About this episode
Hotel hallway handjobs, pegging with praise, and playful spank counts—Zoo returns to share how their sex anxiety, shifting gender journey, and queer connections are shaping a search for intimacy, pleasure, and community. 📈 STATS | 28 queer trans non-binary human, they/he pronouns, polyamorous, currently partnered, bartender, Shakespearean actor, based in Los Angeles. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Updates since 2022 and meeting their now-husband at a bartender conference 02:00 Hallway makeouts, secret storage rooms, and hotel hookups in New Orleans 07:00 First sparks of connection and navigating sexual anxiety with dance 11:30 Rule-breaking thrills, security cameras, and conference restrictions 13:00 Transitioning to transmasc identity and shifts in dating dynamics 17:00 Comparing Vermont’s queer scene to LA and New York 23:00 Long-distance desires, casual partners, and balancing intimacy 25:00 Shifting attractions toward masculinity and butch presentation 31:00 Anxiety around gender perception 33:00 Noodling questions and focusing on desire over perception 35:00 Condom mishaps, filming discomfort, and an unwanted yeast infection 41:00 Spanking tally game and discovering a new Dom dynamic 43:00 Pegging, praise kink, and playful anal explorations with their partner 45:00 Rediscovering libido through sexy Stardew Valley fanfiction 49:00 Polyamory as essential and struggles with long-distance sex 53:00 Trigger loops, sexual anxiety, and finding new routes to connection 59:00 Exploring kink through pressure, praise, and non-traditional dynamics 01:01:00 The messiness of butt sex and embracing new practices 01:01:20 Photo book project on lesbian bars and queer archival work 01:07:15 Dreaming of queer community spaces and creative hubs 01:12:00 Finding their first porn film online and their kink origins 01:19:00 Future hopes: consistent, connected orgasms and true friends-with-benefits 🤩 TOPICS | Alcove makeouts, anxiety loops, bartender conference romance, bisexual queer identity, body confidence, butch attraction, casual encounters, chest dysphoria, chosen family community, connected orgasms, creative queer bar visions, dancing through anxiety, deep intimacy, disassociation during sex, edgy hotel hookups, ethical porn favorites, evolving gender presentation, fanfiction arousal, first porn memories, friends-with-benefits dreams, high production porn, hotel edging, identity shifts, intimacy struggles, kink discovery, latex allergy mishap, lesbian bar archive, libido revival, long-distance love, masturbation inspiration, motorcycle threesome fantasy, naked dancing, non-latex condoms, non-monogamous orientation, OnlyFans filming regret, pegging with praise, polyamorous identity, pressure play, queer nightlife spaces, relationship anarchist vibes, rule-breaking thrill, security camera exhibitionism, sensuality in vintage porn, sexual anxiety triggers, spanking tally game, Stardew Valley smut, strap-on sex, threesomes with multiple penises, vintage porn aesthetics, wingman support. 🔗 ZOO LINKS | @zooholmstrom / thelongroadtolesbos.com Zoo’s episode from April 2019 | The Fantasy Chamber Zoo’s update from September 2022 | Phantom Dick Orgasms and The Long Road to Lesbos 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .