About this episode
Pegging, porn, and public play—Adj shares how she shed shame, embraced queerness, and found deep pleasure in pain, rope, and sex that honors every body. 📈 STATS | 28 Black queer cis female, she/her pronouns, polyamorous, currently in multiple relationships, based in Toronto, into: sensory and impact play, exhibitionism, pegging partners, getting tied up, the earth, and wants to explore being a soft Domme. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Birthday sex goals and living deliciously 01:06 Snapshot of her current sex life and sexy as comfort in the body 02:20 STI talks, condom joy, and why her results came back “pretty cool” 03:38 Early exposure, pillow humping, and discovering orgasms 06:03 Developing early, school dress codes, and being sexualized too soon 10:28 Catholic guilt, secret masturbation, and the thrill of late-night porn 14:47 Aggressive porn, performative early sex, and learning her own desires 17:04 Breakup revelations, becoming poly, and the magic of Toronto queers 23:07 Sex is sacred—so why not have it with everyone? 24:36 Candle wax, spanking, soreness, and why pain makes her wet 26:57 Rope scenes with a YouTube Dom and laughing between knots 28:00 Screening tops for kindness, communication, and calm temperaments 30:10 Exhibitionist fantasies, outdoor sex, and mutual masturbation 32:14 Back kisses, scalp pulls, nipple play, and vulva make-outs 36:00 Toe sucking and titty fucking 40:33 Turned on by soil, flowers, weather, and wet Earth 44:00 Poly dynamics, pegging joy, and aspiring soft Domme vibes 49:52 Starry sex in the grass and getting lost in the moment 54:00 Orgasms as community work and sexting as safe sex 57:55 Her first dildo, nipple pumps, candle wax, and ball gag cravings 1:03:01 Group sex dreams, sex clubs, and fantasies of slow forest fucking 1:05:35 Butt plug mishap, anal adventures, and survival toys 1:08:00 Advice to younger self: you deserve to feel good too 1:09:27 Erotic Polaroids, nudes as art, and sexy mail fantasies 1:10:57 The joy of documenting desire and building a camera dungeon 🤩 TOPICS | Anal initiation, artful nudes, back-of-neck kisses, barefoot sex, big breasts, bisexual awakening, body appreciation, body-safe candles, butt plug retrieval, Catholic guilt, collarbone come, communication during sex, consensual kink, curiosity-driven sex, dildo shopping, dirty hands and knees, early masturbation, emotional aftercare, erotic photography, erotic Polaroids, exhibitionism fantasy, face sitting, feeling seen during sex, film nudes, foot play, forest sex fantasy, full-body worship, gentle choking, group pleasure, head massages during oral, humiliated dom fears, kink negotiation, kissing necks, late-bloomer queerness, light bondage, lube and feet, making out after prom, masturbation shame cycles, multiple partners, mutual oral, naked cuddles, nipple rolling, nipple sucking, nipple teasing, non-penetrative orgasms, open communication, outdoor fucking, partner dynamics, pegging beginners, personal photo fantasies, pleasure mapping, pleasure-centered dominance, porn influence, private photo swaps, public desire, quickies in the grass, reclaiming dom identity, respectful rejections, romantic group sex, rope curiosity, scalp stimulation, school dress code trauma, secret solo sex, sensual scratches, sex and religion, sex club curiosity, sex nerds, sexual self-trust, shared kink exploration, slow build-up play, soft dom goals, solo wax play, spit-covered breasts, strap-on orgasms, tit play, toe sucking signals, trust in tops, vaginal kissing, verbal consent scripting, voyeurism dreams, warm oil touch, wax safety, wild outdoor orgasms, woman-led pegging. Originally released February 2022. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .