About this episode
Scott muses on love, queerness, sex therapy, and discovering kink through play. 00:00 Romance vs vulnerability and being a hopeless romantic. 12:40 Relationship goals, queer community, and tips for how to romance yourself. 27:48 Being ambiamorous: feeling monogamous and poly with different partners, and staying grounded in gratitude. 34:54 Levels of sexiness: with partners, friends, family, and alone. 46:53 What’s hot about Financial Domination, sexting, and getting turned on by partners’ kinks. 54:59 Joy in oral tastes and smells, normalizing penis anxiety, and unhelpful expectations set by porn and technology. 1:06:28 Exploring kinks, pressure play, and intuitive switching during sex. 1:18:00 Queer discoveries, rope play, sex parties, and service switch desires. 📈 STATS | 32 ambiamorous pansexual white cis male, bar manager, Vancouver-based, from England, into: giving, love, praise, pressure play 🔗 SCOTT LINKS | @sirjenkins91 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .