About this episode
Fetish porn, healing retreats, pegging joy, and spiritual connection—Shay Sights shares how she built a life of creativity, sensuality, and unconditional love while rebuilding a beach resort and exploring gangbangs. 📈 STATS | 51 bisexual single woman, she/her pronouns, holistic healer, porn star, property manager, Vancouver native, Los Angeles-based, into: twisted mommy talk, adventure, connection, pushing the envelope, fetish play, taboo play, ramping up energy with partners, originality, and coming up with creative content ideas to turn other people on, building things, gardening, animals, and remote places. ⏰ TIME CODE 00:00 Meet Shay: holistic healer, porn star, and beach resort rebuilder 02:10 Pajama joy and the thrill of canceling a shoot 03:08 Buying land in Mexico based on intuition and kombucha 07:08 Construction as spiritual healing and creative expression 10:00 Why quiet energy and solitude are essential to her joy 12:54 Future retreats and transforming a falling-down property into magic 13:25 Self-care, saying no to toxicity, and letting people help 16:12 How sex work, healing, and hospitality all help people connect 21:28 Behind the scenes of porn health and safety practices 27:48 Personal sex life and upholding industry standards 28:18 Toilet fetishes, stepmom porn, and freedom from shame 31:51 Cringing at judgment, not at her own choices 33:20 What makes someone sexy? Amazing energy over appearance 35:48 Learning sex through sex work, and connection through spiritual growth 42:49 Onscreen vs. real-life sex: entertainment vs. intimacy 47:19 Porn as curated emotional performance 49:58 Bloopers, realism, and letting audiences see the effort 51:33 Shay’s slutty fun list: pegging, gang bangs, and mommy talk 56:09 Aries sun, Scorpio rising, and the archetypes of porn 57:40 Clit-sucking toys and sensation preferences 59:14 Favorite sex lesson to teach: communicate everything 1:01:31 Why every body—and every day—is different 1:03:09 Consent and connection protocols on porn sets 1:04:17 Favorite partners, flogging, and flog-worthy memories 1:04:55 Still on her list: a five-guy gangbang 1:07:53 Sex in Mexico: beach shoots and rooftop fantasies 1:09:34 What we need for a more loving world: unconditional love 1:10:39 Karma, the Golden Rule, and living as an example 1:11:53 Reflections on love, shame, and human connection 🤩 TOPICS | Abraham hicks, age and sensuality, airbnb landlord stories, amateur porn realism, angel investing intuition, architecture preservation, artisan tile details, bisexual female performer, blood and urine testing, body-safe toys, business-minded porn stars, Caribbean dive culture, childhood sex education gaps, clitoral stimulation toys, communication in adult scenes, content creator bloopers, creative real estate, deep energy sensitivity, direct German yoga teachers, DIY home restoration, emotional fluidity in sex, ethical adult filmmaking, fetish curiosity, finding kombucha in small towns, French decorative influence, full moon rituals, gang bang choreography, holistic hospitality, hot milf persona, industry compliance standards, jungle building logistics, kinky latex fashion, love-based living, Mexican construction permits, ocean-view roof decks, palm tree privacy, pegging with passion, personality integration, porn career longevity, professional dominants, property zoning in Mexico, quiet nightlife preferences, reality vs fantasy in porn, remote living joy, roof deck sex, Scorpio rising porn stars, sex and spiritual integration, sexual archetypes, sexual energy healing, short film porn scripts, social media expectations, spiritual sex exploration, spoken consent videos, strap-on adventures, tropical solitude, vaginal vs anal testing, voiceover vignette scripts, water sign placements, women-led retreats, and yoga contractor networking. 🔗 SHAY LINKS | shaysights.com / OF / @shaysighstofficial / x / tiktok 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .