377: The Key to Keeping the Spark Alive, Having Better Sex and Why It’s Ok to Not Want Kids with Vanessa and Xander Marin

Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander, her husband, is a self proclaimed “regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade.” Together, they help people stop feeling so embarrassed about sex, start having more fun in the bedroom and communicate better. They join the show to talk how to *actually* keep the spark alive in long term relationships, being child-free by choice, how to discern between true incompatibility and just poor communication, the two types of desire and sex drives, relationship and sex myths and how to talk to your partner about sex. This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. Go to clearstem.com/WELL and use code WELL at checkout for 20% off. Save 15% off my favorite red light face mask at boncharge.com and use code BLONDE. Go to www.YNAB.com/well for an exclusive three-month free trial with no credit card required. Visit hungryroot.com/blonde to get 40% off your first box and a free item of your choice. Visit opositiv.com/blonde for 25% off your first order. Visit nutrafol.com and use code BLONDE to get $10 off your first month’s subscription & free shipping. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .