About this episode
Raised by a bi-mom who was clearly kinky and suffered from repression, BellaDonnaKaren (45 he/she/they w pansexual poly non-binary person who is married and partnered) is a lovely human after Wyoh’s very own heart, because they looooooove exploring. Topics of discussion: the sexiness of low cut silk lingerie, hotness of the hunt and following curiosity, difficult on dating apps, meeting their partner at 16 and being WILDLY attracted, a big shame experience resulting from their partner’s move to another state, and how that eventually became their wife, the internal turmoil caused by normalized ideas that romance includes a lot of partnership ideals in which ownership, possession, and jealousy are part of “love.” Neither BDK nor Wyoh are into that! They also talk early experiences, discovering riding crops, Kama sutra positions, oil, massage, candles, and how hot their girlfriend’s mom’s bedroom was — and the day they tried anal for the first time, on her crisp white sheets. And ball play, foreskins that led the way to masturbation discoveries, growing apart from their partner sexually during a period of shame, reconnecting after a period of intense porn marathons and starting to explore kink together, the effect of MDMA on their own personal feelings of shame and embarrassment melting away, and how that led to a sexual revolution and awakening in the late 20’s and early 30’s, in which they also learned that watching videos of other people fucking their wife is hot. And asking their mom about golden showers, and further explorations when it comes to appreciating BDSM in fantasy vs actually wanting to try it in the 3D world, how much they love being a target, what happened when they drank the golden shower of a partner on MDMA, and future desires to explore lovers of all ages, glory holes, orgies, more group play, and about BellaDonnaKaren, who is, in their words, a “goth chick that lives inside of me, that’s always lived inside of me” — and is, so far, not part of their sexual life, but is an extremely hot creative outlet. NOTE: Phimosis and paraphimosis are problems with the foreskin of the penis. Phimosis is when a foreskin can’t be pulled down (retracted) from the tip of the penis. This is a common problem in young boys. Paraphimosis is when the foreskin is retracted but can’t move back up. This can prevent normal blood flow in the penis, and may cause serious problems. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .