About this episode
Nude car shows, sex toys, and swinging—BJ returns to share his recent explorations and his discovery of a new kink. 📈 STATS | 60s non-monogamous cis male divorcé, retired protestant pastor, American Midwest, into: nudism, new sex toys, swinging lifestyle 00:00 The importance of always having a towel at a nudist car show 05:37 Heightened sensuality in nudity and the different types of nudism 12:19 Expanding his sexual tool shed with FirmTech’s data-collecting TechRing and Performance Ring 17:44 Reclaiming his sexuality post-injury through prostate play and his new favorite cock ring 23:53 Reflections on perfectionism and pursuing excellent ongoing connections 28:45 Exploring a clothing compersion kink and appreciating mutual nurturance 34:01 Post-divorce swinging experiences and getting back into the swinger lifestyle 38:27 Cultivating open-mindedness to live a better, happier life 41:58 Excited for meditative knitting and serving the kink community through leather work 🤩 TOPICS | AA meetings, aftercare, anal stretching jokes, American Association for Nude Recreation, amusement in nudity, arousal awareness, authentic self, bare skin freedom, being comfortable naked, body positivity, campgrounds, car enthusiasts, catfish dating experiences, cis male perspective, clothing compersion kink, cock ring exploration, communication in swinging, connection through generosity, consent etiquette, creative leather work, data-tracking erection ring, divorced pastor dating, erotic authenticity, ethical swinging, exhibitionism curiosity, family-friendly nudism, fetish curiosity, firm erections, FirmTech Performance Ring, FirmTech TechRing, freedom in nudity, healthy sexuality, hernia recovery, hip replacement recovery, honesty in connection, intimacy and openness, knitting meditation, leather fetish crafts, living nude in nature, meditative knitting, mutual nurturance, naked car shows, naked karaoke, naked relaxation, naked spirituality, naturism vs nudism, new sex toy experiments, nocturnal erections, nudist etiquette, nudist resort culture, nudity and sensuality, open-minded friendships, orgasm enhancement, partner communication, perineum vibration, personal growth through pleasure, physical healing and sexuality, pleasure tools, post-divorce dating, prostate play, recovering alcoholic reflections, relaxation through nudity, reinventing sexuality, relationship openness, religious background and sexuality, self-acceptance, self-love, sensual authenticity, sensual freedom, sensuality outdoors, sex toy technology, sexual exploration after injury, sexual health data tracking, sexual recovery, sharing gifts and pleasure, single male in swinger community, spirituality and sex, stripping metaphorically and literally, swinging community events, swinger etiquette, swinger lifestyle updates, towel etiquette, trauma recovery and sexuality, vibrators for perineum, vulnerability in nudity, wish list gifting, women’s clothing gifts, and writing one’s own pleasure symphony. BJ’s episode from October 2024 | Sexagenarian Sexologist 🔗 BJ LINKS | vvrc / sexuality resources 🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membership RUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% off FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off SDC: A place for swingers to connect ⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support 🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee 💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭 onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈⬛ sextpanther.com/wyoh 🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com 🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES 🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity. 🤑 Offer irresistible invitations. 💦 Spread ripples of love. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .