Both Partners Have a Porn Addiction History. One is Pursuing Real Recovery and the other Refuses to do so; Now What?

In episode 222 of the PBSE podcast, hosts Mark and Steve delve into a deeply personal and challenging topic after receiving a unique submission from a listener. The episode focuses on a couple where both partners have a history of porn and sex addiction, but only one is actively pursuing recovery. The submission details the struggles of trying to support a partner who is resistant to seeking professional help due to past traumas and fears of exposing their addiction. 02:09 - 04:18: Unveiling the Listener's Challenge— Revealing the listener's submission about dealing with porn addiction in her relationship, highlighting the dynamics of both partners struggling with addiction but only one seeking recovery. 04:18 - 06:27: Recovery & Resistance— The listener's journey of recovery and her partner's resistance to seeking professional help. 06:27 - 08:36: Addiction & Hypocrisy— Mark & Steve share personal reflections on their own experiences with addiction, including the struggles with hypocrisy and denial in the face of needing help. 08:36 - 10:45: The Stigma and Fear of Exposure— Exploration of the stigma surrounding addiction and the overwhelming fear of exposure that prevents many individuals from seeking help. 10:45 - 12:54: Barriers to Recovery & the Power of Connection— The various barriers to recovery, including shame and fear of rejection, and the crucial role of connection and vulnerability in overcoming addiction. 12:54 - 15:03: Empathy, Support, & Relationship Dynamics— The importance of empathy and support in a relationship affected by addiction, and how the dynamics between the partners play a critical role in recovery efforts. 15:03 - 17:12: The Importance of Professional Help & Boundaries— The necessity of professional help in recovery and the establishment of healthy boundaries within the relationship for both partners. 17:12 - 19:21: The Potential for Recovery & Healthy Relationships— The potential for individuals and relationships to recover from addiction through committed work and mutual support. 19:21 - 21:30: The Role of Individual Recovery in Relationship Health— Highlighting how individual recovery efforts are essential for the health and sustainability of the relationship, and the dangers of co-dependency. 21:30 - 23:39: Love, Boundaries & Relationship Sustainability— Discussion on the balance between love and boundaries, and how unboundaried love can affect the sustainability of a relationship. 23:39 - 25:48: Facing Hard Truths & Making Difficult Decisions— The importance of facing hard truths within oneself and the relationship, and how difficult decisions may be necessary for long-term health and happiness. 25:48 - 27:57: Cultural & Social Perspectives on Addiction & Recovery— Reflecting on how cultural and social perceptions of addiction and recovery can impact individuals and their willingness to seek help. 27:57 - 30:06: D2C Program & the Importance of Community— Introduction to the Dare to Connect program, designed to provide a unique recovery experience through vulnerability, connection, and community support. 30:06 - 32:17: Conclusion & Encouragement for Listeners— Concluding remarks encouraging listeners to seek support, embrace vulnerability, and pursue recovery. Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at— daretoconnectnow.com Find out more about Steve Moore at: Ascension Counseling Learn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services