a sign of much deeper issues at play. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston chats with two more Heartlight teens, including Daniel, a student who shares his journey from spiraling into drugs and depression to finding hope and healing. Daniel opens up about the pressures at home, the struggle to escape overwhelming feelings through getting high and the long road to reconnecting with his family. Through the support of caring staff and counseling at Heartlight, Daniel is learning to rebuild relationships and reclaim his future. Is your teen spiraling out of control? Heartlight may be able to help. Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur discuss how listening is one of the most powerful ways parents can build connection with their teens. Many families struggle with communication because parents talk more than they listen — often teaching, correcting or giving opinions instead of asking thoughtful questions. Teens who don’t feel heard will seek that attention elsewhere, so parents must make intentional time to listen without judgment or interruption. Mark encourages parents and grandparents to show genuine interest and remember that one of the greatest acts of love is truly listening to your teen’s heart. Need some fresh parenting tools? Check out our Parenting Toolbox bundle — a collection of FIVE popular resources. Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/product/parenting-toolbox today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark dives into some of the toughest and most relatable dilemmas families face: transitioning your parenting style as teens leave for college, navigating disagreements with your spouse over parenting strategies and the complexities around busy teen schedules. He also tackles challenging topics like helping teens through the aftermath of divorce and understanding — and celebrating — the sometimes obsessive fandoms that provide comfort to young people. Don't miss this episode! Facing a challenge with your teen? Ask Mark about it! Go to markgregston.com to submit your questions. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Adopted kids often enter adolescence with deep questions about identity, belonging and why they were given up — even if they cannot consciously remember the trauma. As they shift from concrete to abstract thinking in their teen years, feelings of loss, abandonment and being “different” can surface more strongly. Parents can help by listening without judgment, talking openly about feelings, staying connected and offering long-term patience — knowing these issues often take years to resolve. Adoption is a beautiful gift, but parents must understand that their child sees the world through a unique lens, and that compassion and presence are critical. If you’re walking through a hard season with your teen, you don’t have to face it alone. Join Mark for a Families in Crisis Conference in Texas. Learn more and register at familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark shares how perfectionism in ministry once nearly burned him out — and how many parents unknowingly pass that same pressure onto their teens. What parents intend as encouragement is often interpreted by teens as never being “good enough.” Instead, he urges parents to model honesty, grace and vulnerability — reminding kids that only Jesus is perfect. Strong relationships, not seeking perfection, are what truly shape a teen’s heart. Would you like Mark's advice on raising your teen? Ask him your parenting questions at markgregston.com. Your question may be answered on the podcast! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Many families wrestle with discipline, hoping rules will keep their teens on track — but sometimes, those boundaries end up building walls instead of bridges. On today’s show, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who share honest reflections on the struggles that come when discipline overshadows relationship. For Austin, creative discipline systems left him angry and distant from his family. Both teens describe how their families reached a breaking point — and how healing began once understanding and connection took the place of strict rules. To learn how the Heartlight residential program helps struggling teens, visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Listen as Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur discuss the benefits of Heartlight and the program's relational approach to residential counseling. Heartlight is designed to help teens change from the inside out. Mark and Courtney describe how true transformation happens through trust, restored relationships, consistent presence and addressing the heart issues beneath behavior — not just behavior modification. They emphasize that Heartlight surrounds teens with staff who engage, observe, walk with them in real time and help them heal. The goal is that lasting change continues even when they go back home. Join Mark in Texas at one of his Families in Crisis Conferences! Visit parentingtodaysteens.org/families-in-crisis-conference to see our schedule and register. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston dives into listener questions about navigating consequences, teen privacy, anxiety, complex faith and identity issues, and the challenges of connecting with teens who shut down. Through the lens of adolescent development, Mark addresses how parents can become part of the solution — rethinking their own responses while helping teens learn to make wiser choices. From tips on fostering deeper relationships with reluctant teens to navigating cultural shifts and family dynamics, this episode is packed with actionable advice and compassionate perspective. Have a challenge with your teen you just can't get past? Ask Mark! Submit your question at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens have always sought attention, but today’s social media culture amplifies it — often leading to risky or inappropriate behavior when their emotional needs go unmet at home. Mark Gregston urges parents to look beyond the surface and understand the motivation behind their teen’s actions, offering connection rather than constant correction. By setting healthy boundaries, rewarding positive behavior and helping teens find constructive outlets for attention, parents can guide them toward healthier self-expression. Ultimately, consistent love, time and affirmation from mom or dad can satisfy a teen’s deep desire to be seen and valued. If you're in a tough spot with your teen and nothing seems to be working, join Mark at one of his Families in Crisis Conferences in Texas. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more and register! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Listen today as Mark Gregston reflects on a listener’s concern that his ministry doesn’t mention Jesus often enough, using it as a reminder that faith should be lived out, not just spoken. He points to 1 John 3:18, emphasizing that what we do speaks louder than what we say. Mark cautions parents against being overly critical, reminding them that even well-intentioned words can damage relationships with their teens. True spirituality, he concludes, is expressed through actions of love, encouragement and integrity that reflect Christ living within us. Do you need Mark's advice on parenting your teen? Visit markgregston.com to ask him your parenting questions today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When life gets tough, teens often find themselves searching for answers in the middle of their struggles — but sometimes, clarity takes time and patience. In today’s show, Mark sits down with two young men from Heartlight who open up about how their pain — whether it’s broken relationships, anger or loss — has shaped their journey. One teen, Malcolm, reveals how his parents’ divorce left him feeling abandoned and lost, leading to anger and acting out, but also pushing him to grow as a father to his own young son. Out of hardship, these young men found new purpose and hope for the future. Is your teen spinning out of control? Find out if Heartlight can help by going to heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur discuss the difficult but essential topic of teens’ exposure to pornography. They emphasize that nearly all teens — boys and girls — will encounter it due to its widespread availability online, making open, shame-free conversations at home vital. Curiosity is often the first motivator, but ongoing exposure can distort a teen’s understanding of intimacy and lead to deeper struggles. Parents are encouraged to respond with grace rather than shame, set healthy boundaries, create accountability and maintain ongoing, honest discussions to guide teens toward truth and purity. If your teen is struggling and your family is in crisis, Heartlight Ministries can help. Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston tackles the complex challenges that parents face with their teenagers, from navigating shifting moods and sarcasm to coping with bullying, anxiety and trust issues. Mark offers practical advice rooted in real-world insight — helping parents distinguish between harmless wit and harmful disrespect, support teens dealing with bullies and rebuild trust with kids who struggle with honesty. Whether you’re parenting a headstrong teen or trying to balance boundaries after divorce, this episode is packed with relatable stories and heartfelt encouragement. We want to hear your parenting questions! Submit them today at markgregston.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lefleur explore the process of guiding teens from dependence to maturity through three stages — teaching, training and transferring. Mark explains that parents must shift from simply instructing their children to giving them hands-on responsibility and freedom to make mistakes, allowing them to grow into capable adults. The three emphasize that when parents fail to release control, teens become frustrated, dependent and disconnected from their peers. Together, the hosts encourage parents to trust their teens, model maturity and intentionally plan how to pass on responsibility so their children can thrive independently. Is your teen struggling? Find out if Heartlight Ministries can help! To learn more about Mark's residential counseling program for teens, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Listen in as Mark Gregston reflects on how today’s teens struggle to distinguish “true life” from the filtered world of social media. He explains that constant exposure to idealized images and comparisons fuels loneliness, anxiety and low self-worth. Mark encourages parents to help their teens critically evaluate online content, ask “Is this real?” and maintain perspective by balancing social media with genuine relationships. Ultimately, he urges families to teach discernment, set boundaries and foster affirmation at home so that teens find their value in truth, not digital illusions. Would you like to ask Mark a question? Visit markgregston.com to send him your parenting questions today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It's important to remember that the struggles we see on the surface of a teen's life may have roots a lot deeper than we realize. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two young women from Heartlight, who bravely share their journeys through family conflict, feelings of abandonment, and battles with depression and self-harm. Both teens faced pain stemming from fractured relationships at home and the challenge of opening up to the people who wanted to help. As they work through the healing process at Heartlight, the teens describe how learning to be honest, accepting support and rebuilding trust are helping transform their relationships — with their families, and with themselves. Is Heartlight the answer for your struggling teen? Go to heartlightministries.org to learn more about the program. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When parents discover their teen’s inappropriate behavior, it’s important to respond with calmness and perspective rather than anger or shame. Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur emphasize that mistakes are a normal part of adolescence and can actually become opportunities to build stronger relationships if handled with grace and consistency. Parents should focus on teaching lessons, setting clear boundaries and maintaining the relationship — not reacting out of shock or disappointment. As Mark shares from personal experience, the goal is to keep consequences firm but relational, reminding teens that they are loved even as they face the results of their choices. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all the resources Mark has made for parents of teens, including books, podcasts, blogs and more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston tackles some more of the toughest, most heartfelt questions sent in by listeners. From managing frustration and anger as a parent, to navigating complex family dynamics like custody battles and divorce, Mark shares practical, compassionate advice. He also addresses concerns around screen time, gaming rules and the challenges grandparents face when supporting teens struggling with gender identity. Drawing on decades of experience working with families, Mark offers actionable strategies and a reminder to lead with empathy and relationship first. Have a parenting question for Mark? Submit it at markgregston.com! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur discuss how parents can wisely talk about politics with their teens. They emphasize that while politics can be divisive, parents shouldn’t avoid the topic — teens need guidance to think critically and biblically rather than absorb culture’s extremes. Parents should model respectful dialogue, listen more than lecture and allow their teens to process differing views without fear of rejection. The goal isn’t to control their beliefs but to keep relationships strong and create space for open, grace-filled conversations. Heartlight Ministries is Mark's residential counseling ministry designed to help struggling teens and families. Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more and see if it's right for your family. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston explains that parents must look beyond their teen’s behavior to understand the deeper heart issues driving it. Drawing from Proverbs 3:21–24, and a moving story about a past Heartlight student, he illustrates that a child’s anger or rebellion often masks pain, loss, or a longing for love and value. He reminds parents that all behavior — good or bad — is the visible expression of invisible struggles. True connection happens when parents respond with wisdom, empathy and grace, addressing the heart rather than merely correcting the behavior. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of the resources designed by Mark to help you as you raise your teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every troubled teen has a story that goes much deeper than their behavior shows. Behind acting out, running away, or self-destruction, there's often a world of private pain and confusion. Today, Mark Gregston sits down with two teens from Heartlight whose journeys reveal how struggles like addiction, grief and low self-worth can drive choices that seem shocking to outsiders. For one young lady, a long battle with eating disorders and drug use hid her feelings of worthlessness. Tune in for honest, hopeful stories about facing pain head-on and starting over — one step at a time. If your teen is struggling right now, Heartlight may be the answer. Learn more at heartlightministries.org today. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur discuss how many parents lose their personal identity by becoming overly consumed with their children’s lives. While involvement is vital, Mark emphasizes that parents must maintain balance — nurturing their marriage, friendships and personal interests so their sense of purpose isn’t tied solely to parenting. They remind us that when a parent’s entire focus revolves around their kids, it can create pressure for teens and strain the family dynamic as children get older. Mark encourages moms and dads to pursue hobbies, friendships and “me time” to protect their mental, emotional and relational health. If your family is struggling, Mark invites you to join him at one of his Families In Crisis Conferences at Heartlight Ministries in Texas. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more and register! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston draws on over three decades of experience to tackle the questions parents are most desperate to have answered. From navigating trust issues after years of monitoring a teen’s tech usage to finding healthy ways to motivate an unenthusiastic senior, Mark offers down-to-earth advice rooted in real-life stories. Whether you’re dealing with curfew battles, shifting relationships or a teen stretching toward adulthood, this episode is full of practical tips to help deepen your relationship with your teen. Have a question you'd like to ask Mark? Go to markgregston.com to submit it! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sexual abuse leaves deep scars that affect a teen’s safety, relationships and self-worth. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd share both personal and ministry experiences, emphasizing how abuse creates lasting feelings of loss, shame and confusion. Parents are urged to respond without blame or anger, instead creating a safe environment where their child feels valued and heard, while seeking professional help when needed. Ultimately, healing comes through compassion, support and trusting God to create good out of brokenness. Do you know someone who is great with teens and is looking to make a difference? Heartlight may be the place for them. Visit heartlightministries.org/careers to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston reflects on Matthew 11:28–30, emphasizing the need for homes — especially grandparents’ homes — to be places of rest and refuge for weary teens. He contrasts lifeless or overly rigid environments with welcoming spaces where kids feel safe, accepted and free to be imperfect. Mark encourages grandparents to design a warm setting, create a positive atmosphere, establish clear but loving rules and foster open conversations. By doing so, they can provide their grandchildren with a sanctuary of love, laughter, and grace that refreshes both body and soul. Do you have a question you'd like to ask Mark about parenting your teen? Visit markgregston.com to ask his advice — it may be featured on the I Mustache Mark a Question segment! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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So much changes when teens and parents start talking — and really listening — to each other. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight students who open up about the struggles that kept them silent and the pain that came from not feeling heard at home. Both share how a lack of open communication fueled their anxiety, rebellion and sense of isolation. Now, through counseling and new experiences, they're learning the value of honest conversations in healing relationships and rebuilding trust. Interested in learning more about the Heartlight program? Visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Divorce deeply impacts teens, often leaving them with feelings of abandonment, loss, guilt and confusion. Mark Gregston explains that many teens internalize divorce, believing they were the cause or feeling like life will never return to normal. These unresolved emotions can manifest in isolation, grief and strained relationships. Parents can help their teens heal by spending intentional time with them, affirming their love, listening without judgment, avoiding blame and working cooperatively with their ex to provide consistency and stability. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's resources designed to help you as you raise your teen. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's Q&A episode, Mark addresses heartfelt questions from parents and grandparents facing the everyday struggles and big transitions that come with raising teens. From navigating financial support for adult children choosing different paths, to dealing with rebellious behavior, loss and the complexities of blended families, Mark offers seasoned advice grounded in empathy and real-world experience. Whether you're wrestling with house rules or grappling with grief, this candid episode is packed with insight for every parent walking through changing seasons with their teen. Want Mark's advice on a struggle you're facing with your teen? Submit your question at markgregston.com — he may answer it on the show! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of preparing your children for adulthood before they reach their late teens. Parents should gradually give their children responsibility — encouraging jobs, decision-making and independence — so they don’t become dependent adults living at home without purpose. Mark warns that too much provision can quickly turn into enabling if parents continue to do everything for their kids, which keeps them from developing life skills. Instead, parents must set expectations, create boundaries and guide their teens toward maturity so they are ready to thrive on their own. Join Mark in Texas for a weekend at his Families in Crisis Conference, designed to help parents who are struggling with their teens. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more and register! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Listen in as Mark Gregston shares a personal story and scripture to illustrate the importance of perspective. While he complained about having the worst seats in the house at a concert, his granddaughter reminded him they were actually the best because you could see everything. He connects this lesson to parenting, emphasizing that many teens today lack perspective and rely more on peers than parents. Mark encourages parents to engage relationally, understand their teen’s world and offer wisdom that gives the “big picture” rather than just criticism — helping kids navigate life with clarity and hope. Would you like to ask Mark your parenting questions? You can submit questions at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Running away isn’t just about escaping home — it’s often a sign of deeper issues beneath the surface. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who share what led them to leave home and the pain that fueled their choices. Through candid conversations, both young ladies reveal the impact of unstable family dynamics, the pain of isolation and the courage it takes to face their struggles head-on. Listen in as we unpack what’s really going on when teens run away — and how caring adults can help them find their way back. Interested in learning more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join us today as Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LeFleur explore whether dating is right for teens. The three discuss how dating can provide valuable opportunities for teens to learn social skills, understand the opposite sex and begin shaping their ideas about future relationships. While parents often worry about issues like trust, influence and premature sexual involvement, the hosts emphasize the importance of staying connected, setting healthy boundaries and guiding conversations without shaming the natural desire to date. Ultimately, they encourage parents to see dating as a normal part of growing up and to use it as an opportunity to influence their teens’ values and choices through open communication. Is your teen struggling? Mark's residential counseling ministry can help! Visit heartlightministries.org to see if it's the right choice for your family. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark tackles some more of the toughest questions that parents are facing in today’s world. From navigating strict parenting styles and the ongoing battle over technology, to addressing issues of identity, sexuality and peer bullying, Mark offers practical advice rooted in decades of experience working with teens and their families. He also shares insights on setting boundaries around phone use, responding to substance use and handling conflicts that can arise between parents when it comes to disciplining their kids. Check it out! Have a pressing parenting question you'd like to ask Mark? Go to markgregston.com to send it in! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore why listening is one of the most powerful tools parents can use with their teens. Teens don’t always need more lectures — they need safe spaces where their voices matter. When parents ask questions, stop correcting and truly listen, teens feel valued and are more willing to open up. This atmosphere of understanding not only strengthens the relationship, but also builds a foundation of lifelong trust and influence. Is your family in crisis? Join Mark for a weekend in Texas at his Families in Crisis conferences, designed to give parents practical help and hope. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more and register. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston shares the most effective way to influence a teen — by spending intentional, consistent time together. He encourages parents to set aside weekly one-on-one moments starting around age 13 to build trust and open communication before conflict arises. These times should focus on listening, creating a safe space and being authentic, not lecturing or correcting. Over time, these consistent connections lay the foundation for deeper conversations and lasting influence during the turbulent adolescent years. For more of Mark’s advice and resources to help you raise your teen, visit parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every teen faces pressures, but some feel compelled to hide behind a mask — covering up pain or anxiety with risky behaviors or a perfect facade. On today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens whose struggles took them down very different paths, but revealed their deep need for acceptance and authentic connection. For Santana, it was tough to take off his "mask." Despite always presenting a friendly face, he struggles with bottling emotions and the fear that being vulnerable — even with his parents — would mean losing their love. Now, he reflects on the power of unconditional love and the healing that comes from self-acceptance. If your teen is struggling right now, Heartlight may be the answer. Go to heartlightministries.org to learn more about our residential program! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore how parents can guide teens away from foolish choices and toward wisdom. Teens often repeat negative behavior when the pleasure outweighs the pain, so parents must set consequences strong enough to spark change. But it’s not just about stopping foolishness — teens also need positive direction and opportunities to grow. When parents help their kids see the rewards of wise choices, they equip them for adulthood with responsibility, respect and maturity. Want Mark’s advice for a challenge you’re facing with your teen? Visit markgregston.com to ask your parenting questions today. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston takes on some of the most pressing and sensitive questions parents face in their journey with teens. From handling a daughter's unexpected relationship choices to supporting adopted children with behavioral challenges, Mark offers practical advice grounded in wisdom, empathy and experience. Listeners will find guidance on balancing discipline with understanding, opening lines of communication about difficult topics, and — most importantly — loving their teens unconditionally through every struggle. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why it’s essential for parents to live out their core beliefs while raising teens. Parents need to know which values are nonnegotiable and hold firm, while also allowing flexibility as their children grow and form their own perspectives. Conflict is inevitable, but it can lead to meaningful dialogue and deeper understanding when handled well. The key is moving from lectures to conversations, listening carefully, and discerning when to bend and when to stand strong. Is your teen struggling? Mark’s residential counseling program may be able to help. Learn more at heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark highlights the danger of perfectionism in ministry, parenting and life. He shares how early experiences working under a demanding pastor led to burnout, a strained marriage and the constant pressure to perform. He connects that same perfectionist mindset to parenting, where children often misinterpret well-intentioned encouragement as criticism or impossible standards. He reminds us that parents aren’t God — our kids need authenticity, grace and relationships built on love rather than demands for perfection. Would you like Mark's advice? Ask him your parenting questions at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Behind every rebellious act or risky decision, there’s often a story of shame that teenagers carry alone. Shame can trap teens in a cycle — fueling destructive behaviors and pushing them further from the people who love them most. In today’s episode, Mark welcomes two young men from Heartlight, who bravely open up about what drove them to self-medicate, rebel and run from home. Through honest reflection and support, both of them are learning to embrace their imperfections and rebuild trust with their families. Interested in learning more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss a difficult but very important topic: teen suicide. Mark emphasizes that parents must pay close attention and listen more than judge, watching for sudden withdrawal, changes in sleep/eating, talk of hopelessness or social posts that sound like a cry for help, as these behaviors must be taken seriously. Teens need safe chances to speak honestly and should be encouraged to reach out rather than hide pain. Mark offers parents practical ways to intervene immediately when warning signs appear and encourages ongoing communication and regular check-ins to build trust and strengthen the relationship. Heartlight Ministries, our residential counseling program, may be just what your teen needs if they are struggling. To learn more, please visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston dives into some of the most pressing questions parents and grandparents are facing with their teens today. Drawing from decades of experience, he addresses critical topics like suicide prevention, maintaining respectful relationships with teens, and setting healthy boundaries during dating and social situations. Mark also shares personal reflections on grandparenting, the importance of healing from our own pasts and how to foster open, genuine communication with teens. With practical advice and real-life stories, this episode equips listeners with wisdom and encouragement for building deeper, healthier relationships with the teens in their lives. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston joins Wayne Shepherd to discuss the dangers of teen substance abuse and how parents can respond. Mark emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, seeking counseling and keeping teens engaged in healthy activities — while also allowing natural consequences to take their course. Most of all, he reminds parents to continue showing love through the struggle, offering support when it’s needed most, even when it’s hardest to give. For more guidance from Mark on raising your teen, check out What’s Happening to My Teen? at https://bit.ly/ptt-whats-happening. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today's devotional on 2 Peter 1:12 emphasizes that the foundation of parenting is listening and maintaining strong relationships with your children. Mark Gregston reminds us that life is short, and embracing its brevity helps us focus on what truly matters — our impact on those closest to us. True legacy is not found in achievements or recognition, but in the love, influence, and wisdom passed down to children and grandchildren. Even when kids make poor choices or hold different beliefs, maintaining a relationship and unconditional love gives parents the chance to guide and shape their hearts. Would you like to ask Mark's advice? Visit markgregston.com to ask him your parenting questions! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every family faces seasons where connection feels out of reach, especially with teens wrestling for independence or struggling to find where they belong. In this episode, Mark sits down with a couple of Heartlight residents who open up about the challenges behind their conflicts at home. Sixteen-year-old Joey shares how his adoption and early family experiences left him questioning his place, often pushing others away even as he longed for connection. Both teens reflect on the importance of breaking down walls — whether built by hurt or by habit — to find healing with their families. Need some more tools for your parenting toolkit? Check out our full range of parenting resources at our online store! Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/shop today. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd highlight the steep rise in teen depression and suicide, with more than a third of teens reporting persistent sadness. They note depression can be hard to spot and may show up as isolation, sudden changes in sleep/eating or school, risky behavior, substance use or self-harm. Parents should make steady, deeper conversations a priority, take any talk of dying seriously, and involve medical and counseling support when needed. Bottom line: Trust your gut, intervene early, and keep teens engaged in care with clear boundaries and compassionate support. Mark's residential counseling ministry, Heartlight, is designed specifically to help struggling teens. To learn more and see if it's right for your teen and family, please visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston tackles complex questions that listeners have been asking about their teens. He offers practical wisdom — rooted in empathy and real-world experience — on everything from setting boundaries around teen dating and managing entitlement or technology use, to addressing self-harm, family conflicts and challenging ideological phases. Mark also discusses the importance of open communication, self-reflection and pursuing relationship over control, while exploring the emotions that often drive parenting responses. Whether you’re a parent, grandparent or caregiver, this episode offers hope and actionable advice for building stronger, more connected relationships with the teens in your life. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Few fears are greater for parents than a teen who runs away. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why teens take this step — what they might be running from or toward — and how parents can respond with love, grace and open conversation. They also share how reunions can become moments to rebuild trust, listen without judgment and create a home where teens feel safe and valued. If your family is struggling, Heartlight Ministries may be able to help. Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, we join Mark Gregston for a devotional drawing from James 1:19. Parents and teens both experience anger when their desires clash, but unchecked anger damages relationships. He explains that anger often signals deeper issues, like a teen’s longing for control, acceptance or attention, rather than just surface-level conflicts over curfews or clothing. He encourages parents to step back, observe what’s really driving their child’s frustration, and respond with calmness and curiosity instead of control or shame. Focus on their heart — rather than just their behavior. Would you like Mark's advice on a struggle you're facing with your teen? Ask him your question at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It’s not uncommon for today’s teens to feel lost — drifting through life without a sense of purpose or direction. In this episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight residents who both share how a lack of motivation and connection led them into trouble. Fifteen-year-old Peter opens up about struggles with motivation, trust issues after his parents’ divorce, and how falling in with the wrong crowd led to depression and substance use. He’s honest about what it feels like not to have life “figured out” — a feeling so many teens quietly carry. Want to learn more about how the Heartlight program works? Visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss the importance of teaching teens financial responsibility. They note that far fewer teens work today compared to past generations, which can lead to entitlement and a lack of financial management skills. Parents often enable dependency by providing too much, when instead they should gradually reduce financial support and encourage work, saving, giving and wise spending. Helping teens manage money early not only prepares them for adulthood but can also prevent future struggles in marriage and life. Our next Families in Crisis Conference is coming up October 2-4! If you need a fresh start with your teen, don't miss this conference. Learn more at familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles questions from parents on motivating teens who are losing steam before graduation and supporting neurodivergent kids struggling with screen time. He also shares insights on staying connected with teens making tough choices and finding hope in the midst of family crises. Whether you’re feeling lost, frustrated or simply in need of fresh perspective, Mark offers guidance on shifting from control to connection, creating safe spaces for honest conversations and focusing on relationship over behavior. Tune in for encouragement, real talk and actionable advice to help you connect more deeply with your teen. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how sibling rivalry is a common challenge, fueled by differences in personality, comparisons, unequal attention and the push for independence. While conflict is normal, it becomes destructive when parents compare children, show favoritism, or allow anger and criticism to go unchecked. The key is for parents to guide arguments toward resolution, ensure each child feels valued and invest time. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Marks resources designed specifically to help you as you raise your teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Parenting is about far more than discipline, survival or raising kids toward independence — it is ultimately rooted in relationship. When parents invest time and care into building genuine connections, small issues are more easily resolved, wisdom is received and children feel valued. Rules, achievements and clean rooms matter less than showing up consistently with love, empathy and presence. Strong relationships with children and grandchildren leave a lasting influence, shaping their character, faith and future far more deeply than tasks or accomplishments ever could. Do you have a question for Mark? He would love to hear from you! Visit markgregston.com to ask him your parenting questions today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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The fear of rejection can shape a teen’s choices in powerful and sometimes destructive ways. In this episode, Mark Gregston talks with two young ladies from Heartlight, who share how their desire to fit in and be accepted led them down difficult paths. Whether it’s constantly changing who they are to please different people, or battling feelings of abandonment that began long before Heartlight, both young women explain how the longing to be liked and the fear of being left out fueled their struggles. Today, they're finding the courage to face their fears and embrace authenticity. Is the Heartlight residential program the right choice for your struggling teen? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of building resilience in teens including the ability to bounce back from mistakes, setbacks and stress. Mark explains that overprotecting children can prevent them from learning how to handle conflict, disappointment and criticism, leaving them unprepared for real life. Instead, parents should gradually “loosen the reins,” allowing teens to face challenges and take responsibility. By moving from a teaching model to a training model, parents help their teens develop maturity, strength and the resilience needed to thrive in a challenging world. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's resources and events that are designed to help you navigate your journey of raising teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses the real-life challenges parents of teens face, including vaping, bullying, video games, emotional struggles and the balance between connection and correction. He offers practical wisdom along with thoughtful answers on privacy, technology and parenting in a constantly changing culture. Whether you’re navigating tough conversations or working to build more honesty and trust at home, this episode is packed with encouragement to strengthen your relationship with your teen. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur explore why school is about much more than academics — it’s the training ground where teens learn to build relationships, handle challenges and grow in character. While grades matter, the lessons learned through sports, clubs, friendships and even discomfort often have an even greater impact on a teen’s future. Parents are reminded to look beyond report cards and focus on guiding their teens to grow socially, emotionally and spiritually through their school experiences. Join Mark in Texas for one of his Families in Crisis Conferences designed to help parents who are struggling with their teen. To register or learn more visit familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston reflects on his lifelong love of animals and tells the story of his llama, Tony, whose decline became a lesson in parenting. In the midst of trying to save Tony, Mark faced harsh criticism from a bystander when what he really needed was help, not judgment. He compares this to how teens often experience their parents — hearing constant correction and criticism instead of encouragement and support. Mark emphasizes that while good intentions are there, judgment pushes kids away, but truth shared with love and relationship draws them closer. Is your teen struggling? See if Mark's residential counseling ministry, Heartlight, can help. Visit heartlightministries.org today. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every struggling teen has their own story, but many share a deeper need: to be truly understood. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight residents who have learned the power of opening up about their struggles. One young woman reflects on navigating feelings of abandonment and shame from her adoption and how talking about it is transforming her perspective. The other, Sam, describes her journey from frequent outbursts and social isolation to discovering how respecting others — and herself — can lead to genuine connection. Could Heartlight be the answer for your struggling teen? Find out more at heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss how teens are bombarded with opinions from social media and culture — but what they truly need is perspective rooted in wisdom and experience. Parents can create a safe space by sharing life lessons, biblical truth and honest reflections, guiding their teens to think, ask questions, and grow in character and faith. If you are in a tough spot with your teen and struggling, join Mark for a weekend in Texas, October 2-4, designed specifically for parents. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to register. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the toughest questions sent in by parents, ranging from anxiety over grades and skipping school to concerns about dating, lack of motivation in college, strained relationships with an absent parent and even the discovery of pornography on a teen’s phone. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the real issues behind teens’ behaviors, keeping communication open and setting healthy boundaries while maintaining unconditional love. With personal stories, practical advice, and an emphasis on maintaining a strong parent-teen relationship, this episode offers real-world wisdom and encouragement for parents seeking to guide their teens through today’s unique challenges. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur explore how counseling can be a life-changing tool for teens — not just those in crisis. They discuss why unresolved struggles during adolescence often resurface later in life with even greater consequences. Proactive counseling can offer hope, healing and a brighter future for the whole family. Tune in to hear practical advice for helping your teen open up, finding the right counselor and building trust in a safe, supportive environment. Struggling to connect with your teen? Heartlight offers a safe, Christ-centered residential program that helps teens heal and families find hope. Learn more at heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston reflects on the true treasures in life and how parents and grandparents can leave lasting legacies for the next generation. Drawing on biblical wisdom, poignant family experiences and the story of a cherished friend, Mark challenges us to invest our time and resources where our hearts truly are — our relationships. He reminds us that memories, love and shared experiences far outweigh any material possessions we might pass on. Tune in for inspiration on making the most of every moment and giving your best to the ones you love, today. Want to dive into more biblically based insights for your parenting journey? Check out Mark's devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at bit.ly/daily-hope-for-families Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sometimes, the hardest moments in a teen's life are what finally reveal the need for real change. On today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight residents who share their journeys through deep struggles — including negative thought patterns, depression and feeling disconnected from family. Eighteen-year-old Jake discusses his battles with substance use and isolation, along with the eventual turning point that came not from punishment, but from a moment of compassion and honest conversation with his family. Is the Heartlight residential program the right choice for your struggling teen? Find out more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When teens won’t open up, building trust takes time and consistency. Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur stress creating a safe, judgment-free space where kids feel valued. Casual, agenda-free conversations about everyday topics are a great starting point. Parents should invest in the relationship without pushing for quick results, letting connection develop before addressing deeper issues. Over time, this trust allows teens to share openly, knowing they’ll be heard without fear of criticism. Is your family struggling? Join us for our next Families In Crisis Conference for parents on October 2-4. To learn more or register to attend, visit familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston takes on the real-life questions and struggles sent in by parents just like you. He offers practical wisdom on handling anxiety, depression, substance use, entitlement, the pull of technology and the unique dynamics of split households. Mark stresses the importance of shifting responsibility to teens as they near adulthood, focusing on relationships over authoritarian control, and finding gratitude even in the midst of personal and family struggles. Listeners will find encouragement, perspective and actionable advice along with a reminder that, above all, genuine connection is the key to navigating family crises and guiding teens toward healthy independence. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd, and Courtney Lafleur discuss the growing issue of socially awkward teens and the cultural forces contributing to it — especially isolation caused by screens, gaming and social media. They emphasize that kids today are missing out on crucial face-to-face experiences that develop emotional intelligence, social cues and resilience. Parents are encouraged to gently push their teens out of isolation by modeling healthy interactions, creating opportunities for real-world engagement and refusing to rescue them from every uncomfortable situation. Is your teen struggling? Mark's residential ministry may be able to help! Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston shares a devotional from Matthew 7:7, as he emphasizes the power of asking questions as a means of deepening our connection with our teens. Rather than lecturing or interrogating, parents are encouraged to engage their children through thoughtful, nonjudgmental inquiry — asking, seeking and knocking to access their hearts and minds. Questions help teens feel valued, spark critical thinking and lead them on a personal journey of discovery. In an age full of noise, curiosity and listening can be powerful tools for relational growth and lasting influence. Are you struggling with your teen and want to ask Mark for his advice? Your question may be answered on a future Friday episode. Visit markgregston.com to ask him today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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So many teens today struggle with feeling isolated. It becomes hard — even scary — to open up to others and learn to trust. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight residents who open up about the emptiness and insecurity that fueled their destructive choices, from substance use to pushing family away. Both teens share how feeling unworthy of love or belonging left them feeling alone — even as they craved acceptance. At Heartlight, they're beginning to see their own value and experience genuine connection with others. Know a young adult who has a heart for working with teens? They may be a great addition to our residential staff at Heartlight! Learn more today at heartlight.jobs Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur talk about the powerful impact fathers can have on their children’s lives — especially during the teen years. The three discuss how dads can connect with their teens by being present, listening well, engaging in their children's interests (even outside their comfort zone) and communicating unconditional love. They emphasize that the sacrifice of time now is far better than the regret of missing meaningful moments later. Ultimately, dads who validate, support and bless their teens give them the foundation they need to thrive and resist seeking affirmation elsewhere. Is your family in crisis? Join Mark in Texas from October 2-4 for a retreat designed for specifically to help parents. Please visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more and register. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses some of the most pressing and poignant questions from parents and grandparents of teens today. From navigating teen anxiety, depression and substance use, to setting boundaries with technology and communication, Mark provides practical wisdom rooted in compassion. Listeners will find guidance on fostering connection over control, all while encouraging hope and resilience for families walking challenging paths. Whether you’re struggling with lost connection, difficult behavior or feelings of helplessness, this episode offers understanding, encouragement and actionable steps to strengthen your relationship with your teen. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LeFleur discuss the emotional toll that mean-girl behavior and social media pressure can have on teenage girls. From exclusion and cyberbullying to unrealistic beauty and lifestyle standards, social media amplifies insecurities and public shaming, often leading to anxiety, depression or isolation. Parents are encouraged to foster real-life connections, model healthy self-worth and talk openly with their daughters about what they see and feel online. Is your family in crisis? Join Mark and his staff for a weekend in Texas designed to encourage and equip you as you raise your teen. Learn more and register at familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston reflects on a personal experience of physical pain to illustrate how pain affects behavior, decision-making and empathy — especially in teens. He explains that when teens act out or seem disengaged, it may be rooted in deep emotional pain they don’t know how to express or escape. Rather than rushing to fix or shield kids from discomfort, parents should allow them to experience appropriate pain so they can grow in resilience, maturity and wisdom. Pain, though unpleasant, can be one of God’s most powerful tools for shaping character and drawing us closer to Him. Do you have a question for Mark? Ask him at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every parent knows how much teens long to belong — yet sometimes the choices they make in pursuit of acceptance can lead them down a difficult path. On today’s episode, Mark sits down with two young women from Heartlight, who share how struggles with fitting in and unresolved family pain fueled seasons of bad decisions and heartache. Anna discusses her initial shock at being sent away and the process of rebuilding her relationship with her parents, offering insights about the value of getting help — even when it isn’t easy or expected. Curious about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org to learn more today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s culture, teens are overwhelmed with information and often skeptical of traditional approaches to faith. Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd encourage parents to shift from preaching to modeling — living out their beliefs through consistent, grace-filled actions rather than just words. Teens need safe, honest conversations, space to wrestle with doubt, and parents who are willing to listen and walk alongside them in their spiritual journey. Ultimately, your example, not just your instruction, is what will influence their faith the most. Join Mark in Texas at one of Heartlight's Families in Crisis Conferences. To learn more, visit familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston responds to a powerful and important question: “Does your ministry point kids to Jesus?” Mark’s thoughtful answer goes beyond one-size-fits-all approaches, reminding us that parenting teens, especially those struggling with faith, requires both patience and creativity. Remember, it’s not just about lecturing your kids, but showing them love through your actions and being present as they work through their doubts. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they remind us that listening is one of the most powerful tools you can use to connect with your teen. As kids grow into adolescence, they crave someone who will truly hear them — without judgment or constant advice. Mark explains that parents must shift from a teaching role to a training role by asking questions, being quiet and listening with the intent to understand. When teens don’t feel heard at home, they’ll seek connection elsewhere, often in places that may not align with the family’s values. In a tough spot with your teen? Join Mark in Texas at our Families in Crisis Retreat. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more and register! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this devotional, Mark Gregston highlights the deep anxiety teens face today due to overwhelming uncertainty in their world — like social instability, global crises and cultural pressures. He compares this with Luke’s purpose in writing his Gospel: to offer certainty about the truths we’ve been taught. Mark urges parents to become a source of steady, reliable certainty for their children by modeling unwavering truth and faith. In a culture flooded with doubt, kids need anchors of tradition, values and love to help them navigate adolescence with confidence and hope. Is your teen struggling? Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's resources designed to help you as you raise your teen. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Many parents see their teens retreat — whether into substance use, technology or isolation — and wonder what they're really running from. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with Dean and RJ, two Heartlight residents, who share the personal struggles that led them to seek refuge in unhealthy habits — Dean through drugs, and RJ through hours of video games. Both young men open up about how avoiding their problems only left them feeling more lost, and how their time at Heartlight is helping them confront their pain, reconnect with family and rediscover who they truly are. Interested in learning more about the Heartlight residential program? Visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston discusses key barriers that hinder strong relationships between parents and teens, including misunderstanding, overly strict rules, unrealistic expectations and discipline without connection. He encourages parents to reflect on their own behavior, communicate openly, and create a safe space where teens feel heard and valued. Mark emphasizes that relationships grow through shared time, authenticity and offering grace rather than demanding perfection. Ultimately, he urges parents to lead with humility and a willingness to change, which can foster a deeper connection with their teen. Would you like Mark's advice for a challenge you're facing with your teen? Visit markgregston.com to send in a question! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston discusses real-world issues that parents are facing with their teens today. He covers everything from guiding teens through questions of gender identity and same-sex attraction to helping them with struggles like dyslexia, anxiety and anger, navigating the music they listen to, and even tackling tricky situations like an 18-year-old dating a much older partner. With a firm belief that strong, healthy relationships are the key to weathering any parenting storm, Mark offers practical advice, real-life stories and a whole lot of encouragement to help you strengthen the bond with your teen — tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this eye-opening episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into why so many teens today are passionately embracing social or political causes. While some are motivated by strong convictions, many are simply searching — for identity, belonging, independence or even just a way to stand out. Mark shares practical, heartfelt advice for parents facing this challenge: stay calm, keep the lines of communication open, avoid jumping to judgment and lead with love while setting clear boundaries. Looking for more peace in your home? Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more and register for a Families in Crisis Conference! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston for a devotional as he reflects on Galatians 6:5, emphasizing the importance of teaching teens to carry their own responsibilities rather than parents doing everything for them. He shares the story of a young woman named Rachel, whose immaturity and lack of real-world readiness stemmed from a father who overprotected and overprovided. Mark urges parents to gradually transfer responsibility, helping teens build good character while preparing them for independence and real-life challenges. Would you like to ask Mark a question about raising your teen? Ask him here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Almost every parent knows the worry that comes when a teen starts to change — pulling away, making risky choices or hiding behind a version of themselves that’s hard to recognize. On today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who share honestly about how desperately they wanted to fit in, and what it cost them. Each tells their story of putting on a mask to please friends, avoid disappointing their parents or simply escape the pressure of being “the good kid.” Now, they’re learning what it takes to be real — facing fears, letting go of people-pleasing and rebuilding trust with family. Do you know someone in their 20s who just has a gift for connecting with teens? They may be the perfect fit for our Residential Youth Specialist position! Learn more today at https://heartlight.jobs Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd encourage parents to make the most of summer with their teens by creating intentional and meaningful experiences. They share five tips for parents to try out, and Mark stresses the importance of balancing productivity with rest while building lifelong memories through shared activities. The goal is to use summer as a valuable season for connection, growth and joy within the family. If you need help with your struggling teen, our residential counseling program, Heartlight Ministries, may be the answer. Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark tackles one of the biggest challenges modern parents face: navigating screen time, smartphones and developing healthy boundaries with technology. Responding to a heartfelt question from a mom of three boys, Mark shares thoughtful advice on how parents can encourage responsibility, set effective house rules around technology and move their teens from external controls to developing crucial internal boundaries. From the right age to hand over that first phone, to making sure technology becomes a tool rather than a trap, Mark explores practical strategies every parent can use to guide their teens in today’s digital world. Get ready for some real talk, helpful tips and encouragement as you build deeper connections with your kids while preparing them for independence — listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how many teens today silently struggle with anxiety, depression and loneliness, often due to overwhelming cultural pressures and a lack of meaningful connection. Mark urges parents to recognize the signs — withdrawal, irritability or substance use — and not dismiss them as just a “phase.” He emphasizes the importance of creating a peaceful home environment, engaging in regular conversations and being an active, empathetic presence in a teen’s life. When something feels off, parents should seek help early. Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more about Heartlight and how the ministry can help your family. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston as he shares his heart with parents and grandparents. Today, Mark emphasizes that listening is one of the most powerful tools adults can use to build strong relationships with teens. He encourages us to set aside judgment, withhold immediate correction and engage in active, empathetic listening to truly understand a child’s heart. When teens feel heard, they’re more likely to open up and less likely to act out for attention. He reminds us that meaningful connection starts by creating a safe space where kids feel valued, not corrected or dismissed. Do you have a question for Mark? Ask it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every teen has a story behind the choices they make — sometimes, it's not about simple rebellion, but about a deeper search for belonging and understanding. On today’s episode, Mark sits down with two teens whose journeys might sound familiar to many parents. For Andrew, who came to Heartlight from Toronto, frequent moves and underlying anger led him toward rebellion and drug use. He shares honestly about how being at Heartlight is helping him discover healthier ways to cope and communicate, especially with his dad. Interested in learning more about Heartlight? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss how teens often act recklessly or impulsively due to underlying emotional needs such as curiosity, a desire to escape or low self-worth. Mark emphasizes that such behavior is a visible sign of invisible struggles in a teen’s heart. Parents should seek to understand the root causes by asking questions and staying engaged, rather than just trying to control behavior. Building trust, setting boundaries and focusing on heart transformation, not just rule-following, are key to helping teens thrive. Is your family struggling? Join Mark in Texas at his Families in Crisis Conference, July 24-26. To learn more and register, please visit familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses some of the most pressing questions sent in by parents just like you. From managing screen time addiction and understanding the difference between boundaries and rules, to helping teens open up and dealing with challenging behaviors in single-parent households, Mark draws from decades of experience to deliver practical, heartfelt advice. He addresses issues like spiritual disconnect, friendships with LGBTQ+ peers and when to step back with adult children struggling with pornography, all while emphasizing connection, responsibility and fostering maturity. Join Mark as he provides wisdom, stories and encouragement to parents seeking deeper, healthier relationships with their teens. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Is your teen glued to their phone? You’re not alone. In this episode, Mark Gregston, Courtney LaFleur and Wayne Shepherd dive into the tricky world of teen phone use. They explore how smartphones impact relationships, focus and family dynamics — and what you can do about it. Discover practical tips on setting healthy, age-appropriate boundaries, fostering trust and encouraging more face-to-face connections. Feeling overwhelmed? Join Mark in Texas from July 24–27 for the Families in Crisis Conference — a powerful weekend designed to bring hope and healing to struggling families. Learn more at familycrisisretreat.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston reminds parents of their powerful role in affirming a child’s worth in a world flooded with self-help messages that often imply we’re not enough. Kids are longing for validation — not just recognition — and parents must take intentional time to invest in their children’s hearts. Through consistent love, listening and presence, parents can communicate the unshakable truth that their kids are enough just as they are. This message, rooted in God’s grace and unconditional love, can counter the harmful narratives of inadequacy many teens silently carry. Looking for more tools designed to support you as you raise your teen? Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore resources, events and more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When a teen is really struggling, it can sometimes be hard for them to see the situation clearly — whether it's poor choices they're making or why their parents are concerned. But taking a step back from the situation can make all the difference. Today, Mark talks with two teens who open up about what led them down difficult paths. Both teens reveal the ways that broken communication at home, unmet emotional needs and risky decisions shaped their journeys. At Heartlight, they're beginning to understand what went wrong — and how to heal. Is the Heartlight residential program the answer for your struggling teen? Go to heartlightministries.org today to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd explore how parents can better support teens with ADHD by adjusting expectations and parenting styles. They highlight the value of shorter conversations, academic flexibility and activities that match the teen's energy. While ADHD presents challenges, it can also bring strengths like creativity and verbal skills. Parents are encouraged to affirm these traits and avoid shame-based approaches. Join Mark in Texas at our next Families in Crisis Conference (July 24-26), a three-day event that will equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to guide your teenager back on the right path. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston dives into some of the most pressing concerns parents face — from navigating your teen’s reluctance to attend church to dealing with monitoring apps for their phones. He also addresses communication breakdowns and the heartbreaking reality of teen mental health and suicide. Mark offers practical advice on building trust, fostering open conversations and giving your teen the responsibility they crave, all while maintaining strong family connections. Whether you’re struggling with disrespect, worried about the influence of culture or just seeking guidance on how to keep your relationship with your teen healthy and supportive, this episode is packed with wisdom and compassion to help. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Courtney LaFleur and Wayne Shepherd explore how divorce deeply impacts teens, often in ways parents don’t fully realize. Teens may internalize blame and struggle with trust, especially when parents speak poorly of each other or set conflicting rules. The three urge divorced parents to put aside personal hurt, communicate respectfully, maintain consistency and be present in their teen’s life. Ultimately, they emphasize seeing divorce from the teen’s perspective and committing to love and support them through the disruption. Worn out, discouraged or lost with your teen? Join Mark July 24-26 for the Families in Crisis Conference, a powerful weekend designed for parents walking through a tough time. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston talks about updates on his health after a near-drowning incident revealed a chronic lung infection and led to a kidney transplant due to polycystic kidney disease. Thanks to his son Adam, who was a donor match, Mark received a new kidney and is recovering well despite some complications, including a rare allergic reaction. He reflects on the challenges with gratitude, humor, and a renewed perspective on life and ministry. Do you have a question you would like to ask Mark? Visit markgregston.com to ask his advice! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Behind every “reckless” or withdrawn teen is a journey they’re struggling to navigate. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight residents who open up about the hidden battles fueling their choices. One young man, Will, shares how his struggle with depression drove him towards rebellion and poor decisions, impacting his home life and especially his bond with his younger sister. Depression and anxiety were at the heart of his behavior — not a desire to hurt others, but a desperate attempt to escape pain. Tune in to hear these honest reflections! To learn more about Heartlight's residential program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd discuss how teens experience loss — not just through death, but also through breakups, rejection and life changes. The three stress the importance of creating a safe space for teens to express their grief without rushing to fix it or offer easy answers. Grief is personal and often confusing, so being present and listening matters more than finding the right words. Ultimately, loss can shape us, and God remains present even when we don't understand the pain. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org/shop to discover all of Mark's resources designed to help you as you raise your teen. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston tackles some pressing and heartfelt questions from listeners. From handling a 17-year-old's dishonesty about school and addressing natural consequences, to supporting teens feeling left out or struggling with fading friendships, Mark offers practical wisdom rooted in relational and biblical principles. He also discusses how to approach parenting teens with ADHD, strategies for handling disrespectful communication at the dinner table and the unique pain that comes when a teen yearns for a distant parent. Throughout, Mark encourages parents to engage in honest, empathetic conversations with their teens while setting appropriate boundaries, focusing on building trust and guiding teens toward maturity. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd explore how parents can help their teens navigate grief and loss — not just from death, but from life changes like breakups, missed opportunities or transitions. They emphasize the importance of creating a safe space where teens can express their emotions without being rushed, fixed or given shallow answers. Grief looks different for everyone, and sometimes the best response is silent presence, not advice. Parents are encouraged to model authentic grief, trust God’s presence in the unknown and walk alongside their teens through pain rather than around it. Finding yourself in a tough spot with your teen? Join Mark for a weekend designed to help you. Visit familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston as he reflects on 1 Corinthians 2:4-5 and the lasting impact of wise mentors and intentional relationships throughout his life. He shares a story about his granddaughter simply wanting to feel valued, illustrating the power of showing up and listening. Mark honors the voices of encouragement and godly wisdom that shaped his journey from pastors to teachers to friends — reminding listeners that even simple, ongoing conversations can influence a life deeply. He encourages us to become that same kind of presence for the next generation, offering wisdom, perspective, and God’s love through consistent and intentional relationships. Do you have a parenting question you would like to ask Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens who struggle with fitting in, rejection or betrayal often build tough walls to protect themselves — but what's really hiding behind those defenses? On today’s episode, Mark sits down with two young women at Heartlight who share how feeling misunderstood and losing trust in others shaped their choices and attitudes. Meredith, who has been on the show before, shares about navigating big life traumas, feeling like an outsider and her struggle for acceptance, which led her down a tough path. Tune in to hear these stories! For more info about the Heartlight residential program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Courtney LaFleur and Wayne Shepherd discuss why teens may use harsh or offensive language, explaining that such words often reflect deeper emotional pain or frustration. Rather than reacting immediately, parents are encouraged to listen for the heart behind the words and provide a safe space for open communication. The three emphasize the value of setting respectful boundaries, having restorative follow-up conversations and practicing self-reflection. By leading with empathy, you can rebuild trust and strengthen your relationship with your teen. In a tough spot with your teen? Join Mark at the Families in Crisis Conference! Learn more at familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston discusses some of the most pressing questions parents are facing with their teens today. From dealing with chronic disrespect and dishonesty to navigating substance abuse and supporting struggling adopted teens, Mark provides practical advice grounded in both personal experience and biblical wisdom. He discusses strategies for building respectful relationships, encourages parents to look deeper into underlying issues and shares resources for getting professional help. Whether your teen is withdrawing into video games, wrestling with negative thoughts or in need of specialized support, this episode offers hope, guidance and actionable steps for families in all kinds of situations. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss your teen and their faith. Stressing the importance of modeling integrity and faith through everyday actions rather than just words, and creating a safe, open environment for honest questions and doubts. They encourage parents to shift from teaching to training during the teen years, allowing their children to wrestle with faith and develop their own convictions. Join Mark in July for our Families in Crisis Conference. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org/families-in-crisis-conference to learn more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston emphasizes the power of truly listening within families. Drawing from decades of experience working with teens and parents, he explains how active, empathetic listening can open the door to connection, healing and lasting relationships. Mark outlines common habits that hinder listening — like interrupting, always teaching or trying to fix things — and urges self-reflection to remove these barriers. He encourages listeners to ask their family members how well they feel heard, reminding us that sometimes, the greatest act of love is simply listening. To see all the resources Mark has designed specifically to help you as you raise your teen, visit parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Learning how to deal with stress and difficult emotions doesn't always come naturally — especially for teens who've already endured a lot in their young lives. Today, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who explain what they've learned in the program so far. Adopted as a young teen after living in multiple homes, 16-year-old Whitney describes the struggle to fit in, the aftermath of trauma and the difficulty of learning a new family’s rules. She speaks candidly about the poor choices she made and how Heartlight has helped her find healthier ways to cope. Is Heartlight the answer for your struggling teen? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur explore how parents can help teens take ownership of their faith as they grow more independent. With many teens leaving the church after high school, it's important to gradually shift from teaching to training to transferring responsibility for faith while teens are still at home. They encourage parents to create space for questions, avoid controlling or critical attitudes, and maintain open, judgment-free conversations about church and spirituality. Ultimately, the goal is to help teens develop a personal, lasting faith rather than one rooted only in parental expectations. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more about our next Families in Crisis Conference, happening July 24-26! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses real-life scenarios drawing directly from listener-submitted questions. He discusses everything from dealing with mean texts and peer behavior, guiding adopted teens with anger issues, navigating interfaith friendships, supporting a sexually active teen and encouraging open communication with quiet adolescents. With practical wisdom and heartfelt encouragement, this episode offers fresh perspectives and actionable advice to help strengthen your connection with your teen, no matter what challenges arise. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston, Courtney Lefleur and Wayne Shepherd as they explore how parents can effectively engage their teens in conversations about hot-button topics like gender, politics and morality. They emphasize the importance of listening without interrupting, respecting differing opinions and recognizing that teens are forming their own beliefs. Their goal for parents? Maintain connection and influence through love, patience and wisdom — rather than control or correction. Join Mark for one of our Families in Crisis Conferences at Heartlight. Learn more and register at familycrisisretreat.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston reflects on the painful experience of initially rejecting his son during a difficult season and how that taught him the importance of prioritizing relationships over rigid expectations. He shares stories from his ministry and personal life, urging parents and grandparents to lead with love, understanding and presence — especially when their children make choices that hurt or differ from their values. Using a passage from 1 Timothy, Mark encourages us to let the Holy Spirit do the convicting, while we remain steadfast in grace and relationship. Are you struggling with your teen? Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn about the Families in Crisis Conferences at Heartlight. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every troubled teen has a story behind their struggles — often rooted in pain, loss or broken trust. We hear a couple more of those stories today when Mark sits down with two teens from Heartlight, including Jared, who reflects on arriving in a tough place with depression, anxiety and substance abuse — but six months later, sees real change in himself and his family. Together, they are working toward rebuilding trust and moving into a brand new chapter. For more info about the Heartlight residential program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lefleur as they explore how parents can earn the respect of their teens. The three emphasize the power of tone, empathy and understanding the world your teen is navigating. Tune in as they share six practical steps you can take today to build mutual respect and strengthen your relationship. To download the Marriage Simplified guide Mark mentioned today, visit cpgive.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses real-life dilemmas sent in by listeners — ranging from navigating technology boundaries, handling grief and loss, and dealing with issues around sexuality and gender identity, to those classic struggles over clothing choices and R-rated movies at home. He offers practical wisdom on tackling everything from enforcing household standards and addressing power struggles to supporting LGBTQ+ kids while staying true to one’s beliefs. Whether you're facing difficult discussions about boundaries or seeking guidance on how to be a Christ-like influence, this episode will help you build deeper, lasting connections with your teen. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lefleur explore the powerful and unique role grandparents play in the lives of teenagers. Mark shares a heartfelt story about how becoming a grandfather unexpectedly softened his heart and prepared him to be a source of love and rest for his grandchildren. The three emphasize that grandparents shouldn't act as second parents, but rather provide a judgment-free space filled with emotional and physical rest, where teens feel safe and valued. They encourage grandparents to listen more than they speak, share wisdom when invited and support parents rather than undermine them. For more resources from Mark designed to help parents and grandparents, visit parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston reflects on a heartfelt story about a moment with his daughter and granddaughter at a concert that offered him a powerful lesson in perspective. His granddaughter’s simple insight shifted the way he saw the situation. Mark uses this experience to highlight the value of perspective in parenting. He encourages parents to focus on sharing their perspective — not just their opinions — with their teens to foster deeper connection and understanding. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org for practical and effective resources for parents and grandparents as they raise their teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Almost every teen’s story holds a search for acceptance, even if that journey is sometimes disguised by rebellion or pain. In today's episode, Mark talks with two more Heartlight students who open up about the challenges they’ve faced. Jacob, who had only recently arrived at Heartlight, reflects on growing up with divorced parents, feeling disconnected from his father and the personal revelations that followed his time in a wilderness program. Want to learn more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston, Courtney Lafleur and Wayne Shepherd remind parents that it’s normal for teens to wrestle with identity and appear different in various settings as they try to figure out who they are. They encourage parents to show patience and empathy, remembering their own journeys through adolescence. The hosts explore how this season of discovery can differ between boys and girls, and stress the importance of non-judgmental conversations to help teens build deeper relationships and a stronger sense of self. In a tough spot with your teen right now? Visit familycrisisretreat.org to learn about our next Families in Crisis Conference, coming up July 24-26! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Are you struggling to connect with your teens or set boundaries that really work? In today’s session, Mark Gregston shares practical advice on shifting from just teaching to truly training your teens — owning mistakes, building trust through genuine conversations and setting healthy boundaries around things like screen time and independence. He addresses what to do when teens don't respond to your invitations for feedback, and how to manage structure and discipline as your child grows. Packed with practical advice and genuine encouragement, this episode will leave you better equipped to connect with your teen and guide them toward healthy independence — listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston shares a personal story about recovering from a kidney transplant and how it gave him insight into the appeal of pain-relieving drugs — especially for teens. Wayne Shepherd, Courtney Lefleur and Mark discuss the deeper reasons behind teen drug use, such as a desire to escape emotional pain, fit in socially or simply feel “normal.” They encourage parents to build a safe, judgment-free environment where teens feel comfortable opening up about difficult topics. They also urge parents to start conversations early, listen with empathy and seek professional help if drug use becomes a pattern. If your teen is struggling, see if Mark's residential counseling ministry can help. Learn more at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston reflects on psychologist Jonathan Haidt’s article about how smartphones have “rewired” childhood. Though initially skeptical, Mark was struck by the evidence linking phone use to rising anxiety, depression and isolation in teens. He encourages parents to rethink screen time, set healthy boundaries and consider how technology is shaping their family relationships. Is your family struggling right now? We encourage you to come to our next Families In Crisis Conference, July 24-26. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When teens act out or pull away, there’s often a deeper struggle beneath the surface — a longing for connection and a search for identity. In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two young women from Heartlight who share how feelings of isolation, whether from a sheltered upbringing or broken relationships, led them down challenging paths. For Megan, being surrounded by other teens working through similar issues created authentic friendships and a support system unlike anything she had at home. She shares how stepping back from outside influences — even social media — helped her gain confidence. To find out if the Heartlight residential program would be beneficial for your teen, go to heartlightministries.org for more information. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lafleur share their list of 10 characteristics that show a teen may need intervention, addressing the questions many parents ask: "When should we act? How do we confront the issues? And what happens if we don’t?" Mark emphasizes that it takes boldness and strength to address these challenges head-on — but doing so can lead to healing and restoration in your home. Listen in as they share practical advice on how to help your teen when they need you the most! Visit parentingtodaysteens.org for practical and effective resources for parents and grandparents as they raise their teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s heartfelt episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most complex and pressing questions submitted by listeners. From grandparents concerned about estranged grandchildren and families navigating grief after the loss of a loved one to teens facing ADHD, gender identity questions and substance abuse — Mark offers practical wisdom and compassionate advice. Drawing from decades of experience, Mark emphasizes the importance of affirming relationships, setting healthy boundaries and loving teens through their struggles, even when the path forward isn't clear. If you're seeking honest, faith-based guidance to deepen your relationship with your teen or help them through difficult times, this episode is for you. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston, Courtney LeFleur and Wayne Shepherd discuss a parent's role in navigating the often difficult topic of sex. Mark encourages creating a home atmosphere where teens feel free to talk openly. They share how and when to have these conversations, along with key cultural issues parents should be aware of. Listen in for practical advice on approaching this subject with your children. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org for more practical and effective resources for parents and grandparents. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark shares a personal devotion from Hebrews 10:24, encouraging parents to focus less on correcting and more on connecting with their teens. He reminds parents to build in breaks from correction to allow teens space to rest. While correction may change behavior, connection reaches the heart. Tune in as Mark offers practical insights to help strengthen your relationship with your teen. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's past podcasts, articles, books and more designed to support you as you raise your teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Loss can turn a teen’s world upside down — and sometimes, all that pain comes out in unexpected ways. On today’s show, Mark sits down with two Heartlight residents who share how the loss of their fathers shaped their choices, relationships and self-image. Both struggled to connect with their moms, acted out or withdrew, yet underneath it all was deep grief they didn’t know how to express. This episode explores how facing heartache — and learning to understand it — is the first step toward real healing. Listen in now! Interested in learning more about Heartlight? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Courtney LeFleur and Wayne Shepherd explore the power of authenticity in parenting, and why it’s essential for building strong connections at home. As teens long for genuine relationships, the hosts challenge parents to let go of pretense and be real. By modeling authenticity, parents can foster deeper trust, stronger communication and healthier family dynamics. Are you struggling with your teen? Our next Families in Crisis Conference is coming up July 24-26! Learn more at familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing — and often tricky — questions parents are asking about their teenagers. He discusses how to navigate the shift in communication with increasingly independent 17- and 18-year-olds, as well as how to handle privacy and GPS tracking issues. Mark also dives into how to introduce godly sexuality to preteens, offering compassionate, practical advice drawn from his years of experience. You'll hear insights on when to let consequences teach important life lessons and how to support teens as they begin making their own choices. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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On this episode, Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur debunk five common parenting myths that often mislead moms and dads during the teen years. They stress that teens don’t need perfect parents or best friends — they need relational, trustworthy guides who are willing to be vulnerable and adapt their approach. They encourage parents to remain teachable, relational and flexible as they raise their teens in a rapidly changing culture. If your family is struggling, see if Mark's ministry can help. Visit heartlightministries.org for more info. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston reflects on how today’s culture — especially among teens — is saturated with arguments as people fight to be heard, validated and valued. Drawing from Proverbs 17:28 and 2 Timothy 2, he urges parents to replace quarrels with compassionate listening, emphasizing that not every disagreement needs to be voiced. Instead of criticizing your teen, he encourages building trust and waiting for an invitation to speak truth in love. Mark reminds us that genuine influence comes through relationship, not arguments. Choose love and grace over winning debates. Get Mark's newest devotional for your family by visiting dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Underneath teen rebellion and withdrawal, there’s often a deeper struggle for identity and a place to belong. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Grace, who candidly opens up about the pain of abandonment and identity stemming from being adopted from China. She discusses how her journey through depression and self-isolation impacted her relationship with her parents. In these conversations, you'll hear the lessons both girls learned about empathy, love and being truly known. Do you long for more peace in your home? Join us in July for our next Families in Crisis Conference to learn practical tools that'll help you get there. Learn more at familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur explore the power of a sincere apology in strengthening parent-teen relationships. They encourage parents to model humility by saying “I’m sorry” when needed, showing their teens that mistakes are a normal part of life. A heartfelt apology can break down walls, foster trust and open the door to deeper connections. To explore more resources Mark has designed to support you as you raise your teen, please visit parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles tough listener-submitted questions about raising teens in today’s culture. From discovering a child's vaping habit and managing sibling conflict to supporting an adopted teen through promiscuity and responding to a daughter's mental health crisis, Mark offers practical wisdom framed by a relational approach. He addresses tough topics like setting boundaries in adolescent relationships, handling exposure to pornography, and finding the right balance between consequences and grace. Whether you're looking for tools to build trust, guidance on difficult conversations or simply reassurance that you're not alone, this episode is packed with honest insights to help you deepen your connection with your teen — no matter what season your family is in. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how today’s teens are growing up in an overwhelming and chaotic world, saturated with constant information, conflicting values, and social pressures that fuel anxiety and confusion. Mark emphasizes that teens deeply desire stability, security, and authentic relationships with their parents and grandparents, even if they don’t always show it. He urges parents to be present, listen well and offer calm, faith-rooted guidance — reminding them that they are a lifeline for their children in a stormy culture. Explore all of Mark's resources designed to help you as you raise your teens at parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this heartfelt episode, Mark Gregston reflects on his decades-long journey of working with teens and families, beginning with a single act of compassion at age 19 that led to a lifetime of ministry. He shares a powerful story of reconciliation — after 40 years of silence — emphasizing the damage unresolved conflict can cause in relationships. Mark encourages listeners with a call to action: Don’t let unresolved issues steal time, connection or legacy — begin the healing process today. Do you have a question you would like Mark to answer? Ask him at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every parent wants the best for their teen, but what happens when the pressure to be perfect becomes too much to bear? In today’s episode, Mark sits down with two young men from Heartlight who share their personal journeys through anxiety, depression and the crushing weight of high expectations. Both teens describe how striving to meet others’ standards led them to hide their struggles and withdraw into harmful behaviors. Tune in for a powerful look at the hidden battle many teens face, and discover how compassion can make all the difference. Is Heartlight the right answer for your struggling teen? Head to heartlightministries.org to learn more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur explore adoption as one of the greatest acts of love and sacrifice a family can make. Drawing from conversations with adopted teens and their families, they share insights that help parents understand the unique challenges these children face. They emphasize the need for parents to adapt their approach as their child grows and enters new developmental stages. In closing, they share some thoughtful questions to help parents navigate identity issues their adopted child may wrestle with over time. As Mark shared today, "Marriage Simplified" — a digital guide from Christian Parenting, which includes Mark's best marriage advice — is available at christianparenting.org/marriagesimplifiedguide Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston dives into some of the most pressing issues facing parents of teenagers — from navigating adoption challenges and discussing sexuality, to setting boundaries with teens exploring relationships. He also addresses managing teen mental health and substance use, as well as supporting those facing bullying and isolation. Mark offers heartfelt advice drawn from years of experience, reminding listeners of the importance of maintaining strong relationships, setting healthy boundaries and seeking community support when needed. Whether you're struggling to connect with a withdrawn teen, worried about your child's choices or searching for faith-based guidance in complex situations, this episode is packed with practical insights for every parent. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into a question every parent wrestles with: What’s really behind my teen’s bad behavior? They remind parents that a teen’s identity is not defined by their actions — and that there’s always more beneath the surface. From peer pressure and unresolved emotions to complex family dynamics, Mark and Wayne explore the deeper influences that shape teen behavior. You’ll walk away with practical tools and fresh perspective to respond with wisdom, empathy and grace. Don’t miss these valuable insights! Looking for a meaningful gift this spring? Check out our curated Gift Guide for Moms, Dads and Grads at christianparenting.org/giftguide! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston as he reflects on Proverbs 22:6, offering heartfelt reminders for parents raising teens today. He encourages parents to train their children in every area of life, focusing on building independence rather than dependence. Mark emphasizes that true success comes when teens are prepared to make wise decisions on their own. He highlights the need for balance between providing support and preparing teens for the real world. Is your teen struggling? Join us for our next Families in Crisis Conference coming up in July! Visit familycrisisretreat.com for more details. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every parent hopes their teen feels loved and valued — but what happens when a teen’s pain goes unnoticed or unaddressed? In today's show, we reshare a couple of interviews that exemplify how invisible hurts can weigh on teens. For Heather, Heartlight provided the space to work on herself without the pressure of keeping up appearances. She shares her experiences navigating the pain of her parents’ divorce and struggling with self-worth, ultimately learning to accept herself and seek honest connections with her family. For more info on the Heartlight residential program, go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the challenging seasons when your teen’s behavior feels overwhelming. They explore how parents can respond well to both the everyday frustrations and the bigger, life-altering moments that come with raising teens. Together, they offer insights on typical teenage behavior and how to know when it may be time to seek professional help. Listen in as they talk to Jackson, a Heartlight teen, about his journey to a better relationship with his parents. To find out more about Heartlight Ministries and to see if we can help your struggling teen, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston addresses the ever-evolving challenges of parenting in the digital age. Diving into questions about the impact of internet and video game usage on teenagers, Mark offers insight into balancing technology with meaningful relationships. He discusses strategies for managing tech use at home, including setting boundaries, fostering real-world connections and encouraging healthy independence in our kids. Highlighting key points from David Murrow's book "Drowning in Screen Time," Mark presents fascinating statistics and trends affecting today's youth and emphasizes the critical role parents play in guiding their children through a tech-saturated environment. Join the conversation as Mark empowers listeners to rethink their approach to technology and teen relationships. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney LaFleur join Mark to discuss teen daughters and the impact of mean girls and social media on their lives. Together, they aim to raise awareness and help parents understand what their daughters may be facing — and why they might be acting out. This conversation explores how social media has intensified the pressure to fit in. Tune in for practical advice on how to navigate this complex and emotional topic with your teen. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark’s resources designed to help you as you raise your teen. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Drawing from Proverbs 13:20, Mark Gregston shares a personal devotion as he reflects on his adolescence and how that time differs so much from today. He reminds us of how every generation of youth has brought its own troubling times. He encourages parents to seek to understand the teens in their lives so they can help their kids navigate this ever-changing world. Mark challenges parents to better connect with their teens — and shares some practical ways to do so. Tune in! Visit christianparenting.org/giftguide to view the Gift Guide Mark mentions in today's episode. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In the quest to be accepted and liked, many teens only form surface-level connections with their peers. They're missing out on what a genuine relationship looks like — and as parents, that's where we can set a good example. In today's show, Mark chats with two young men from Heartlight, including Jack, who opens up about his battle with peer pressure, expressing how his desire for acceptance led him down a path of drugs and alcohol. Through his time at Heartlight, Jack has uncovered the roots of his struggles and the significance of forming real friendships. Want to learn more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd emphasize the importance of truly listening to your teen rather than lecturing, correcting or constantly giving opinions. When teens don’t feel heard at home, they’ll seek connection elsewhere. They encourage parents to set aside intentional, judgment-free time to simply listen and ask thoughtful questions. The goal isn’t to fix or respond, but to build trust and deepen understanding by being fully present. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's podcasts, books, blog posts and more designed to support you as you raise your teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode of "Parenting Today's Teens," Mark Gregston dives into a series of pressing questions sent in by concerned parents navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. From dealing with a son who clams up when confronted, to a young daughter making concerning choices in friendships, Mark offers practical insights and wisdom. He discusses the complexities of self-esteem issues in teens, the nuances of managing screen time and scary movie preferences, and the delicate balance of maintaining relationships post-divorce. Tune in as Mark shares relatable stories, helpful strategies, and heartfelt advice to strengthen your connection with your teen and guide them through these pivotal years! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the topic of teens and anger. They cover key strategies like setting ground rules, creating space for deeper conversations and encouraging parents to uncover the emotions driving the anger. With practical advice and thoughtful talking points, they offer tools you can start using today to better connect with and support your teen. Is your teen struggling? See if Heartlight Ministries can help by visiting heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston as he shares heartfelt lessons and insights from his life, focusing on the vital role grandparents play within their families. In this encouraging episode, Mark offers practical advice grandparents can start using today to strengthen connections with their children and grandchildren — and embrace the unique influence only they can provide. For more from Mark on this topic, check out his book written specifically for grandparents at bit.ly/ptt-leaving-a-legacy Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's often shallow, performance-based culture, many of our teens find themselves navigating complex dual lives. In this episode, we hear from two Heartlight teens who share their experiences of living contrasting realities. One young lady, Ellie, reveals her journey of living two lives — balancing between being a missionary in Africa and engaging in risky behaviors back home. She talks about the pressures of maintaining a façade and the self-discovery she's undergone since joining Heartlight. Listen in! Interested in learning more about the Heartlight program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss the importance of modesty. They emphasize the need for parents to teach their daughters the value of modesty based on biblical principles, not societal trends. The two remind us how important it is to affirm our daughters' beauty and worth inside and out. Listen as Mark offers practical advice on how to have this important conversation, focusing on the value behind modesty. In a tough spot with your teen, and nothing seems to be working? Join our next Families in Crisis Conference! Go to familycrisisretreat.com to learn more today. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the toughest questions parents face regarding their kids. He shares insights on connecting with a quiet preteen, navigating concerns about an 18-year-old’s new girlfriend and supporting a 13-year-old grandson struggling with low self-esteem due to limited time with his father. Mark also advises a grandmother on living arrangements with her video game–addicted grandson and addresses the age-old question: How strict is too strict? Along the way, he explores parenting styles, generational gaps and practical strategies for building stronger, more meaningful relationships with teens. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they share a powerful message of hope for families this Easter season. In this episode, they encourage parents to find strength in God's unwavering hope, even amidst life's challenges. Through trials and tribulations, Mark and Wayne remind us that God's presence can deepen our relationships with Him and with one another. They offer inspiration for families to draw closer together and trust that, by leaning on God, they will emerge stronger and more connected after the storm. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark’s resources designed to help your family. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston today as he speaks specifically to parents of children becoming teens. He reminds them that what has worked in the earlier years won’t work in the teen years — parents must be flexible and accommodating to successfully raise their teen. Mark highlights several examples of what he believes parents should provide at home to create an environment and relationship that your teen desires to be in. Do you have a question you’d like to ask Mark? Submit your question at markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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A tough part of the teen years is figuring out how you fit into the world — and with whom. Everyone wants to feel accepted, but sometimes that desire can have pitfalls. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies, including a 17-year-old from Texas, who explains how high school brought about unforeseen changes and peer pressures. Despite being a "good kid," she found herself exposed to new challenges and started to break the rules. She shares how she navigated bullying on social media and aggression that stemmed from internal struggles with identity and friendships. To learn more about the Heartlight residential program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how the increased normalization of drugs is affecting teens. Mark emphasizes the importance of stepping in early when drug use is suspected, offering practical advice for parents on setting boundaries, seeking professional help and maintaining open communication. Above all, they stress the importance of loving and supporting your teen through it all. To learn more about Mark's residential counseling ministry for struggling teens, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Difficult conversations with teens can be uncomfortable, but avoiding them isn’t the answer. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston encourages parents to embrace tough discussions with confidence, covering complex topics like discrimination and sensitive family dynamics. He also offers practical advice on balancing family time and replacing lectures with meaningful conversations. Tune in for wisdom, encouragement and strategies to build trust and connection with your teen! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd talk about depression among adolescents and how it is rising at an alarming rate, with many teens experiencing major depressive disorders and persistent sadness or hopelessness. Suicide rates have increased and many families struggle to recognize the signs, which can range from mood changes and social withdrawal to risky behaviors and eating disorders. Parents are encouraged to maintain open communication, take their teen’s feelings seriously and seek professional help when necessary. Visit heartlightministries.org to see if Mark's residential counseling program can help your struggling teen. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston shares his story of facing rejection and loss after being fired from a ministry 36 years ago. Despite the pain and confusion, he reflects on how God's presence remained constant and how hardships shaped his faith. Mark encourages us to trust God through life's struggles — even when the purpose isn’t clear — believing that He works all things for good. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org/shop to shop Mark's books written to help guide you as you raise your teen. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In a world where communication often falls short, many teens find themselves craving meaningful connections that feel elusive. In today's episode, Mark sits down with two teens who share their journeys from fractured family relationships and troubled pasts, rooted in miscommunication and unmet emotional needs, towards a path of healing. One young lady opens up about how an emotional disconnect with her father led her to search for validation and understanding in different places. Tune in now to hear these stories! Could Heartlight be the answer for your struggling teen? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of paying attention to a teenager's smile as an indicator of emotional well-being. The two emphasize that when a teen stops smiling, it often signals underlying issues that parents should not ignore. Mark advises parents to approach their teens with empathy and understanding, acknowledging their own role in the problem if necessary. He encourages open conversations in neutral settings, offering support rather than judgment and suggests seeking professional counseling when needed. For the gift guide from Christian Parenting that Mark mentioned in today’s episode, please visit: ChristianParenting.org/giftguide Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It's normal for teens to want to connect, especially with the rise of social media — but how do we balance connection and boundaries? In today’s episode, Mark Gregston dives into the challenges of parenting in the digital age. He discusses how teens naturally crave connection and how technology has shifted their communication style away from face-to-face interactions. Mark emphasizes the need for parents to set appropriate boundaries with social media, while maintaining a strong, affirming relationship with their teens. He shares practical tips on how to transition from correction to connection, reminding us that it's all about bonding deeply, beyond the screens. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the challenges of motivating teens who seem to have lost hope. Mark explains that a lack of motivation can stem from issues like depression or feeling overwhelmed. He stresses that shaming teens isn't the answer and encourages parents to identify the root causes and support teens in finding a way forward. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org for more resources and advice from Mark as you raise your teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's heartfelt episode, Mark draws wisdom from 2 Peter to encourage parents and grandparents to create lasting memories with their families. He emphasizes the importance of not waiting until it's too late to invest in the next generation. Mark reminds listeners that a true legacy is not just about what you leave behind, but the meaningful moments and memories you share along the way. For Mark's book on leaving a legacy for the teens in your family, visit: bit.ly/ptt-leaving-a-legacy Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Trauma — and the sense of loneliness that often follows — can leave teens feeling hopeless about their futures. That hopelessness can lead to some dark places, but finding help and support makes all the difference. Today, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who reflect on their stories. From grappling with depression and substance abuse to confronting family challenges, Hayden shares the heartache of losing a brother and dealing with his parents' divorce. Meanwhile, Tiller opens up about feeling trapped in a cycle of substance use before finding a path to healing. Tune in! To discover more about the Heartlight program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how easy it is for teens to access alcohol and marijuana today, and why they may engage in these behaviors. They remind parents that no teen is immune to exposure. Mark stresses the importance of creating a supportive home environment that meets teens’ needs in healthy ways, offering advice for parents and grandparents. He also provides guidance for those whose teens are already involved with substances, including when to seek professional help. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org for more resources and advice from Mark as you raise your teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston answers listener-submitted questions from parents navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. From technology use and teen relationships to anxiety and personal expressions like dressing as a 'furry,' Mark offers thoughtful, biblically grounded advice. He also discusses how to maintain strong relationships with your children and the importance of staying engaged in their lives, while emphasizing that good parenting is rooted in fostering solid relationships, no matter how tough things get. Tune in now for practical insights on staying 'in the game' with your teen! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the challenges of parent-teen disconnection and the importance of restoring relationships. They discuss how negativity, lack of quality time and excessive phone use contribute to disengagement. By setting boundaries, creating a positive home environment and actively listening, parents can rebuild trust. For more advice from Mark and to see all the resources he offers to support you as you parent your teen, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/ Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark as he shares his journey of founding Heartlight after unexpected job losses left him feeling lost. Through reflection, he recognized personal shortcomings that shaped him into a more authentic leader. He challenges parents to confront their own struggles rather than just focusing on their child’s behavior. Mark emphasizes that hardships, though painful, can lead to growth, authenticity and deeper connections. See if Mark's ministry, Heartlight, can help you and your struggling teen by visiting heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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An unfortunate reality is that many teens today turn to harmful behaviors as coping mechanisms for their deeper struggles. So, it's more important than ever that parents support their teens when they're walking through a tough time. Today, Mark sits down with two more teens from Heartlight who share their stories of hardship and growth, addressing challenges such as family dynamics, addiction and self-acceptance. Kate, adopted from Russia, opens up about her early struggles with self-harm and how meaningful conversations with her parents at Heartlight marked a turning point. Could Heartlight be the answer for your teen? Go to heartlightministries.org to learn more! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Does your teen get time to truly rest over spring break? Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd emphasize that rest is not laziness, and kids need time to refresh and reset from their busy routines. They encourage parents to be intentional about how they spend this time, focusing on connection, open conversations and understanding their teen’s needs rather than simply filling the schedule. Ultimately, spring break can be an opportunity to strengthen relationships and create a more restful, supportive environment for teens. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org for more resources from Mark to support you as you raise your teens! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston dives into real questions from parents and grandparents just like you. From dating non-believers and navigating church changes to setting tech boundaries and discussing sexual identity, Mark offers practical wisdom to strengthen your bond with your teens. Tune in for honest advice and hope-filled guidance to help you thrive through every season of parenting! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the role of pain as a powerful motivator in a teen's development. They emphasize the importance of allowing young people to experience natural consequences rather than rescuing them from every hardship. Through personal stories and real-life examples, they highlight how overprotection can hinder growth, while strategic parental guidance can foster responsibility. They also explore the balance between allowing beneficial struggles and stepping in to prevent lasting harm, ultimately helping teens build resilience and purpose. Want Mark's advice for your own family? Visit https://markgregston.com/ to ask him a question! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston as he reflects on how his generation’s tendency to avoid conflict led to broken relationships and a generation of children who fear abandonment. He emphasizes that true peace is not the absence of struggle but the presence of hope, encouraging parents to face challenges head-on. Through personal experiences with grieving families and troubled teens, he reassures parents that they can endure difficulties, trusting that God will walk with them. He urges parents to trust in God's plan, even when change seems impossible. Join Mark and his team for a weekend at Heartlight Ministries designed to help you on your parenting journey. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Typically, change in a family doesn't happen overnight — it takes humility and a willingness on everyone's part to learn how to do things differently. Today, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who have both been on the show before and are nearly ready to graduate. Eli shares why he used to struggle with defiance, and how his time at Heartlight has helped him develop a deeper understanding and improved communication with his parents, especially in the wake of their divorce. Tune in now! For more information about Heartlight, go to heartlightministries.org today. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explain why authoritarian parenting no longer works, as kids today are more skeptical of authority. Instead of demanding obedience, parents should build relationships, avoid perfectionism and be less judgmental. To parent effectively, you need to create open lines of communication while addressing issues with love and genuine concern. A supportive environment — one that still maintains boundaries — will help guide children down a healthy path. Join Mark and his team for a weekend at Heartlight Ministries designed to help you on your parenting journey. To learn more and register please visit familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston discusses a variety of difficult scenarios that parents like you are navigating with their teens. From adoption-related challenges and teenage substance use to complex family dynamics in blended families, Mark offers profound insights and guidance. No matter the challenge, one truth remains: Teens are wired for connection, belonging and a strong sense of identity. Tune in for insights that will equip you to meet your teen’s deepest needs with understanding and grace! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the valuable role grandparents play in their grandchildren’s lives. They emphasize that involvement is a choice that offers a unique opportunity for connection, highlighting how grandparents can provide perspective and share wisdom that benefits younger generations. Tune in for practical advice on how grandparents can actively engage with and support their grandkids in meaningful ways! Join Mark and his team for a weekend at Heartlight Ministries designed to help you on your parenting journey. Visit familycrisisretreat.com to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark offers a heartfelt message inspired by 1 John 3:8, urging parents to prioritize actions over words when raising their children. He emphasizes that teaching through example is far more impactful than simply giving instructions. Parents should focus on encouraging their teens rather than being overly critical, as constant criticism can be misinterpreted. Mark reminds us that every interaction with our teens reflects our feelings toward them — that's why it's so important to foster positive connections. Do you have a parenting question you’d like to ask Mark? Please visit markgregston.com today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Navigating trauma or family conflicts can often lead to teens shutting people out due to overwhelming emotions. Being isolated may seem "safer" to them, but it's a lonely place to be. In today's show, Mark sits down with two young men from Heartlight who reflect on why they kept people at arm's length. For Asa, everything started with a tragic incident in his childhood. He reveals how his stay at Heartlight helped him mend broken relationships, reignite his faith, and find a renewed sense of purpose and love for his family. Is Heartlight the right choice for your struggling teen? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd share insights from Mark's decades of experience working with thousands of teens. Surprisingly, Mark has encountered only a handful of truly rebellious teens — which might be the case for your child, too. This conversation explores the key difference between a teen who is lost and one who is rebellious, and why understanding this distinction can transform your parenting approach. Join Mark at his Families in Crisis Conference on the Heartlight Ministries campus. Learn more and register at familycrisisretreat.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this Q&A episode, Mark Gregston tackles common parenting dilemmas, offering valuable insights and strategies for dealing with teens who don't respond to consequences, monitoring cell phone usage and fostering open communication. Mark emphasizes the importance of understanding the motivations behind a teen's behavior and adjusting parenting approaches accordingly. Whether it's grappling with vape discoveries or learning to stay calm when buttons are pushed, this episode is packed with practical advice to strengthen parent-teen relationships. Tune in for an engaging discussion aimed at equipping parents with the wisdom and tools needed in today's complex parenting landscape! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of being intentional in your parenting — as you prepare your child for the future, while staying true to your values and convictions. Mark highlights how parents can unintentionally compromise their beliefs and offers guidance on choosing compassion and understanding. Together, Mark and Wayne remind us that, as children of the King, we have His wisdom to share with the next generation. Is your teen struggling? See if Heartlight Ministries can help your family by visiting heartlightministries.org to learn more about our residential ministry for teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston as he answers a listener’s question on entitlement and teens. Mark explains why entitlement is an issue every family with teens will face and explores why today’s teens may feel more entitled than ever. Drawing from Luke 15, listen as he offers practical, actionable advice that parents can start using today to help navigate this common parenting challenge. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore more resources from Mark designed to support you as you raise your teens! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Many teens feel the pressure to look like they "have it all together" — but secretly, they're struggling with self-doubt and worry about what others think. But as we hear in today's show, those struggles and imperfections can also lead to connection. Mark chats with two more teens from Heartlight, including Harrison, who opens up about his battle with self-doubt and the path he took to overcome substance use and rebuild trust within his family. Check it out! Want to learn more about the Heartlight program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they discuss how today’s teens are overwhelmed by information and struggle to distinguish it from true wisdom. Mark encourages parents to recognize the value of their own wisdom and offers tips on presenting it in an engaging, relatable way that teens can connect with. To see if Heartlight Ministries can help your struggling teen, visit heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s Q&A episode, Mark Gregston tackles tough parenting questions, from a senior son disengaging from school and parental disagreements over substance use to post-divorce relationships and a child rejecting family values. He provides wisdom on respecting your teen's journey to adulthood, tackling tough relationship dynamics and understanding the importance of purpose and security for your kid. Whether it's encouraging your child to face their own consequences or embracing open dialogue about identity, Mark's insights offer guidance for fostering stronger connections and supporting your teen's personal growth. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of addressing the root causes of conflict with your teen, rather than just focusing on their behavior. They share examples of losses teens may face that cause them to act out, and offer advice on how to help them overcome these challenges. Mark emphasizes that helping your teen process their loss is more important than trying to change their behavior. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of Mark's resources he designed to support you as you raise your teens! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston as he reflects on Matthew 11:28 and explores the importance of rest in creating a peaceful home for your teen. He shares how strategies that worked during the pre-teen years may no longer be effective, and reveals the key elements you need to connect with your teenager. Mark challenges parents to create a safe space at home where their teen can find relief from the pressures of the outside world. For Mark's special devotional for families, go to dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It can be difficult to admit when you need help — at any age. As we hear in this episode, lots of teens at Heartlight struggle at first with accepting the support and tools that the program offers. Today, Mark chats with two young ladies who've walked through trauma and struggles with their mental health, but are learning the importance of self-care and seeking support. Meredith recounts her difficult journey through depression, substance use and coping with the loss of a parent. Her story offers hope and encouragement for families facing similar challenges — check it out! To learn more about the Heartlight program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd share practical tips for parents looking to strengthen their connection with their teen. They emphasize flexibility, age-appropriate approaches and the importance of seeking God first. This episode also highlights the value of open communication and understanding during the teen years. Tune in for actionable advice to build a deeper bond with your teen today! Visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore all of the resources available. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston dives deep into some of the most pressing questions sent in by listeners. From dealing with the complexities of college decisions and living arrangements to managing behavioral issues and entitlement, Mark offers practical advice and strategies grounded in core beliefs and values. He discusses how drawing a line in the sand, facing entitlement and allowing natural consequences can guide your teen to maturity. Whether you're dealing with a college-bound daughter testing her independence or a young son struggling with technology boundaries, this episode provides valuable advice for navigating the ups and downs of parenting adolescents. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the impact of yelling at your teen and what it reveals about you as a parent. They highlight Proverbs 15:1 and the importance of listening to your teen’s heart to strengthen your relationship. Mark and Wayne also share strategies for using conflict as an opportunity for positive change and offer practical tips for handling conversations more effectively. Is your teen struggling? Mark has resources to help! Check out the teen struggle bundle here: parentingtodaysteens.org/product/teen-struggle-bundle/ Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston uses 1 John 3:18 to encourage parents to do the right thing in their relationships. Sharing a personal story, he discusses how unresolved anger can affect those around us and emphasizes the importance of making things right. Mark also offers practical steps to help restore and strengthen family bonds. Tune in to learn how you can be the key to deepening and redeeming your relationships. Get Mark's daily devotional for families at dailyhopeforfamilies.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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So many of today's teens experience depression and feelings of hopelessness — the voice of their inner critic can be a hard one to silence. In today's negative culture, it's more important than ever to support them! In this episode, Mark sits down with two teens from Heartlight, including Matt, who has struggled with his mental health. He opens up about the heated arguments and misunderstandings that led him to Heartlight, the shifts in his family dynamics and his newfound perspective on relationships. For more info on the Heartlight program, head to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd offer encouragement to parents of adopted children. Adoption is a beautiful gift to be celebrated! They reassure parents that seasons of disconnect are temporary — love will prevail. With patience, trust and God’s guidance, parents can navigate their child’s questions and challenges, knowing He placed them in their family for a purpose. Is your teen struggling? See if Heartlight Ministries can help: https://heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses a variety of pressing concerns that parents face, from managing inappropriate group texting in young children to navigating complex family dynamics involving domestic violence, mental health issues and sexual orientation. Mark provides thoughtful, practical advice on establishing rules and consequences while maintaining open, rewarding relationships with teens. He emphasizes the importance of understanding, respect, and structured support in helping teens thrive, making this episode an invaluable resource for parents striving to build stronger, healthier connections with their children — listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd warn parents not to become disconnected in the midst of life’s pressures and to not drift away from their teens, even though teens still deeply desire time with their parents. Mark encourages parents to stay committed and present, guiding their kids as God guides us, regardless of family conflicts. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the heart of your teen and gives practical tips for strengthening your relationship. Looking for additional parenting resources? We've got you covered. Visit parentingtodaysteens.org/ Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston delivers a special message for grandparents, drawing wisdom from Hebrews 10:34. Sharing insights from his own experiences, Mark discusses how to embrace the unique role of a grandparent without stepping into the role of a second parent. He also shares his 'Rules of the Road' for grandparenting, offering practical advice to help grandparents thrive in their important role within the family. For more, check out Mark's book, Grandparenting Teens: Leaving a Legacy of Hope at bit.ly/ptt-leaving-a-legacy Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Self-medicating seems increasingly common in today's teenagers — but experimenting with drugs as an "escape" can quickly turn into a dependency on them. In today's show, Mark chats with two teens from Heartlight who reflect on their early exposure to drugs and alcohol, and how they quickly fell into a downward spiral. Seventeen-year-old Gabe opens up about his battles with substance abuse, legal troubles and the strained family relationships that landed him at Heartlight. Listen in! Want to find out more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of balancing parenting by finding opportunities to say "yes" instead of always saying "no." Overprotective parenting, though well-intended, can lead to rebellion, making it crucial to give children space to grow. Parents should focus on guiding and supporting their teens rather than controlling them, helping them navigate life's challenges with wisdom. To ask Mark a question about raising your teen, please visit markgregston.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses concerns ranging from dealing with a son's troubling response to a friend's suicide to managing an adopted daughter's rebellious attitude and setting boundaries for a tech-obsessed teen. Tune in as Mark provides not just practical advice, but also emphasizes the importance of building relationships, developing structure and ensuring the mental health of your teen through counseling. Whether you're dealing with a teen's risky behavior or struggling to maintain a healthy home environment, this episode offers valuable advice and heartfelt encouragement for parents facing tough situations. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how to navigate changes in the family home. They highlight that change is tough but possible, urging parents not to expect perfection. Mark offers practical steps for preparing your family, stressing the importance of including children in the conversation and planning process. By fostering open communication and teamwork, families can make transitions smoother and more successful. To explore more resources from Mark or to ask him a question you’d like his advice on, please visit: parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark examines James 1:9 and unveils what he considers one of the Bible’s most powerful parenting tips. He encourages parents to incorporate this scripture into daily life with teens and offers one key insight that could transform your relationship. Mark also provides practical, actionable tips to help you develop and apply this skill, creating stronger, more impactful connections with your child. Mark wrote a devotional specifically for families to spend time together leaning into the hope we have in Jesus! Buy it for your family today: dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit http://parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When trust and respect are broken between parents and teens, it can take time to heal the rift. Everyone has to be willing to put in the work! In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight who've faced tremendous challenges, from substance abuse and self-worth struggles to family disconnects and searching for acceptance. Together, their stories offer valuable insights into building stronger relationships with teens, and the power of listening, understanding and creating boundaries. Listen in now! For more information on the Heartlight residential program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd respond to a listener's letter, discussing the challenges teens face today regarding sexual activity and pregnancy. They share insights and suggest guidelines on when — and how — to have age-appropriate conversations, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and consequences without shame. With practical advice, they encourage parents to engage openly and effectively with their teens on this vital topic. Is your teen struggling? See if Heartlight Ministries can help by visiting heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this insightful Q&A episode, Mark Gregston addresses some of the most pressing and complex parenting challenges sent in by listeners. From recognizing and addressing the warning signs of eating disorders and potential sexual abuse in teenagers to knowing when and how to effectively intervene, Mark offers practical wisdom and compassionate guidance. He reminds parents that while exploring the deeper, darker areas of our teen's life may be uncomfortable, it is crucial. Tune in for guidance on how to foster healthy, supportive and authentic relationships with your teens. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they unpack characteristics of a healthy argument and offer valuable insights on navigating conflict in relationships. While conflict is inevitable, they remind us how we approach it makes all the difference. The key is keeping the relationship at the heart of the conversation, ensuring that resolving the issue doesn’t come at the cost of connection. Mark also urges parents to lead by example, helping teens understand that conflicts aren’t about winning or losing, but about growing together. For more episodes, courses and articles from Mark Gregston, be sure to visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston offers a heartfelt devotional inspired by John 15:12, sharing personal stories that have deeply impacted his life. Through this scripture and his experiences, he reminds us that our most important mission projects might not require traveling far — they could be in our own backyard or even within our own families. Mark encourages listeners to open their hearts and look for the opportunities to support and uplift those around them as he shares practical ways to make a meaningful difference in the lives of others. Do you have a parenting question you'd like to ask Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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For teens who are having a tough time at home, drugs can seem like a welcome escape from their problems. But that escape often spirals into dependency, and before they know it, they end up feeling totally lost. In today's show, Mark chats with two teens who started using drugs at a very young age. Drew opens up about how peer pressure and family turmoil pushed him towards substance abuse, beginning as early as seventh grade. He shares candidly about arguments with his parents and the turning points that led to his time at Heartlight. Tune in! Interested in learning more about the Heartlight program? Visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Have you ever wondered why teens may experiment or self-medicate? In today's episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how parents can address their teen's potential marijuana use with wisdom rather than just facts. They offer practical advice for fostering open communication and creating a supportive home environment, encouraging parents to trust that God has equipped them with the wisdom they need to navigate these challenges. Join Mark in Texas for a weekend designed specifically for parents of adopted teens. Learn more and register at parentingtodaysteens.org/adoption. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s Q&A episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing concerns parents have sent in regarding their teens. From dealing with lying and teaching integrity to handling sibling rivalries and getting reclusive kids to engage, Mark provides practical advice and wisdom. He also dives into sensitive topics such as accommodating a transgender child's new identity, guiding teens through feelings of inadequacy and exclusion, and helping anxious kids feel safe in a world full of fears. Join us as Mark offers his expert insights to help you build stronger, more authentic connections with your teen. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how loss and anger affect teens, with boys and girls responding differently. They explore how past grief can resurface later in life and how parents can guide their teens through these emotions by showing them how God helps us cope. Mark and Wayne remind us that supporting our teens during these challenging times strengthens our relationship with them. Join Mark and friends for a weekend specifically designed for parents of adopted teens. Learn more and register today at parentingtodaysteens.org/adoption. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston offers valuable insights on navigating the complex world of social media and its impact on today's teens. He explores how the constant stream of online content fuels comparison and self-doubt among teenagers and shares nine practical strategies for parents to help their kids process the overwhelming influence of social media. Tune in for more on fostering healthy conversations and building resilience in the face of unrealistic online portrayals. For a FREE online course on staying engaged with your teen, visit bit.ly/stay-engaged-course. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every teen responds to divorce differently, but that kind of family turmoil can leave emotional scars and a desperate search for stability. In today's episode, Mark chats with two young ladies who both have parents who've divorced, and they reflect on how a divided household impacted their decisions. For Lily, it meant she turned to a party-driven lifestyle — but at Heartlight, she's finding strength, self-worth and a supportive community. Tune in now! Want to learn more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they explore the crucial topic of bullying in today’s world. They examine the various forms bullying can take —both in person and online — and how the digital age has transformed the way teens experience it and cope. Mark and Wayne offer practical advice on recognizing the signs of bullying, understanding how it affects your teenager and providing real solutions to these challenges. For more resources on helping your teen navigate the web and social media, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/tag/internet-social-media-tech Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston shares essential strategies for building positive parent-teen relationships amidst modern challenges. He addresses tough issues like destructive behavior, social media’s impact, and pornography, offering actionable advice on setting boundaries and fostering open communication. Whether you're navigating difficult behavior or seeking deeper connection, this episode is a must-listen! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the challenge of dealing with selfishness in teens. While it’s natural for teenagers to be self-focused, it’s equally natural for parents to feel frustrated. Mark offers fresh insights on how to approach your teen’s selfish behavior with patience and understanding, drawing from the story of the Prodigal Son. He encourages parents to look beyond the surface and consider what deeper emotional needs might be driving the apathy. Join Mark at Heartlight Ministies for a weekend specifically designed for parents of adopted teens. Learn more at parentingtodaysteens.org/adoption Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark shares a heartfelt devotional inspired by Proverbs 3:21-24, offering four key insights that can transform your approach to parenting. He emphasizes how a child’s behavior often reflects deeper, unseen struggles and encourages parents to look beyond surface actions to understand the root causes. Mark discusses how to cultivate a compassionate perspective, seeing with the eyes of your heart, and how to apply this wisdom in navigating the complex challenges of raising teens. Have a question for Mark? Visit markgregston.com to ask him! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Having an angry teen in your home can be a constant source of chaos and strife — but parents have to remember that anger always has a deeper root. As we hear in today's show, those teens also need to realize that rage-filled outbursts won't get them where they want to go. Mark and Courtney chat with two teens who've struggled with anger, including Sebastian, who opens up about his struggles with destructive tendencies and how he's discovering healthier coping mechanisms. Check it out! Could Heartlight be the answer for your struggling teen? Learn more at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the importance of truly connecting with your teen. They explore why teens may lose their way and outline three key steps parents can take to guide them back on track. Mark highlights the value of intentional parenting as your child’s needs change and reminds parents that what teens desire most is a strong, authentic relationship — something only you can offer. Join Mark at Heartlight Ministries for a weekend designed specifically for parents of struggling adopted teens. Learn more at parentingtodaysteens.org/adoption Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston shares thoughtful advice and practical wisdom as he discusses a variety of listener questions. From adjusting parenting styles and supporting college-aged children to navigating grandparent relationships and guiding teens through divorce, Mark provides empathetic insights on these common challenges. He also dives into strategies for managing kids' obsessions with popular culture and fostering open communication, even with busy schedules. Whether you're navigating a new phase with your teen or looking for ways to enhance your parenting approach, this episode offers clarity and encouragement for every parent's journey — tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd share heartfelt excerpts from parents navigating the challenges of raising teens. These real-life accounts shed light on the emotional struggles families face daily. Mark and Wayne provide five practical steps you can implement immediately to improve the tone of your home and build stronger connections with your teen. Plus, they offer three additional actionable tips to create positive, lasting changes in your family dynamics. Whether you're looking for hope or guidance, this episode delivers both in a relatable and encouraging way. Looking for a devotional to inspire your family in 2025? Mark’s Daily Hope for Families is filled with insights designed just for you. Get your copy at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston reflects on Proverbs 4:7 and shares a personal story about how a simple statement from his 5-year-old granddaughter shifted his perspective on a situation. This moment led him to realize just how vital perspective is for parents, especially when raising teens. Mark encourages us to stay focused on what truly matters in today’s world and to actively engage in understanding our teens' lives, helping them navigate their challenges while leading with wisdom and empathy Is your teen struggling? Mark's book bundle can help! Visit parentingtodaysteens.org/product/teen-struggle-bundle to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Our culture moves so fast, and teens experience a lot of pressure. They see people who seem to "have it all figured out" — and it can lead to feeling purposeless. In today's show, Mark sits down with two teens from Heartlight, including Peter, who shares how the structure of the boarding school has been beneficial. He discusses his turbulent relationship with his parents, dealing with the fallout from their divorce, and how he grappled with depression and a lack of direction. Tune in now! Interested in learning more about Heartlight? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they share practical advice on effective discipline while fostering a strong parent-child relationship. They emphasize the importance of setting clear expectations, maintaining open communication and collaborating with your teen. Learn how to avoid disciplining out of anger and instead adopt a connection-based approach that builds trust and mutual respect. Do you have an adopted teen who’s struggling? Join us in Texas for a special weekend designed specifically for parents of adopted teens: parentingtodaysteens.org/adoption Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses listener-submitted questions on how to foster deeper communication with teens who struggle to open up. He explores why kids often remain silent — whether it’s feeling that their words don’t matter or not having the right words to express their emotions. Mark offers actionable advice on recognizing parental influence, navigating family dynamics, and responding with love and understanding. From connecting with non-communicative teens to managing the impact of a young fiancé on parenting, this episode provides practical wisdom to help strengthen your relationship with your teen. Tune in now for expert insights! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd offer heartfelt advice and encouragement for single parents. Acknowledging the strength and resilience it takes to parent alone, they share practical tips and emotional support to help you navigate this journey. They emphasize the importance of leaning on family, friends and mentors, and highlight the value of building a supportive community. Their uplifting message is clear: You are not alone. Is your adopted teen struggling? Join us for an event designed specifically for parents of adopted teens: parentingtodaysteens.org/adoption. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Happy New Year! In today’s episode, Mark Gregston shares a personal devotion, using scripture to inspire families as they prepare for the new year. He encourages reflection on the past to recognize obstacles and a forward-looking vision to identify what you truly want. Through thought-provoking questions and practical suggestions, Mark offers ideas to help you start conversations that could lead to transformative change within your family. Check it out! For Mark's newest daily devotional, visit dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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For a lot of teens, it's easier to express anger than it is to show others that they're sad, lonely or feeling lost. But anger always has a root. In this episode, Mark sits down with two more Heartlight teens, including a young lady who opens up about the challenges she's faced, from discovering her birth mother's lifelong prison sentence to battling depression and rage. She shares how Heartlight has helped her transform her life, work through trauma and begin to mend relationships. Tune in now! Interested in learning more about the Heartlight program? Visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark and Wayne delve into the tough truth that even the best parenting efforts don’t always lead to the results you hope for. They highlight the importance of staying adaptable and evolving as a parent, reassuring listeners that struggles don’t diminish the value of their efforts. They also challenge parents to avoid getting too comfortable in their approach, encouraging them to adjust as their children grow and their needs change. Would you like to partner with Mark to keep his podcast on the air? Support Parenting Today’s Teens by giving at parentingtodaysteens.org/eoy. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston answers your most pressing questions, tackling real-life dilemmas faced by parents just like you. From handling a disrespectful 19-year-old still living at home, to guiding a 16-year-old struggling with loneliness and over-reliance on video games, Mark offers practical advice grounded in his decades of experience. You'll also hear insights on managing a 20-year-old potentially involved in drug activity, navigating the complex emotions surrounding a grandchild's gender transition, and finding common ground in parenting styles between more authoritarian and lenient approaches. Tune in for wisdom, support and actionable solutions to help you navigate the journey of parenting today’s teens. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the impact of a world driven by appearances and superficiality on today’s teens. They discuss how kids crave genuine connections, yet often struggle to find them in a society full of facades. Mark and Wayne challenge parents to open up about their own struggles and hopes, rather than presenting a perfect, unrelatable image. Tune in now for practical advice on how to build a deeper, more genuine relationship with your teen! To see our full collection of parenting resources, check out our online store. Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/shop today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Merry Christmas! In today’s episode, Mark Gregston shares a personal devotion, using scripture to inspire families as they prepare for the new year. He encourages reflection on the past to recognize obstacles and a forward-looking vision to identify what you truly want. Through thought-provoking questions and practical suggestions, Mark offers ideas to help you start conversations that could lead to transformative change within your family. Check it out! For Mark's newest daily devotional, visit dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every teen's journey at Heartlight looks different — and everyone learns, heals and grows at their own pace. In today's show, Mark talks with two young men in the program, including Jack, who's been at Heartlight for 16 months. He reflects on his time there, and shares how he was initially skeptical, but gradually shed these misconceptions. Eventually, he arrived at a place of growth and gratitude, realizing that his parents' actions were driven by care and responsibility rather than a desire to send him away. Don't miss these great interviews! For more on the Heartlight program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the critical issue of teen drug use, offering insights on why some teens turn to substances and reminding parents that no one is immune to this challenge. They highlight key signs to watch for and emphasize the importance of NOT assuming it could never happen to your child. With compassion and practical advice, they guide parents on how to respond effectively if they discover their teen is using drugs, providing steps for both prevention and intervention. If your teen is struggling, we invite you to learn more about Heartlight Ministries by visiting heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston dives into some of the most pressing questions sent in by listeners. He discusses the pitfalls of performance-based relationships and how conditional love can hinder your teen's growth. He also explores the importance of encouraging independence by letting teens face natural consequences while providing support when needed. From common concerns like curfews and phone use to your child's transition to college life, fostering a respectful and understanding relationship is key. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore why teaching teens to navigate struggles effectively is essential. While it’s natural for parents to want to shield their kids from hardship, they explain how facing challenges builds resilience and character. With practical advice, they share the do’s and don’ts of guiding teens through tough times, encouraging parents to model healthy responses to adversity and trust that God’s presence will shine through even the hardest moments. If your teen is using self-harm to cope, be sure to read Mark's article on the subject here: bit.ly/self-harming-help. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this heartfelt episode, Mark Gregston opens up about the near tragedies he faced this year and the renewed gratitude they inspired in his life. Through these challenges, Mark discovered unexpected blessings that make Christmas feel especially meaningful. He invites us all to pause during this holiday season and reflect on the hidden gifts in our own lives, even amid difficult circumstances. Give your family the gift of daily hope! Check out Mark's devotional, Daily Hope for Families, at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Trauma experienced in childhood has the potential to impact an individual's entire life — which is why it's so crucial to support a teen who's facing a painful past. In today's show, Mark talks with two teens from Heartlight, including one of our youngest residents, who opens up about his tumultuous childhood. It was marked by intense anger and traumatic events, including the murder of his biological mother. Despite it all, he's learning to communicate better and manage his emotions through music and counseling. Tune in now! For more info on the Heartlight residential program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the essential skills every parent needs to raise resilient teens. They discuss setting clear, non-negotiable household rules, giving teens the space to learn from their mistakes, and maintaining flexibility in your parenting approach. Mark and Wayne also highlight the power of unconditional love and open communication, sharing practical tips you can use today to create a supportive and nurturing home environment for your teen. To learn more about Heartlight, Mark's residential counseling ministry for teens, visit heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston addresses real-life parenting dilemmas, including managing phone restrictions and substance use. He also discusses confronting identity issues shaped by societal norms and supporting kids through the highs and lows of high school relationships. With practical advice on setting boundaries, transitioning from teaching to training, and supporting teens through bullying and ADHD-related challenges, Mark provides thoughtful guidance to help parents lead with confidence. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore how parents can respond thoughtfully when teens push against their values, reframing these moments as opportunities for growth. They share practical steps for building strong relationships, approaching challenges with hope and trusting God’s guidance. With reassurance that truth will prevail, Mark also answers a listener’s question, offering real-world examples of navigating these pivotal moments with care. Learn more about Heartlight Ministries at heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston shares why consistent, one-on-one time with your teen is crucial. These moments foster trust, improve communication and create a safe space for them to open up. Mark offers practical strategies, "rules of engagement" and four key insights to help you make the most of this time — free from opinions, criticism or unsolicited advice. Learn how to build a stronger, more meaningful relationship with your teen. For more, check out Mark's family devotional bundle at parentingtodaysteens.org/product/family-devotional-bundle Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It's hard to ask for help at any age. Sometimes, it seems easier to just put on a brave face and keep others at arm's length — but as the teens in today's episode share, that only hurts more in the long run. Today, Mark and Courtney talk with two young ladies at Heartlight who reflect on their family conflicts and struggles with substance use. Ryan opens up about the pain of unresolved trauma and the facade of perfection she maintained. Her journey shows the courage it takes to confront one's vulnerabilities and find a healthier, more authentic self. Tune in! To learn more about the Heartlight residential program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why helping kids develop independence is essential — and how doing too much for them can backfire. When parents constantly step in, it can foster a self-centered mindset, where kids expect others to handle everything for them. Mark and Wayne explore how well-meaning provision can unintentionally become enabling, stifling growth and resilience. Through relatable examples, they offer practical strategies to empower your children, encourage their independence and guide them toward self-sufficiency. Looking for inspiration for your family? Check out Mark’s heartfelt devotional, Daily Hope for Families, at dailyhopeforfamilies.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston discusses some of the most pressing questions from parents just like you. He dives into a range of topics, including how to handle a 17-year-old son with high-functioning autism and ADHD who is struggling with alcohol use, understanding when it’s time to involve psychiatry for a child displaying disruptive behavior and strategies to support a depressed teen who refuses counseling. Mark also discusses ways to help a 25-year-old daughter dealing with severe depression and provides advice for a single mom whose son's behavior changed dramatically after a painful rejection from his father. Tune in as he explores these complex and heartfelt questions, offering wisdom, actionable strategies and the reassurance that you’re not alone on this parenting journey! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the pitfalls of expecting perfection from teens. They discuss how holding teens to impossible standards can damage their mental and emotional health, and offer practical strategies for parents to foster a healthy, grace-filled environment. Discover how to celebrate progress over perfection and nurture a thriving relationship with your teen — tune in now! To purchase Mark’s devotional for families, visit https://dailyhopeforfamilies.com/ Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark explores how strong relationships are key to effective parenting. He shares how modeling God’s love provides teens with guidance and highlights the importance of connection and trust. Speaking to parents and grandparents, Mark discusses their distinct but vital roles and the risks of neglecting relational bonds during formative years. For more advice from Mark on strengthening your relationship with your teen, ask him a question at markgregston.com. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When you grow up with trauma or in a home full of conflict, that sense of chaos and turbulence can begin to feel like the norm. Before developing healthier coping skills, some teens will seek out chaos in order to deal with their struggles. In today's show, Mark sits down with two teens who reflect on why they came to Heartlight. Parker shares his struggle with drug use, dropping out of high school and confronting traumatic experiences, revealing how he tried to present a perfect image while dealing with deep-seated insecurities. Don't miss this one! Is Heartlight right for your struggling teen? Find out more at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into practical ways to cultivate leadership skills in teenagers. Mark outlines five key strategies to help teens grow through responsibility and maturity, offering age-appropriate ways to empower them. The conversation highlights the essential traits of a true teen leader and they respond to a heartfelt listener letter, sharing actionable advice for a mom looking to guide her teen in becoming a leader. To learn more about Heartlight Ministries, visit heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing questions from parents facing real-life challenges with their teens. From encouraging a 17-year-old to explore the Bible and addressing concerns over a young adult daughter's sexual activity, to overcoming communication barriers with college students, handling immaturity in twins and respecting stepchildren’s choices — Mark offers compassionate, faith-based guidance. Drawing on personal stories and a deep trust in God’s faithfulness, he provides practical advice for nurturing relationships and guiding teens through their turbulent years. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the real challenges of raising teens while sharing a powerful reminder: Gratitude can make all the difference. During tough times, they emphasize the importance of leaning on God, trusting in His guidance to see you through to brighter days. They encourage parents to find something they genuinely appreciate about their teen and express it. This small act of gratitude can help bridge the gap, bringing you closer to your teen and offering support until you’re through the trial. If your teen is struggling, be sure to check out the Teen Struggle Bundle at parentingtodaysteens.org/product/teen-struggle-bundle Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston reflects on 1 Thessalonians 5:18, exploring the transformative power of thankfulness in everyday life. He delves into the essential connections we share with family and friends and reveals how our expectations can sometimes prevent us from fully experiencing each moment. Mark reminds us that it’s okay not to have all the answers — embracing the mystery can deepen our appreciation for life’s beauty. Ultimately, he shows how contentment fosters a heart of gratitude, helping us live with greater fulfillment and thankfulness. Read more about living a fulfilling life and leaving a lasting legacy in Mark's article, The Importance of Living Your Life With Impact and Significance, at parentingtodaysteens.org/articles/devo-2. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit http://parentingtodayteens.org/. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Some teens act impulsively because they're seeking adventure — for others, it's a cry for help. In today's show, Mark and Courtney sit down with two teens from Heartlight who engaged in self-destructive behaviors because they weren't sure how to deal with the pain they were feeling. One teen, Katie, opens up about how her parents' divorce at a young age set off a chain of reckless behaviors and substance abuse, ultimately leading her to Heartlight where she found self-worth and motivation to turn her life around. Tune in now! To learn more about the Heartlight program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the growing trend of self-medication among teens, often fueled by anxiety and depression. While many may think of self-medication as substance use, it can also involve other unhealthy coping behaviors. Mark and Wayne explain the reasons behind these choices and how you, as a parent, can offer support and guidance. They also share practical, hands-on advice you can start using today to help your teen find healthier ways to manage their emotions. Be sure to tune in! To learn more about Mark’s ministry for struggling teens, visit heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this insightful Q&A episode, Mark Gregston addresses some of the most pressing concerns parents have about their teens on the cusp of adulthood. Covering a range of topics from managing disrespect and aggression to dealing with major depressive disorder and lack of motivation, Mark provides thoughtful advice and actionable steps for parents. Whether your child is struggling with independence, battling anxiety or simply lacking direction, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom to help you guide them towards a successful adulthood. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepard speak directly to parents about the essential role they play in guiding their children through today’s challenging cultural landscape, especially regarding online content. With easy access to the internet, it's more important than ever for parents to proactively support and engage with their children. The conversation emphasizes teaching redemption, forgiveness, and healthy perspectives, while sharing practical advice for fostering open, honest and ongoing conversations with teens. If your teen is struggling, see if Mark’s ministry, Heartlight Ministries, can help by visiting heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston delves into how parents, even with the best intentions, can unintentionally place unrealistic expectations on their children, often leading to misunderstandings and frustration. Mark emphasizes that while striving for greatness is valuable, expecting perfection can create lasting harm for both parents and teens. Mark also reminds us of the gentle invitation from Matthew 11:28-30, where Jesus offers rest and relief from the burdens of perfectionism. You don't want to miss this! For more on understanding your teen’s heart and insights for how you can lead them through their unique challenges, check out Daily Hope For Families at parentingtodaysteens.org/product/daily-hope-for-families. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens struggling with depression may find it very hard to keep up with the pressures of life — they feel weighed down, and they're not sure how to talk about it. In today's show, Mark talks with two teens who both struggled with depression and suicidality. Ian, Heartlight’s first resident from Vermont, opens up about his struggle with anxiety and substance abuse. We hear how he found hope and purpose at Heartlight, and is now looking forward to a bright future, including attending college. Tune in now! To learn more about the Heartlight program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Parenting teens often means pushing past our comfort zones to tackle tough moments with wisdom and resilience. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into why stepping outside of your parenting comfort zone is not just necessary ... but transformative. They discuss practical ways to meet your teen where they are, helping them navigate struggles that build maturity and resilience. Alongside listener letters, Mark and Wayne offer real-life advice to help you make meaningful connections, support your teen’s growth and prepare them for adulthood. As Mark shared today, visit parentingtodaysteens.org to explore a full range of resources for parents of teens. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston reviews a variety of listener questions, tackling tough issues from teen anger and addictions to grief and the challenges of blended families. Mark shares powerful insights on fostering genuine connections, setting intentional boundaries and preparing our kids for real-world success. Tune in to learn the importance of allowing children to learn from natural consequences, adjusting parenting strategies as teens mature, and maintaining a balance between discipline and empathy. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the vital role grandparents play in a teenager's life. As teens face challenges, grandparents can offer wisdom and a safe space, providing a broader perspective. While it’s essential not to undermine parents, your support can strengthen family bonds and deepen your relationship with your grandkids. Join us to learn how to be a comforting and empowering presence in their lives. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark reflects on Joel 1:3 and encourages parents to consider the legacy they leave behind. He asks, "What stories will your children share about you?" Mark distinguishes between wisdom and information in parenting teens, warning against shame-based comments that can harm relationships. As teens seek answers, Mark reminds us of the importance of parents sharing personal experiences and biblical insights, highlighting their vital role in connecting scripture to their teens' lives today. For Mark's devotional for families, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/product/daily-hope-for-families Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It can be tough at ANY age to confront the "why" behind your behaviors. But as these teens show us in today's episode, being honest with yourself about what you're going through can lead to big changes. Mark and Courtney talk with two teens, including Jack, who admits his use of drugs and alcohol masked deeper issues, including trauma and anxiety. He shares how his stay at Heartlight has helped him confront his past and learn foundational tools to handle life's challenges without resorting to substance abuse. Listen in! Is Heartlight the right choice for your struggling teen? Go to heartlightministries.org to find out more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd as they share five key ways to nurture your teen's soul. With insights on seeing behavior as a reflection of underlying challenges, they encourage viewing struggles as temporary. This episode offers practical guidance on fostering future-focused hope, offering steady love and support, praying consistently and expressing appreciation to uplift your teen. Tune in for heartfelt encouragement to strengthen your connection and support your adolescent's growth. To learn more about the Heartlight residential counseling center, visit heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses some of the most complex challenges parents face, from managing frustration and anger with teens to navigating the sensitive topics of custody battles, gaming addiction and gender dysphoria. He offers practical advice and compassionate insights, including how divorced parents can find common ground and how grandparents can provide support and wisdom — listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the unique challenges faced by kids whose parents are in ministry leadership. They discuss the high expectations and pressures these young people experience and emphasize just how essential nurturing a strong relationship with them is. They also highlight the importance of practicing grace in our interactions with our children, reminding us that love and understanding should always come first. For more advice from Mark including articles and books he has written, visit parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In part one of his heartfelt two-part devotional, Mark delves into Matthew 7, offering insight into how we can balance our children's desires with their essential needs. He highlights the crucial role of creating a positive home environment and reveals three major cultural forces shaping today’s youth. Tune in for inspiration on how to engage more meaningfully with your children in a rapidly changing world. For more insights from Mark, check out his book What's Happening To My Teen at parentingtodaysteens.org/product/whats-happening-to-my-teen Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Adoption is a beautiful thing. But as adopted kids grow older, it's natural that many of them begin to have big questions about their biological parents. In today's show, Mark and Courtney talk with two young ladies who share their personal stories of growing up as adopted children, exploring the emotional struggles, feelings of abandonment and family conflicts that have shaped their lives. They reflect on the complexities of forming relationships with their adoptive parents while grappling with the longing to connect with their biological roots. Don't miss this one! Looking for help for your struggling teen? Go to heartlightministries.org to learn more about our residential counseling program today. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark challenges parents to rethink their approach to raising teens by highlighting the dangers of over-involvement. He outlines four key consequences of doing too much for our kids, illustrating how it can hinder their development rather than help them. Mark emphasizes that teens are often more capable than we realize and advocates for fostering their independence. He urges parents to guide their teens toward maturity, empowering them to navigate life's challenges and grow into responsible adults. For more advice from Mark on raising your teen, check out the Teen Struggle Bundle at parentingtodaysteens.org/product/teen-struggle-bundle/ Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s Q&A episode, Mark Gregston dives deep into some of the most pressing questions sent in by listeners. From navigating sarcastic and moody behavior to dealing with bullying, anxiety and depression, he covers a broad spectrum of challenges parents face in today's world. Mark also discusses the intricate dynamics of parenting after divorce and addresses the tough issue of chronic lying. Tune in now for practical advice rooted in biblical principles! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how social media and today's digital culture are affecting teens' self-worth and views on modesty. They explore the troubling rise in early exposure to pornography among both boys and girls, highlighting the need for open, honest conversations with our kids. Tune in for actionable advice on connecting with your child, guiding them toward healthier choices, and reinforcing the values of modesty and self-respect in an overwhelming world. For more resources from Mark on how to help your teens with pornography and their sense of self-worth, visit parentingtodaysteens.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this heartfelt episode, Mark offers a personal devotion tailored specifically for grandparents, centered around Matthew 11:28-30. He shares his journey of building his home and ministry on the foundation of this powerful scripture. Mark emphasizes the vital role grandparents play in their families, reminding them they can create a sanctuary of rest and peace for their grandkids amid the chaos of today’s world. Tune in for inspiration and practical insights on nurturing this special bond! For more encouragement from Mark on grandparenting, order a copy of "Grandparenting Teens: Leaving a Legacy of Hope," right here: bit.ly/grandparenting-teens Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In some cases, family support and healthy relationships can truly have life-or-death importance for a struggling teen. When everything seems dark and hopeless, even one voice of hope matters so much. In today's show, Mark and Courtney talk with two teens with pasts full of anger, hurt and mental health challenges. One young lady, Miley, opens up about her tumultuous relationship with her parents, her battle with substance abuse and how the support at Heartlight helped her heal. Don't miss this one! Interested in the Heartlight residential program? Learn more at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into the crucial distinction between rule-making and ruling within the home. They emphasize that while setting clear guidelines is essential, doing so without fostering strong relationships can lead to rebellion. Alternatively, a home without rules equals chaos. Striking the balance is key! They also share practical recommendations for parents on how to establish and adjust expectations effectively. Check it out! For more on this topic, check out Mark's book, "Developing Rules and Consequences," at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's Q&A episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing questions you've been asking about your teens. From dealing with anxiety and depression to addressing explosive anger and the complexities of teen relationships, Mark offers insightful advice grounded in years of experience. He also touches on the unique challenges of raising special needs teens and finding ways to encourage responsible behavior in young adults. Tune in for essential guidance on applying your core values to an ever-changing cultural landscape! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Are you unintentionally overcontrolling your teen? In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the balance between guiding teens and giving them the independence they need to thrive. While it's important to prepare them for the future, too much control — often from good intentions — can hinder their growth. Tune in for practical tips and to learn how to create an environment that fosters independence and empowers teens to make their own decisions. To purchase Mark’s book, When Your Teen Is Struggling, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/product/when-your-teen-is-struggling Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston explores how loss affects children, asking the key question: "When does loss truly hit?" He explains that it happens when a child fully understands their loss. Drawing from Ephesians 2:10, Mark shares the story of Brendan, a boy who lost his father on 9/11, but only felt the full weight of that loss years later. Mark emphasizes that while loss is unavoidable, parents play a vital role in helping children process grief. By encouraging open conversations and building strong connections, parents can guide their children toward healing. For more, read "Practical Ways to Help a Teen Through Loss and Loneliness" at bit.ly/loss-and-loneliness. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When there's conflict in the family, a lot of teens find it's easier to just shut down and stop engaging entirely — unfortunately, that often makes things worse. In today's show, Mark and Courtney, a Heartlight counselor, talk with two Heartlight teens who are working on repairing their relationships with their parents. One young lady opens up about grappling with her adoption and the complexities of feeling different and distanced from her family. Now, through counseling, she and her family are learning to connect better. Listen in! Is Heartlight the answer for your struggling teen? Learn more about the program at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the profound impact of absent fathers — whether physically or emotionally — on families. They discuss how a father's absence affects not only the children but also the mother, underscoring the vital role dads play in a child’s development. Mark and Wayne stress the importance of fostering a fun connection with children, showing how shared experiences can lead to deeper, more meaningful relationships. Tune in for valuable insights and encouragement on strengthening family bonds! To register for the parenting retreat mentioned in today’s episode, visit theseasonofhope.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses some challenging and heartfelt questions sent in by listeners. He covers tough topics like navigating a teen's unexpected lifestyle choices, managing defiant behavior and handling the sensitive issue of pornography with your kids. Mark shares practical advice on how to maintain love through difficult times, while setting effective boundaries and consequences. Tune in now for actionable insights and wisdom to help you strengthen your relationship with your teen! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Your teen's disrespect often stems from deeper issues — are you looking past the surface? In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the need for honest dialogue and appropriate consequences when a serious lack of respect occurs. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and having open conversations with your kid concerning their attitude and behavior. Tune in now for practical strategies on fostering healthier communication with your teen! For the book bundle mentioned in today’s episode, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/product/teen-struggle-bundle. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston shares how to support teens through various forms of loss — from the death of a loved one to the impact of bullying. He emphasizes the need for parents to recognize these subtle emotional struggles and engage with their children by asking meaningful questions. Tune in for practical tips to help guide your teen through these emotional challenges. For more ways to engage with your teen at a deeper level, check out the e-course, Five Ways to Stay Engaged With Your Teen, at parentingtodaysteens.thinkific.com/courses/five-ways-to-stay-engaged Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Sometimes it might seem like our teens make choices without a thought about what consequences could follow — but that's rarely really the case. All behavior is goal-oriented. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Courtney LaFleur talk with two Heartlight teens, including Ben, who'd previously been arrested for stealing cars at only 13 years old. He describes his turbulent journey through various programs before landing at Heartlight, where he learned the importance of change, taking responsibility and rebuilding his relationship with his parents. Check it out! For more on the Heartlight residential counseling program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the essential role of consistency in parenting. Mark explains that when parents are inconsistent with discipline, it’s the children who ultimately bear the consequences. While avoiding discipline may seem easier in the moment, children thrive when given the structure and guidance needed to shape their behaviors and life patterns. Tune in for practical advice on creating a unified parenting strategy that benefits the entire family. To join Mark Gregston, Bob Goff and Tim Keller for a weekend workshop on Deepening Your Parenting Skills, visit theseasonofhope.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston delves into the challenges of parenting sent in by listeners like you. From setting boundaries in post-divorce dating to addressing concerns about a 21-year-old in a same-sex relationship, Mark offers practical advice on fostering open communication and unconditional love. He also shares a prayer request for Cheyenne, a 12-year-old with congenital heart issues. Tune in now for insights on navigating these sensitive topics and building stronger, more supportive family relationships! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the growing issue of bullying, with a special focus on the impact of cyberbullying. They explore how the anonymity of online platforms can encourage harmful behavior that wouldn’t be said face-to-face. Mark and Wayne also discuss the unique ways bullying affects boys and girls, offering valuable tips for parents to start meaningful conversations with their teens. Tune in for actionable advice to help your family confront and overcome this critical issue. For more details or to register for the "Deepening Your Parenting Skills" weekend Mark mentions in this episode, visit theseasonofhope.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this heartfelt episode, Mark Gregston shares a deeply personal story about the long-lasting effects of early-life abuse on someone close to him. He highlights how, without reflection and healing, past wounds can distort our sense of identity, pulling us away from the person God created us to be. Mark reminds us that both the good and bad moments from our childhood shape who we are, and encourages listeners to invite God into their healing journey. Through this message, Mark offers hope and inspiration to help navigate the wounds of our past and reclaim our true identity in God. For more of Mark's teachings, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Broken and abusive relationships during the adolescent years can leave hurts that last a lifetime. But, as we see in today's interviews with Heartlight teens, when they're given support, guidance and a listening ear, it can make all the difference. Sixteen-year-old Jack's journey reminds us how deeply family dynamics shape our lives. From facing trauma to rebuilding trust with his mom, he shows how facing our past can open doors to a brighter future. Don't miss this powerful episode! Is Heartlight the answer for your struggling teen? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the power of a thoughtful approach when working with teens. Mark shares a personal story about how a father’s poor response to a difficult situation strained his relationship with his son and highlights the importance of making children feel loved. He also explains the difference between guilt from bad decisions and the damaging effects of shame. Mark and Wayne also respond to a listener’s letter, offering practical advice for navigating parenting challenges and discussing the best approach to take. For more information on the "Deepening Your Parenting Skills" weekend mentioned in this episode, visit theseasonofhope.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s insightful episode, Mark Gregston dives into the pressing questions that every parent faces while raising teens in today's complex world. From handling a teen who seems unfazed by consequences to managing the intricacies of cell phone use and digital communication, Mark offers wisdom and actionable tips for fostering better understanding and stronger connections with your teens. He provides strategies for modifying communication patterns, addressing the root causes of behaviors and balancing boundaries with genuine needs. Tune in now to discover ways to be a source of wisdom rather than just information for your child! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of creating a clear family belief system rooted in grace, drawing from Proverbs 16:9. They explain how a simple, written belief statement can set clear expectations and establish appropriate consequences. Mark offers practical examples, encouraging families to tailor their system to reflect their values and meet the needs of their children. To purchase Tough Guys and Drama Queens, the 9-week video course referenced in this episode, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/product/tough-guys-and-drama-queens-dvd Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston shares a personal devotion, diving into the complex issue of teen anger and how to apply the wisdom of James 1:19. Mark encourages parents to look beyond surface-level behaviors and understand the deeper heart issues fueling anger in teens. He highlights three common sources of anger and offers practical ways to turn these challenging moments into valuable opportunities for growth. For more parenting insights and resources from Mark, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When you've hit one of the lowest points in your life, it can be hard to picture things ever getting better. But as these teen interviews show, healing does happen a little bit at a time — and it's okay to seek some help along the way. In this episode, we're sharing a couple of Mark's past interviews with Heartlight teens, like Christian, who discusses the tumultuous path that led him to Heartlight, including his struggles with drugs following the tragic deaths of his mother and grandmother from cancer. Listen in! To find out more about Heartlight, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the struggles teens often face, including issues like drugs, addiction and pornography. Mark emphasizes the importance of parents being proactive, understanding that teens are likely to encounter these challenges, often at a younger age than expected. He discusses how building an open, honest dialogue can help guide teens through tough situations. Together, they encourage parents to be equipped and ready to support their children, empowering them to make healthier choices. To get a copy of the book mentioned on today's episode, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/product/grandparenting-teens-leaving-a-legacy-of-hope Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s Q&A episode of Parenting Today's Teens, Mark Gregston tackles some of the most pressing concerns voiced by listeners. From navigating the complexities of post-college estrangement and dealing with severe depression in young adults to addressing issues of online pornography and LGBTQ+ questions, Mark provides insightful, compassionate advice rooted in real-life experience. He emphasizes the importance of community support, the need for realistic boundaries and the value of professional help. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the important topic of preparing teens for independence. Mark explains how misunderstanding a teen's need for freedom can stop parents from giving them the space to grow. They outline four key strategies to promote independence in teenagers and discuss why it can be hard for parents to let go. Tune in for practical tips to help your teen grow into a confident, self-reliant adult! For the Teen Struggle Bundle mentioned in today’s episode, visit: parentingtodaysteens.org/product/teen-struggle-bundle Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark shares the 10 key influences that have shaped his life, recounting impactful moments and lessons from those who have made a lasting difference. Inspired by 1 Corinthians 2:4-5, Mark urges parents and grandparents to embrace their roles as influencers, reminding them how a lack of encouragement can lead to unintended outcomes. He emphasizes the importance of listening, sharing wisdom and offering support to the next generation. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation on the power of encouragement and its lasting impact on young lives. For more on this topic, check out our Leaving a Legacy of Hope eCourse at bit.ly/ptt-legacy-of-hope Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Whether it's escaping through drugs or physically running away from home, some teens aren't sure how else to cope with life's hurts and challenges other than running from them. In today's show, Mark Gregston is joined by Courtney Lafleur, a counselor at Heartlight, to talk to two teens who reflect on why they were sent to the program and what they've learned since being here. One young man opens up about his journey from impulsivity and drug use to newfound sobriety and self-awareness — and why he tried to run away from Heartlight at first! Interested in learning more about the residential counseling program? Go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle an important issue: how to respond when your teen’s friends may be a negative influence. While protecting our teens is essential, overprotection can hinder their growth and independence. Instead of shielding them from every possible bad influence, Mark and Wayne encourage parents to reflect on how their own parenting approach might affect their teen’s behavior and social circle. Remember, you could also be a positive influence on your teen’s friends, which may be exactly why God placed them in your life. Tune in now! For more on this topic, check out Mark's book, Raising Teens In A Contrary Culture, at parentingtodaysteens.org/product/raising-teens-in-a-contrary-culture. Parenting Today's Teens is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For practical and spiritual advice to help you grow as a parent, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles a variety of pressing questions from parents dealing with the complexities of raising teenagers. He delves into listener queries ranging from managing teen substance use, handling the challenges of blended families, fostering better relationships amidst contrasting parenting styles, and the fine line between privacy and parental oversight. With practical advice and heartfelt wisdom, Mark offers guidance to help parents navigate these complicated issues, all while emphasizing the importance of grace, understanding and strong relational bonds. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd in today’s podcast as they discuss how to prevent entitlement from taking root in your teen’s life and cultivate a heart of gratitude instead. Mark highlights the importance of addressing entitlement at its source and shares insightful tips on creating a home environment that fosters gratitude. He offers practical strategies for shifting your teen's mindset from "I deserve" to "I'm grateful," and reminds us that it begins with modeling gratitude in our own lives. Mark also encourages parents to let their teens know that while we owe them nothing, we want to give them everything out of love. For more podcasts and articles on teens and gratitude, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/?s=gratitude Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston shares a personal devotional based on Romans 16:17, offering a vital warning for parents: There will always be influences trying to create division between you and your teen. As parents, it’s our responsibility to guard against this. In a world that’s increasingly confusing and contradictory for teenagers, they need our guidance more than ever — even if they don’t realize it! Mark emphasizes the importance of staying flexible in your parenting and how adapting to your teen's evolving needs is key to maintaining a strong connection. Tune in to this important message! To read more about adapting your parenting style, read Mark's article, Allowing Your Teen To Be in Control, at bit.ly/teens-in-control Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Social media can keep teens trapped in a cycle of comparison, always wondering what others think of them. As shared in this episode, it can feel incredibly isolating. Today, Mark sits down with two young ladies at Heartlight who discuss the valuable lessons they've learned about healthy relationships and self-worth. Camille, who's been on the show before, discusses her battle with self-consciousness and the toxic impact of social media, and how Heartlight has empowered her to build authentic friendships and embrace her true self. Don't miss this one! Want to learn more about the Heartlight program? Visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore a pivotal aspect of parenting: empowering your teen to make their own decisions. They discuss the importance of gradually transferring decision-making power to your teen, helping them build independence and confidence — even when mistakes are made. Mark and Wayne highlight why giving your teen room to grow is essential for their development and caution about the potential pitfalls of holding on to too much control. Tune in for practical advice on navigating this transition and check out our Families in Crisis Conference if you feel like your teen is spinning out of control. Learn more and register today at parentingtodaysteens.org/families-in-crisis-conference Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's Q&A session, our host Mark Gregson tackles some of the most pressing and challenging questions you've sent our way. From dealing with a 16-year-old boy's exposure to pornography and handling a daughter's major depression amidst post-divorce trauma, to addressing issues of adolescent disrespect and battling the lure of video games, Mark provides practical wisdom. Tune in for an insightful discussion aimed at equipping you with the tools to support your teen through their toughest challenges! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how to respond when your teen's behavior becomes dangerous. While risky decisions are a part of growing up, it's crucial to know what to do when those choices become harmful. Mark emphasizes the importance of setting clear boundaries and values early on. He discusses how to communicate expectations and consequences with your teen, and offers guidance on when to intervene and how to handle situations after dangerous behavior has occurred. Above all, Mark reminds us to maintain a strong connection with our teens, holding them accountable while reinforcing our relationship with them. If you're struggling to parent your teen, you're not alone. Check out Mark's FREE eBook, How to Parent Your Teen in a Biblical Way, at parentingtodaysteens.org/ebooks/how-to-parent-your-teen-in-a-biblical-way Parenting Today's Teens is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For practical and spiritual parenting advice, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's devotional, Mark Gregston reflects on the wisdom of 2 Peter 1:15, emphasizing the vital importance of creating meaningful memories with our families. He challenges you to consider how you want to be remembered and encourages you to build those lasting memories, no matter the stage of life. It’s never too late to start! Mark also shares practical and heartfelt ideas to inspire connection, foster memories and strengthen family bonds. Don’t wait — start making an impact on your children and grandchildren today. If you're a grandparent looking for ways to connect and engage with your grandchildren, check out the Leaving a Legacy of Hope eCourse at bit.ly/legacy-ecourse Parenting Today’s Teens is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For practical and spiritual guidance to help you become the parent you aspire to be, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Struggling teens sometimes push others away — often starting with their parents — because they don't feel like they're worthy of love and acceptance. If this sounds like your teen, don't stop trying! In today's show, Mark sits down with two young men at Heartlight who are working hard to rebuild bonds with their families. Caleb opens up about his struggles with impatience, reconnecting with his parents and learning to accept love, while Drew shares his battle with rejection, the pressures of fitting in and overcoming substance abuse. Check it out! To learn more about the Heartlight program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today’s Teens is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For practical and spiritual guidance to help you become the parent you aspire to be, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore why many teens drift away from church during their adolescent years. Often, it’s not a conscious decision — they simply lose interest or stop seeing its relevance. Mark shares insights on the importance of giving teens some autonomy in how they engage with church, while also considering their age and maturity in the decision-making process. Their discussion highlights how parents' attitudes towards church can greatly influence their teens, emphasizing the need for open conversations about faith. Listen in and discover strategies to help your teen find a spiritual path that resonates with them. For more guidance to help you understand your teen's heart and lead them through these unique challenges, order your copy of Mark's latest devotional, Daily Hope for Families, at bit.ly/daily-hope-for-families Parenting Today's Teens is part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For practical and spiritual advice to support your parenting journey, visit parentingtodaysteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston tackles some tough questions sent in by parents. He offers valuable insights on fostering integrity in a world where honesty sometimes feels optional, managing sibling dynamics and encouraging family time, and more. The episode also delves into coping with a teen's intense fears about the world, understanding and addressing feelings of exclusion and rejection, and navigating the complex terrain of gender identity and acceptance. Whether you're dealing with typical teenage rebellion or more profound struggles, this episode provides practical wisdom and compassionate guidance to help strengthen your relationship with your teen. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Are you struggling to help your teen deal with anger? In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd read an email from a parent reaching out for advice on helping their daughter with this issue. The two remind us that what we see on the outside is just a symptom of what is actually going on, and that sometimes we need to help our teens discover the root cause of their anger. Mark tells us how to create a solutions-oriented environment and how to know when it's time to look for outside help. To hear more from Mark on helping your teen through anger and other big feelings, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/tag/feelings Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark shares a devotional from Philippians 2:3 about how humility and valuing others above ourselves leads to an expression of respect. This important lesson is further illustrated through the story of a Heartlight teen and how her experience there changed her heart. Mark explains how our teens' constant access and exposure to news and social media affects the way they handle respect, and four ways we can help in today’s culture. To learn more about the program at Heartlight, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Watching parents get divorced can be incredibly challenging for teens to cope with. It can feel like the foundation of their life has been shaken — and it's critical to support them during this time. In today's show, Mark talks with two young men at Heartlight who share how the structure and support in the program is helping them to better understand their own family dynamics. Malcolm, whose life got off track after his parents got divorced, shares the lessons he's learned about resilience, family bonds and his aspiration to be a dedicated father to his own young son. Don't miss this episode! For more on supporting your teen through tough times, check out our Families In Crisis Online Course at bit.ly/FIC-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Reconciliation is hard work — but worth it. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the process of reconciliation with our teens and how important it is to nurture those relationships. Mark reminds us that God calls us, as parents, to reconcile and clear the stage for restoration. The two also share what the true marks of reconciliation are and what to do when we are rejected. To learn more from Mark on reconciliation and how to protect your relationship with your teen, visit parentingtodaysteens.org/articles. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles tough questions sent in by parents about managing teens' screen time. From managing social media boundaries to fostering deeper parent-child connections, Mark provides practical advice and heartfelt insights for navigating these challenges. He emphasizes the importance of adapting parenting techniques as kids grow and ensuring that teens feel affirmed and valued at home. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd talk about the importance of forgiveness in our homes. It can be difficult and takes time, but it starts with you. Although it can be hard to let go, we must forgive and move forward to show our teens hope for the future of our family. Mark uses Matthew 26:28 to remind us that forgiveness is about acting upon God's love and loving like He does. For more on forgiveness, check out the article, Making It Right, at parentingtodaysteens.org/articles/making-it-right/ Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this devotional, Mark talks about the expectations we set for our teens. He cautions us against setting expectations so high that our teens feel as though we won't love them if they fail. He reminds us that the most important thing is to show them unconditional love. As parents, you're encouraged to set high standards and challenge them — without letting those standards exclude them if they make a mistake — the same way nothing eliminates us from God's family. For more from Mark on this topic, enroll in our Bridging the Gap e-course: bit.ly/bridging-the-gap-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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If you've ever dealt with an angry teen, you probably know there are layers behind that anger they don't want to talk about. A lot of hurt kids use anger as a shield for their pain. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Amber, who opens up about her struggles with her temper. Her anger stems from her adoption story and the loss of significant people in her life, but today, she's working on healing those wounds. Listen in now! Is your teen struggling right now? Learn more about the Heartlight residential program at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd teach us that anger and disrespect may not always be a bad thing. These can serve as a "warning light" for us to look at the big picture to see what it is that's really going on. Your teens anger and disrespect can be a visible expression of an invisible issue. Mark and Wayne remind us of the role grace plays in our job as parents, and encourages us to engage with our teens to get to the root of the issue. For additional help, enroll in Mark's FREE e-course, Tough Guys and Drama Queens at /bit.ly/tough-guys-drama-queens . Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Ever feel overwhelmed by the challenges of raising teens in today's world? You're not alone! In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses a range of pressing questions submitted by concerned parents. Whether you're managing a tech-addicted 16-year-old, guiding a 17-year-old daughter who's considering a tattoo or navigating a 13-year-old’s behavioral spiral, Mark offers practical, compassionate advice. Remember, finding the balance between rules and relationships is key. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's discussion, hosts Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into one of the hottest and most debated topics for modern parents: teens and cell phones. From determining the right age for a child to receive their first phone to setting boundaries and fostering healthy relationships, this episode covers it all. They tackle common concerns such as managing app usage, addressing internet safety and balancing the need for connectivity with real-life interactions. Whether you're wondering how to discipline with technology or how to use it as a tool for growth, you'll find practical advice and heartfelt wisdom to help navigate the digital landscape with your teen — tune in now! Want to learn how to better connect with your child? Check out our free e-course, "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen," at bit.ly/3DWPwun Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark shares a devotional that encourages parents who may be feeling hopeless from continued conflict. He reminds us that some conflict is positive and helps our teens know how loved they truly are. It's important for us to remember that how we handle the conflicts we face is actually more important than simply "getting through" it. There is always hope! For more information and to see if we can help you through our Family Crisis Coaching program, please visit parentingtodaysteens.org/coaching. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Communicating with teens today can sometimes be a real challenge. Between family struggles and tech distractions, it's a tough landscape! But for your teen's sake, don't give up. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies at Heartlight who delve into their personal journeys of overcoming anxiety, depression and family conflicts. They discuss the importance of unconditional love and communication, and why sometimes it's helpful to take a step back from technology to foster deeper family bonds. Check it out! Curious about the Heartlight residential program? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of creating and embracing an imperfect home. Mark believes imperfection attracts your teens and creates an atmosphere of hope. Together, they address the danger in creating the "perfect" home and share how being imperfect can show our kids we will love them through their own imperfections. Kids won't always make good choices, that's their nature. Mark says this is where grace plays a role in all of it; not excusing the behavior, but accepting the child in spite of the behavior. For more on how to develop a more meaningful and enduring connection with your teen, check out our Daily Hope for Families Devotional at bit.ly/daily-hope-for-families Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this insightful Q&A episode, Mark Gregston addresses a pressing question from a listener named David, who is struggling with his adopted daughter's disregard for consequences. Mark discusses the psychological implications of adoption and how feelings of abandonment and self-worth play crucial roles in shaping a teen's behavior. He offers practical advice on looking beyond the behavior to identify underlying issues and suggests ways for parents to engage with their teens to instill a sense of value and worth. Tune in now for a powerful and enlightening discussion! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Bad choices ... unfortunate events ... tough situations ... Could these be the very things that will strengthen your teen and teach them to look to God? Listen as Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd address the topic of helping your teen through the things that don't go their way — rather than rescuing them from it all. They discuss when and HOW to step in to help your teen. Learning to walk with our teens, rather than shield them from tough times, will more effectively teach them how to solve and work through obstacles. For more on understanding your teen — and their choices — check out Mark's book, "What's Happening to My Teen?" Order yours at bit.ly/whats-happening-teen Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this heartfelt episode, Mark opens up about his personal struggles with kidney disease and the life-changing journey he's about to embark on with a possible kidney transplant. He shares touching stories from his family's recent celebrations, including his granddaughter's high school graduation, offering deep insights into the power of community, faith and joyful celebration. Mark also reflects on the importance of affirming our loved ones and standing firm in our beliefs — even amid life's toughest challenges. Don't miss this one! Have you checked out our online store? No matter where you're at on your parenting journey, we have resources that can help! Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/shop Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Trauma can cause kids to have to grow up too quickly — and no matter how resilient a teen may seem, having a supportive family can make a huge difference. In today's episode, Mark talks with two more Heartlight teens, including Tiller, who opens up about her spiral into substance dependence. She used drugs and alcohol to cope with the pressures of growing up too fast and to mask her trauma. But now, she's working to heal the broken parts of herself, along with her relationship with her mom. Listen in! Want to learn more about the Heartlight residential program? Go to heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd talk with us about what happens when parents talk too much and listen too little. They share the importance of inviting your teen to speak while truly listening to them, and how timing and atmosphere can make all the difference! Mark encourages parents to add value to their relationships with their kids by NOT always trying to fix everything, but by simply being the listening ear they're longing for. Tune in now! To learn more from Mark about listening to your teens, visit https://parentingtodaysteens.org/tag/communication Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit parentingtodayteens.org. Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston dives into a real-life issue: a 14-year-old spending thousands of dollars on video games using his parents' credit card. Mark discusses appropriate consequences, emphasizing the importance of balancing discipline with empathy. By addressing underlying issues and offering constructive solutions, this episode provides a roadmap for parents to navigate through similar challenging situations, all while fostering a stronger, more understanding relationship with their teens. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it can make all the difference, especially when it comes to our teens. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the challenging topic of handling anger within the home. Whether you're dealing with yelling, frustration, or emotional outbursts, this episode will provide you with actionable advice on how to foster a healthy and respectful relationship with your teenager. Tune in now to be inspired and equipped with the tools you need to navigate these difficult moments with grace and effectiveness! For more help understanding your teen's behavior, check out our free "Tough Guys and Drama Queens" e-course! Enroll today at bit.ly/3PtDGxl Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Adapting to your teen's world doesn't mean compromising your values. It means meeting them where they are, understanding their reality and guiding them in ways that are relevant to today's challenges. In this episode, Mark emphasizes the importance of parents sharing their wisdom through a genuine and intentional relationship with their children. He shares some personal stories and timeless truths, guiding us on how to navigate the evolving landscape of youth culture — without constantly criticizing it. Tune in now! For more on how to walk with your teens through the challenges they face, order Mark's book, "Raising Teens in a Contrary Culture." Get your copy at bit.ly/contrary-culture Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Many parents make the mistake of focusing too much on correcting their teens — and not enough on actually connecting with them. It can make a huge difference in your relationship! In this episode, Mark chats with a couple more Heartlight teens, including Austin, who sheds light on how his family's creative discipline methods — such as a unique card-based system for punishment — caused more strife than success. Don't miss these insightful interviews! To learn more about the Heartlight residential program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Does it ever seem like your teen is avoiding you or doesn't want to talk about anything that matters? In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore 10 common parenting behaviors that push teens away. Drawing from personal anecdotes and expert insights, they emphasize the importance of fostering strong, positive relationships during the teen years. From avoiding constant negativity to the issues of overcorrecting and demanding perfection, Wayne and Mark offer practical advice to help parents engage more effectively with their kids. Check it out! Has your teen started dating? We have tips! Check out our free e-book, "Teens and Dating," at bit.ly/teens-and-dating Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's engaging Q&A session, host Mark Gregston dives deep into one of the most common questions he gets from parents: How do I connect with my teen effectively? Drawing from his experience at Heartlight, Mark emphasizes the profound impact of asking thoughtful, genuine questions. He shares practical advice on fostering an environment where teens feel valued and understood, highlighting the importance of listening and creating meaningful dialogue without judgment. Learn how to move beyond surface-level interactions and facilitate deeper connections that help guide your teens through their adolescent years — tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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As our society rapidly changes, parents must adapt their approaches to meet the ever-shifting needs of their teens. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the challenges of maintaining a solid foundation while adapting to the dynamic cultural shifts impacting today's youth. They offer practical advice on how to engage in meaningful conversations that resonate with your teenager and adjust household rules to foster an environment of open dialogue. Whether you're struggling with setting boundaries or just looking to better understand your teen's world, this episode promises to inspire, encourage, and equip you with valuable insights. Listen now! Our Grandparenting Bundle is packed with wisdom, insights and advice selected just for grandparents! You can order your bundle today at bit.ly/3jMe9DV Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Have you ever felt at your wit's end trying to understand why your teen is so angry? In today's episode, Mark explores the underlying reasons for teen anger, such as a lack of control over their lives, feelings of shame and unmet desires. He provides practical advice for parents on how to better understand and address these emotional outbursts. By observing, asking and listening, parents can get to the heart of their teen's issues, fostering a deeper connection and helping them manage their emotions in a healthy way. Tune in now! For more on helping your teen navigate tough times, check out our Teen Struggle Bundle! Get yours at bit.ly/struggle-bundle Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It takes a lot for most teens to ask for help when they're struggling — and many of them won't say it out loud. That's why cultivating a genuine relationship and being a listening ear for your teen is so crucial! In today's episode, Mark shares some interviews he did with two teens who've battled depression for most of their lives. In Jordan's case, it culminated with a harrowing suicide attempt. Both teens provide great insights into the often hidden world of teen depression, offering hope, lessons and inspiration for parents everywhere. Listen in! Is your teen spinning out of control? Heartlight might be the solution. Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens, like all of us, want to feel appreciated. Adolescence is when the quest for identity is toughest. They often feel awkward, out of place and desperately need reassurance. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd talk about how we can give our teens that sense of value. Sharing personal stories and practical advice, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of adolescence and the indispensable role parents play in providing a nurturing, value-rich environment at home. Don't miss this episode! For more insight on creating a culture of respect in your home, check out Mark's "Developing Rules & Consequences" book at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles pressing questions from parents who are struggling with how to get their teenagers to be more self-sufficient with chores, homework and personal care. He dives into practical advice, emphasizing the importance of stepping back, allowing natural consequences to teach valuable lessons, and understanding that sometimes, humorous honesty and a bit of sarcasm can go a long way in communicating with your teen. Whether it’s dealing with hygiene issues or managing sibling conflicts, Mark offers insights that balance grace and truth, helping parents navigate the tricky waters of teen independence. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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With the rise of internet access and the bombardment of information, our teens are navigating a landscape that is vastly different from what we experienced growing up. In today’s episode, hosts Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the challenges parents face in an increasingly exposed world. They discuss the impact of this overexposure on teens, from increased anxiety and depression to the premature loss of innocence. Tune in as they explore practical strategies for parents to remain proactive, engaged and supportive, helping their teens make wise choices in a contrary culture. To learn more about how to shift your parental strategy, check out Mark's book, "Raising Teens in a Contrary Culture." Order your copy at bit.ly/contrary-culture Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Parenting effectively in today's digital age means becoming a wellspring of wisdom rather than just another source of information. As Mark shares in today's show, we need to help our kids navigate life with insights drawn from experience and reflection. He discusses how the relentless influx of data impacts our children's lives and shares some advice on how parents can shift to sharing applicable wisdom. Communicating this way will provide meaningful guidance, and ultimately, deepen your relationship with their teen. Tune in now! For more on this topic, check out our FREE e-course, "Five Ways to Stay Engaged With Your Teen." Enroll today at bit.ly/stay-engaged-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Substance use and other poor choices are often hiding deeper issues in our teens — it's important to make sure your child knows your listening ear is always available. In today's show, Mark sits down with two more Heartlight teens, including Tyler, who shares his experience growing up with his grandparents after facing challenges due to his parents' struggles with substance abuse. He opens up about his early exposure to drugs, the impact it had on his life and how he's grown at Heartlight. Check it out! To learn more about the Heartlight program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the importance of building genuine connections with your teenager in an era dominated by digital communication. The discussion emphasizes the value of face-to-face engagement and meaningful conversations, and Mark shares practical tips on fostering connection while also navigating conflicts. Join us for insights on how to bridge the gap between you and your teen, creating a relationship grounded in trust and mutual respect. For more parenting resources, check out our online store at parentingtodaysteens.org/shop Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's Q&A episode, Mark Gregston tackles one of the most frequently asked questions: "When is it time to send my child to a residential program like Heartlight?" With over 40 years of experience, Mark shares 15 key indicators to watch for, from drastic mood changes to dangerous behavior. He also offers guidance on alternatives and supporting resources for struggling teens and their families. Don't wait until it's too late — take the steps now to ensure a better future for your teen. Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Is more parental involvement always better? It's all well-intended, but where do we draw the line? In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore how hovering too much can actually stunt a teen's growth. They discuss the impact of over-involvement versus under-involvement and how each shapes your teen's ability to make decisions. Remember, it's all about preparing them for the real world, allowing them to learn from mistakes and giving age-appropriate freedoms. Tune in to discover how to create a nurturing yet balanced environment for your teen's growth! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens crave control in their lives. As our kids get older, it's crucial to balance your guidance and rules with trusting them to make their own decisions — it's how they'll grow! In today's show, Mark explores the challenges that arise when well-intentioned parents try to micromanage their teen's life. Highlighting the importance of building a strong relationship, he shares some practical advice on relinquishing control and fostering trust. Tune in now! Is your child in a downward spiral right now? Check out our Families in Crisis e-course for help and advice you can use today. Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/families-in-crisis-online-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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If there's one thing we know about teens, it's that they are going to mess up. They're going to have setbacks. But how you respond to them as a parent can make all the difference! In this episode, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Lauren, who reminds us that bumps in the road are part of the journey. From initially resisting help to battling loneliness and slipping back into old habits, Lauren looks back on her 15-month stay at the boarding school. Don't miss this episode! Is Heartlight the right choice for your struggling teen? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teen grief isn't solely about losing loved ones. Divorce, break-ups and fading dreams can also create emotional wounds. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the often-overlooked topic of teen grief. Drawing from Mark's extensive experience at Heartlight, they delve into the various types of grief teens may encounter, and discuss practical ways to help your teen process these complex emotions. Your patience and presence are crucial. Don't miss these insights! Want to learn some new parenting strategies? Check out our Parenting Toolbox resource bundle! Order yours today at bit.ly/parenting-toolbox Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston dives deep into the challenge of teen anxiety, sparked by a heartfelt question from a brave high school senior named Cheyenne. He discusses the root causes of anxiety in teens and provides 11 actionable steps to help combat it. From building strong friendships to finding ways to laugh more, these insights aim to empower both teens and their parents. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Modern teens may seem endlessly connected through social media, but these aren't the deep connections that matter. True connection requires meaningful engagement. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the challenges parents face in connecting with their teens amid cultural confusion and digital distractions. They discuss the importance of genuine connection, the art of asking open-ended questions, and the power of listening without judgment. You'll also hear practical tips for fostering meaningful relationships and gaining your teen's trust. Stay tuned for an inspiring conversation that will encourage and equip you in your parenting journey! Want to learn how to better connect with your child? Check out our free e-course, "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen," at bit.ly/3DWPwun Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens might mask their pain with anger, humor or avoidance. Often, their seemingly rebellious acts are cries for help and understanding — but it's up to parents to hear those cries. In this episode, Mark talks about the complexities of understanding teen behavior beyond its surface manifestations. By sharing a personal story, Mark illustrates the importance of recognizing the underlying emotional needs that drive both positive and negative actions. He emphasizes the necessity for parents to develop wisdom, sound judgment and discretion, guiding them to see with the eyes of their heart. Listen in! For more on understanding your teen, check out our FREE "Five Ways to Stay Engaged With Your Teen" e-course! Enroll today at bit.ly/stay-engaged-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Behind every addiction lies a root cause — for many of our teens, drugs offer an "escape" or a way to feel like they're taking back control from their parents. In today's episode, Mark speaks with two more Heartlight teens, including a young man who opens up about his battle with drug addiction, the challenges of intensive outpatient programs and finding a healthier path to sobriety with his family's support. It wasn't until he addressed the pain behind his addiction that he found recovery. Listen in now! For more information about the Heartlight residential program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Do you have an older teen who seems WAY too comfortable at home? Not every teen needs to move out at 18, but they should be looking ahead to the future. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the increasingly common issue of teens who struggle with the transition to adulthood, often referred to as a "failure to launch." They discuss the importance of setting expectations early, providing a structured plan and encouraging responsibility to ensure teens are prepared for independence. Don't miss this one! Have you explored our online store? We have an abundance of parenting resources available! Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/shop Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston answers a range of questions sent in by parents seeking biblical wisdom and actionable strategies in regard to raising their teens. From handling habitual lying to finding ways to connect with a distant daughter, he offers practical advice rooted in both experience and empathy. Mark also addresses more complex issues, such as dealing with a 22-year-old who's struggling with school and substance use, and a 14-year-old granddaughter lacking confidence. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When parents separate, kids suffer. It may seem obvious, but we often underestimate the depth of that suffering. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd lay bare the challenges teens face, from feelings of abandonment to the struggle with self-worth, and offer practical advice to parents on how to mitigate these effects. Whether you're navigating a current divorce or dealing with its aftermath, this episode provides compassionate guidance and crucial strategies to help maintain a strong, supportive bond with your teen during these turbulent times. Listen now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Our teens are wrestling with the pressures of their world. They don't need more “you should do this” lectures — they need your listening ears and sometimes, just your silent support. In today's episode, Mark talks about the importance of understanding the changing dynamics in your child's life and the critical need for parents to offer support and compassion rather than judgment and criticism. He emphasizes how maintaining a nonjudgmental and nurturing relationship can help teens navigate these tumultuous years. Tune in now! For more on helping your child through the changes of the teen years, check out Mark's book, "What's Happening to My Teen?" Order your copy at bit.ly/whats-happening-teen Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Assuming we know all the challenges in our teens' lives can be a big mistake — many teens WANT to talk to their parents, but don't feel like there's an open door for dialogue. In this episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens whose stories stress the significance of creating an environment where kids feel loved and valued. Mandy, a 15-year-old, opens up about the challenges she faced with communication, her involvement in risky behaviors like sexting and how being adopted influenced her feelings of belonging and acceptance. Don't miss these interviews! Interested in learning more about Heartlight? Visit heartlightministries.org today! Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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What do you REALLY want for your kids? It’s about more than clean rooms and not driving fast. As parents, we should also be focused on helping them develop a good, godly character. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into the essential character qualities parents should aim to instill in their teenagers. From fostering competence and discernment to cultivating compassion, caring and self-control, discover practical strategies to help your teen develop into a well-rounded adult. Listen in! For more on this, check out our free "Tough Guys and Drama Queens" e-course! You can enroll today at bit.ly/tough-guys-drama-queens Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston discusses the critical balance between loving your child unconditionally while setting firm boundaries, the importance of allowing adolescents to take control of their lives, and why parents need to shift from a purely instructional role to one that promotes independence and responsibility. He also touches on navigating tough conversations about dating, privacy and balancing control with independence. Through personal anecdotes and heartfelt insights, he stresses the importance of loving our children even when we vehemently disagree with their actions. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Ever wonder what kind of legacy you'll leave for your grandchildren? It should run deeper than pie recipes and family traditions; It's about the love, wisdom and memories you create together. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of engaging with teenage grandkids in a way that demonstrates love, support, and wisdom, even when faced with generational differences and opposing beliefs. Tune in to discover how grandparents can leave a lasting legacy that is cherished and remembered by future generations! Our Grandparenting Bundle is packed with wisdom, insights and advice selected just for grandparents! You can order your bundle today at bit.ly/3jMe9DV Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens hear people's opinions all day long, but what they truly need is your perspective, shaped by the lessons you've learned throughout your life. In this episode, Mark explains the differences between giving an opinion versus a perspective. By comparing his struggles to those of others, he also underscores how a shift in perspective can cultivate gratefulness and resilience, even in the face of adversity. Tune in to discover how adopting a wider viewpoint can strengthen your relationship with your teen! For more help walking through challenging times with your teen, check out our Teen Struggle Bundle. Order yours at bit.ly/struggle-bundle Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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No matter how happy or outgoing a teen may seem, appearances aren't everything. It's important to recognize the signs of a teen who's quietly struggling with their mental health. In today's episode, Mark chats with two more teens from Heartlight who reflect on the internal struggles they face. Sixteen-year-old Carson opens up about his battle with depression, feelings of being a burden and the haunting thoughts of not being good enough due to his parents getting divorced before he was born. Listen in to hear these interviews! Is Heartlight the answer for your struggling teen? Learn more at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Struggling with giving effective feedback to your teen without causing friction at home? In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the delicate art of correcting teens. They emphasize the need for timing, intentionality and the right motives while offering constructive criticism. Mark shares practical tips on how to make corrections without overwhelming teens, ensuring that home remains a peaceful retreat rather than another source of stress. Tune in now for some helpful tips! Is your teen entering the dating phase? Check out our FREE "Teens and Dating" e-book for some practical advice on how to set healthy boundaries in your home. Go to bit.ly/teens-and-dating Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses some tough questions posed by a parent dealing with a 15-year-old son facing numerous behavioral and emotional challenges. Mark emphasizes the importance of establishing clear boundaries, effective consequences and fostering a relational atmosphere in the home. He also discusses the critical role of counseling and how to assess its impact. Drawing from real-life scenarios, Mark offers practical, heartfelt advice aimed at helping parents navigate difficult situations, ensuring that both teens and families can thrive. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Parenting isn't just about setting rules; it's about defining the limits that help parents and teens understand who they are, what they stand for and how they relate to each other. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore how setting boundaries differs from imposing rules and why they are essential for both parents and teens. They share practical steps on how to set clear, respectful guidelines that empower you as a parent and help your teen grow. Don’t miss out on these valuable insights that can transform your family's dynamic — listen now! For more help understanding your teen's behavior, check out our free "Tough Guys and Drama Queens" e-course! Enroll today at bit.ly/3PtDGxl Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Have you noticed your teen glued to their phone screen for hours? You're definitely not alone. In today's show, Mark looks at the profound effects that smartphones and social media have on the mental, social and emotional well-being of today's teens. He explores how the migration from face-to-face interactions to virtual ones has led to increased anxiety, depression and social isolation. Tune in for this thought-provoking episode! For more on this topic, check out our free e-book, "Keeping Your Teen Safe Online," at bit.ly/teen-online-safety Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Many of the teens at Heartlight arrive after hitting the lowest point in their lives — but it's only at that point when they accept that something needs to change. In today's show, Mark sits down with two older teens who've struggled through trauma, addiction and being arrested before coming to the boarding school. Molly recounts her childhood marred by family dysfunction and personal battles with eating disorders, self-harm and substance abuse. She also shares the turning points that led her to embrace a path of recovery. Check it out! Want to learn more about the Heartlight program? Go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Our approach to parenting must shift as our kids’ world changes — which means we have to recognize the complex issues our pre-teens are being faced with. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the crucial subject of instilling responsibility in tweens — children ages 9-12 — who are navigating a world filled with unprecedented pressures and influences. From taking care of pets to managing chores, tune in to discover ways to equip your tweens with the resilience and wisdom they need to thrive in an ever-changing world! Are you a grandparent who wants to learn some new ways to connect with your grandkids? Check out our FREE "Leaving a Legacy of Hope" e-course! Visit bit.ly/legacy-ecourse to get started. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles tough questions and real-life scenarios sent in by concerned parents. Topics range from addressing LGBTQ matters and therian identity to dealing with troubled and rebellious teens, the impacts of social media influence and the delicate dynamics of co-parenting post-divorce. He also provides practical advice on runaway adopted children, the pros and cons of sleepovers at different ages and guiding teens who yearn for independence via boarding school. Loaded with wisdom and humor, this episode is a must-listen for parents seeking to navigate the turbulent teen years with grace and understanding. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Do you ever find yourself questioning whether your current parenting tactics are effective? On today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd challenge parents to rethink their traditional methods and provide practical advice on how to shift from old habits to more successful strategies. They discuss the importance of stopping behaviors like constant lecturing, worrying and reacting, and advocate for starting habits such as active listening, engaging more with teens and fostering an environment of trust and open communication. Tune in now to learn how adapting your approach can revolutionize your relationship with your kid, reduce conflict in your life and nurture a positive environment at home! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens live in a world bombarded by celebrity scandals and news about flawed leaders, which often means they easily lose respect for authority figures. In this episode, Mark delves into the challenges of parenting in a world overflowing with information, and focuses on the erosion of respect in teens as they navigate the complexities — and disappointments — of the world around them. He also offers advice for parents on maintaining an environment of respect within your household. Tune in! Does your teen have a disrespect problem? Mark's book, "Developing Rules and Consequences," can help you address it. Order your copy at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Today's teens have grown up with instant access to the internet, social media and the ability to talk to their friends whenever they want. It can be a wonderful thing — but it can also be very unhealthy when taken to extremes. In today's show, Mark chats with two more Heartlight teens, including Mackenzie, who opens up about her struggles with anger and the impact of technology on her relationships, revealing the relief she’s found in disconnecting from social media. Listen in now! Interested in sending your teen to Heartlight? Learn more at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It often feels like we're all running 100 miles an hour, juggling work, errands and life. But in the rush, we might miss the chance to connect with our teens when they need us the most. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the often-overlooked opportunities that parents have to positively impact their teens' lives. They explore how being consumed with daily distractions can cause parents to miss critical moments for connection, and dive into practical ways to stay attentive and engaged. Check it out! To learn more ways to reach your teen despite our world's distractions, check out "Raising Teens in a Contrary Culture" at bit.ly/contrary-culture Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses listener questions on navigating difficult family dynamics. He offers valuable insights on improving relationships with grandparents, co-parenting challenges, navigating difficult marriages and addressing lying behavior in teenagers. Learn the importance of adjusting expectations, self-reflection and changing our own behaviors in order to connect better with our children during their teen years — tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Even in the most devout Christian homes, teens can sometimes lose their way. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd open up about the tough journey of parenting a spiritual prodigal. They share personal stories, offer heartfelt encouragement and bring hope to parents dealing with the heartache of a wayward kid. They talk about the crucial role of trust, patience and adapting your parenting style as your child explores their own beliefs. If you're a parent struggling with a prodigal teen, you'll find comfort, guidance and a sense of community in the experiences and prayers shared in this touching episode — listen now! For a deep dive into how you can help guide your teen through today's culture, check out the Teen Struggle Bundle. Order yours today at https://bit.ly/3RlpHf9 Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Correction may change behavior temporarily, but it's the connection you have with your teen that changes their heart in the long run. In today's show, Mark talks about the importance of focusing on connecting with your teenagers rather than constantly correcting them. Mark shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how parents can prioritize building a deeper relationship with their teens by understanding their love languages, defending them when needed and inviting them into meaningful experiences. Tune in now! Is your child going through a tough time right now? Check out our online Families in Crisis course for insights and tips to bring peace back to your home. Go to bit.ly/FIC-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Loneliness hurts at any age. For our teens, who long to be accepted and feel like they belong, that pain can be enough to make them feel hopeless. In today's episode, Mark talks with two young ladies who open up about their struggles with depression, anxiety and seeking self-destructive coping mechanisms. For Mia, who lived through multiple suicide attempts driven by bullying and loneliness, healing came through working with the horses here at Heartlight. Listen in to these insightful interviews! Want to learn more about the Heartlight program? Go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Do you ever wonder what lies behind the confusing behavior of teens? In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into the complex world of teen behavior triggers. From adoption and divorce to substance abuse, they discuss how underlying issues can manifest in inappropriate or troubling behaviors in teenagers. They shed light on the importance of understanding the root causes behind these struggles and offer guidance on how parents can address triggers with empathy and effective communication strategies. Check it out! For a deeper dive into these issues, check out our Teen Struggle Bundle, which consists of FOUR of Mark's most popular books. Order yours today at bit.ly/struggle-bundle Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark shares practical advice and conversation starters that help parents tackle pressing issues such as friendships, internet usage and conflicts at home. By emphasizing the importance of relationship-building over authoritative commands, he provides thoughtful strategies to open dialogue and foster mutual respect. Whether addressing concerns about school performance, discussing the impact of peers or simply trying to stay connected, this episode offers invaluable insights for parents aiming to strengthen their bond with their teens. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It's not enough to just love your child; they need to feel valued by you. When teens don't believe they’re valued, they often seek validation in unhealthy places, including detrimental relationships and risky behaviors. On today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into practical insights on how to ensure your child feels cherished, including the importance of providing structure, asking meaningful questions and showing unconditional love. They'll also address common issues such as discipline, communication, and the dynamic roles of moms and dads in affirming their children. Listen now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Listening is more than just hearing words — it’s about understanding the heart behind them. As a parent, active listening can transform your relationship with your teen! In today's show, Mark shares some personal anecdotes and practical examples that illustrate the detrimental effects of dismissing or generalizing our teens' struggles and offers advice on how to create an atmosphere for open communication. Whether it's understanding their unique perspective, resisting the urge to correct every detail or offering a judgment-free ear, this episode equips parents with the tools to become better listeners. Tune in! For more help understanding what's going on in your teen's life, read "What's Happening To My Teen?" Get your copy today at bit.ly/whats-happening-teen Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Developing a sense of identity as a teen is already a tough job, but when the heaviness of depression sets in, their self-worth can completely plummet. In today's show, Mark sits down with two young ladies from Heartlight who reflect on the circumstances that brought them there. Emily opens up about her struggles with depression and suicidal thoughts, and how her stay at Heartlight helped her rebuild trust in herself and others. Tune in for these powerful interviews! To learn more about the Heartlight residential program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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From bizarre trends to dangerous challenges, the digital age bombards teens with harmful ideas. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the rise of extreme behaviors influenced by media, the alarming prevalence of self-harm, drinking, sexual promiscuity and drug use. They also share valuable strategies for parents to intervene effectively, build trust and guide their teens through these turbulent times. Join us as we explore how to foster a culture of respect and understanding in your home! For more ideas on building connection, check out our FREE e-course, "Bridging The Gap With Your Teen." Enroll at bit.ly/bridging-the-gap-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston answers some of your toughest questions. From dealing with social exclusion and sibling rivalries to initiating difficult conversations with college-aged children, Mark offers invaluable insights and practical advice. Whether it's understanding the dynamics of online friendships, handling school choices or addressing more severe issues like treatment for eating disorders, this episode is packed with guidance and wisdom. If you’re looking to forge a stronger, more understanding relationship with your teen, tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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As a parent, you need to check your ego at the door. When your teen makes a mistake, it's not an opportunity to showcase your authority, but rather to respond in a way that paves the path to their growth. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore historical methods of discipline and contrast them with more constructive approaches that prioritize the child's learning and relationship with parents. They offer practical advice on how to approach teens when they misstep by using strategic conversation starters, asking insightful questions and avoiding damaging accusations. Remember that confrontation, handled with love and understanding, isn't just resolving today's issue — it's teaching important life skills for tomorrow. Listen now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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As parents, we love our children deeply, and naturally, we want the best for them. But, our expectations can sometimes convey a pursuit of perfection, which is overwhelming for our kids. In this show, Mark draws from his personal experiences and the struggles of colleagues to illustrate how perfectionism can inadvertently place immense pressure on teens, skewing their perceptions of love and acceptance. He advises parents to foster genuine relationships and understanding, ultimately guiding teens to find comfort in their own imperfections. Don't miss this episode! For more help understanding what's going on in your teen's life and the challenges they face, check out Mark's book, "When Your Teen Is Struggling." Order your copy at bit.ly/teen-is-struggling Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In the overwhelming, high-pressure culture we live in, more teens than ever are dealing with depression. It's sometimes hard for parents to see what the root cause is, but in today's episode, Mark chats with two Heartlight teens who offer insights on their battles with depression. The two young ladies share reflections on how they were impacted by shifting family dynamics, isolation, social media and more. Join us as we listen to their powerful stories! Is Heartlight right for your struggling teen? Learn more today at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Are you struggling to understand your teen's behavior? You're not alone. Many parents only see the "fruit" (behavior) without recognizing the "root" (underlying issues). In today's episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the complex underlying issues that manifest as problematic behavior in teenagers. By exploring real-life scenarios, such as a teen's struggle with alcohol and risky behaviors, they look at how surface actions often mask deeper emotional distress. Listen in now! Looking for more parenting guidance based on biblical truths? Our Family Devotional Bundle is a great place to start! Check it out at bit.ly/family-devotional Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston answers questions sent in by parents, addressing concerns such as an adopted teen dismissing consequences and a daughter secretly experimenting with drugs despite maintaining a perfect façade at school. He explores the possibility that such behaviors might be cries for help, stemming from a need for validation or a fear of rejection. For practical tips on encouraging value and self-worth in teens while maintaining a supportive, understanding relationship, listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Fostering open communication in families is crucial. As parents, our role includes creating spaces where our kids feel safe and heard. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into what teens secretly wish their parents knew about them but often feel unable to express. Through heartfelt stories and insightful discussions, they offer parents practical advice on how to create a nurturing environment where teens feel safe to share their deepest thoughts and feelings. Remember, it's not about being perfect parents but about being present and receptive — tune in now! For more help understanding your teen's behavior, check out our free "Tough Guys and Drama Queens" e-course! Enroll today at bit.ly/3PtDGxl Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Legacy isn't about big achievements — it's about the emotional and spiritual support you provide to your family that resonates through generations. Investing in those relationships is one of the most important things you can do! In today's show, Mark dives deep into the essence of cultivating meaningful relationships with your teens and how these interactions form the backbone of a lasting legacy. He emphasizes the importance of listening, understanding and truly connecting with your teen. Tune in now! For more on cultivating meaningful relationships with your teens, check out our free "Five Ways to Stay Engaged With Your Teen" e-course! Enroll now at bit.ly/stay-engaged-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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For some teens, rebellion might be a way of testing limits with their parents, but oftentimes, there's something deeper going on behind the scenes. In today's episode, Mark sits down with two teens from Heartlight, including one young lady who opens up about her battles with depression, the impact of traumatic experiences and issues stemming from being adopted. She reflects on why she defied her adoptive parents' rules and how they're mending the relationship. Listen in! To find out more about Heartlight, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Hearing your teen say, "I can do this on my own!" can be conflicting. While it might feel like rebellion or them pushing you away, it's usually a sign of budding independence. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the journey of nurturing independence in our teenagers. They explore how to recognize and encourage signs of growing autonomy and discuss the delicate balance between guiding and letting go. Listen in for some great insights! If you've ever lost a furry friend, you know how painful that experience can be. Mark's book, "Where's Stitch?" provides support for families as they walk through losing a pet. Order your copy at wheresstitchbook.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Parenting has always been challenging, but today's teens encounter unique emotional and developmental hurdles shaped by societal shifts and the influence of digital communication. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses pressing questions from listeners, from managing relationships and navigating the pitfalls of social media use among kids to addressing the psychological needs of those battling depression and ADHD. Whether you're struggling with tech-related issues or searching for the right time to discuss sensitive topics with your teenager, this episode has something for every parent — listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Are you struggling to connect with your teenager in a world crowded with texts, social media and generational gaps? In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the often overlooked but essential art of effective communication with your kid. They discuss the importance of engagement, asking the right questions, and building relationships through consistent and sincere one-on-one time. Remember, it's not about lectures but about establishing a foundation of trust, valuing their opinion and, above all, showing them you care. Don't wait for a crisis to build bridges — tune in now! For more help understanding your teen's behavior, check out our free "Tough Guys and Drama Queens" e-course! Enroll today at bit.ly/3PtDGxl Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Parenting is never straightforward, especially when you're thrown curveballs you never saw coming. In today's episode, we’re diving into the struggles parents face when their children go through serious issues. Through personal anecdotes and stories from various families, Mark highlights the initial shock and eventual acceptance that parents experience upon discovering their child's poor choices. He also reflects on his own journey of misunderstanding and ultimately reconnecting with his son during a troubling time. Listen in! For more help navigating the ups and downs of parenting, check out our Teen Struggle Bundle at bit.ly/struggle-bundle Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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So many teens today are battling anxiety and depression, leaving them vulnerable to self-destructive coping mechanisms. As shown by the impactful interviews in today's show, it's important to create a strong support system at home. Mark sits down with two young ladies from Heartlight, whose discussions shed light on the reasons behind their struggles with anger, depression and substance abuse, and how they are finding new pathways to healing and happiness. Listen in now! To find out more about the Heartlight program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Conflict with our teens isn't just a challenge — it’s an opportunity for growth and learning. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss how facing these moments head-on can lead to a deeper understanding and a stronger relationship with your teen. They offer practical advice on engaging constructively with your teen during tough periods and working through your differences. Whether you're struggling with little day-to-day battles or trying to make big changes, this episode offers guidance on creating a supportive environment where every family member can thrive. Tune in! For more on effective communication, check out our FREE e-course, "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen," at bit.ly/bridging-the-gap-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston answers questions sent in by parents navigating the turbulent waters of teen romance. Tune in as he discusses tough topics like managing your kid's dating choices when they don't align with family values, addressing crushes that cross religious lines and handling the delicate situation of a teen becoming sexually active. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining a strong, non-judgmental relationship with teens as they journey through their formative romantic experiences. Tune in to gain guidance on how to support your child through the complexities of young love, intimacy and maintaining family connections! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Our kids are navigating through a reality shaded by social media and cultural pressures, where lying seems all too common. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd tackle the pervasive issue of dishonesty among teenagers. They explore the various reasons teens may lie, from avoiding consequences and portraying a certain image to fear of losing relationships or facing embarrassment. They also discuss the delicate balance of addressing lies, setting up opportunities for teens to come clean and ensuring that, as parents, we don't miss the deeper issues behind a teen's dishonest behavior. Tune in now! Want to learn how to better connect with your child? Check out our free e-course, "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen," at bit.ly/3DWPwun Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Wisdom isn't just about age — it's about tapping into our experiences and sharing them meaningfully. You've got stories worth telling and lessons worth sharing, but you need to make them relevant to the world your teen lives in. In this episode, Mark explores the timeless task of imparting wisdom to our teens without alienation or judgment. He shares reflections on his own teen years that debunk the notion that the past was better, urging parents to connect with teens rather than criticize. Tune in now! For more on this topic, check out "Raising Teens in a Contrary Culture." Order your copy today at bit.ly/contrary-culture Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When teens struggle with perfectionism or low self-esteem, social media can seem like an easy way to get validation — but unfortunately, it often makes the problem worse. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Carly, who opens up about the repercussions of bullying on her self-esteem. She reflects on rebelling against her parents and getting obsessed with her phone, seeking the opinions and approval of others on social media. Tune in to these insightful interviews! Is Heartlight the answer for your struggling teen? Learn more about the program at heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Each stage of parenting presents its own challenges, and arguably, none are as daunting as the teen years, a time when kids encounter complex issues, including those related to sexuality and relationships. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd address the challenging topic of maintaining teen purity amidst a culture saturated with messages of sexual promiscuity. They encourage parents to engage with their teens about this issue openly to protect and prepare them for healthier, happier relationships. Listen in now! For more practical advice on helping your teens navigate these issues, check out our eBook, "Teens and Dating." Download it at bit.ly/teens-and-dating Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles tough conversations that can leave any parent feeling lost. Whether it's the struggle to converse with a defiant teen, the heartache of a mother discovering her son viewing porn or the desire to stay connected with a grown-up daughter living with her boyfriend, he offers empathy, realistic advice and encouragement. If you’re a parent who is earnestly trying to bridge gaps and build a stronger bond with your teen, listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Helicopter parenting, while well-intentioned, can hinder our teenagers from developing the necessary skills to succeed in the real world. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore the pitfalls of over-protecting our kids, and the challenges of letting go. They emphasize the importance of entrusting teens with choices, managing the consequences of those choices effectively and celebrating their strides towards independence. Tune in now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Embracing the mundane, everyday moments with teens opens doors to deeper conversations. One of the best ways to show your child they matter is through attentiveness to the little things. Through the lens of 1 Corinthians 2:4-5, Mark shares anecdotes of his own journey in today's show, highlighting the valuable lessons he absorbed from mentors who chose to foster hope over criticism. He explains how the nurturing presence and wise words of role models helped shape his values and calling. Listen in! For more on connecting with your kids, check out our free "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen" e-course. Enroll now at bit.ly/bridging-the-gap-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teens make poor decisions for a lot of different reasons, but it's usually not just to be rebellious. Whether it's loneliness, a cry for love or projecting anger, there's always motivation behind the behavior. In today's show, Mark is joined by two young women from Heartlight who share the struggles they were going through before arriving at the boarding school. For Elizabeth, a tumultuous journey of broken trust and a desperate search for acceptance led to rule-breaking behaviors. Don't miss these interviews! To learn more about the Heartlight program, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Kids today are bombarded with info in ways previous generations never were. Imagine being a teen now, with nearly unlimited access to the world's knowledge — and its misinformation — through the internet. Open discussions with your kids matter more than ever, and that's what Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss in today's show. They emphasize the importance of encouraging open dialogue on sensitive topics and the dangers of letting silence build walls between parents and teens. Check it out! If you're a grandparent interested in learning to better connect with the teens in your life, check out the "Leaving a Legacy of Hope" e-course. Enroll today at bit.ly/legacy-ecourse Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston tackles some of the toughest challenges facing parents, including managing a child's disrespect, addressing a teen's anxiety about activities and fostering open communication during family outings. Mark provides pragmatic advice for dealing with the delicate dynamics of a mother caught between a daughter and an angry father, as well as strategies for curtailing persistent disrespectful behavior without exacerbating tension. Listeners will also discover engaging questions to ask their teens on casual outings that can lead to meaningful conversations and deeper connections. With his heartfelt and experienced guidance, Mark equips parents with the tools to strengthen their relationships with their teens and navigate the rocky road of adolescence with grace and understanding. Tune in today! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd in this enlightening episode as they explore the typical stress responses exhibited by adolescents: fight, flight or freeze. The discussion delves into the underlying reasons for teens' outbursts of anger, their tendency to withdraw or run away, and the concerning signs of depression that can lead to seeking escape through unhealthy means. The hosts examine real-life scenarios provided by listener emails, offering valuable insights and practical advice on setting boundaries, understanding the need for coping mechanisms like gaming, and addressing the critical importance of seeking professional help when needed. This episode promises to empower parents with the tools to compassionately and effectively support their teens through the challenging dynamics of growing up in today's world. Listen in! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this insightful episode, Mark Gregston ventures into the vital topic of teaching responsibility to adolescents, drawing upon Galatians 6:5 as a grounding principle. He shares a cautionary tale about a young lady named Rachel, whose over-involved parent ultimately hindered her ability to cope with adult challenges. Mark emphasizes the significance of the adolescent period as a critical time for parents to shift from protecting and providing to preparing their teens for the realities of adulthood. He encourages parents to find the delicate balance between being overbearing and hands-off, prompting a reflection on how best to guide their teens in becoming self-reliant, responsible individuals ready to bear their own load in life. Don't miss this important message to all parents! For more support on your parenting journey, check out our online store! Visit parentingtodaysteens.org/shop to browse all our resources. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, Mark Gregston engages in heartfelt conversations with Amber and Maggie, two Heartlight teens. Mark delves into the intricate webs of defiance, loss and the search for acceptance that led these young individuals to residential treatment. Amber shares her struggle with anger stemming from childhood revelations about her adoption and subsequent life events, such as the death of loved ones. Maggie recounts her journey toward healing from substance abuse and disrespect that was fueled by a deep sense of pain and a desire for control. Both stories underscore their ongoing processes of reconciliation with their families and finding peace within themselves. Don't miss this compelling conversation! Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more about how the Heartlight residential program helps teens and their families. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this episode, hosts Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd address the vital yet often challenging task of cultivating healthy relationships with teens. Exploring the delicate balance between correction and connection, Mark emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and responsibility as foundations for a lasting parental bond. With a focus on communication, setting clear expectations and consistent parenting, Mark and Wayne provide listeners with actionable strategies to create an environment where teens can thrive and relationships can endure the tumultuous teen years. Be sure to tune in! For more on building healthy expectations within your family, check out "Developing Rules and Consequences." Order your copy at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston addresses a range of pressing questions submitted by parents. He offers deep insights into understanding the root causes of inappropriate behavior and the balance between setting boundaries and understanding your teen's underlying struggles. Mark addresses concerns about gender identity, the influence of social media on teens, consequences for skipping class, handling highly sexual content in romance novels and more — tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Have you ever felt like you've been "fired" by your teenager? Parents often feel devastated when their teen pushes them away, making them feel unwanted and unneeded. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into the underlying issues causing this rejection and explore how parents might unintentionally trigger these responses. They offer encouragement, highlighting how being dismissed by your child can serve as an opportunity for both personal growth and a turning point in the relationship. Tune in now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Being a parent to teens means learning when to speak, hush or walk away. It's not about winning an argument — it's about deepening the bond and establishing a place of safety and rest for your teen. In today's episode, Mark shares insights on the importance of effective communication and the art of listening when navigating challenging conversations with teens. Drawing from his personal experiences, Mark emphasizes the value of creating a space for teens to express themselves, even when their views may differ from yours. Tune in! For more on creating healthy structure in your family, check out "Developing Rules and Consequences" at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Plenty of teens deal with anger, but if the root of it is never addressed, that anger can create much larger problems in their lives. In today's episode, Mark sits down with two Heartlight teens who have experienced struggles with drug addiction and anger management. For Ethan, deep-seated anger started at a young age, and he struggled to handle his emotions. He opens up about his journey to manage his anger and pride, and shares why addressing these things early on is crucial. Check it out! For more information about the Heartlight residential program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Teenagers expressing disinterest in going to church can cause loads of inner turmoil for parents — but these are conversations that can help you better understand your teen's heart. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd address the importance of approaching the situation with understanding and openness, asking thoughtful questions to uncover the root of the reluctance. They also emphasize the need for parents to foster an environment where their teens can question and grow in their own faith and spiritual journeys. This is a great topic, so listen in! To browse all of our parenting resources, check out our online store! Go to parentingtodaysteens.org/shop Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark Gregston tackles a wide variety of your questions. From fashion dilemmas and dealing with loss to understanding sexual orientation and handling the influence of today's entertainment on family values, Mark's parenting trinity remains the key to success. Even when you're at odds with your teen's choices, these principles — love, respect and open communication — hold true. Listen now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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While it may initially seem like the more peaceful path, avoiding conflict with your teenager only leads to greater relational damage in the long run. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd explore how sidestepping conflict can harm the parent-teen dynamic by heightening tension and stress, creating emotional distance and limiting the depth of the relationship. They provide practical guidance for parents who are ready to face conflict head-on, emphasizing the importance of scheduling dedicated discussions and modeling healthy conflict resolution. Don’t miss out — tune in now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's episode, Mark shares a deeply personal and harrowing experience that serves as a powerful reminder of the challenges and unexpected twists life can bring. During a snorkeling trip, Mark found himself in a life-threatening situation that forced him to confront his mortality and left him with invaluable insights. Mark explains how his experience now reminds him of the struggles families encounter in the ever-changing landscape of parenting. As he reflects on his near-drowning incident, he shares the parallels between his battle for breath and the feelings of helplessness that many parents face with struggling teens. This is a powerful episode, so tune in! Is your family walking through a tough season right now? Our Families in Crisis online course can help. Get started today at bit.ly/FIC-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Adoption is a beautiful thing, but as adopted kids get older, they can face unique challenges — many of them related to feeling abandoned or like they don't belong. In today's episode, Mark sits down with a couple more teens from Heartlight, including Glenn, an adopted teen whose journey through mental health challenges began early in his life. He candidly shares about his experiences with adoption, loss and finding acceptance, along with how the boarding school has changed him. Listen in! To find out if the Heartlight program is right for your teen, go to heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today's fast-paced world, it's not uncommon for teens to challenge and even stray from their long-held beliefs. This is an issue that many Christian parents find disheartening, but it's vital to approach your child with understanding and grace. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd share insights on how parents can respond to this challenge, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a loving and supportive relationship with your teens — even when they're questioning their beliefs. Tune in now! For more insights on common parenting challenges, check out our Parenting Toolbox bundle! Get yours at bit.ly/parenting-toolbox Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston encourages parents not to lose heart when faced with a teen who is experimenting with substances. He highlights how the power of parental love and consistent support can positively influence a teen's choices and behavior over time. Don’t let fear ruin your relationship with your teen! Instead of focusing solely on their behavior, prioritize building a deep, loving relationship where they can find solace without resorting to harmful habits. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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When things are broken at home, life can seem hopeless. Whether you are a parent grappling with your own brokenness or seeking ways to support a struggling teen, there is power in acknowledging and addressing pain. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd shed light on the transformative power of facing brokenness head-on, fostering deeper connections within families and paving the way for healing and growth. They emphasize that despite the pain, being broken presents an opportunity to offer help and hope to others — it's in these difficult moments that we have the chance to become more like Christ. Listen now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Every conversation with our teens builds trust and lays the foundation for deeper, more meaningful discussions. As Mark explains in today's episode, it's in these everyday interactions that we can shape their worldview and sense of self-worth. He delves into the importance of building trust and offering encouragement in small conversations, and how the wise words and positive influence of others can shape a person's character. Tune in to this encouraging episode now! For more insights on connecting with your child, enroll in our FREE "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen" e-course! Visit bit.ly/bridging-the-gap-course to get started. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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So many of our teens today struggle with depression — and plenty of them aren't equipped with good coping mechanisms. Instead, they turn to behaviors that only worsen their mental health. In today's episode, Mark sits down with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Hannah, who bravely shares her deeply personal struggles with depression, self-harm and a journey of destructive behaviors, tracing the origins back to a traumatic event in her childhood. These stories are impactful — don't miss them! To learn more about the Heartlight residential program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Are you trying too hard to be your teen's friend? In today's episode of Parenting Today's Teens, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the importance of prioritizing the relationship with your teen over "winning" as a parent. They discuss the significance of communication, inclusivity, rules and the distinction between being a relational parent and being a friend to your teen. They also address how to rebuild a rocky relationship with your teen and why you should own your mistakes. Listen in now! Our teens need the wisdom of grandparents more than ever, and it's important to learn how to connect! Order your copy of "Grandparenting Today's Teens" today at bit.ly/grandparenting-teens Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses pressing questions from parents, touching on everything from handling consequences for a 17-year-old's lies and skipping college classes, to managing relationships, including a daughter's close bond with her boyfriend and a stepdaughter's yearning for more involvement from her biological father. Moreover, he provides insights into guiding teens through emotional pain and addressing communication challenges at the dinner table. Listen now for practical, biblically sound advice! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Self-harm, particularly cutting, has become increasingly prevalent among teens, often serving as a coping mechanism for dealing with anxiety, frustration and depression. It's a sign that teens are struggling with life and desperately seeking an outlet for their emotions. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the underlying reasons and motivations behind self-harming behaviors and provide valuable guidance for parents on how to recognize the signs, engage in open discussion with their teens and seek appropriate professional help. Don’t miss this crucial conversation — tune in now for insights on supporting your teenager's journey toward healing. For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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It's always good to remember that our role as parents is not just to protect teens from pain, but to equip them with the resilience and understanding to navigate through it. That's what'll help them in the real world! In this episode, Mark reflects on a story about getting hurt that taught him a lot, and shares insights into the importance of allowing children to experience and learn from pain to a certain extent. Tune in to learn more about the role pain plays in growth and development! For more on helping your teen get through a challenging time, order a copy of "When Your Teen is Struggling," at bit.ly/teen-is-struggling Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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For kids who've gone through trauma and instability, finding — and keeping — a sense of control can feel incredibly important. But the need to always be in control can hold them back from who they were meant to be. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight who both reflect on their experiences at the boarding school. For Megan, who struggled with anger and control issues when she first arrived, learning to open up and embrace change has deeply shifted her perspective. Don't miss these interviews! If you'd like to learn more about how the Heartlight program works, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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As parents, we often get absorbed in our own activities and miss crucial moments with our teens. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why it's vital to recognize and seize opportunities for connection with our kids. They delve into the idea of missed opportunities within families and the impact they can have on teens and future generations. Using personal stories, they explore the importance of intentionally engaging with teens, asking open-ended questions and being present to address their struggles. Check it out! For more on intentional engagement if you have grandkids, check out Mark's book, "Grandparenting Teens." Order your copy at bit.ly/grandparenting-teens Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles pressing parental concerns head-on. From navigating teen dating and phone use to addressing sexual identity and rebellion, Mark offers not just answers, but actionable advice. He underscores the significance of open communication, boundaries, counseling and maintaining parental influence through each trial of adolescence. Tune in now for the encouragement and guidance you've been seeking! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Are you struggling to find the balance between friendship and parenting with your teen? Today’s parents often strive to have a close relationship with their kids, but in doing so, may blur the lines of authority. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the challenges of maintaining authority while fostering a healthy relationship with teens. They discuss the pitfalls of prioritizing friendship over leadership, and the impact it could have on your child's development — listen now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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As parents, we all want strong, positive relationships with our teens. But what happens when those relationships become strained? In this episode, Mark highlights the influence of today's culture and how it's changing the nature of our connection with our children. Mark encourages parents to reevaluate their parenting strategies and adapt to the changing dynamics, emphasizing the need for a deep and trusting connection with their teens. Tune in now! For more insight into your teen's world, read Mark's book, "What's Happening To My Teen?" Order your copy at bit.ly/whats-happening-teen Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Trauma at any age can be devastating. For teens, who often haven't yet developed the coping skills they need to work through grief or bad experiences, it can feel like the pain will never end. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Zoe, who lost her father at a young age and faced the challenge of dealing with grief and self-harm. Her father's death left a hole in her heart, but as time goes on, she's beginning to heal. Don't miss these powerful stories! Is Heartlight the right solution for your struggling teen? Learn more at heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Parenting teens in the digital age comes with challenges no generation has seen before. We're all learning as we go! In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the complex world of social media and its impact on teens. From understanding the allure of social media to setting boundaries and guiding teens through the potential pitfalls, they offer valuable wisdom and practical advice for parents trying to build a deeper relationship with their kids. Listen in now! For more help guiding your teens through today's challenges, check out "Developing Rules and Consequences." Order your copy at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Your teen always needs to feel your love unconditionally, but sometimes, a tougher love is required. In today's episode, Mark Gregston addresses pressing questions on parenting troubled teens, dealing with grief, and supporting those with addiction and gender identity struggles. He discusses the importance of affirming relationships, accommodating grief and approaching difficult situations with empathy and understanding. Listen now for advice on how to show unconditional love while maintaining boundaries! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy