About this episode
Deep throat, anal, threesomes, and a Colosseum blowjob—Susanne shares how she went from faking orgasms and self-abandonment to reclaiming her body, desire, and kinky power in a new relationship that centers her pleasure. 📈 STATS | 47 heteroflexible cis femme from Denmark in a new relationship that’s a few weeks old. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Shame-free and thriving: how she transformed her relationship to sex 01:07 Divorce, discovery, and the post-marriage sexual explosion 04:09 Realizing no one else brought up safer sex—and doing it anyway 08:10 Childhood neglect, intense need for attention, and early masturbation 14:12 Seeking love through sex, multiple partners, and emotional fallout 22:01 A 20-year marriage, connection without passion, and vanilla routines 27:45 First double penetration with her husband and early kink curiosity 33:10 Faking orgasms, acting happy, and losing herself in the role of “good wife” 35:06 The 3am realization that she didn’t love him—and had to leave 38:05 Masturbation bootcamp, reclaiming her slut phase, and exploring for herself 43:32 Discovering her true submissive desires: choking, spanking, spit, and control 48:53 “Chase my pleasure, not my orgasm”—how that shift unlocked everything 52:56 Squirting, deep throat, throat soreness—and loving every second 56:08 Her nipples “woke up like volcanoes,” and she can feel every inch of her body 58:51 Nudes, attention, and sexting as a form of connection and turn-on 59:39 Watching porn, shame around rape fantasies, and a consensual play scene 1:04:06 Emotional safety, nervous system regulation, and orgasms with her new partner 1:08:12 First blowjob in the Colosseum, first anal, and a Roman love affair 1:11:11 Sexual hopes: more kink, more adventure, and emotional connection 1:12:28 Advice to her younger self: sex is not love—trust and take care of yourself first 🤩 TOPICS | Anal training, anxious attachment, attention kink, blowjob technique, breast play, BDSM curiosity, being held down, belly worship, body image healing, butt stuff, childhood sexual development, clit stimulation, cock worship, condom negotiation, consensual slapping, cum cravings, Danish submissive, degradation kink, desire after divorce, dirty talk, discovery of the G-spot, divorced and dating, erotic choking, erotic control, erotic massage, face sitting, female fluid play, fingers inside, fluid play, group sex fantasy, hair pulling, heteroflexible woman, intense masturbation, kink awakening, kinky communication, kinky dating in Denmark, late bloomer sex story, lingerie confidence, male dominance, masked Dom, masturbation during divorce, mental health and sex, messy sex, mutual submission, nipple sensitivity, NSFW texting, oral giving vs. receiving, orgasm control, orgasm drought, pegging curiosity, physical aftercare, pleasure over performance, porn preferences, power imbalance, pussy worship, rape play fantasy, raw confessions, reclaiming sluttiness, rope bondage, rough play boundaries, safe kink exploration, self-worth and sex, sensual choking, sexting while working, shared masturbation, shower sex fantasy, slow touch arousal, soft dominance, soft limits, spanking, spit kink, squirting journey, strap-on curiosity, submission triggers, subspace exploration, taboo desire, teasing with touch, tit play, trust exercises, unlearning shame, vibrator habits, video sexting boundaries, voice kink, vulva discovery, wet and messy play, wounded inner child, writing erotic stories. Susanne’s update from December 2022 | Sex, Coffee, Repeat Originally released August 2022. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .