319 | Couples Whisperer, Non-Monogamy Guide & Sex Therapist: Dr Emma Smith’s Sex Stories

Catholic confessional sex stories, military consent training, and the differences between inclusionary and exclusionary consent—Dr. Emma Smith shares her journey from shame to sex therapy, radical honesty in relationships, and helping couples open up with care and curiosity. 📈 STATS | 42 bisexual pansexual cis-presenting agender femme, she/her and any/all pronouns, in a monogam ish relationship, raised Catholic, sexual assault survivor, AASECT certified sex therapist in private practice, writer, intimacy philosopher, advocate for sexual trauma survivors to enjoy sex, from New Jersey, based in Nashville, into: infusing eroticism into daily life, sharing truths and curiosities about sex with partners in playful ways, extended foreplay to build anticipation long before touch is initiated, unlocking shame stories, building sensory awareness and self-trust through solo touch exploration. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 From Catholic schoolgirl to sex therapist and intimacy philosopher 06:19 Coming out in her 30s, a Marine husband’s reaction, and her mom’s allyship 13:04 Defining sexy as authenticity and what her 42-year-old sex life looks like 16:17 Radical honesty, trauma work, and positive sentiment override 24:04 Timeouts, nervous system regulation, and timing back in 27:18 Monogamy, expansive love, and health practices around testing 34:10 Sex therapy: trauma recovery, couples work, and sex as the canary in the coal mine 38:16 Helping couples open up with relationship agreement intensives 42:15 Virgin Mary statues, masturbation shame, and “transactional” sex 58:11 Confession booth stories and Catholic guilt through college 59:29 Teaching Marines consent by valuing their own bodies 1:13:12 From trauma counseling to sex therapy and post-traumatic growth 1:16:36 Responsive vs. spontaneous desire and the myth of “spontaneity” 1:19:04 Releasing inherited shame stories 1:21:35 Believing people when they tell you who they are and allowing evolution 1:22:57 Spreading ripples of love by celebrating small creative acts as miraculous 🤩 TOPICS | AASECT certified sex therapist, allyship and coming out stories, authenticity in relationships, awareness through masturbation and solo touch, betrayal trauma therapy, bisexual femme perspective, body trust and self-awareness, Catholic guilt and purity culture, Catholic upbringing and Virgin Mary statue, charcuterie board therapy intensives, communication skills in couples, consent training for Marines, couples counseling and sex therapy, creative acts as love and miracles, daily eroticism practices, erotic embodiment and pleasure, extended foreplay for anticipation, fluid bonding conversations, health and STI testing practices, infidelity recovery and healing, intimacy philosophy and writing, masturbation shame and guilt, military sex education programs, nervous system regulation in relationships, non-monogamy frameworks and polyamory, orgasmic embodiment and desire, polyamorous relationship dynamics, post-traumatic growth and sexuality, power of curiosity and playfulness, purity ring and chastity culture, radical transparency and honesty, relationship agreements for opening up, responsive versus spontaneous desire, self-trust building through touch, sexual assault prevention training, sexual trauma recovery and healing, shame release exercises, soft yes consent framework, spontaneous desire myths and realities, survivor advocacy for sex positivity, therapy for betrayal and infidelity, trauma-informed counseling practices, valuing men’s consent and bodies, writing and intimacy philosophy. 🔗 DR EMMA LINKS | @emmasmithphd / @emmasmithphd.bsky.social / facebook / substack 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER69 for 65% off your yearly membership UNCOMMON GOODS: One-of-a-kind gifts | Go to uncommongoods.com/SEXSTORIES for 15% off RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈‍⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .