About this episode
Over the past two years, Josie (30 w Danish cis f heteroflexible sensual submissive in a monogamish relationship with a German man) has been feeling more confident in her own sexuality than ever. A playful open communication style (and relationship!) with her long-distance partner is part of it, and she tells us how new and sexy it was to experience explicit consent as a fun, grownup game. She remembers masturbating to the voice of Cher, parents who were open, flirty, and often naked, and feeling a sense of liberation talking to her friends about orgasms, her siblings about sex, and the formative experiences at boarding school, where kids in Denmark usually spend a year sometime between ages 15-17. Early experiences were hard to communicate and Cosmo was little help, and her current partner made hot personalized “instructional” videos about his balls, and she shares learnings of ball play, making everything wet, building to orgasms, her felt experience of inside/outside alternations, and how much she enjoys the Dom/sub dynamic that she is exploring consciously for the first time. She tells a story of a therapist who clearly didn’t understand power dynamics, the struggle for partnered poly dating on tinder, threesome wooings, submissives taking turns, and telling her partners juicy details after each time she’d see her couple lovers. Her future bucket list includes more BDSM explorations, clubs, rope, and novel things in general. She wants more spankings, which she gets by being very bratty, but she’s not into face hitting or humiliation, though she is super DUPER into struggle fucks, which leans more toward wrestling than CNC fantasies for her, and we also talk the hot taboo of anal, kissing compatibility, and how a really mean Dom is one who withholds kisses. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .