About this episode
Porn is sex stunts with fun toys and gear, and in Electra Rayne’s case, lots of electric, queer creativity—and Electra (26 f bisexual poly and partnered sw in a six year relationship) shares stories that include milking machines, TENS unit butt plugs for electro play, a cattle prod, a VR shoot for kink.com , toy sterilizers, pegging on inflatables and then popping them, and (safely, executed with an internal condom) an up-the-butt ping pong ball party at Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel near Las Vegas, Nevada*. Discovering kinky rope bondage on boobs.com as a 5th grader changed her life. While she studied to be a forensic scientist, Electra knew she wanted to do porn since she was 12, she just didn’t think it would be her main thing. Raised by progressive loving parents who taught her the emotional and pleasure components of sex but failed to mention anything about penises in vaginas helping sperm get to eggs, her understanding of sex and desire evolved along with her understanding of rope bondage and that wiggly feeling she was learning to like. Electra talks about her lactation fetish, sidesteps some of the fantasies that still embarrass her, and explains how sex is about enjoyment, not orgasm, her experience of primary and secondary orgasms, and the nuance she experiences between feeling sexy and feeling turned on. She and Wyoh talk money kinks, how hot clarity is, distilling our evolving desires and talking about them with partners and clients, and she shares details of some extremely hot psychedelic sexy experiences she’s had with her wife, how she handles attractions to colleagues on set, and why authentic queer sex on camera is so important to her—and how she strives to create a space for that. Electra explains how hip, shoulder and pelvic surgery have complicated her sex life and excitement for her upcoming hysterectomy, why working at a brothel is like an amazing vacation and also the hardest, most intense work ever, finding the balance between variety and routine, what it’s like to have a wildly supportive spouse who is not in the porn world and what it’s been like to open up their relationship, the standard Electra has when it comes to creating a supportive environment for her performers, and how she reconnects to her own sexuality, over and over again. 🔗 ELECTRA LINKS | queercrush.com / www.electrarayne.net 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .