About this episode
From secret smut and sneaky blowjobs to BDSM, polyamory, and praise kink—Princess shows us what it means to carve out a joyful, rebellious sex life in a place where queerness is criminalized. 📈 STATS | 20 queer Nigerian cis-woman, n a polyamorous relationship with her Dom who loves to praise her and call her Princess, student architect, product designer, from Lagos, Nigeria, into: group sex, rope bondage, role play, impact play, BDSM, and fisting. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Why she’s not ashamed of sex 02:10 Navigating sex at home vs. at university 05:00 Her personal definition of sexy and what counts as sex 08:20 Learning through friends, Google, and Wattpad smut 13:25 “You naughty girl”—early shame, curiosity, and family drama 16:20 First partners, masturbation after sex, and discovering how she likes to be touched 24:30 Ticklish pussy spots, oral, and trying to make her Dom cum 29:50 Researching sex instead of watching porn 32:00 Finding her Dom through ass-eating jokes and group chats 37:00 Their first meetup: blowjobs, fucking on a classroom stool, and praise kink 41:00 Falling in love, opening up, and early polyamory 48:30 Group sex misfires, jealousies, and finding comfort in clarity 53:00 Her first time with a woman—and how much she loves boobs 58:00 Massages, vibrators, and panties-on seduction 1:05:00 Subspace, nipple clamps at Monopoly, and dreaming of a foursome 1:10:00 Fantasies of fisting, rope, and come-on-my-face mirror scenes 1:13:00 Watching partners, sex party planning, and craving community 1:14:30 Trans porn, bi men, and bisexual threesome goals 1:16:00 Praise kink, eye contact in missionary, and the best head ever 1:19:00 Naming her vibrator and loving her poly princess life 🤩 TOPICS | Anal exploration, architecture student, being the firstborn, boarding school life, cisgender female, cinema date, clit stimulation, coconut oil massage, college sex, coming out queer, consent conversations, cultural double standards, deep pleasure, Disney romance expectations, dom-sub dynamics, educational sex talks, enthusiastic yes, erotic fiction writing, exploring fantasies, exploring kink, exploring sexuality, facial kink, family reactions, female pleasure, finding community, finding safe spaces, fingering technique, first sexual experience, friends with benefits, girl-on-girl sex, giving head, handjobs in public, home restrictions, homophobic boyfriend, hypersexuality, internalized shame, kinky discovery, lesbian desires, long-distance relationship, love of boobs, making out, male partners, massage seduction, motel sex, multiple partners, mutual attraction, nigerian sex education, nonjudgmental exploration, online dating apps, oral fixation, orgasm control, orgasm reactions, partnered exploration, period sex pause, porn alternatives, power dynamics in sex, pussy eating, queer desire, queer identity, research-based lover, romantic daydreams, same-gender attraction, secondary school culture, self-discovery, sexual agency, sexual chemistry, sexual confidence, sexual shame, sexual storytelling, sharing fantasies, shifting boundaries, slut shaming culture, squirting discovery, student relationships, trying new things, university hookup, vaginal sensitivity, virginity decision, wetness, women-loving-women, writing erotica. 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .