About this episode
TW: personal story includes childhood sexual trauma. Izzy (30 bisexual penis owning switch in a 3 year monogamous partner) has a hot, switchy dynamic with their partner, is getting comfier walking around the house naked, and talks about how therapy has helped them move towards the closeness and connection with partners they’ve always craved—which has definitely made the sex more deeply satisfying than ever. Yep, they love getting pegged (and warn of the dangers of slippage), and while they have not yet given any of their partners anal, they’re super into giving and receiving head, and which they confirmed on their first-ever queer dating app experience. They talked about how hot it was to have a date who was into asking them questions about what they liked, and contrast being on apps with their experience having sex with a close friend, the desire for reciprocated connection and care even in casual settings, and how check-ins during sex and sometimes even stopping a session has been amazing, plus experiences of intimacy and jealousy. They have a cute hot sex at work meet cute story, and talk about the vulnerability of being in a relationship where they can be open and honest about hard stuff. They have a vasectomy, love cum play, have been vocalizing more lately, are a big fan of lube for solo play & all dildo-related activities, and rave about the amazing sensory experience of shaving all their body hair. We talk about the fantasies of being led around a sex club or party with a collar and leash on, noodle on their fantasy version of a semi-public sex space, speak of dreams for play with penis owners, and they ask Wyoh if she also deals with this submissive not-good-enough pleasing feels sometimes. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .