About this episode
Voyeurism, non-monogamy, and exploring partner-specific kinks—Nico shares deep noodles on the power of permission and how he’s fortifying humanity through the gift of his own personal “medicine.” 📈 STATS | 39 straight Scandinavian-American, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, film professional, California-based, world traveler, into: sensual self-discovery, sexuality and brain chemistry, hedonsim, reinvention, ethical non-monogamy, kink, partners’ pleasure, emotional sensuality, existentialism, non-attachment. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Hedonism, collective enjoyment, and connecting with animals 05:20 How granting himself permission to be “selfish” allows him to experience what he loves and consciously gift himself to others 10:12 Practicing balance in all things and reflecting on past experiences to shape his future 15:44 Why he loves being asked to share present moments with others 17:40 Generosity tattooed on his soul and the gift of sharing “medicine” 23:46 Intense moments and out-of-body experiences for him and his partners 26:45 Laughter and communal joy that lead to intimacy 29:36 The ways he grounds himself in everyday moments and connecting with others during hard times 32:44 Eye gazing as his ultimate connector 39:20 Layering sensory pleasures and empowering humanity to find his own nirvana 42:51 Ego death and the cyclical nature of destruction and creation 47:26 Joyful non-monogamous explorations and preferred relational structures 53:50 Balancing his all-or-nothing tendencies and investing in his needs 1:02:14 Scandinavian influences: sex ed, a taboo-free night of freedom, and his first cougar encounter 1:10:36 How “self-preservation” and a fear of rejection in his early 20s led to pursuing older women 1:13:46 Public libraries, pin-up porn, and photographic voyeurism 1:19:05 Ambidextrous masturbations, scramble porn, and erotic supermarket magazines 1:23:35 Teasing and denial kink origins + an unexpected first handjob 1:31:07 Why he initiates sex with enthusiastic oral + pros and cons of being performance-focused 1:38:06 Energetic erogenous explorations and sharing sex-inspired creativity 1:46:20 Why he loves satisfying divorced women and the unparalleled pleasure in permission to pour his passion into lovers 1:51:10 Enabling his most Dominant self with his submissive Good Girl partner 1:55:13 How non-monogamy helps him discover the different sides of himself and noodles on “mating for life” 2:01:11 Sharing sensuality and embracing wildness 2:03:06 Swedish orgies and finding kinksters wherever he goes 2:06:50 Voyeurism and double-teaming at a sex party 2:09:39 Subtle voyeuristic dreams and why he wants everyone to discover their North Star 🤩 TOPICS | Accepting pleasure, aftercare intimacy, ambidextrous masturbation, animal connection, artistic sensuality, awareness of ego, balancing autonomy, body worship, candlelight passion, care-based sex, collective laughter, communication and consent, conscious dominance, creative erotic energy, Danish porn nostalgia, emotional generosity, energetic connection, erotic foreplay, eye contact, fantasy exploration, fear of rejection, female pleasure focus, film and sensual storytelling, giving and receiving, gratitude in sex, hedonistic lifestyle, healing through sensuality, intimate medicine, kink discovery, late bloomer sexuality, laughter after orgasm, mindful masturbation, mutual fulfillment, nipple and breast play, non-attachment relationships, open communication, oral worship, orgasmic laughter, partners’ happiness, permission-based pleasure, physical touch awareness, playful kink dynamics, polyamorous self-discovery, pussy eating passion, reciprocal pleasure, rejection healing, sensual self-care, sensual storytelling, sensory connection, sex and creativity, sexual confidence growth, sexual reinvention, sexual storytelling, shared climax, sharing medicine, slow foreplay, solo pleasure practices, spiritual sensuality, spontaneous laughter, submission and dominance, teasing and denial, visual sensuality, voyeuristic desire. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! 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