About this episode
Wish you had a roadmap for your 20s? Ryan Hanley delivers the brutal truth in this video, sharing 17 harsh lessons he learned the hard way. Forget sugarcoating—these are real-life insights designed to align your life for success and help you navigate the inevitable challenges ahead. Ryan cuts through the noise and delivers a motivation-packed session, drawing from his own experiences and a deep understanding of psychology. He's not just sharing theories; these are hard-learned truths that will reshape your mindset forever. Life isn't fair, and Ryan doesn't pretend it is. He lays out the stark realities you need to face head-on to achieve personal growth. He reveals what they don't teach you in school, emphasizing how your mindset shapes everything. Here's a glimpse of the hard-learned truths Ryan shares: The reality that success requires more than just good intentions. The importance of facing your fears instead of avoiding them. How crucial it is to take responsibility for your own actions. That personal growth is painful, but necessary. The fact that most people will not support your dreams. This video is a wake-up call, a dose of reality, and a powerful guide to navigating the crucial decade of your 20s. Prepare to have your mindset reshaped and your path clarified. Thanks to Mando for sponsoring this episode—use code ' RYAN ' at shopmando.com for 40% off their starter pack, and stay fresh and confident with their top-notch odor control products! 📚 Interested in mastering sales? Check out Ryan's new sales course, "Master of the Close" at https://www.masteroftheclose.com 🎯 Takeaways: Focus determines who you become Mental health is ongoing work Embrace unfair realities 💬 Sound Bites: "Focus determines who you become; consistent focus boosts productivity." "Life's challenges bring true purpose and fulfillment." "Courage to be disliked brings true appreciation." 📖 Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 00:40 - START 02:13 - What You Focus On Is Who You Become 05:34 - Life is not fair 08:02 - Operate in Reality 09:50 - You Are Going To Lose Friends 12:21 - Your Health Is Not A Luxury 14:16 - Mando 17:14 - Mental Health Is A Practice 19:52 - There Are Seasons To Life 23:15 - Give No F*cks - Lesson 9: 24:19 - You Cannot Improve Everything All At Once 25:49 - Be Proud Of Your Faith 27:37 - Consistency is the Killer Flex 28:57 - There Is No Path 31:57 - It’s Either Hell Yes or No 32:56 - Life Is Not Supposed To Be Easy 34:59 - Double Into Your Strengths 36:32 - Have The Courage To Be Disliked 39:01 - Create More Than You Consume 40:43 - You Are Always To Blame 📌 𝗙𝗢𝗟𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗠𝗘 𝗢𝗡 : Website: https://go.ryanhanley.com/ Course Page: https://masteroftheclose.com/ Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ryan-hanley-show/id1480262657 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5AZFuTiQsgS9hMQDDdtlOr?si=98432b7806534486 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryan_hanley -- Recommended Tools for Growth OpusClip: #1 AI video clipping and editing tool: https://link.ryanhanley.com/opus Riverside: HD Podcast & Video Software | Free Recording & Editing: https://link.ryanhanley.com/riverside WhisperFlow: Never waste time typing on your keyboard again: https://link.ryanhanley.com/whisperflow CaptionsApp: One app for all your social media video creation: https://link.ryanhanley.com/captionsapp GoHighLevel: It's time to take your business workflow to the Next Level: https://link.ryanhanley.com/gohighlevel Perspective.co: The #1 funnel builder for lead generation: https://link.ryanhanley.com/perspective -- Episodes You Might Enjoy: From $2 Million Loss to World-Class Entrepreneur: https://lnk.to/delk From One Man Shop to $200M in Revenue: https://lnk.to/tommymello Is Psilocybin the Gateway to Self-Mastery? https://lnk.to/80upZ9 Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. This show is part of the Unplugged Studios Network — the infrastructure layer for serious creators. 👉 Learn more at https://unpluggedstudios.fm.