About this episode
Hollywood in the era of free love, cunnilingus joy and expertise, and reflections on relationships over his eight decades on this planet—Bernie shares how creativity flows through all aspects of his life as an Indigenous storyteller and generous lover. 📈 STATS | 76 straight Indigenous Native human, he/him pronouns, single, writer/director, from Southern California, into: female orgasms, kissing, receiving head, humor, writing ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Enthusiastic creativity and why writing is the “hardest artwork there is” 02:37 The intimacy of reading someone a movie and what he loves about being close to a woman 04:27 Falling in love with himself over and over through the process of writing 06:48 What he loves in a woman and his natural generosity 10:23 Tips on how to kiss and his introductory experiences with physical intimacy 14:35 Connecting through humor and why he always prefers talking over texting 19:12 The unique chemistry of every relationship and knowing when the energy isn’t a match 23:44 How there can still be deep love even with a lifestyle mismatch 29:16 Hollywood free love in the 60s, handjobs on acid, and yelling “fire” to interrupt an assault 33:00 Teaching a girl how to give the best blowjobs 35:37 Eyes, tits, nipples, and clits + his favorite ways to make partners cum 38:28 Turn-ons from partners’ reactions and why he rarely edges women 42:31 Go-to masturbation habits and being okay with taking a long time to orgasm 44:53 How he plays with pussies and his hands-on sex education 48:59 Passed around from friend-to-friend and free love hippies 51:19 Five girls in one week and the benefits (and drawbacks) of being a word-of-mouth lover 55:44 What it’s like being with three girls at the same time 57:22 Spiritual relationship needs and cumming through jeans 1:02:57 How to give a great foot massage with cowboy boots on 1:05:39 Car sex, sensitive thighs, and anal play preferences 1:10:12 Creative condoms and the clap 1:11:27 Preferring “natural toys” during sex 1:13:30 Why cowgirl is his favorite sexual position 1:15:56 Three-hour phone sex sessions and face-sitting surprises 1:19:18 How a brain operation and a blitzed-out Halloween experience led to a substance-free lifestyle 1:24:08 Spreading love and embracing Indigenous sovereignty instead of war 🤩 TOPICS | Age gap dating, anal play, ass licking, attraction and desire, body confidence, car sex, chemistry and connection, clitoral stimulation, cock worship, communication and consent, cowboy boots massage, cowgirl position, creative directing, cunnilingus techniques, deep kissing, emotional intimacy, erotic storytelling, female pleasure, fingering skills, foot massage fetish, foreplay, free love movement, French kissing tips, group sex stories, hands-on sex education, healthy lifestyle choices, Hollywood in the 1960s, humor and connection, indigenous identity, kissing techniques, libido over 70, making women cum, male masturbation habits, mutual satisfaction, nipple and clit play, oral sex skills, passionate lovers, physical touch, porn-free pleasure, pussy worship, relationship reflections, romantic generosity, safe sex and consent, self-love practices, sexual creativity, sexual exploration, sexual generosity, sexual storytelling, shared pleasure, spirituality and sex, spreading love not war, storytelling as foreplay, threesome experiences, toy-free sex, turn-ons and pleasure zones, writing as erotic expression. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .