About this episode
Wil (57 mostly straight but pan-curious married cis m) loves to surprise his wife with massages so she can relax, and has learned a ton about moving energy in sexy ways. Boundaries and confidence are sexy, and he’s open to noticing turn-on in everyday life. He shares how learning about tantra has influenced his experience and understanding of sex, his own sexual energy, and has influenced his ability to communicate about it. His early sex life included fear-based sex ed, and then real-life hard stuff: nervousness around hardness and getting laughed at, getting first chlamydia then HPV fairly early on in his partnered sex life, and initially struggling to figure out how to connect. However! Recent years have included surprising his wife with a former boyfriend (that led to a hot threesome), a year of solo poly, meeting his wife at a music festival, going to dungeons together, and exploring their edges, discovering what exactly they want to grow into together. He tells stories about hiding dirty magazines in baggy pants, how he realized connection and safety are vital for the kind of (deep, kinky) sex he ultimately wants, how that’s related to his hard-on, and what he learned from hiring sex workers on his cross-country road trip. He also reminds Wyoh OM-ing is on her bucket list, goes into details of how he likes to pleasure a partner, talks about what it’s like to have sex as he gets older, and speaks to the evolution of his ability to connect deeply and intentionally with his partners, which at one point included a bath facilitated for him by two beautiful goddesses, to help him practice receiving. Wil also talks about exploring with men, anal, and the feelings of uncertainty that come up for him, as well as the types of touch his body loves, porn phases he’s gone through and the specifics of what he finds erotic, and how his interests in leather work and rope are part of the power dynamic he and his wife have, what exploring more looks like, and this one hot time with a blindfold and a lot of incredible sensations. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .