August 14, 2025
Why Women Really Want Jerks and Not Nice Guys
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More WomenAbout this episode
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing goes deep into why jerks seem to effortlessly attract women and how men can apply those strategies without being a jerk. Mark explains the mindset of a "jerk" and how their behaviors create attraction, offering practical advice on how to be a challenge, avoid neediness, and ultimately get women chasing you. Mark offers a roadmap to creating attraction with high-quality women while maintaining your integrity and self-respect. He explains how to channel the behaviors of "jerks" into healthy actions that attract the right women without compromising your values. Key Takeaways: - How to take extreme ownership of your part in a failing relationship. - The importance of emotional safety and how to rebuild it with your partner. - Why fighting clean and being fair during conflicts can change the trajectory of your relationship. - How to make your relationship a priority and consistently give more than you take. - Techniques for improving communication, attraction, and your personal development to save your relationship. Episode Breakdown with Timestamps [00:00:00] – Intro & What This Episode Will Deliver [00:03:18] – Social Media: How to Deal With Critics and Haters [00:07:22] – Don't Be Easy: The Reasons Why Women Are Drawn to Jerks [00:08:15] – Keeping Good Girls Interested by Using the 80/100 Rule [00:08:40] – Attraction Fundamentals: Everybody Wants a Challenge [00:11:06] – Why Haters are Needy, Roasting Social Media Critics [00:14:33] – How to Leverage Jerk Traits to Illicit Attraction [00:16:29] – Being a Hater Will Prevent You from getting Quality Women [00:18:21] – Steal the Secrets of Jerks, Without Being a Jerk Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #jerks #MenSelfImprovement #EmotionalSafety #TakeOwnership #AttractionTips #NLPForMen