About this episode
Pegging explorations, unexpected orgies, and sex clubs with friends—Jack shares updates about her own life plus their research on the intersection of kink and autism. 📈 STATS | 31 genderfluid autistic human, she/they pronouns, single, sex educator, sex researcher, into: sensations, impact play, human sexuality, squirting, sex parties, underwater oral. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 How a formal autism diagnosis helped them realize what they do and don’t understand about neurotypical behaviors 07:04 Enjoying tit-clit-tit flogging + when IS sensory play sexual or nonsexual? 12:38 Flogging tips for beginners 14:18 How a PhD assignment led to an unexpected oral sex orgy 18:34 Open to orgies with friends and why you should NEVER bite a clit without consent 21:50 A field trip to a San Francisco sex club 23:03 Having a threesome with a pregnant woman and her husband who are beautifully in love 28:50 Educational squirting experience with a big double-ended dildo 31:34 Discovering a more recent preference for penetration and staying connected post-threesome 35:45 First time pegging a dude and future harness explorations 40:32 Sleeping with her dentist and a mouth full of pubes 44:53 A sixth sense for what a dick will look like before seeing it 47:30 Navigating a mismatch of sexual rhythms and why they always do a debrief after sex 54:01 Underwater hot tub blowjobs and a partner losing his shorts 56:51 Excited for double penetration, dating more women, and for their sex life to keep getting better and better 1:00:06 How YOU can help research the huge overlap of autism and kink 1:02:52 Realizing that her PhD in human sexuality is only the beginning 🤩 TOPICS | Academic sex research, aftercare communication, anal play discussion, anxiety and social masking, arousal differences in autistic people, autistic sensory processing, BDSM exploration, body-based awareness, blowjobs underwater, bondage and discipline, clitoral sensitivity, cognitive empathy, communication after sex, consent education, couple dynamics, cum play, dating women, debriefing after play, deep penetration, dildo demonstration, double-ended dildo, double penetration excitement, ethical nonmonogamy, experimental sexuality, field research in human sexuality, flogging basics, flogging sensations, friends-with-benefits boundaries, group sex adventures, harness play, hot tub sex stories, humor in sexuality, intimacy debriefs, kink and autism overlap, kink community research, kink education, learning through sex, love and neurodivergence, mental health in sexuality studies, mouth fetish, neurodiverse pleasure, neurodivergent arousal, neurotypical confusion, oral sex orgy, orgasm communication, orgasm research, pegging beginners, pegging exploration, penetration preference, polyamorous play, post-play connection, power exchange exploration, pregnant threesome story, pubes and humor, relationship awareness, research participation call, safe sex discussions, San Francisco sex club, sensory boundaries, sensory overload, sensory play, sexual discovery, sexual mismatch, sexual self-reflection, sexual variety, shared pleasure, social decoding, squirting education, strap-on play, threesomes with couples, tit-clit-tit sensation play, trust and safety, unexpected group sex, vulnerability in kink, women-loving-women connection. Jack’s episode from October 2019 | The Ooey Gooey Game 🔗 JACK LINKS | survey screener / jmurphy@mymail.ciis.edu 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .