About this episode
From Mormon shame to porn star freedom—Nikki shares her journey of discovering pleasure, navigating power play, and cultivating authentic human connection on and off camera. 📈 STATS | 29 bisexual woman, she/her pronouns, ex-Mormon, ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, in a committed relationship, porn star, content creator, legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch, originally from Utah, Vegas-based, into: extended vanilla deliciousness, all things sensual, deep human connection, exploring power play, interesting experiences off- and on-camera, and exhibitionism. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Mormon shame, early sex curiosity, and the long road to self-acceptance 03:59 Joy in cats, camping, cuddling, and connecting through everyday intimacy 07:12 Discovering self-love through sex work and the freedom of turning off 11:35 Objectification vs intimacy, respect first, and being fully seen 16:00 Receiving love, nervousness around gifts, and evolving comfort with generosity 20:15 Confidence as a turn-on and why honest “nice guys” finish first 24:45 How she builds connection with clients—and why eye contact matters 29:00 STI testing, throat & rectal swabs, and why porn taught her more than doctors 33:50 Wellness upgrades, probiotic pussies, and looking good vs feeling good 38:13 Performing passion vs feeling it—how real chemistry shapes porn scenes 42:15 First nudes, getting scouted, and how solo porn helped her come alive 46:30 Early queer stirrings, being accused of “faking” bisexuality, and finding her people 50:56 Abstinence-only education, virginity myths, and how she actually figured out sex 55:20 Telling the bishop, disappointing her parents, and the shame spiral she escaped 59:01 Hookup culture, selfish lovers, and why sex work feels safer than dating 1:03:00 Swinger stereotypes, opening up with her partner, and starting sex work with support 1:07:00 Power play, subspace, and the emotional safety required for surrender 1:11:00 On-set growth: learning to dirty talk, perform angles, and bring her full self 1:15:10 Orgasm evolution, from car blowjobs to crashing backwards mid-ride 1:19:00 Sensuality, nipple sensitivity, fingers in mouths, and how she drops into her body 1:23:00 Worship me: foot play, toe sucking, and when someone’s turn-on turns you on 1:27:00 Slow sex off-camera, wild sex on cam, and creative couple play with her partner 1:31:00 Girl-girl gangbangs, orgy flow, and feeding off other performers’ energy 1:35:30 Arm fetishes, field day foam parties, and her favorite Sherry’s GFE moments 1:39:00 Being recognized from porn and the sweetness of thoughtful fans 1:43:00 The porn industry’s growing pains and her call for safety & education reform 1:47:00 Building a simple, sexy life and spreading love through authentic connection 🤩 TOPICS | Abstinence education, adult film industry, adult modeling, aftercare, alienation from religion, anal sex, arm fetish, arousal, authenticity, AVN, baking, BDSM, being objectified, bisexuality, blowjob technique, body image, body worship, brothel, camming, car sex, champagne gun, clitoral orgasm, client experiences, cock slapping, cock worship, communication, connection, consent culture, content creation, courtesan work, cuddling, custom videos, deep throat, desire, digital sex work, dirty talk, dominance, ethical non-monogamy, ethical porn, exhibitionism, exploration, eye contact, fantasies, female ejaculation, female pleasure, fetish play, fingering, foreplay, free use kink, girlfriend experience, giving head, group sex, hookup culture, hotwife, human connection, IUD, intimacy, intimacy coordination, kink, kissing, legal brothel, lesbian porn, lingerie, masturbation, military clients, missionary position, Mormon shame, multiple orgasms, mutual respect, nipple play, non-monogamy, objectification, OnlyFans, open relationships, oral sex, orgasm techniques, outdoor sex, parasocial relationships, pegging, performance sex, physical affection, porn, porn performance, power dynamics, power play, pussy eating, real orgasms, Reddit nudes, roleplay, rough sex, safe sex, safety protocols, same-gender exploration, self-pleasure, self-worth, sensuality, sex education, sex industry, sex on camera, sex outside, sex parties, sex positivity, sex toys, sex work, sexual agency, sexual boundaries, sexual confidence, sexual curiosity, sexual empowerment, sexual expression, sexual healing, sexual identity, sexual liberation, sexual shame, sexual trauma, sexting, SextPanther, Sheri’s Ranch, slow sex, solo play, STI testing, submission, subspace, supportive partners, swinger stereotypes, taboo, talking dirty, teenage sex, testing requirements, threesome play, tit play, toe sucking, topping, trust building, vaginal orgasm, vibrator play, vulva, webcam shows, worship kink. 🔗 NIKKI LINKS | linktr.ee/itsnikkisweet 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! 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