About this episode
“The more stress I can take away from her the sluttier she gets for me.” Kemosabe (33 straight Asian American Daddy Dom in a relationship of 3 years) grew up Catholic and never got a sex talk or lesson in consent, but he does remember late-night scramble porn in his pre-teen years, plus the first porn scene he saw, set at the beach, which kicked off his love of walking around naked outside, eventually with a boner. He remembers when masturbation explorations turned messy, shares about how hard he came with a partner the first time, and how simple handjobs can help him fall asleep. He enjoyed not committing to one lady in high school, but has always been a communicator and has been fueled by enjoyment of nurturing both partners and friends, and in his early adult years he moved to SoCal and started learning about sex beyond penetration, using mouths and hands to please his partners, learning from porn stars (he gives GREAT details at 00:21:25), and tells a great story about how his date’s friend walking in on them in the hotel room turned *awesome.* Kemosabe also shares about getting invited to a sex party at a local fet lounge, learning more about kink and BDSM, finding community in nakedness, sneaky public play—like hot under-the-table dinner fingerings that led to a popped trunk parking lot delight—and being the “practice material” for the teacher at a workshop on oral sex, and then he got invited to participate in a threesome on stage—and answer questions during it. He thinks it’s hot when his fiancée just takes what she wants, and when she gets cum-drunk, he can bite her and she’ll come again. She’s so into pain, so he loves offering her spanks, crops, clamps, plugs, dildos, playing with flashlights, getting tied up, and talks about the amazing community where they met—a kink group for Asian Americans he helped start. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .