About this episode
Before he decided to be monogamously partnered in 2015, Ryan (40 Iranian cis m who was raised in a Muslim family, is married, monogamous, and has been with his partner for 8 years) was the kinkiest person in his neighborhood. Curious since childhood, he was raised in a Monogamous Muslim household, but by the time his mom told him masturbation was something bad that should be avoided, it was too late—he already knew how good it really was. In Iran, all sexy things had to be discreet but also direct, and he talks about what it was like to pick people up when time is limited, and how, once he got a reputation for being a safe partner (and a good tutor), he had plenty of opportunities to get laid. His first time was with a hooker, and his first relationship was with a girlfriend who was into risky things, like public sex in steamed up cars in a country where consequences could be fines or, in some cases, required marriage. Anal was available since so many vaginas were saving themselves for marriage, and he attributes his kinkiness to porn. Threesomes didn’t exist for him until he got to the US, and once he was confident in his English and especially once dating apps were a thing, he had no time meeting, pleasuring and playing with kinky lovers (in one instance: a MILF and…later, separately, her daughter), and had a kinky dude friend who he’s done several DP’s with, including a double anal penetration. He admires partners who deep throat, gets turned on by cis and trans women, and has also had fun with at least one sissy femme. He loves facials, looking at assholes, gaping (knowing a hole has stretched for him), sloppy blowjobs that are full of spit and go all the way down and all the way up, with and without hands, and while he’s not into the idea of a threesome with his wife, he engages in tons of kinky fantasy and still enjoys vanilla sex, too, as long as his partner is into it, he’s happy. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .