About this episode
Glory holes, gay porn, deep throating, and phone sex Domination—Sydney shares how she’s letting go of perfection, embracing her full self, and satisfying her intimacy needs. 📈 STATS | 40s Trans Black Femme, power bottom, single-but-dating, Los Angeles-based, into: kissing, dirty talk, equality in bed, open sex talk, gangbangs. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 FaceTime dating wisdom 5:40 Shame squiggles and what she needs to feel safe 14:00 Adult bookstores and glory hole dick sucking 20:29 Discovering the joys of fucking everywhere at any time 27:45 Balancing her needs for comfort, safety, and connection 34:10 Why effort feels sexy and the perks of hotel sex 38:03 Phone sex mistress and a fuckboy toy submissive 43:09 The hotness of hiring a sex worker 47:30 Holy grail gangbang and craving caresses 49:41 Chasing the drug of genuine intimacy 56:55 Shower sex: getting ravished and vulnerable golden showers 1:04:06 Enforcing boundaries and reclaiming her home 1:08:17 Mutual choking and making out 1:11:33 Constantly evolving and finding what feels good 1:16:40 Exploring trans-friendly BDSM spaces, international sex, and kitchen table poly 1:22:22 Craving mutual vulnerability and the pleasure of exciting partners 🤩 TOPICS | anal sex, anonymous hookups, ass eating, bdsm consent, bareback trust, body worship, boundaries in intimacy, caressing thighs, choked kissing, coming out as sexual, consent education, connection over casual sex, cross-dressing partners, cum swallowing, deep intimacy, deep throating technique, demisexual desire, dirty talk, emotional safety, erotic massage offers, ethical non-monogamy, facetime dating test, feet worship, fingering play, gay bookstores, gentle domination, golden showers, grinder hookups, group sex, hair pulling, hand on the small of her back, healing from assault, heel and lingerie fetishes, hotel room hookups, hygiene and grooming, international sex adventures, intimacy communication, kissing full body, kitchen table polyamory, kinky phone sex, learning through pleasure, masturbation stories, mutual choking, naked cuddling, non-binary exploration, older lovers, oral worship, pegging curiosity, pegging fantasy, piss play, pleasure communication, pleasure-based boundaries, polyamorous triads, primal attraction, public sex adventures, queer sexuality, ravishing shower sex, role as a sex worker, safe sex talk, sexual healing journey, sexual health testing, sexual shame release, shower fucking, spanking and slapping play, spontaneous public sex, submission and control, switching dynamics, tested gangbang fantasies, threesome dynamics, touch and tenderness, trans femme sexuality, trans women dating apps, vulnerable aftercare, vulnerability as arousal, worshipful sex, worldwide sexual exploration. 🔗 SYDNEY LINKS | @missbarbieqla 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .