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What does the future of kink look like? Your Femdom hosts have some thoughts (of course we do!). Today, we explore how technology, psychology and a growing desire for authentic connection are reshaping the landscape of Distance Domination, phone sex, and personal power exchange. The conversation kicks off with the elephant in the room: Artificial Intelligence. While AI is transforming adult content, we dissect why it will amplify, not replace, the demand for genuine human connection. The future belongs to bespoke sessions where smart, sexy conversations create a nuanced and deeply intellectual power dynamic. This leads us to the rise of conscious kink—a significant shift from purely physical acts to focusing on the entire emotional and psychological arc of a session, emphasizing mutual growth and healing. We delve into specific, evolving practices within our niches. For those interested in feminization and sissy training, the narrative is expanding. It’s moving beyond humiliation into a holistic form of self-care, a curated journey of aesthetic refinement and becoming one’s most authentic self. For cock control enthusiasts, we explore the growing popularity of post-orgasm control (POC), which leverages the vulnerable period after climax for deepening training, affirmation, and connection. We also discuss trends for managing modern life’s stresses. Look for micro-submission to become a tool for stress management, where small, consensual acts of surrender provide structure and relief from burnout. Furthermore, gamified surrender will turn obedience into a compelling, personalized quest for a Dominant’s approval. The episode also covers insights from sexologist Sofie Roos on the importance of communication and what happens as sex becomes less taboo. We examine the exciting emergence of neurodivergent-affirming kink, creating scenes that thoughtfully accommodate sensory sensitivities and communication styles. This episode is for anyone involved in Femdom, GFE, or anyone curious about the future of BDSM and kink. It’s a conversation about connection, intelligence, and the evolving art of domination. If our discussion sparks your curiosity about a personalized journey, we’d love to get to know you better. We both offer private phone sex and text sessions designed for real, transformative connection. If you're new to this world, visit the ' NEW HERE ?' page on Mistress Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress, for a gentle introduction to the process. What trends are you seeing? We’d love to hear your thoughts. Remember, while technology like AI is here to stay, it will never replace the intimacy and power of a genuine, human-led dynamic. It only gives us more sophisticated tools to master your mind and command your surrender. DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com

Dec 15

What if the ultimate test of your submission wasn't about surrendering control, but about consumption? We’re talking about cum eating because this is such a hot, naughty and taboo sex act. Many people have a cum eating fantasy … but struggle to actually eat their own cum. A cum eating game can get a reluctant cum eater over the hump (so to speak). Today, we explore the intricate psychology behind cum eating games. We go beyond the fantasy to examine how these practices can rewire your relationship with pleasure and obedience. We tackle the common hurdle many face: the clash between the idea of an act and the physical reality of following through. This moment isn't a failure; it's the perfect starting point for a deeper exploration of control. We discuss how these games are a masterclass in cock control, where commands from your Femdom Mistress extend beyond your orgasm to the management of its result. Your ability to follow through becomes a direct reflection of your training and your devotion. We delve into three fun games designed to test your limits: The Roulette of Ruin: Where a digital wheel introduces an element of unpredictable fate, turning you into a true plaything. The suspense is a lesson in surrender itself. The Obedience Vault: A task-based system where you must earn the privilege of being allowed to swallow. Each success brings you closer, but a single failure resets your progress, teaching meticulous discipline. The Cum Tribute Ritual: Shifting the focus from humiliation to worship, this game frames the act as a sacred offering to your Goddess, reinforcing your purpose with every drop. So, if you find yourself getting hard listening to us, consider it a sign. It’s time to stop fantasizing and start playing. Which game calls to your deepest submissive instincts? Do you crave your cum slurped with a splash of humiliation, or as a pure act of reverence? Get in touch! Olivia@EnchantrixEmppire.com and Erika@EnchantrixEmpipre.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Ms Olivia's blogs: Experienced Mistress and Coached to Eat Cum Ms Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Dec 8

We’ve all heard them—the recycled lines, the oversimplified tropes, the porn-ified fantasy of what submission “should” look like. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika tear down the most persistent clichés about being submissive. No ball-busting today. Just myth-busting. From the fantasy of total surrender to the myth that all subs crave pain, humiliation or degredation, we talk about our top 5 myths about being a submissive man—and exposr the misconceptions that keep men from truly understanding their power, their boundaries, and their joy in kink. This isn’t about performance. It’s about truth. BDSM Myth: Submissives Have No Power Spoiler: That’s not just wrong—it’s dangerously misleading. We’ll tell you why. Kink Myth: “Being Submissive Means Blind Obedience” Ah, the classic “do anything you want” fantasy. It sounds hot in theory but in practice saying that is often a red flag for an experienced Mistress. You'll hear why. Myth of Total Power Exchange: “The Power Dynamic is 24/7” Let’s be real : Total Power Exchange (TPE) is rare. And even when it exists, it rarely looks like the movies. In real-world dynamics, power shifts with context. BDSM Myth: “Submissives Are Weak or Broken” Submission is not a lack. It’s a choice. It takes strength to say: “Here are my limits.” or “This is what I crave.”and “Help me explore who I am.” That’s not a weakness. That’s emotional intelligence. That’s courage to speak your truth in a world that tells men to stay silent. D/s Myth: “Submission Is the Same for Everyone” And one of the biggest clichés of all? That there’s one “right” way to be submissive. There isn’t. Some thrive on verbal degradation. Others need praise and affection. Some crave strict cock control. Others long for sensual guidance. There are many ways to express submission: feminization, primal service, humiliation, and/or worship. Remember, your submission is yours. As listener and collared sub Slut Pie puts it: “At first, I thought it was all or nothing. Total loss of control. But now I see—it’s not about losing myself. It’s about finding myself, one session at a time.” Final Thoughts: Submission Is a Conversation. Kink isn’t static. It’s dynamic. It evolves. So question the clichés. Don’t let porn, stereotypes, or shame dictate your path. You have power. You have limits. You have a voice. Use them. We want to hear from you: Which cliché hit home the most? Share your thoughts. Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Dec 1

Have you ever wondered why being put down turns you on? Why a Domme’s laugh, a sharp comment, or a teasing jab about your size leaves you harder than ever? You’re not alone — today we do a dive deep into one of kink’s most misunderstood, yet profoundly powerful dynamics: erotic humiliation. We explore: How something that sounds painful — even shameful — becomes a gateway to ecstasy. How we, as Femdoms, use humiliation to unlock subspace. Why does being laughed at, judged, or playfully degraded feel so right for so many submissives? And crucially — what separates consensual, joyful humiliation from emotional harm? Ms Olivia opens the conversation with a powerful truth: submission is freedom — and so is humiliation, in its own paradoxical way. It’s about trust, surrender, and transformation. We hear from real listeners like SissyTeri Cum Slut, whose arousal skyrocketed after a casual SPH comment post-blowjob: “She said, ‘It’s easy when you’re not too big’ — and holy shit, did that make me feel amazing. Better than the orgasm.” We break down Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) as a common entry point — not just as a fetish, but as a psychological key that unlocks deeper submission, feminization, and sissy training. From Pee Wee to Sissy Missy, many of today’s most devoted sissies started here. But we also issue a vital warning: humiliation is not a kink to wing it with. Unlike trying a new toy or JOI, it touches your core identity. Benji shares how bringing it up with a partner backfired — resulting in real, unsexy humiliation. That’s why consent, context, and aftercare are non-negotiable. You must be seen, judged, controlled — and still desired. And here’s the twist: humiliation doesn’t have to be mean. It can be joyful. smallPenisJumpingJack loves CFNM games where women laugh with him, not at him. simp4demi craves the sound of his Goddess laughing as she puts him in his place — because it means he’s hers, fully used, fully accepted. This episode is about joy-centered domination, where teasing feels like inclusion, not exile. Where “Awww, look at you trying so hard with that tiny lil thing. Bless your heart” isn’t cruelty — it’s connection. We end with a message: Enjoying humiliation doesn’t make you weird. It makes you human. But don’t navigate it alone. Seek guidance. Learn the nuances. And remember — sometimes, laughing at yourself is the sexiest thing you do all week. Listen now. Reflect. Then DM us: What’s your first memory of humiliation turning you on? Have you ever tried to explain this to a partner? What do you wish you’d known sooner? Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Nov 24

Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You’re not alone. Today we take a dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely spoken about — fears in the kink and sissy communities: the terror of being discovered. Whether it’s a partner stumbling on your secret drawer, a family member finding your messages, or simply the crushing weight of “what if someone knows?” — this conversation is for every person who’s ever hidden a part of themselves out of fear. We explore the emotional roots behind this fear: The dread of loss — relationships, respect, livelihood The sting of judgment — from family, society, or the toxic myth of “real masculinity” The existential spiral of self-identity collapse — “Who am I if this comes out?” But we don’t stop at the problem - we’re all about solutions.This episode is packed with practical, real-world strategies to protect your privacy and reclaim your power: Secure storage for clothes, toys, and keepsakes Safe shopping tips — from PO boxes to gift cards and clean digital trails Digital hygiene — encrypted emails, burner phones, private browsers, and why never to use Gmail or your real name online Compartmentalization rituals — transitioning in and out of your sissy self with grace and control Low-risk disclosure — how and when (or if) to share your truth — and why it’s your choice, not an obligation. We also talk about building your inner foundation — transforming shame into sacredness, secrecy into self-care, and fear into freedom. Because here’s the truth: Your femininity doesn’t need permission to exist. Your submission doesn’t need validation to be powerful. And you don’t need to come out to everyone to live authentically. Whether you're deep into sissy training, exploring femdom, or simply navigating the quiet tension between your inner world and outer life — this episode will leave you feeling seen, safer, and stronger. Tune in. Breathe deeper. And remember — you are not broken. You are becoming. DISCORD: LdwOlivia. and. LdwErika Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com

Nov 17

What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer? In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jaime Grant – researcher, LGBTQ+ advocate, and author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire – for a conversation that dismantles shame, celebrates pleasure, and redefines intimacy from the inside out. This isn’t just a talk about kink or technique. It’s a deep dive into the emotional archaeology of desire – how shame, silence, and societal scripts keep us from claiming our deepest pleasures, especially when those desires feel taboo. Dr. Grant opens with a powerful admission: she got into this work because she was a “liar” – performing a version of herself to survive a repressive Irish Catholic upbringing. “We all develop a liar,” she explains, “and that liar shows up in our sexuality.” Whether you’re a submissive wrestling with guilt, a sissy navigating feminization, or someone whose fantasies clash with their identity, this episode meets you where you are – without judgment. The conversation turns to the “purge cycle” – that all-too-familiar pattern where submissives and sissies throw away their toys and clothes in shame, only to rebuild their collections once again. Dr. Grant reframes this not as failure, but as desire breaking through. Then comes the practical magic. Dr. Grant introduces her “Name Tag Exercise” – a fun exercise tool where you introduce yourself not by your job or role, but by three words that describe your core desires. Words like slut, rope enthusiast, curious, neuro spicy, bootlicker, orgasm controller. Mistress Erika shares hers: “Fun. Curious. Obey.” Mistress Olivia, ever the wordsmith, lands on “Control as Connection,” “Intellectual Eroticism,” and “Transformation.” She reveals how power exchange, for her, is a form of artistic expression – a “ballet” of sensual influence – and how she’s turned on more by minds than bodies, drawn to “the space between words.” But the mapping goes deeper. Dr. Grant applies desire mapping to orgasm control, chastity, and tease/denial – not as games of endurance, but as rituals of presence. “If you’re just going through the motions,” she says, “it’s choreography, not connection.” True power play begins when you’re grounded in what actually moves you – the raw, vulnerable parts of yourself that turn you on because they feel dangerous. Fantasy, she insists, is not disloyalty – it’s breadcrumbs. Your roleplay scenarios, dark power exchanges, and gender-bending dreams aren’t distractions from real desire – they are the map. And if someone tries to police your inner world? “You’re with the wrong person." The episode closes with a radical truth: You already have everything you need. The voice of shame – that internal critic whispering, "You shouldn’t want this" – that voice is not yours. It’s the echo of a priest, a parent, a culture. Desire mapping helps you trace that voice back to its source, so you stop obeying it and start honoring your sacred material: your body, your history, your truth. If you’ve ever felt like an imposter in your own pleasure… If you’ve silenced a fantasy because it didn’t fit your identity… If you’ve wondered why surrender feels so terrifying – and so freeing……this episode is your invitation to map your desire – not apologize for it. Tune in. Listen closely. And start asking yourself the question that changes everything:What do you really want? Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on Amazon Reach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.com Contact us: Mistress Olivia: Email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com. Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1. Blue Sky: @MsOlivia Blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika: Email: Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Twitter X and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in Baltimore Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels. Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference. Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips. From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday. Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD. Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie.

Nov 10

Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’re far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink. Dr. Grant, a renowned research activist, relationship coach, and author of pivotal works like Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire and Polyamory for Dummies, joins us to discuss her latest essential guide, Kink for Dummies. The conversation immediately delves into one of the most common hurdles for newcomers: the fear of being "weird." Dr. Grant brilliantly reframes kink not as an anomaly but as a deeply rooted part of human history and desire, sharing fascinating insights about "ancient kinksters" that will change how you view your own longings. We focus on a question we hear constantly from listeners and callers alike: How do I talk to my partner about kink? This is where Dr. Grant’s expertise truly shines. She offers compassionate, practical advice for navigating these vulnerable conversations, whether you're in a long-term partnership or a new situationship. She emphasizes the importance of building "faith in yourself" first, suggesting that sometimes the safest initial step is to find community and gather information outside the primary relationship to fortify your own understanding. As Mistress Olivia reflects, this often aligns with why individuals turn to Dommes like us for distance domination – it provides a structured, judgment-free space to explore without the complications of daily life. Other topics include: The ‘desire discordant’ couple and finding a ‘third way’ that honors the needs of both partners. How to realistically create compromise in relationships. The transformative power of kink and how exploring kink can become a radical act of self-reclamation. Dr. Grant says: “We’re dealt a hard hand around sexuality, but we get to play it however we want—for our own gratification.” That’s the promise of kink: not escape, but reclamation. Using safe words in BDSM scenes, including the point that using a safe word isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s an act of profound communication and self-care that strengthens the entire dynamic. This episode is a masterclass in normalizing kinky desire and providing the tools to integrate it into your life with confidence and safety. Dr. Grant’s wisdom, combined with our own experiences from the front lines of phone sex and distance domination, creates a dialogue that is both intellectually stimulating and deeply practical. Ready to explore your desires with more clarity and courage? What’s the one kinky desire you’ve been most nervous to voice? We’d love to hear from you. Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on Amazon Kink for Dummies Polyamory for Dummies Great Sex: Mapping your Desire Contact us: Mistress Olivia: olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com TwitterX: @MistressOlivia1. Blue Sky: @MsOlivia Blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika: erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com TwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in Baltimore Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels. Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference. Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips. From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday. B ook readings on the Cape in this period TBD. Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie. Reach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at www.justsexpodcast.com

Nov 3

Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink. Listener questions drive this episode and you’re likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don’t have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to speak what you want and is it always a good idea to be blunt? We begin with this question: “What if a woman struggles to own her power because of cultural beliefs?” As Footstool so poignantly puts it, many men fantasize about their vanilla partner becoming their Mistress — but how does she step into dominance when a lifetime of conditioning whispers, “Be nice. Be passive. Don’t lead.”? Janet offers a compassionate, no-nonsense response: Dominance isn’t about dominance — it’s about responsibility, clarity, and self-awareness. You don’t need to be born a Domme. You become one — through practice, reflection, and permission to shed old scripts. Then came Wellspanked’s dilemma: “When negotiating spanking, should we talk technique and intensity beforehand — clinically — or let it unfold in the heat of the moment?” The tension here is real: too much planning kills the spark; too little, and safety frays. Janet reminds us that true eroticism thrives in the space between trust and structure. Yes — talk logistics outside the scene. But leave room for improvisation within it. A safe word isn’t a buzzkill — it’s the foundation of freedom. One of our listeners, Ben, shared a fear so common it aches: “If my partner rejects my kinks, is the relationship irrevocably broken?” Janet’s answer? No — but it might need to evolve. Rejection isn’t always final. Sometimes, it’s the first step toward honest dialogue. What matters isn’t immediate acceptance — it’s willingness to listen, to be curious,and to try. What do you do if you get bad news? Janet has an honest answer - the relationship may need to change form — or end — with dignity. Then came the knife-edge question: “Can a partner ever see you as equal after extreme degradation?” This cuts to the heart of humiliation play — one of the most misunderstood, feared, and exciting dynamics in kink. Janet doesn’t flinch. She explains that the power of degradation lies not in the words, but in the aftercare. It’s not about erasing dignity — it’s about temporarily suspending it, with consent, for shared catharsis. And yes — equality returns, if both partners honor the reintegration. The scene ends. The love remains. Erika then turned to Janet’s latest work — Notes on an Aging Pervert — a book that’s “funny, sad, mind-bending.” She asked: Which essay was a lightbulb moment — for you or someone you love? Janet shared a story about aging, desire, and the myth of the “perfect scene.” The real magic, Janet said, isn’t in the play — it’s in what happens after: How do you come back to each other? How do you integrate the intensity? That’s where connection deepens — not in the whip, but in the whisper that follows. We closed with a truth that resonates through every episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast: Kink isn’t an escape from love — it’s a path into it. Deeper. Messier. More honest. If you’ve ever feared being “too much,” or worried you’re “not enough,” this conversation is for you. Tune in. Listen closely. And ask yourself: What would it feel like to be truly seen — kinks and all? Janet Hardy’s website When Someone You Love is Kinky The Ethical Slut Radical Ecstasy Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Oct 27

What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience. Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, sent in a lot of questions and inspired this intimate conversation. Topics include: The intersections of power, pain, love and liberation. Myths and fears about ethical non-monogamy in kink spaces. Details about the new Workbook for The Ethical Slut. When Janet shares about how real change begins with honest self-inquiry, not permission from others, all three women talk about claiming their own personal erotic power. What does it mean to really choose who you are in your relationships? And, what is beyond tolerating a relationship. Hint: it’s not always easy or safe to open up to this view of love and pleasure. Janet talks about building emotional resilience when having these vulnerable conversations. You’ll hear Mistress Olivia’s personal reflection on how Radical Ecstasy transformed her understanding of Dominance and submission — not as control, but as co-created surrender. “Pain is not the goal. Surrender is.” That one line shifted everything. Together, they explore how power exchange is one of the most intimate acts we’re capable of — a dance where trust becomes tangible, and vulnerability becomes strength. We also tackle real listener questions: A trans woman shares her experience of feeling Dominant with male partners and submissive with female ones — is this a known dynamic? Janet offers thoughtful insight into gendered power dynamics and erotic archetypes. For the nervous beginner — especially the "vanilla wife" being asked to step into Dominance — what are the real fears women face? Spoiler: It’s not about lack of interest. It’s about responsibility, judgment, and the weight of expectation. And then… the eternal debate: Who’s really in control — the Domme or the sub? Janet’s answer may surprise you. (Hint: It’s not a power struggle — it’s a paradox.) Finally, for those walking the spiritual edge of kink, we explore how to distinguish emotional overwhelm from authentic spiritual surrender — because not every tear in a scene is transcendence. Some are signals. Learning the difference? That’s where true mastery begins. This episode isn’t just for kinksters. It’s for anyone who’s ever loved deeply, feared openly, or longed to be seen. It’s about coming into power — not over others, but within yourself. Janet Hardy Website The Ethical Slut Radical Ecstasy Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Oct 20

Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy. Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation. It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress. Have you ever asked yourself: “Why do I feel drawn to this role?” “Is wanting to serve a woman… weak?” “How do I truly become the sissy my Mistress deserves?” …then this episode is your permission slip to lean in. What We Explore: Why not all sissies are submissive — and not all submissives are sissies The emotional and psychological journey of embracing feminization How a true Femdom Mistress guides, shapes, and transforms her sissy The paradox of control: giving up power to gain freedom The sacred art of being of service — beyond just sex or chores Why communication is the most important part of a D/s relationship Navigating boundaries, vulnerability, and trust in a D/s dynamic The myth of “more is better” — and why following her lead beats initiative every time And the big one: How submission changes you… and how the submissive also changes Mistress. Remember, it's not about escaping who you are — it’s about uncovering who you were meant to be under the gaze of a woman who sees you, owns you, and refines you. A skilled Femdom Mistress doesn’t just dominate — she mentors. She holds space for your fears, your shame, and your curiosity. Above all, she rewrites your future whether you are: New to sissy training Stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage or secret shame Or already serving but craving deeper connection and purpose …this episode will remind you: You’re not broken. You’re becoming. Get in touch: Mistress Olivia: email: Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Discord: LDWOlivia Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1 blog: ExperiencedMistress.com Mistress Erika: email: Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Discord: LDWErika Twitter X: @ErikaEnchantrix blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Oct 13

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes. First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN. This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public. We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party. Costume ideas for sissies: a Hooters Girl slutty costumes comics cosplay and more. Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints! Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume. We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Available for phone or texting sessions 800-356-6169

Oct 6

Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck. This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about: Blow Jobs How to make cum taste good Reaction of women to sucking cock Snowballing and cum eating Sharing erotic fantasies with your partner Intimacy and great sex Sexual wellness Aging and keeping sex juicy and exciting Normalizing the conversation around all aspects of sex Being open minded about different kinds of erotic pleasure Swingers lifestyle Taking viagra for phone sex sessions Sex work and sex workers Luxury lingerie and why it's so fun to dress up. Finally, we have a conversation about women and power. Could either or both of these ladies want to be a Femdom? We talk about myths and misconceptions about BDSM as well as the relaxation and release for the submissive. FILTHY MILFS podcast is available on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and maybe even Linkedin. Here’s the link to FILTHY MILFS on Spotify Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Sep 29

They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horny ladies.” What a fun conversation! Topics include: The power of female sexuality Embracing the SLUT label Social standards for the sexual behavior of women Self empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work. Sexual pleasure and aging Exploring the popularity of MILFS Sexually experienced women and confidence. What did family and friends think of the name of the podcast? Join us for this uncensored and intimate conversation with the FILTHY MILFS. Look for the FILTHY MILFS podcast on all the podcast platforms and Youtube! Here’s the FILTHY MILFS on Spotify Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Sep 22

What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex? Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM. Topics include: What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play? How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM? Who gets to define it? What are some of the items used in rough kink? Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play? How do you know you’re ready to explore rough kink? How do you communicate with your partner? The role of BDSM negotiation in safe scenes. What is a safe word and how does it apply in BDSM? How does a Mistress gauge when to push your boundaries? What sorts of questions should a Dominatrix ask you before pain play? BDSM terms: SSC: safe, sane and consensual RACK: risk-aware consensual kink PRICK: personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink or personally responsible in consensual kink. AndThe 4 C’s: caring, communication consent and caution. The importance of aftercare for the submissive and the Mistress. Personal stories, behind the scenes of Distance Domination, and more. You never know what you’ll hear and we appreciate you enjoying the podcast! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Sep 15

Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career. Topics include: Why being a porn star used t o be more glamorous. The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry. How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans. Creating custom adult content on demand. Being a trans woman in the adult industry: Exploring sex, sexuality and a variety of partners Dating while being in the adult industry Objectification as a trans woman Objectification as a sex worker Coming out to her conservative family Being a business woman: Ways in which the adult industry allows for financial freedom Why working for a porn studio is often not worth it Being part of the all trans cast of the Lily Wachowski’s sci fi film D.O.L.L.S This conversation is a thoughtful peek behind the scenes of porn, the adult industry, stigma and sex work. Listener questions inspired many of the topics in this interview. Here’s to all of us living life without regrets! Eva Maxim’s Only Fans page Twitter X: @Eva_Maxim AdultTime (where to watch D.O.L.L.S) Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Sep 8

Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes. Today’s episode talks about: Adult industry awards The business side of pleasure Why and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry. Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn studio. Eva graciously answers listener questions about: When she fully realized she is a STAR Prepping for a porn shoot Connection to the sissy community Speaking of sissies, since Eva is a Top, it’s natural to ask her about trying some Femdom scenes with a sissy or two. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika offer to team up with some Domme content. This is the first of a 2 part interview and Eva will be back again! Eva Maxim Only Fans Twitter X: @Eva_Maxim Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Sep 1

Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice. Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions. How often does a threesome “just happen”? How can you spot someone asking you to be in a threesome? Do you think you’ve ever missed an opportunity for group sex? Should you have a safe word, like in BDSM, for swingers encounters? What happens if you find yourself in a situation where you just aren’t into it and you want to lease? How to negotiate consent with group sex? Who gets to do what? Do men ever get performance anxiety when with two women? What about a couple who want to add another man or, even, a sissy? How to find a threesome if you want to be the third to a couple? How to talk to your partner about exploring non-traditional sex? Hear personal stories, solid advice and so much more. Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!) Twitter X and Insta: @MissLainie Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Aug 25

Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser. How do women feel about giving blow jobs? What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job? Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera? How do porn stars give great blow jobs? Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs. Tips for learning to deep throat a big cock How to control your gag reflex. How to make sure your teeth don’t ruin the blow job. Find out who came up with the term deep throat. What is a fellatio fiesta? Learn about Michael and his blow bros. Find out how many loads of cum Michael the cum junkie has slurped up this year. Freezing cum loads BDSM, kink and being submissive Does a Femdom give a blow job? Can a blow job be part of an elaborate mindfuck? Do porn shoots still use fluffers and how does someone get that job? Listener questions inspire this episode. You’ll learn some sex education, hear intimate behind the scenes stories and so much more! Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!) Twitter X and Insta: @MissLainie Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Aug 18

Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side? Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.” Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing, gender presentation and gender identity including: Terms and labels used in gender exploration. What is the difference between a crossdresser and a trans woman? Why does wearing women’s lingerie unlock feminine emotions for many men? What is the reaction of the wife of a crossdresser? Does the wife assume crossdressing means her husband is gay or bisexual? Can a wife be jealous of her feminized husband? Who gets to decide gender norms? Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Aug 11

A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress. Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing? Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie? How important is submission to a Dominant Woman? Is dressing en femme always about sex? Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive? Does the type of orgasm matter? Will learning to have a sissygasm instead of a traditional stroking orgasm mean that the feminization urges remain? What role does guilt and shame play in crossdressing cycles? How does the woman in charge or Mistress extend your sissy urges? Role of chastity in sissy training Orgasm denial as part of submission via feminization. Do crossdressing urges go away as people age? While the question about feminization, crossdressing and sissy urges inspired this podcast episode, many of the points also apply to other kinks and fetish play. DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Aug 4

Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity. A listener inspired this episode with the following questions: What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder? Ar e some men meant to be in chastity? What are your favorite chastity devices? Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play: A tube style chastity cage that allows for partial erection. Smaller cages can be used for different levels of control. Using the nub for sissy training. Chastity cage with spikes and/or urethral sound so getting an erection is immediately painful. Why would someone want to be in chastity? Submission to the woman that is your keyholder. Freedom from the constant focus on erections and/or jerking off. Refocusing attention on what’s important. Using chastity for sissy training: Silicone cages come in colors including sissy pink! Smaller cages can cause shrinking which reinforces sissy focus. Orgasm denial keeps feminization and submission to Mistress as the sissy life. 2 previous episodes mentioned in this podcast: Chastity Interview with William of Mature Metal And How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature Metal JOIN the conversation! Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire DISCORD : LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jul 28

Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world. Other comments touch on: Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should look Body hair while crossdressing or dressing en femme Masculine and feminine sides co-existingHumiliation as part of sissy play Submission to Mistress or Goddess as part of feminization training. Of course, you’ll hear personal stories, our comments on your quotes and even a couple festive trips on safari including: Ms Erika’s favorite body part Ms Olivia’s offer of 5 free minutes on your Discord session if you do a specific something. Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jul 21

Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. Today, Lainie answers your questions: Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do? Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star? Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues? Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks. Are any performers in gay porn actually straight? Are huge cum shots real? What do production companies use for fake cum? Is lesbian porn made to appeal to men who want to watch it? What do lesbian women like to watch? Does anyone make erotica for crossdressers or men who like wearing lingerie? Transwomen in the adult industry and why this niche is such a popular porn category. And, finally … a joking question about job benefits like health insurance leads to an interesting conversation about mental health and adult entertainers. Lainie has a wealth of knowledge, a great sense of humor and stories galore. We can’t wait until the next time we speak with her. Lainie Speiser: Twitter X @MissLainie Lanie's books on Amazon, including Confessions of 100 of the Hottest Porn Stars. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Discord: LDWOlivia LDWErika

Jul 14

Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include: How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties? Is it always about sex or kink? Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side? Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans? Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties? Feminization or sissification Sending a submissive into subspace Using panties to create a certain scene like erotic humiliation or cock control Does a panty boi always want to be humiliated? Lots of personal stories, behind the scenes of online Mistress domination, and much more! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jul 7

Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company. Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior. Is phone sex always about sex? Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm? Why does someone call an online Mistress? Your hosts use personal stories to illustrate thoughts on intimacy, vulnerability, sex, sexual exploration, sex health, erotic pleasure and sex work. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jun 30

Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss. In this episode you’ll hear: The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose. Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny? How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play? Does a Domme consider a ruined orgasm as punishment, funishment or maybe both depending on the BDSM or kink play. The ladies also bring up feminization and sissy training. A ruined orgasm can keep those submissive sissy feelings going and stop the sissy drop or crossdresser purging cycles that are so frustrating (and expensive!). If you’re interested in BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy training or sexy conversations with smart women, get in touch! Olivia@enchantrixempire.com Erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

Jun 23

Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next! You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play: ** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal? ** How can a Femdom Mistress or Dominant Woman manipulate someone into pushing their limits of BDSM and kink? ** How does pain and pleasure overlap in BDSM? ** How are power dynamics between Domme and sub enhanced and expressed through painful sensations? ** Why trust and communication in BDSM relationships is essential. ** Role of aftercare in BDSM ** Does the Domme get sexually aroused or orgasm as she is spanking or ball busting a submissive? The hosts also talk about using pain in feminization and sissy training. You’ll hear from one sissy who says pain helps her to let go and slip into her feminine subspace. BDSM education, personal stories, insight from kinksters, and more. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Contact us on DISCORD : LDWOlivia LDWErika Our free, private adult social membership site, Enchantrix Empire .

Jun 16

How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones. Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun? Are sex dreams only for horny young men? Who stars in the sex dreams for women versus men? What do most people wear to bed? Is there a link between job satisfaction and sex? The sex facts research is really the springboard for your hosts to talk, laugh and tell stories. You’ll also hear something we think will change the way you think of the word happiness. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jun 9

When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky. This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so much more. Your Femdom hosts go over the: who, what, why, where and when details. You can also read the specifics here on The Daily Cock . If that site is not available where you live, I’ll post the requirements after our links and contact information. There are a couple of epic ‘safaris’ including Ms Olivia’s funeral story and the hot flirting when Ms Erika casually said, “I stand behind you, Olivia.” You’ll be able to tell that we are both very exciting for the Sissy Pageant and YOUR participation! Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy erika@enchantirxempire.com How to participate in the Sissy Pageant: Join our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire Join Discord - it’s also free Qualify to enter by doing a 30 minute call. Have fun with your Mistress or all the other ladies in Enchantrix Empire who are sharing your joy and excitement. Your submission is: 3 photos and the answers to 4 questions. Submission due date July 12th Date of Sissy Pageant: Saturday, July 17th at 7pm eastern time. Location: the Discord Server for the Sissy Pageant

Jun 2

Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume. Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume journey begins with us asking you lots of questions. We send you a sissy questionnaire that helps us to: Find out your current sissy experiences Help identify your future desires and slut ambitions Encourage you to showcase your special sissy skills What are some of the sissy skills that might go on your resume? Submission - how submissive are you? Anal experience - do you need anal training from Mistress? Dildo or cock sucking experience - can you deep throat? Do you have sex toys? What do you have and what do you want to explore? Cuckold fantasies or experiences - are you or do you want to be a sissy cuckold husband Other - what other skills do you have? You will get emails back and forth with your Sissy Mistress counselors. We send you a total of six emails from us. What’s in the emails? Pretty much anything we want to talk about. We’ll answer your questions, ask you questions, and generally get to know you even better! After the questions and the emails exchange YOU will receive your Sissy Slut resume! You can use the slut resume anywhere you like. We want you to post it on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. You can use it on social media, send it to friends and lovers, or cherish it in private. This sissy slut resume is perfect for any sissy, you don’t have to be slutty. You might be a sissy maid or a sissy secretary. Well now, you need a resume, don’t you? Of course you do! Take a peek at the package on our Phone Sex Assignments store. Act quickly to level up your sissy game and get your resume now! You just might want to use this as part of our Sissy Pageant. We’ll have another episode just on the Sissy Pageant and you can read about it on The Daily Cock . Act now … the price is $89.00 but the SALE PRICE is $69.00 until the end of July.69, get it? Phone Sex Assignments Store Goddess Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Our free adult social networking site: EnchantrixEmpire

May 26

Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.” That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive. Today’s episode includes: General definitions with BDSM Power exchange: The Domme is in charge and the submissive obeys her. Corporal punishment by a Dominant Woman I mpact play as part of BDSM culture Various kinds of pain used as a way to correct misbehavior by a submissive. Different styles of domination for a submissive male versus someone who is feminized and submissive either as a sissy or a sub. A Femdom Mistress uses discipline to change, enhance, correct, or motivate behaviors that she wants from the sub. There are various ways to discipline a wayward subby: Physical: put in a stress position, bondage, impact play, etc. Mental: verbal humiliation, degrading tasks, embarrassing activities. Tasks and assignments used to enhance the control of the Domme. A Mistress could also take a fun activity away from the sub - for example, making a sissy slut stare at but not suck a dildo, or not allowing the sub to contact Mistress for a set amount of time. Remember, as we talk about anything with BDSM, kink, feminization, or sissy training …These definitions are guideposts, as long as the people involved are on the same page and communicating, we can create pretty much anything! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Email: olivia@enchantrixempire.com erika@enchantrixempire.com Discord : LDWOlivia LDWErika

May 19

Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?” That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent. Topics include: Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name? How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive? How does feminization change someone’s outlook on labels? You’ll hear how a variety of ladies and sissies got a name that better represents who they are now. Dive into the origin stories of femme names and so much more. Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

May 12

Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh! In this episode we answer questions like: What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to? Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching? FOLLOW UP to that question: Is there anything new and exciting that gets you going these days that’s different from the usual? Do you ever fantasize/think about members of the Enchantrix Empire, Mistresses or subs? Do you ever masturbate thinking about famous people? What media, if any - do you prefer? Porn? Audio Porn? Books or erotica? Still images or thoughts and the throbbing buzz of a toy? What’s your favorite way to enjoy yourself when you have unlimited time? Setting? How about when you need to rub out a quickie? Do you ever like to be watched or listened to while masturbating - could be face-to-face or long distance? When do you get the urge the most to masturbate? Does Ms. Olivia ever masturbate while watching baseball? How frequently do you masturbate? Did you ever limit or test yourself? Female edging? Number of consecutive orgasms?Or maybe it works completely differently? Squirting experience? Ever got caught? What or who do you think of most frequently/regularly, like a famous person, significant other, sexual activity / something different every time? Favorite place to masturbate? You’ll hear personal stories, lots of laughter and surprises galore! Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire How to get a private session with your sexy Femdom podcast hosts . Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

May 5

Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme: What is a sissygasm? How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one? Topics include: Subspace aka femme-space Role of submission in your feminine journey Mistress guidance or control to enhance your sissy training Trying to have a sissygasm on your own versus with guidance from your Mistress Why experts say to have patience when learning how to sissygasm Medical issues that might change your ability to have a sissygasm Role of chastity in sissy play Importance of getting into the right sissy mindset How the ritual of dressing in sexy lingerie sets the mood Specific tips to move from stroking to feminine masturbation styles: Hand positions Body positions Lube suggestions Sex toys like butt plugs, prostate massangers, dildos and vibrators Finding the best angle to stimulate your prostate Happy Masturbation May — what a fun month! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Apr 28

Are you ready for Masturbation May? It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love. Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo. Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits: Are there studies? How much do people masturbate? What is normal? Why is there something called a gender gap in masturbation? Can you guess what percentage of people masturbate at work? Do you masturbate at work? Since your hosts are Femdoms, we'll talk about some of our plans for Masturbation May and we hope you'll try them on your own or even play with us! Practical ways to spice up your masturbation include: Ideas for new hand positions or lube How to involve your whole body Specific sex toys we love Tell us what you think of these tips for having a playful and exciting Masturbation May. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Apr 21

What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof). But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun! Let’s talk cock control: What does this term mean? What is the difference between cock control and guided masturbation? Is edging and JOI (jerk off instructions) considered cock control? Are remote controlled sex toys part of cock control? Where does gooning fall in these various types of masturbation sessions? What about the role of chastity or even a ruined orgasm for controlling that cock (and man)? What are some examples of cock control in a session? What makes someone a fun playmate for a Mistress? Why would a man want to turn his orgasm over to a woman? What is it about orgasm control that makes it so much fun for women? Hear personal stories about kinky playmates including how one man went from “if I’m paying, I’m spraying” to hands off orgasm control by Mistress Erika.Does someone have to be submissive to enjoy edging on command? We want to hear your stories and experiences so get in touch! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Apr 14

BDSM: Are you a switch? Are you a switch? In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch? What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom. A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode. Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss Eden. She’s a switch and we have a great time on this episode. The ladies use quotes from podcast listeners and playmates to spark the conversations about: Does someone choose to be submissive or is that behavior from innate traits? How does someone find out they like to switch? If someone is submissive, what happens if they try to be dominant? Is it possible for someone to act dominant if they don’t feel that way? How does Miss Eden move between roles of Mistress and submissive? Can someone be 100% submissive or 100% Dominant? Why is there debate in some of the BDSM world about the validity of being a switch? Can someone be submissive when presenting feminine and then Dominant when in male mode? Does being feminized increase feelings of submission? Are all sissies submissive? We love our smart, kinky listeners and really appreciate your comments and questions. Listener inspired episodes are awesome! Keep the ideas and inspiration coming. Find the ladies of LDW on Discord by doing a search with the letters LDW in the search bar. Our names should pop up: LDWEden, LDWErika, and LDWOlivia Miss Eden: eden@enchantrixEmpire.com Twitter X: @SultryInEden Mistress Olivia: olivia@enchantrixempire.com Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1 BlueSky: MsOlivia Personal Blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika: Erika@enchantrixempire.com Twitter X and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

Apr 7

In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun. (( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. )) Today’s points include: What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s not what you might think. What happens when a sissy is nervous about being transformed. Why does a Domme love to increase nervousness during some coerced feminization scenes? How does each woman create the sissy salon transformation fantasy. Is feminization always a submissive act? Why are most of us attracted to things that are taboo or looked upon as naughty? Switching gender roles and expectations as a way to take a break from “masculine” life and the responsibilities of non-femme life. Does sissy transformation ever get to the point of no return? What happens? Will feminization automatically mean coerced bi scenes? How does a Mistress manage the mindset of a sissy? This episode is full of ideas for roleplays about sissification and coerced feminization. Find out behind the scenes info about how these fantasies are created and performed. T he episode ends with one of the most important reasons why it’s important TO YOU to have a Mistress skilled in feminization and sissy training. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

Mar 31

Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive. That’s a great question! It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. But, do you have to be submissive to call us? The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a full podcast episode so the hosts discuss talking with people who simply call for an intimate conversation with a smart, beautiful woman. Did you know that one of the most popular LDW sites is called VoxErotic ? That means Voice Erotic or sexy voices. Which we do have no matter what we’re talking about. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika almost take for granted that our most popular skill set includes things like being an engaging, well-rounded conversationalist. Even those who identify as submissive for the erotic roleplay don’t want to be the sub for the conversation after the play. This is a look behind the scenes of what we do and how we do it. Candid conversation, funny stories of epic sex fails and ideas for your future call with us. Speaking of joking around about sex ... remeber sex doesn’t need to be all serious all the time - it’s fun to be frisky with friends without the Femdom focus. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Vox Erotic

Mar 24

Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess. What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship? In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc. Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of. Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of her submissives are in dominant roles in the rest of their life so submission becomes a break from having to be in charge. Some of the topics include: Submission as a way to let go of life’s responsibilities How working with a Pro Domme can allow the sub to explore all kinds of things (sexual and non sexual) without judgment. Personal growth because the submissive is a reflection of his or her Domme and the sub is therefore working to make his/her Mistress proud Greater intimacy with the primacy partner (wife or girlfriend). Learning the importance of communication in BDSM, carries over into other areas of life. Using BDSM kink relationships to break away from shame, guilt and the pressures of trying to conform. This is especially true for feminization and sissy training. This wide-ranging conversation about kink and the intersection of BDSM and trust, vulnerability and discovering a sense of belonging. Goddess Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Mar 17

Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people? Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling? Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans? These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman. Topics include: ** What is an Alpha man? ** How common is it for an Alpha man to want to be feminized? ** What percentage of sissies that call for Femdom phone sex have an Alpha type career or job? ** Does the person who is often in control always want to be in charge? ** Are the Femdom hosts always in Domme or Mistress mode? ** What do we mean by someone who is sexually submissive? ** What does a Femdom look for in a sissy or submissive? ** What about the use of erotic humiliation when it is sweet teasing or all the way to degrading emasculation? Both ladies emphasize that not everyone into feminization is submissive. This is especially true for those who are crossdressers or who identify as transwomen. We also talk about some of the relationships we have with our subs and girly gurls. How does having a close relationship with an online Mistress help with emotions like shame and loneliness? Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Mar 10

This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold. In this episode you’ll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you’ll find out what happened! Topics include: Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn’t have a small penis, isn’t turned on by humiliation, and they already have a great sex life. How a phone sex Femdom finds out the difference between fantasy conversation and a request for real life advice. Some differences between cuckolding, swinging and an open relationship. Exhibitionist / voyeur fans in the sex scene S ome of the things a woman worries about before becoming a hot wife or cuckoldress Communication tips for alternate lifestyles like cuckolding, BDSM, kink or actually any successful relationship, even the vanilla ones. How to bring up your cuckold desires. What to do when you don’t hear an immediate, clear answer to your cuckolding request. Some of the practical advice centers around talking about STD testing, personal safety with new partners, etc. Finally, what happened with this couple? Find out in this episode. Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Mar 3

Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous! We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session. Today’s podcast gives you a basic understanding of how distance domination works. What happens when you call LDW Group? What are some of the different types of long distance BDSM relationships? How does kink play work when Mistress and pet aren’t in the same physical play space? Are you shy? Are you nervous? This podcast episode will help you understand a bit about what to expect, how to ask for what you want, and then how to physically get ready for your session. As usual, the conversation goes on safari with stories, anecdotes and more. Enjoy this peek behind the curtain of the business of distance domination and femdom phone sex. OH and you don’t have to be a submissive to call! As you can tell from this podcast, we love to have intelligent conversations with smart, sexy people (ie YOU!) Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Feb 24

The ladies try something a little different. Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime. We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session. This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood. Topics include: ** Shower versus bath ** Sex in the shower ** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Erika ** Bubbles or bath bombs, or bath oils Suggestions for relaxing into the sensuality of the experience: ** How to create the perfect environment ** How to reinforce the benefits of this sensory experience ** Why we say, wear a bikini or panties in the bath The ladies do brief guided meditation with feminization affirmations. There is also a trance type sissy programming audio. We urge you to take the time to use the rituals and sensuality of taking a bath to honor and reinforce your feminine feelings. We want you to take your feminization to the next level with these ideas, tips, and suggestions. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Feb 17

A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’ We’ve got you ! In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot. We highlight several common areas of concern: Anal play / prostate play Cock sucking Wearing panties Being a submissive man What is normal? Who gets to decide what types of erotic pleasure are outside the norm? Who can you talk with about your concerns? How to find someone who can guide you through these desires. You’ll also hear that you aren’t alone in your worry about being weird or whatever. The ladies share personal stories about our own experiences. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Feb 10

A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that. The episode includes: A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it. All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it. What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from a ‘regular’ orgasm? What is a sissygasm and what does that feel like? If someone is a chastity pet, then the Mistress might keep that submissive caged and do prostate milking. These Femdoms talk about prostate health and using prostate milking for someone who is in long term chastity say as part of sissy training and feminization. Why would someone be nervous about or reluctant to try prostate play? The ladies talk about some common concerns. The two most common worries about anal sex are: will it hurt and will it be ‘messy.’ You’ll hear recommendations for favorite sex toys for anal play, including remote controlled sex toys. Personal stories, jokes and laughter are always part of the podcast – so we’re glad to have you here with us! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy NOTE: if you navigate to our blogs but land on TalkToMe123 you are not lost. If you want to know more how to access our blogs, just get in touch. Here's how: Olivia@enchantrixempire.com Erika@enchantrixempire.com

Feb 3

Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting. Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling. Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of connection. Mistress Erika brings up how the long distance relationship actually reduces inhibitions and allows someone to really talk about erotic desires without fear of judgment or fear of rejection from your real life partner, wife or girlfriend. Some roleplays are physically impossible. The ladies talk about several examples including: Giantess, shrinking, and tiny man fantasies The magically transformed category that includes coerced feminization: male to female transformation scenes as a sissy, bimbo / slut, or submissive woman. MILF fantasies where the caller is transported back to being a young man with an older woman Bi sexual exploration or submission to a Dominant man Fantasy cocksucking without any fears of safety, health or other issues. All the various versions of cuckold fantasies Public humiliation (that’s a no no for consent and safety reasons) Exhibitionist and/or voyeur fantasies Cum eating that is hot only before someone has cum to eat Some of the behind the scenes conversation will give you insight into how we each bring our creativity to our erotic roleplay scenes. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jan 27

We get lots of questions about feminization. A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or trans woman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized. In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others. What do you do when your reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy?That’s a common question for many kinky people and it’s especially true for those exploring feminization.Don’t worry! We’ve got you covered (pun intended). Like always, along with the sexy stories, you’ll get practical tips, advice and instructions to reinforce your sissy training. Remember, confidence is the sexiest attribute you can have — well that and some really cute panties. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jan 20

Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training. What is petticoat discipline? Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!) Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more. Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience. Mistress Erika points out that the training might not involve any form of physical pain - it can be things like: Erotic humiliation which we call pain for the brain BDSM high protocol used to reinforce roles of power exchange Feminization as part of a FLR - Female Led Relationships How a Femdom Mistress can use tasks and rewards to reinforce feminization goals The hosts give specific scene examples that call for: Locking clothing and shoes CBT: ball slapping, etc. Chastity Have you ever thought about how many ways there are to train a sissy? We have (as you can tell) - now we want to hear from you! Do you need a firm hand? Let us know. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jan 13

What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination. The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group. What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company. This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do: Privacy The caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share. That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasies Playing with a professional means an affair gone wrong won’t blow up your life Spur of the moment sessions Keeping the various aspects of your life separate Mistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees! Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress

Jan 6

This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL The Femdom hosts talk about trans women who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now. The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization. What are some of the possible roleplay options for a sissy: T he sexy girlfriend with a special something extra The submissive sissy The slutty bimbo - which often involves humiliation and emasculation Anything that includes a sissy maid - what kind of clean up will happen? The cuckold husband turned into a sissySPH - small penis humiliation and/or chastity The role of BBC in sissy porn Cum eating and CEI to train a sissy to love to eat cum What kind of script or scene would you want to be in? Hmmmmm? Let us know! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Dec 30, 2024

We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful. Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia. Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of silence that thrill someone with an ignore fetish. Speaking of requests, Ms Olivia wants to do a sex train in 2025 using a universal remote control app. This goal should go nicely with another goal: A submissive sissy who wants to be a porn star! As always, this is a conversation between Femdoms about BDSM, kink, life and love.So …. Join in! What things do YOU want to explore in the New Year? Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Dec 23, 2024

This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot. We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness. Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year. Apparently, the numbers put us in the top 10% of podcasts - not just sex podcasts or BDSM kink podcasts – but all podcasts. That boggles our minds when we think about it. What category is number one? Sissy training and feminization shows rule the top podcast episodes. The number one download is from January of this year: Should All Sissies Learn to Masturbate Like A Woman? Today your Femdom hosts talk about sissygasms, sex while feminized, and more. The second largest category is cock control. Now, we know that cock control can mean everything from JOI, guided masturbation, tease and delay, tease and denial all the way to total orgasm control with chastity. There are so many options and we’re really glad to see this category is extremely popular. Other popular podcast episodes feature conversations about: cock sucking, cuckolding, strapon play or pegging and more. The ladies have a great time doing the podcast and this one is full of laughter, sidetracks called going on safari, and general shenanigans. Thank you for joining us for this kinky journey! We’re so glad you’re here with us! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Dec 16, 2024

We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips. In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you! This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts. Don’t feel alone! Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level. This feminization training calendar is a budget friendly way to bridge the gap between feeling all alone and being under strict, personalized guidance from a Femdom Mistress. 52 weeks of feminization Fun assignments Sexy training Feminine affirmations Practical advice And so much more. Are you ready to begin? Here’s the link to the Year of Feminization by Mistress Erika and Mistress Olivia . Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Dec 9, 2024

There is an art to tease and denial games. It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive. Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress? First, the ladies talk about tease toys. Who are they, what does this phrase mean? The ladies share insights into what they both appreciate about someone who is a tease toy. You’ll hear what turns them on about YOU! The ladies, of course, find the control thrilling. You'll hear conversation about power exchange and energy. Both really adore the sounds a man makes when being teased - moaning, gasping, and pleading. Do you love to be teased? Are you a fan of edging and orgasm delay? Ms Erika mentions chastity and teasing. Is there a difference between being a tease toy or a submissive man? Do you have to be submissive or into BDSM to be a tease pet? What are some of the teasing techniques? How does a Mistress push your boundaries, come up with creative ideas and guide you to some of the most explosive orgasms ever? How does distance domination work when doing tease and denial? What does a Mistress look for in a tease toy? What will happen if you come to each woman for teasing? The answers might surprise you! Mistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced Mistress

Dec 2, 2024

In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman. Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of these answers will likely surprise folks who have a fantasy about being a live-in sub or slave to a Domme. What does it mean when the Chastity Queen says, “Chastity is freedom.” This can include: The chastity cage focuses the attention of a submissive Being locked promotes devotion to Mistress The cage is a constant reminder that they have a higher purpose The chaste sub is freed from mindless masturbation “There is nothing more feminizing than to not have a cock available.” That’s a great comment about using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Chastity cages that mimic a vagina Being caged increases feminine feelings The role of humiliation in BDSM and chastity play Using small chastity cages to shrink the clitty of a sissy Crossdresser purging and cycles of interest in feminization You’ll hear personal stories, suggestions and ideas as well as tips for interactions with a Mistress. Even if you have no interest in chastity, this episode will give you a peek inside the interior worlds of three Femdoms. Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Nov 25, 2024

Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more. This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power. Topics include: The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenon How men treat wives versus Dommes The dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks like How serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wife Communication, kink, and intimacy Teaching men how to serve women Why treating women well actually benefits the man The value of having a BDSM kink community How people learn kinky skills Why experience and knowledge is so important with BDSM (and life!) This is a wide ranging conversation that gives you a peek into the minds of these Dommes. Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Nov 11, 2024

Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean? There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc. Topics in this podcast episode include: The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships. A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive. The role of chastity, orgasm denial and/or suffering for your Mistress. Does a service submissive automatically mean sexual service? What are some non-sexual things that a service sub provides? Since your podcast hosts do Distance Domination, the role of a service sub is a little different but the fundamentals are the same as an in person play partner. What can someone do for their Goddess? The ladies have some specific suggestions: Visit our blogs and stay on the blog for at least 3 minutes, click on several pages, staying on each page for several minutes. Write comments on our blogs Follow us on social media; comment on and share our posts. What does the sub get out of serving a Mistress? Hear what other submissives say about being a service sub. Have you ever wanted to be a real service sub? What does that phrase mean to you? Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Nov 4, 2024

We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this. Topics include: How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy? Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman? To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people. For example, some of the outdated and terms are: She male Tranny Transvestite T girl Transsexual This conversation covers: Gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual desires What to call genitalia? What is cis gender? BDSM, erotic humiliation and submission. The role of a Femdom or Dominant woman who says, you will suck her cock for me. You’ll hear quotes from men who want to suck the cock of a transwoman, a transwoman who experienced her first sexual experience with another transwoman, and so much more. Do YOU have a fantasy of being with a transwoman? What is your fantasy? Have you done this in person? What happened? We want to hear everything! Mistress Oliviai’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

Oct 28, 2024

This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi. Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women? Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi: “Submission isn’t merely about obeying orders or bending to another’s will. It’s a profound journey into the depths of one’s own desires. Learning to trust, to yield, and to find freedom in the embrace of another’s dominance.” Topics include: BDSM and trust between the Dominant and the submissive. The difference between a fantasy roleplay BDSM scene and wanting to be a lifestyle submissive. The importance of BDSM communication. How to do BDSM negotiation of needs, desires, and limits. What are the five words that you should never say to a Femdom? The answer might really surprise you. The ladies dispel the myth that submissives are weak or damaged. Submissives must have power in order for there to be power exchange. Is submission a gift to the Domme? What do these women think of those who submit? Lots of insight into the submissive journey from the perspective of three Femdoms (who are always, of course, right about everything LOL). Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Ms Demi’s blog post that in spired this episode: What Does It Mean To Be Submissive? Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

Oct 21, 2024

Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don’t like feminization with their partner. We don’t know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like: What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies? What might be going on in the minds of the cis female partners? Here are some of the questions female partners of crossdressers might have: My boyfriend wears lingerie, what does that mean? Does wearing women’s clothes mean he is gay or bi? If I encourage him to explore his femme side, will he leave me? What does this desire to be a submissive sissy mean for us as a couple? How does a woman attracted to men feel about a partner who wants to dress as a woman? Other topics include: The difference between Drag Queens, crossdressers and sissies. Why do both of your Femdom hosts like crossdressers, sissies and men in panties? How to have conversations about erotic desires, boundaries and intimacy. Have you tried to talk with your female partner about feminization? What happened? If you haven’t had that kind of talk but you want to then this episode will hopefully help you have that conversation. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Oct 14, 2024

Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet. Topics include: What is chastity? What is Locktober? Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm? Can you participate in Locktober if you can’t or don’t want to go a whole month without an orgasm? Does Loctober always require a chastity cage? Are there ways to experience orgasm denial without a cage? What is chastity by will? What is Mistress Olivia’s workaround when someone can’t wear a chastity cage? How to use Locktober to break bad habits like chronic masturbation or to install good habits like achieving fitness or other personal goals. What is panty chastity? How to use chastity as part of sissy training or feminization. How to someone in a very small chastity cage to emphasize the emasculation of a sissy. This episode is all about submission, cock control, and the various ways a Femdon can use chastity for some wicked fun. If you’re curious about Locktober, chastity or sissy training using denial, this episode is for you! Previous episodes about chastity: Chastity Interview with Mature Metal How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature Metal Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy Enchantrix Empire : our free adult social networking site

Oct 7, 2024

We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom. That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant. Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don’t want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress. This is inspired by someone who wants to know how to request a Pro Domme to be creative without acting like he is trying to be “in charge” of the session. Topics include: What is topping from the bottom? Some relationship dynamics and other issues to consider when deciding what is bad BDSM behavior from a submissive. Insight into the role of vulnerability and trust in BDSM power exchange relationships. How to communicate with a Dominatrix or Femdom Mistress Differences in communication with a Pro Domme versus an unpaid kink player that you meet in BDSM circles. Differences between fantasy submission and power exchange. Your Femdom hosts give examples of how to communicate your desires in appropriate ways. Remember communication, trust and honesty about what you need are the most important aspects of any BDSM relationship. This podcast will give you some of the tools to feel confident that you are not topping from the bottom. Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sep 30, 2024

We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane’s first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika. Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This interview episode focuses on the themes of: lust, power and money. Why does a smart, capable woman become a Femdom? What attracts someone to BDSM and kink power exchange situations? For the submissive, why would someone want to be on the receiving end of BDSM play? How can a submissive service his Femdom outside of the kink? What is submissive service? Can BDSM be a kind of therapy for some people? What does it mean to call Femdom scenes, performance art? This is a conversation about extremes of emotions interspersed with personal experiences of three very smart women. Enjoy! And, get the book! Here’s the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon . Jane Boon’s website Mistress Olivia’s website Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s website Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sep 23, 2024

Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today’s episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed novel Edge Play and today she’s here to talk about her newest novel Bold Strokes. We highly recommend both of Jane's books. In fact, if you’re submissive, here’s your order: “Read Edge Play and Bold Strokes by Jane Boon and report back.” Even if you’re not submissive, do yourself a favor and read them. You’re welcome. Edge Play is a novel about Amy, an investment banker turned Dominatrix. The novel is set amongst the greed and arrogance of Wall Street elites and the 2008 financial crash. One of the main themes is a young woman coming into her own power after being mentored by her best friend who is an Art Gallery owner and Pro Domme. In the new novel, Bold Strokes, the settings of the art world, high finance and even higher intensity BDSM scenes lets the reader get to know Erika, the gallery owner / Pro Domme. How did she become who she is and what happened to her during the same timeframe as the first book told from Amy's perspective. Some of the themes are: How does a woman become a Femdom? What is the mindset of someone who is a Dominatrix? Who are some of the men that love to be tormented by the power, beauty and cruelty of a Dominant woman? Negotiation and consent in BDSM relationships Sex work, sex workers and the inherent imbalance of power between powerful men and young women. This is a wonderful novel and the kink makes it even more fun. Bold Strokes is an exciting read with unforgettable characters. Here’s the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon . Jane Boon’s website Mistress Olivia’s website Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s website Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sep 16, 2024

This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys and other kinky things. Why? Well, anyone who is into things that aren’t considered ‘mainstream’ can feel the wrong kind of shame or fear of being discovered by family, friends or work associates. The Femdom hosts will share personal stories of self-acceptance as kinky dominant women and how this podcast started as a way to dispel myths about BDSM, kink, and feminization. This includes conversations about how crossdressing can give someone access to feelings or behavior that aren’t accepted when in guy mode. This episode covers emotional or psychological questions like: Why does someone who loves women want to crossdress or act like a woman? Does throwing out everything related to your feminization or kink ever work? Will a decision to stop being a sissy ever last long term? Why does the urge to crossdress come back even stronger after purging? Is there a way to process the guilt or come to terms with the wrong kind of shame associated with something that is a huge part of your psyche? For those into sissy play and feminization, the binge and purge cycle can run into thousands of dollars and causes endless frustration. How to avoid the urge to purge? Practical tips include: Understanding why you want to dress in women’s lingerie or women’s clothes. How to identify when societal teaching is needlessly holding you back. Learning when and why you want to dress in order to identify where you are in your cycle. How to find a community that will accept and support you. How to put away rather than throw away - ie get a storage locker! If you’ve ever felt alone in your desires, this episode is for you. You’re not alone, you’re not crazy and we get it! Ms Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Ms Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy Free adult social networking site Enchantrix Empire

Sep 9, 2024

This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question: “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls who might be nervous about buying in person. What stores and products would you recommend?” Great suggestion Sissy Brenda! Here you go! The ladies begin with real talk about some of the risks of public humiliation and share safety considerations.. There are also ethical issues with consent and BDSM or kink play in public. All that said, these Femdoms are skilled at feminization and in person lingerie shopping can be fabulous for sissy training, etc. Suggestion for shopping in person include: Mindset What to wear How to present yourself And more Sissy Brenda also asks about thongs which inspires a conversation about panty styles including thongs. The ladies recommend some specific brands. Hanky Panky thongs Calvin Klein invisibles Skims : up to 4X ! Aerie Finally, even though this episode is about lingerie shopping in person, there are specific suggestion about how to order online and make sure that your purchases are private and discrete. We sent an email letting Sissy Brenda know that this episode posts today and she wrote back: "Hello Mistress: I found success with the Hanky Panky thongs you suggested. Surprisingly comfortable and so many colors and prints! I also tried and liked the Victoria's Secret seamless thongs. Also very comfortable and great with leggings. Never pictured myself a thong gurl but you may have converted me! I look forward to the podcast! All the best, Sissy Brenda" Happy shopping ladies! Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sep 2, 2024

We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends. Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces. For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's. Each week has a different Mistress host who will lead the conversation. There will be a topic or activity like naughty Mad Libs and other games. People can listen on Twitter X but the Mistresses are the only ones who will be speakers. Everyone else can join in by going to the Community Kink chatroom and typing while you listen. When Ms Erika heard Ms Demi’s idea - Ms Erika set up Spaces for The Weekly Hot Spot podcast. We’ll be live every Thursday at 1pm eastern time -- talking about this kink BDSM podcast, episode ideas, answering questions and, well, basically having a great time shooting the shiznit with each other and all of you. You’ll hear some of those random thoughts in this episode! Join us on Twitter X: Ms Demi: @DommeDemi Ms Olivia: @MistressOlivia1 Ms Erika: @ErikaEnchantrix Demi’s space for Femdom Friday Sept 6, 2024 Community kink chat room Look for The Weekly Hot Spot space every Thursday at 1 pm eastern. Cum have lunch with us. Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Aug 26, 2024

Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play. Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone. Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her. The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon. Things to consider: What is your self bondage safety plan? Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on online H igh protocol versus freely speaking during a scene Ideas and questions from listeners: Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessions Using a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keys Predicament play safety Edge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiation Keeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need them Special considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman: How to avoid leaving marks What causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries. Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive. What can someone use for self bondage? Examples include: Sweatband, headband or scrunchie Shoe laces ¼ inch diameter rope Paracord Zone mummification with plastic wrap Of course, you’ll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms. Miss Cassie’s website: Miss Cassie Loves Rope Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: I ntelligent Phone Fantasy

Aug 19, 2024

Today’s guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today. This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more. You’ll hear: ** Miss Cassie’s personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom ** Leather tradition in BDSM ** Lineage in BDSM leather family tradition Mistress Olivia takes us on safari with a question about polyamory, cheating and sexual or emotional partners. BDSM education continues with: ** training involved in BDSM ** psychology of kink ** what a practiced Dominant will ask a prospective play partner ** BDSM negotiations, safe words and edge play ** safety and kink ** sub drop and aftercare ** Differences between Eastern Shibari and Western bondage techniques ** Cultural history of Shibari in Japan as a prison capture system ** How to avoid or deal with circulatory issues in rope bondage ** Dealing with expectations and the difference between fantasy and reality This is a lively conversation with three strong, powerful women. Enjoy and check out all the websites: Miss Cassie’s website: Miss Cassie Loves Rope Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Leather Archives and Museum

Aug 12, 2024

The podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do wish they could share their femme self with a partner, friends or family. This episode is a sissy success story from someone who is sharing her authentic self and finding her community. Meet our new Irish friend, Shauna with a special shout out to her, her wife and her ladies in Ireland. We see you and we’re sending lipstick kisses to you! Many people tell us about the challenges of striking a balance between their femme self and their other life responsibilities. Is it possible to be authentic and accepted? . In this episode you’ll hear your Femdom hosts discuss: ** Coming out about crossdressing desires ** How to talk with your partner about wanting to wear feminine lingerie ** How to talk calmly about concerns, limits and boundaries ** Things to consider with family and other life circumstances. ** How to find places and people who will cherish your authentic self ** Sexual experiences when en femme. Do you want to be with a man? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have lots of comments and other tips for crossdressers, sissies and trans women. This episode centers on people who identify as engaging in some sort of feminization but much of the content also applies to anyone who is kinky and struggling to find people who understand and support you. Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Aug 5, 2024

Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time or you haven’t been to a play party in years. Today’s episode features Wicked Peanut from Studio 58 with a wealth of BDSM knowledge and tips for going to in person BDSM play parties like the one called Naughty Knowledge. You’ll hear conversation about: ** Flying solo: is it okay to show up at a fetish event alone? ** What can I expect when I arrive at Naughty Knowledge? ** How do I behave? What is proper BDSM and kink etiquette? ** What is consent in kink and how do you handle this at a fetish event? ** Pick up play: what is it, how do you get it and what not to do. ** How to do BDSM negotiations and why communication is so important in kink play. ** Are there really BDSM classes? ** What do people wear or not wear? ** What are some of the themed parties? ** The difference between a BDSM play space and a 24 hour sex room. ** What Studio 58 does to help people find pick up play partners. ** How to volunteer and why this is a great way to make friends in the BDSM scene. Are you curious about the kink lifestyle and want to know more? Studio 58 Events and Naughty Knowledge in August are great opportunities to have a safe space to explore BDSM, meet other kinky people and have a lot of sexy fun! Naughty Knowledge August 15 - 18, 2024 Studio 58 Fetlife You’ll need to join Fetlife to look up the home page. Just do a search for Studio 58 on Fetlife Mistress Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog, Intelligent Phone Fantasy When: August 15 - 18, 2024 Where: Private Hotel Takeover & Event in Gettysburg PA. Who: Produced by Studio 58. Designed for newcomers, swinks, swingers, experienced kinksters and even brand-new folks who may be kinky in the bedroom but want to know more about safe and consensual BDSM. What: 3 day event with BDSM and kink education, skill sharing, demonstrations, pick up play opportunities, full BDSM dungeon play space and so much more. Registration and more information on the Studio 58 website in the Naughty Knowledge section.

Jul 29, 2024

Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time. There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event. Basically it’s something like 20 sexy ladies teasing you and, this time, TRYING to get you to cum and you are trying desperately to NOT cum until you are the last cock standing. Why? First, because it’s a fun challenge and second, there are THREE free phone sex prizes if you can withstand our sexy voices telling you to cum. First prize is 60 minutes free with the Mistress of your choice. If that’s not incentive I don’t know what is. Here’s a write up of what you need to do to be part of this epic edging Stroke-a-thon event: The ladies talk about what you need to do to enter the Stroke-a-thon and then bring in some sexy Mistress friends to give you some special insights: ** Why are these Femdoms so excited by this event? ** Why do we WANT you to cum? ** Get special tricks for edging longer. ** Learn how to increase your stroking stamina. ** Get a preview of some of our favorite masturbation techniques. In this episode you’ll hear from: The Scarlet Mistress Mistress Harper Ms Nadia Mistress Becky Goddess Skylar Mistress Demi Goddess Fiona Remember there is a lot of conversation about the Stroke-a-thon in our free adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire . Are you ready? Remember if you need private lessons for edging, gooning, roleplay and all sort of fun, kinky adventures, just get in touch! Mistress Olivia Mistress Erika

Jul 22, 2024

Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store, is the guest for all about violet wands and electro play. You’ll get answers to various common questions about electroplay: What is a Violet Wand? How is a Violet Wand different from a TENS Unit? What is the science behind kinksters using electroplay toys? Who uses Violet Wands and why? What does it mean when it’s called a sensation toy? For BDSM players who are or have a pain slut, will electro play be suitably painful? Does electro play leave marks on the skin? Brittany explains and then talks about aftercare. Safety is a huge part of experienced BDSM kinksters, there is a discussion about dos and don’ts with electroplay, TENS units, medical devices, etc. This episode is packed with useful information, BDSM education, kinky stories and much more. The Dungeon Store Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Jul 15, 2024

Today’s guest is Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store. This is a curated BDSM toy store that is second generation, female owned. There is so much to talk about! Brittany’s mom founded The Dungeon Store nearly two decades ago. The vast amount of BDSM gear and kink toys can be overwhelming. The Dungeon Store has a curated collection of BDSM toys and one of the most robust collections of electro play options for sale anywhere. The quality and creativity earned The Dungeon Store 3 AVN award nominations in the best pleasure products category. Today’s episode is a lively conversation that goes to a wide variety of topics. For example, a question about wax play and the flameless wax play kit leads to a story from Mistress Olivia about a house fire and what survived the flames. The deer tan flogger that is for sale in The Dungeon Store allows Brittany to talk about different kinds of floggers and how they are made. The Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters inspires a dialog about the psychology of power exchange, the difference between a Top and a Domme and much more. Mistress Erika shares her interest in the occult. Brittany gives details about why there is a wide variety of occult books in The Dungeon Store. This episode runs the gamut of funny stories, cautionary stories, BDSM education, spirituality and opening your mind to new ideas. The Dungeon Store: https://thedungeonstore.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jul 8, 2024

The Sissy Pageant questions ended up being a gold mine of information, tips and support for those who are into crossdressing, sissy play or who are transwomen. In this episode, you’ll hear all about the challenges of feminization along with creative solutions from your Femdom hosts and the gurls involved in the Sissy Pageant Topics include: Self image concerns going from male presenting to en femme Tips for a more feminine appearing body How to speak in a more feminine manner The challenge of high heels and liquid eyeliner Makeup while needing to wear glasses Fashion and clothing Dating, meeting people and sex How to have a sissygasm Chastity as part of feminization or sissy training This episode has advice from other ladies as well as from the Femdom hosts. If you have to keep your sissy or crossdresser activities on the down low, there are ideas for staying feminine when you’re not able to dress en femme. What feminization or sissy challenges (or advice) do you have? You might inspire another episode! Mistress Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Enchantrix Empire: https://enchantrixempire.com/

Jul 1, 2024

Today’s episode is inspired by the amazing answers to the Sissy Pageant questions. If you are not interested in feminization, this podcast might still resonate with you because this is about staying true to yourself and balancing that with the ‘rest’ of life and personal responsibilities Here’s the background. Enchantrix Empire, our free adult social networking site, was the recent location for our Sissy Pageant. Participants sent in 3 photos and then answered 4 questions about their feminization journey. Mistress Daphne is today's guest because she is the first one to publicly say what the Mistress judges were thinking. Here’s what Ms Daphne said: “Is anyone as stunned as I am at these answers?! I find myself weeping with their stories and confessions! I am just so honored to listen to them. I want to give every one of them a giant hug for an hour! Just wow.” This ends up being a conversation about vulnerability, desire and connection touching on: ** Fear of rejection when thinking about telling a partner about fantasies, desires and needs. ** Hiding feminization desires from a partner who won’t understand or accept them. ** How to have a conversation about erotic desires at the start of a relationship (in a perfect world). ** Balancing the desire to be a sissy with the responsibility to others in your life. ** Ideas for how to feel femme without being en femme (dressed in women’s clothes). This is a really tender episode, almost a love letter to our girly gurls and all of us who are kinky. Mistress Daphne: https://enchantrixdaphne.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Enchantrix Empire free adult social networking site: https://enchantrixempire.com/

Jun 24, 2024

What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body? How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic? That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play. Topics include: Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a pain slut The role of stress positions to enhance kinky scenes Physical pain, mental pain and the role of an intense mindfuck The role of suffering in submission to a beautiful Femdom Mistress Of course, there is always a lot of emphasis on the role of communication in BDSM. The ladies talk about BDSM negotiation, what to ask your Mistress and why it’s important that you answer her questions honestly (so she can plan the play effectively). This is BDSM education: Thuddy versus stingy impact play The role of warmup in impact play How bondage affects the skin for CBT Electrosex and what to look for an a tens unit for kinky usesWax play and safety concerns Temperature play and a wicked use of ice water The importance of aftercare These creative Femdoms talk about workarounds for those who crave S/m pain but need to keep this part hidden. Remember if you hear something in the podcast and you have a followup question, send an email. Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com Erika AT enchantrixempire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jun 17, 2024

This episode is inspired by Sissy Kylie who says she wants to get a more feminine body and wants sissy workout tips. Mistress Erika begins the episode talking about body image. Mistress Olivia says, it’s normal to want to change things about your physical body to be more of the feminine ideal in your mind. Many feminized people want workout tips and exercises to target specific areas like ass, hips and stomach. Both ladies talk about exercises they do and recommend for any sissy workout. Ms Olivia talks about how she gets a cute round yoga ass with squats, walking lunges and donkey kicks (among other exercises). Ms Erika adds in a suggestion to do bridges. Working core muscles help to slim the tummy and a tight lacing corset and give that feminine hourglass shape. These Femdoms love feminization and sissy training. They talk about how to combine legitimate exercises with kinky inspiration to make sure these get done! For example, a way to strap a dildo onto the long part of a couch cushion to get a thigh and ass workout while perfecting the sissy cowgirl position! You’ll hear specific exercises suggestions, behind the scenes stories, general naughtiness and so much more. Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jun 10, 2024

Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink. It starts with this quote from one submissive: “You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.” Both ladies talk about being a Femdom and a sensual sadist. You’ll hear answers to these questions from another treasured pet and listener who wants to hear more about sadism and masochism. Michael asks: How common is it for a sensual dom to also have a little bit of a sadistic streak? and Is it typical for this to be a frequent activity in a loving and nurturing relationship? Topics include: Sharing experiences with the S/m part of BDSM Various expectation of a Mistress How do you know you’re correct about your assumptions of her, who she is and what she likes? How can you tell if a sensual Femdom also enjoys rough kink? How does consent work with risk aware BDSM and kink? This is a peek behind the scenes as each Femdom talks about BDSM scenes gone awry when a sub doesn’t obey, how each lady feels when that happens and how it changes her feelings towards the bratty sub. By the end of the episode you'll know that in scene domination is different from the podcast and both ladies love delivering an intense kink session that includes pain play. Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jun 3, 2024

What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive? Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing what’s going on and then it’s really too late because full on sissy training is underway. How does a Femdom Mistress train a sissy submissive? Listen to feminization Mistresses talking about how they do coerced feminization, sissy training and use a combination of praise, punishment, pain and pleasure to ensure the creation of the best sissy! This episode is inspired by comments from various listeners. And, while the ladies start off talking about sissification and coerced feminization - much of the conversation about using pain and punishment on a submissive applies to crossdressers and transwomen who are submissive but might not be sissies. The role of discipline to enforce who is in charge is always a favorite topic and an opportunity to talk about the paradox of BDSM where pain is pleasure. Mistress Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

May 27, 2024

The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy. Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body. The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them. Conversation includes: ** the Paradox of BDSM: pain is pleasure, bondage is freedom, etc. ** dominant or powerful women who tend to have a thirst for knowledge and want to grow as people ** the very particular skills of a Pro Domme, whether as an in person Dominatrix or Distance Domination (and phone sex). ** the relationship between submissive and Dominant ** consent ** merging the personal and professional in erotic spaces ** the role of money - in society, in relationships, as a symbol of power ** and so much more. This episode uses quotes from the BDSM book, Edge Play to explore the nuances of culture, societal roles, and more. Edge Play by Jane Boon https://www.janeboon.com/ Twitter: @JaneEBoon Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

May 20, 2024

This is called the Sissy Pageant because it’s a short title but the hosts want you to know that the Pageant is open to anyone interested in feminization and femme style: crossdressers, transwomen, pantybois, and, of course, sissies! Goddess Skylar is today’s guest because she’s the one that sort of resurrected the Sissy Pageant. The ladies go over the Sissy Pageant rules and details. The short version is: submit 3 photos, answer 4 questions and boom you’re in the running! Now, how do you DO all that? Sissy Pageant details: ** Join EnchantrixEmpire.com if you’re not already a member. EE is our free adult social networking site. ** There is a Sissy Pageant Group in the Enchantrix Empire. Join the group. ** Upload three photos for the competition. (Include your EE name on a paper in the photos). ** After uploading your contestant photos, you’ll get access to the four questions to answer. ** HAVE FUN! LDW Mistresses will judge the Pageant and pick the top three winners. The judges will be evaluating for best: ** legs/ass ** sex appeal ** style ** and your answers to four questions about your feminization and/or sissy journey. In today’s podcast, the ladies will answer the pageant questions so you’ll hear the questions and our answers. Important dates: By June 15th: photos and answers submitted Friday June 28th at 8pm eastern: Celebration and winner announcements in the chatroom at communitykink.com. The celebration is also free and will have lots of Mistresses and general shenanigans. Goddess Skylar will put a link in the chat room that you can click to actually hear the show. What do the winners get? Free time with the Mistress of your choice! ** 2nd runner up 20 free minutes. ** 1st runner up, 30 free minutes. ** Sissy Pageant Grand Prize winner: 60 free minutes. There will be lots of fun leading up to the Pageant, community and conversations, the celebration party and then free phone sex with the Mistress of your choice! Are you ready? Let’s have some fun! Enchantrix Empire: https://enchantrixempire.com/ Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Goddess Skylar’s blog: https://yourkinkadvisor.com/

May 13, 2024

How in the world did a PhD in industrial engineering end up on The Weekly Hot Spot talking about BDSM and the world of Pro Dommes? In addition to professional experience in engineering and journalism, today’s guest, Jane Boon, is the author of Edge Play. This episode description is actually difficult to write because what do you say about someone who is able to effortlessly blend the worlds of unethical investment banking bro culture and the BDSM learning curve of an accidental Pro Domme? Both cultures deliver a fantastic ass fucking but only the Femdoms do it after getting consent. Jane jokes that her novel Edge Play is Fifty Shades of Grey meets The Big Short. Edge Play is a fantastic read – it’s an exciting financial thriller - add in the “learning to be a Dominatrix” element and you have one of the best fiction books ever written about Femdom, kink culture and one element of sex work. This novel about an accidental Pro Domme rings true for the Femdom hosts. The conversation explores profound shifts in understanding about men, power, control, what it means to be a woman in an area where men dominate, what it means to be a woman who dominates men and the evolution of a woman who comes into her own power. Enjoy this fascinating conversation with Jane Boon, a brilliant woman who embraces the motto “more please.” Get. The. Book. ….. now. Edge Play by Jane Boon https://www.janeboon.com/ Twitter: @JaneEBoon Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

May 6, 2024

It’s Masturbation Month and time for the girly girls to celebrate with a sissygasm! This episode is inspired by several conversations and emails about this distinct kind of orgasm. Your Femdom hosts touch on various aspects of this sexy topic, including: ** Why is it called a sissygasm? ** How is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm? ** What to expect with a sissygasm. Many feminized friends aren’t sure how to have a sissygasm or even if they have experienced one. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have some specific suggestions about: ** How to mentally prepare ** Using chastity as feminization and sissy training ** Suggestions for different positions that are popular for sissygasm success. ** How and where to find you P spot ** What is prostate milking and how does that work with sissy training? All this an more. Enjoy and tell us about your sissygasms! Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ 30 day sissy challenge: sissy training assignments https://phonesexassignments.com/product/30-day-sissy-challenge-bundle/ How to masturbate like a girl: Pillow Humping Instructions: https://phonesexassignments.com/product/how-to-masturbate-like-a-girl-pillow-humping-by-mistresses-olivia-and-erika/

Apr 29, 2024

Are you ready for Masturbation Month? Your Femdom hosts love this month-long celebration of self love. Today’s podcast is all about cock stroking instructions or JOI, jerk off instructions. What are some of the ways to spice up your masturbation? Check out the Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation Calendar in the First Class Erotica Store. Click on the phone sex assignments section and look for Ms Erika and Ms Olivia. In this podcast, you’ll hear discussion about new ways to stroke including: Hand position or grip Stroking speed or variability of stroking speed Wet or dry stroking Lube recommendations for cut or uncut cocks Weird lube flavors: cum flavored or bacon flavored lube DIY masturbation ideas Remote controlled sex toys for even more fun As always, the ladies go off on quirky tangents. For example, did you know that there are masturbate-a-thons? — that’s where participants masturbate to raise money for charity and increase public awareness about masturbation.T hat seems to be a: STROKE of genius! Ending with a BANG! So we can give the participants a hand! The puns just write themselves! There are also weird sex facts and Guinness Book of World records entries for sexual trivia. Who holds the world record for the largest number of orgasms in a 24 hour period? Enjoy the podcast, check out the Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation Calendar in the First Class Erotica Store and get a JUMP on your celebrations for Masturbation May! First Class Erotica Store: https://firstclasseroticastore.com/ A Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation: https://phonesexassignments.com/product/a-month-of-femdom-guided-masturbation-with-mistresses-erika-olivia/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Apr 22, 2024

Today we’re talking about bi curious cuckolding. That might be seduced, manipulated, or coerced bi for the cuckold. Do all cuckolds suck cock? What about sissy cuckolds? The Cuckold Myths podcast episode that we did earlier inspired this episode to go even deeper into this sexy and fascinating kink. If a cuckold sucks cock, does that automatically mean they are gay or bi? Does a submissive cuckold who sucks cock ‘turn’ gay? Should all sissy husbands suck cock? What is the role of the Mistress or Dominant Woman in coerced bi situations? Can someone who wants to explore bi or gay desires use cuckolding as a way to begin to investigate those needs? What about the submissive who has no desire to suck cock but ‘will’ do it as an act of submission to his Mistress, Dominant partner or even the Dominant Alpha Man in the cuckold triangle? What is phallus worship and strapon play with a Dominant kinky woman? Are there different expectations for a male partner versus a sissy cuckold husband? What is the role of humiliation and how does that work with coerced bi cuckolding scenes? What happens if her lover, the Alpha Male Bull wants to sexually dominate her partner? Is fluffing, cleaning up, creampie eating, or cum eating training a gateway to cock sucking? There are so many nuances to any kind of cuckolding. This conversation explores all this and more. Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Apr 15, 2024

This episode takes you inside the world of professional Female Domination. Mistress Mia Darque returns to The Weekly Hot Spot podcast with stories and insights from the largest gathering of Pro Domme’s in the US, DomCon LA. What is a Femdom and who decides what is “appropriate” behavior for a Femdom? Did you know there’s actually some controversy around the answer to that question? Yep, there is. Wait until you hear the stories. Mistress Mia brings up the differences in fan behavior of those going to an AVN show and a kink convention. AVN is the American Adult Video industry trade show. Like any convention, DomCon has breakout sessions. Many of these classes are for industry only, meaning they are geared to the business side of the business of being a Dominatrix. The ladies talk about some of these BDSM industry classes including: How to balance self and service as a Pro Domme. Ms Olivia points out the paradox of being in charge as a Pro Domme but also being in service to the submissive client. How does that work and how do these Femdoms do this in their own professional and personal lives? There’s a great conversation about collaring a submissive: Does a Pro Domme collar submissive clients? When does a Femdom put a collar on someone? Have the collaring protocols changed over time? What are some of the obligations for the Mistress who collars someone? There are lots of stories, laughter and so much more. DomCon LA: May 29 - June 2nd, 2024DomCon New Orleans: Oct. 10 - Oct. 13, 2024 https://domcon.com/sessions/new Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Apr 8, 2024

Sissy affirmations. Dressing advice for crossdressers. Feminization encouragement. T hese are some of the topics you’ll hear in the audios on our free feminization site, Get Girlie. Goddess Rachel started posting the Sissy Minute on the site and this podcast episode is inspired by her and she's the guest! All three ladies talk about feminization tips and tricks, AND we know it’s more than just how to do something. It’s about us banding together to encourage you on your sissy journey. Who do you turn to when you want to celebrate all things femme and girly? Where can you ask feminization advice? Where do you go to play when you can’t do a session with your Sissy Mistress? Check out all the free audios on Get Girlie and look for The Sissy Minute by Goddess Rachel. Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Goddess Rachel: https://www.sensual-domme.com/ Get Girlie: https://getgirlie.com/

Apr 1, 2024

Have you been to a BDSM kink conference? Do you want to go but are worried that you won’t know anyone? We have a solution, be a volunteer! This episode is inspired by a conversation with Sissy Bruna who wants to be a service submissive to a Femdom Mistress. There is one of the largest gatherings of Femdoms and Pro Dommes happening in LA at the end of May. This episode is all about how to be a volunteer submissive at DomCon LA. DomCon board member Mistress Mia Darque joins the ladies to answer questions about being a volunteer. You don’t need to be submissive to volunteer (Ms Olivia is a regular volunteer for lots of groups), but this can be the perfect role for any service submissive. As far as volunteering for DomCon, there are a bunch of specific questions and topics: Who should consider being a volunteer at DomCon (or any BDSM convention)? How are volunteers picked at DomCon? What are some of the volunteer positions? And do volunteers need special skills? What are the hours for a kink convention volunteer? What does a volunteer wear? Advice on managing the expectations of the volunteer. What are some of the benefits of being a volunteer? Does a volunteer get a discount or other perks? In the conversation about volunteering for DomCon LA, the ladies talk about all sorts of other things. As always, you’ll hear a mix of behind-the-scenes information, useful advice for communicating with a Femdom and random things that catch the attention of these smart, sexy women. DomCon LA is Wednesday May 29 - Sunday June 2nd https://domcon.com/sessions/new Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Mar 25, 2024

What are cock rings? Okay, if you’re a fan of this podcast, chances are you know what a cock ring is. Maybe you even wear a cock ring. But, do you know all this about cock rings? The ladies start with the basics of cock rings. Learn how a cock ring works and why it’s effective for erectile dysfunction, stamina, intensifying sensations, and powerful orgasms. Ms. Olivia mentions that people in Victorian England used cock rings as male chastity devices. What the hell!?! Modern cock rings are generally made of two types of material - hard and stretchy. These Femdoms talk about using cock rings in sessions to enhance submission, sensations, and more. Tips for buying cock rings include: Pros and cons of different kinds of materials, including metal versus silicone Size and fit How to measure for a metal cock ring How to find a cock ring that fits your body Types of cock rings with special effects like nubs and vibes Safety and cock rings, including edge play while being risk-aware The Femdom hosts use cock rings for all kinds of kink play and fetish scenes. They have suggestions for where to get various kinds of penis play toys. https://male-essentials.com/ https://oxballs.com/ Do you have a cock ring? What do you use and where did you get it? Inquiring minds want to know. Remember to check out our blogs: Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ The Weekly Hot Spot podcast transcripts are posted on the blog: https://weeklyhotspot.com/ The transcripts aren’t current, but the ones that are up have lots of links to things we talk about, photos and more so check it out, leave a comment and more episode transcripts will post asap.

Mar 18, 2024

The hosts get an email from someone who describes himself as a submissive male interested in being controlled by a strict Mistress. Mistress Harper joins Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika to talk about requests for a strict Mistress. Ms. Harper is the perfect guest for this episode because she describes herself as a sensual sadist. What does that mean, and how does that play out in a kink session? BDSM terms can mean different things to people at various levels of kink play. For example, what does the term strict Mistress mean to you? Think about some of these terms for a strict Mistress: cruel, sadistic, harsh, demanding, firm, unyielding, etc. Words have various meanings depending on context and the people involved. In this episode, you’ll hear how these three Femdoms ask questions to make sure everyone involved in the scene is on the same page with what will happen. What questions does a Mistress ask to find out what her potential kink playmate means when using various kink terminology? This candid conversation has examples of BDSM negotiation and why consent from both parties is important in power exchange and pain play. Remember, in BDSM, pain can be physical or mental pain. Mental or emotional pain can be things like humiliation, degradation, etc. BDSM is a paradox of sensations and emotions. For example, pain is pleasure; submission is freedom, etc. Want to please your Mistress? Listen to this podcast episode and follow her lead as she asks questions and creates your relationship. Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Harper’s personal blog: https://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/

Mar 11, 2024

Today’s episode on wigs and wig care is inspired by Yvonne, who says keeping wigs from becoming a mess is a real challenge. We agree! Choosing the right wig is complicated. These Mistresses believe that feminization is all about the total package, and, for most people, that means finding the perfect hair for the look you want for your transformation. Unless you win the lottery, you will probably need at least an idea of your budget as you shop for your crossdresser or sissy accessories. Wigs can get expensive, so the hosts of this podcast outline tips that will help you experiment with style, length, and color before you pick out some keeper wigs. Things to consider: Wig material: synthetic, natural hair or a combo of both Where will you wear your wig? Do you want to go out and about or stay at home while dressed en femme? What is the weather like where you are? If you’re in Florida, for example, human hair can get frizzy or lose shape because of the heat and humidity. Budget versus quality H ow to shop for your wig: online versus in person Wig shopping details: ** How to measure your wig. ** Styles of wig cap: basic/blunt or lace ** Why a wig liner is important Washing your wig liner and wig ** Detangling and styling your wig ** How to store your wig This episode ends with this quote from Dolly Parton: “There’s a heart beneath the boobs and a brain beneath the wig.” … Unless you’re a sissy bimbo - then you don’t need the brain, your Femdom Mistress will do all the thinking for you! Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ The Weekly Hot Spot blog with transcripts of past shows: https://weeklyhotspot.com/ Face shapes to hairstyles: https://elly-k.com.au/tips-and-advice/face-shapes-to-hair-styles/ How to measure your head for a wig: https://www.wigs.com/blogs/news/how-to-measure-your-head-for-a-wig

Mar 4, 2024

Are you a member of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire? If you’re frustrated with being shadow banned and restricted on social media, you should check out Enchantrix Empire. It’s free to join. You’ll find Mistresses, other sexy people, and a fantastic kinky community there. The members of Enchantrix Empire vote for the Mistress of the Month and this month it is our very own, Mistress Erika! So, we’ve got to celebrate in our own special way.And YOU get to have lots of sexy fun with us, including some awesome treats from the lovely and talented Mistress Erika. For details on her Mistress of the Month gifts to YOU, check out her blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/mistress-erika-mistress-of-the-month-march/ Thanks for always supporting us and helping us celebrate all the kinky fun! Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Feb 26, 2024

The cuckold fetish is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. The Femdom hosts of this kink podcast talk about some of the most common myths about the cuckold lifestyle. Myth 1: Only men enjoy cuckolding. The cuckold fantasy is very popular among men, but it’s not exclusive to men. Many women initiate the cuckold lifestyle. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika talk about why they love cuckolds and why more women are getting involved in the cuckold lifestyle. Myth 2: The cuckold is always a cis man. Did you know that some women love to BE the cuckold? She is called a cuckqueen. Ms. Olivia shares how she cuckolded male partners with a woman as her lover. Both ladies agree that a particular type of wicked cuckolding can be done with a sex toy. Imagine if you were replaced by a dildo! Mistress Erika adds that a common myth is that the Bull is always a Black man. Interracial cuckolding is very popular because BBC is popular but the Bull can be of any race. Myth #3 - All cuckolds like humiliation, domination and/or denial. BDSM is a paradox. Pain is pleasure. Submission is freedom. Orgasm denial is intense erotic satisfaction. Many aspects of the cuckold lifestyle express these contractions. The hosts talk about personal experiences in their private lives and during distance domination phone sex sessions. Myth #4 - Cuckolds don’t or should not get jealous. Mistress Olivia points out that many cuckolds think they should or should not feel a certain way about their relationship. It’s common for the swirl of emotions to be a big part of why cuckolding is so intense. Ms. Erika talks about jealousy, envy, and the need for good communication for all the participants in this lifestyle. Do you have a cuckold fantasy, experience being a cuckold, or want to explore this kinky relationship? Do any of these labels describe you: The submissive cuckold The reluctant cuckold The sissy cuckold husband Cuckold in chastity Pussy free cuckold And so much more …The ladies want to hear from you! Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Feb 19, 2024

Goddess Rachel joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode, which is inspired by a listener's comment and question. Here’s the comment / question: “I’ve been exploring different ways to cum before the orgasm. I didn’t realize how many different ways there are to come without going all the way first. It’s been great to have a better mind-body connection and multiple cums to enjoy. Have you done a podcast on various ways to cum without full orgasm?” What a great question! T oday’s episode is about Tantra, orgasm edging, and gooning. Ms Erika starts the conversation talking about gooning as a state of mind, which is way more than the physical actions of edging and masturbation. She points out that many people deep into a gooning session actually don’t want to have an orgasm. Ms Olivia says gooning is the masturbation version of subspace. Goddess Rachel says that there is a term called goonspace which describes a state that a lot of gooners chase. Topics in this episode include: Full body waves of pleasure without ejaculation via Tantra The difference between edging for a long time and gooning Ms Erika’s gooner trance audio Women who are gooners and are called goonettes The science and biology of male ejaculation Sex toys that enhance gooning, including a brief history of cock rings Favorite lubes for masturbation As always, you’ll hear sexy stories, weird erotic facts, flirting, and lots of fun. Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Goddess Rachel: ​​ https://www.sensual-domme.com/

Feb 12, 2024

This episode about feminization is inspired by someone who describes herself as a cis male exploring feminization and being a sissy. Jen Jenn has questions about manicures, nail polish, and whether a sissy needs to go to a salon for a mani/pedi. What is the most femme style for nails? What does Mistress recommend for a sissy who needs to be discreet about her crossdressing? Why press-on nails are perfect for feminization training. The ladies move on to general makeup and hair tips for feminization and sissy dressing. This episode is an overview of sissy style tips. Mistress Erika has recommendations for a skin care routine. Ms Olivia has a confession about her own skin care routine. Topics include: Male to female makeup tips Discrete ways to wear makeup How to find what makeup works for you Hair and wigs for feminization The best hairstyles for a sissy Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Feb 5, 2024

Ms Harper joins the ladies for a conversation about myth versus reality with total power exchange relationships. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give couple of definitions to start the conversation: ** What is power exchange? ** What does total power exchange mean? ** What is the difference between being dominated at a play party and being a full time submissive in a TPE relationship? Ms Harper points out that power exchange games are based on a power imbalance. That imbalance may not exist in vanilla relationships...or it might be there, unspoken and unacknowledged. In BDSM, the imbalance is pointed out, and sometimes, gloried in and celebrated with fun and sexy games. Why would someone want to be in a TPE relationship? BDSM can often be a stress relief, escape from other parts of life, or even a type of erotic vacation. It can be physiological, psychological, and/or emotional stress relief. Other topics include: ** Protocol in BDSM relationships ** What is High Protocol in a D/s relationship? ** Use of contracts between Mistress and submissive ** How does power exchange work with Distance Domination? ** Role of safe words in BDSM** Role of safe words in total power exchange and why there is a debate about this in BDSM circles. ** Is there a difference between total power exchange and total authority transfer? ** BDSM communication and scene negotiation ** How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress ** Role of consent in BDSM relationships Remember, if you crave the relief of not having to be in charge, a little power-exchange fantasy is a lot of fun. Whether that’s just letting someone tell you how to jerk off to agreeing to chastity for a set length of time, all the way up to detailed schedules and monitored activities, as long as you’ve had a good conversation with your Mistress or Owner ahead of time then this can be a perfect relationship for you both. Mistress Olivia: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Harper: Fetish Phone Sex Blog

Jan 29, 2024

How should a sissy cum? Your Femdom Hosts, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika, explore the question that asks: should ALL sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman? Sissy Gigi says, yes every single sissy needs to change how she masturbates, and that is part of the feminine journey. This long term sissy says a sissy girl doesn’t deserve the tight grip that a real man uses to stroke and cum. This inspires a conversation that includes: ** Rub versus tug - is a sissy allowed to stroke? ** What is the proper mindset for a sissy ** What is the ideal approach to erotic feminization? ** How to get in the mood for sissy sex. ** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation. ** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation. ** Masturbation control and sissy training ** Sissy chastity and the role of chastity in feminization ** Is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm? ** Anal or boi pussy play and why this is so important for a prostate orgasm This episode includes lots of quotes from people who are in feminization training with the Mistresses or who want to get sissy advice or feminization tips from the podcast hosts.

Jan 22, 2024

Mistress Montana owns several BDSM dungeons. Today’s episode is a real conversation about business, kink and the business of kink. What goes into setting up a fetish play space? How does a Pro Domme choose a location for a dungeon? Ms Erika asks about one location, and this prompts a conversation about so-called conservative middle America and kink on the down low. Topics include: How to talk to a Pro Domme. Dos and don’ts of arranging a session with a Dominatrix. The difference between out of session professionalism and in-session play. How a Femdom will (or will not) choose who she will see in a session. What happens when you arrive for your session. How much training, education, and experience go into making an elite Femdom Mistress? What kinds of BDSM furniture, kink toys and other items are important for a Dungeon Who goes to a Pro Domme and why. (hint: Alpha males are the best submissives.). Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/mistress-montana/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jan 15, 2024

The hosts have a candid conversation with Mistress Montana about BDSM, kink, being a Pro Domme, and more. Ms Erika asks about the origin of the name Mistress Montana. This leads to a conversation about becoming a Pro Domme. Mistress Montana started in the adult industry as a phone sex operator. Her callers were the ones that introduced her to Femdom. Ms Montana talks about learning all about BDSM, kink, and male submission. The more she learned about the psychology of BDSM, the more she realized that being the Domme is the perfect fit for her personality. This leads to a conversation about the smart, successful men who are sexual submissives and want to give up control to a Dominant Woman. Topics include: Small penis humiliation and a surprising comment about some men who are into SPH. Sensual sadism The paradox of pain as pleasure Physical pain like CBT and emotional pain like cuckolding Edge play and kink The mind as the most important sex organ The symbiotic relationship between a Domme and her sub Myths about why someone goes to a Pro Domme and more. Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jan 8, 2024

Today’s episode is inspired by sissy Olivia … not to be confused with Mistress Olivia. Sissy Olivia wants help with her sissy training and sissy skills but she doesn’t know how to stay motivated when she’s on her own as a solo sissy. Other issue topics include: chastity, reinforcement of sissy training, and improving feminization skills. The hosts talk about all kinds of options for any sissy on any budget. Free suggestions are:Join Enchantrix Empire, LDW’s free adult social network. https://enchantrixempire.com/ Join GetGirlie - a site for sissy audios, forums, and interactions with the Mistresses. https://www.getgirlie.com/ Free assignment sites for sissy training on fashion, sex, make-up, being a submissive sissy, self-care and everything feminization: sissy style magazine https://sissystylemagazine.com/ Paid options include: Erotic audios on various topics by various women: https://www.phonesexaudios.com/ Sissy training assignments are available from https://phonesexassignments.com/ Custom erotic audios made just for you: https://eroticaudios.com/ If you need privacy and more flexibility but still want to be directly in contact with your Mistress - Try Email packages https://phonesexassignments.com/product/emails/ Texting if you have limited privacy: https://sexytexting.com/ Remember you can always leave comments on our blogs: Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jan 1, 2024

Happy New Year to all of you friends, fans, fellow kinksters and you, you and you! Mistress Olivia takes the episode right off the rails from the beginning; you’ll get to hear the ladies fooling around right off the top of the show. You don’t want to miss this. You’ll hear how these Femdoms create this BDSM kink podcast. Amongst the laughter, jokes, and sexual puns, the ladies answer listener questions. Has Ms Erika ever sucked her own toes? Why doesn’t Ms Olivia know what Devil’s Lettuce is? Listeners have a variety of questions about the podcast and more. Will there ever be a live show? Do the hosts ever get tired of talking about sex or kink? What is the longest phone sex or distance domination session so far? How many sexual partners have each of you had? How many sexual partners is a lot? This prompts an impassioned response from Ms Erika. How do we come up with ideas for this BDSM kink podcast? A question from sissy olivia inspires Mistress Olivia to pitch a feminization topic. Ms Erika wants to put together a blooper show (as if the beginning of this episode wasn’t enough!) And several more questions. Enjoy and have a wonderful New Year full of joy, BDSM, kink, and sexy fun!

Dec 25, 2023

As we close out 2023, your hosts of this BDSM kink podcast wish you and yours happy holidays and a wonderful kinky New Year! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika thank YOU, wonderful listeners, for your support, questions, laughter, and, yes, pervy thoughts during this year. There are some last-minute questions to answer, and listeners get questions as well. Favorite guests include: Max Carey from the documentary tOuch kink Kate Lister the Sex Historian Alice Little and Olivia Bentley from the Nevada Brothel system Kaytlin Bailey, Standup comedian former escort and sex worker advoacte with oldprosonline.org Mistress Mia Darque, from DomCon New Orleans and being a Black Dominatrix Mistress Rogue, owner of a Florida Femdom dungeon Topics from this year include: Questions about feminization, being a sissy maid and finding a Dominant woman or Mistress owner. Sissy training questions and ideas for dressing en femme on the down low Customer service in the adult industry Chastity with Mrs. Mature Metal And more Thank you all for your support this year, and here’s to a bangin’ (literally and figuratively) New Year!

Dec 18, 2023

Listener questions inspire today’s episode about breast forms. Mistress Erika points out that femme girls often spend lots of time and money trying to find the perfect breast forms. There is literally no “one size fits all” when choosing your femme look. Each individual has unique needs. This episode has some things to consider when choosing breast inserts. First, of course, there has to be a conversation about weird sex statistics. Did you know 11% of women name their boobs? That compares to three out of four men who name their penis. Back to boobs - The overall question to consider first is: What do you want to FEEL like IN your breast forms? This will help you begin to think about size, shape, feel, material, etc. Many crossdressers don’t want to spend a ton of money of breasts until they know what they want. These Femdoms love helping male to female transformations on a budget and have specific DIY tips for boobs on a budget before spending money on more permanent boobs. Styles of breasts: Inserts, aka chicken cutlets Full breast inserts into bra cups or stick on your skin Breast plates If you’re not able to go in person for a bra fitting, the ladies give simple directions for figuring out your own bra band size. From there, you can begin to think about breast size, shape, and other considerations. This episode will help any crossdresser, sissy or transwoman begin to pick out the perfect breastforms. Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ The Breastform Store: https://thebreastformstore.com/ The Boobs Shop: https://boobsshop.com/ Glamour Boutique: https://www.glamourboutique.com/breast-forms Janet’s Closet: https://janetscloset.com/janets-breast-forms/

Dec 11, 2023

The co-hosts of this BDSM kink podcast answer questions about their private lives. What is a typical day like for an online Femdom Mistress? What prompts Mistress Erika to say, “A day without masturbation is like a day without sunshine?" This leads to a conversation about how to masturbate with a chastity cage on, getting a blow job while locked up, and other devious techniques that are perfect for humiliation and mindfucking. Shout out to Mature Metal Chastity Cages for their design, value, and amazing customer service. https://maturemetal.com/ A sub who is a bit of a smart aleck asks Ms Olivia about her latex catsuit. Among the laughter, there is also a serious answer about how to clean fetish latex outfits and BDSM gear. Another playmate asks if we ever have such a hot session that we masturbate while thinking about it. How much planning goes into a BDSM or feminization session? Ms Erika talks about the variety of types of calls we get - sometimes phone sex or GFE, sometimes a specific fetish like the Giantess tiny man fantasy, all the way to more traditional BDSM, domination, cuckolding, or cock control calls. Mistress Olivia adds her thoughts on BDSM scene negotiations and pre-call session planning. DownUnder Subby asks: Is there much conversation amongst Mistresses about callers? This question is a perfect opportunity for the ladies to talk about client privacy, 2 Mistress sessions, sharing playmates, and more. Ms Olivia talks about email packages for 2 Mistress sissy training and feminization where everyone is in the same email. A sissy girl asks about ways the Mistresses get pumped up for domination sessions. Another subby is curious about what we do for a daily work routine. Speaking of routines, someone asks about exercise routines and staying fit. Lots of people want to know: What does a Mistress do for fun or just to fill up the downtime (when away from out Domination antics)? The question comes from our new friend Aborigen who is a size fantasy writer (Giantess and tiny man stories). Zheightgeist podcast: https://zheightgeist.com/ Lots of laughs, personal stories, some serious thoughts, and a wish for you as 2023 ends and 2024 begins. Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Dec 4, 2023

Are you curious about going to a Pro Domme? How do you approach a Dominatrix? What do you say and how do you interact with a Mistress? Have you ever wondered why a Mistress would open her own Femdom play space? What’s it like to set up and run a BDSM kink dungeon? Your Femdom hosts get answers to these questions and so much more as they talk with Mistress Rogue, owner of The Dom House in Florida. What does the general public get wrong about sex work and sex workers?Why is it important that these Femdoms dispel myths about being Pro Dommes? Other topics include: ** The social stigma around sex and sex work. ** The stigma from the non-pro BDSM kink community towards those who get paid for Domination skills and services ** The differences between a full service provider like an escort and a Dominatrix. ** Whether having sex with a submissive makes the Femdom less dominant. Since our guest is the HeadMistress and owner of the Dom House we (and listeners) want to know: ** How did you decide to open a BDSM Dungeon? ** How much BDSM furniture and kink toys do you need to have a full Dungeon? ** What is your favorite piece of kink furniture? ** How do you handle privacy for clients and discretion about your neighbors? Do’s and don’ts of contacting a Pro Domme ** DO be vulnerable and open to the woman in charge ** DO read the website before contacting so you don’t ask questions about things you can easily find out if you read her website. ** DO be respectful in your communication ** Have patience; don’t get upset if you don’t get an immediate answer. ** Don’t send a wall of text in all caps, tons of unpaid emails or act entitled. ** DO be prepared to talk with your Domme when she asks: what is your safe word, what are your boundaries, do you want me to push your boundaries, what’s your goal, how do you want to feel, and more. This episode is a peek behind the scenes of the lives of these Femdoms. Enjoy!

Nov 27, 2023

Miss Fiiona gets a question from one of her callers. The ladies love the question, and that inspires today’s episode. The listener wants our thoughts on sissy or femme style and what is (or is not) considered feminine. What a great question! This sparks a conversation about self-image, gender roles, gender presentation, and so much more. What is the right look for a crossdresser, sissy or submissive transwoman? Why are skirts, heels and frills considered traditionally feminine? Who gets to decide what the right look is for someone who is being transformed from male to female? Do crossdressers or sissies worry about not looking a certain way? Does a sissy feel compelled to conform to the sissy style seen in porn or feminization memes? How does someone present themselves to the world as feminine even when not conforming to traditional girly fashion? Ms Erika has some tips on how to think about self-image when you are a crossdresser, sissy, or transwoman. Ms Olivia points out that as someone becomes more feminine in their feminization journey, they often end up with some of the same self-image worries as cis-gender women have. Miss Fiona points out that not all cis women think alike, so it’s important that anyone who is dressing en femme knows that part of the feminization journey is to develop your own style that works for you. Among the laughter and fun is a thoughtful conversation about image, societal roles, and how to find your community of choice that supports who you are. PS. You’ll also find out some stuff you probably never knew about each lady. Hint: did you know Ms Erika loves powerwashing? Don’t judge! Okay, the ladies did all laugh about that one. Miss Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Nov 20, 2023

Elite Dominatrix and Dungeon owner Mistress Rogue is today’s guest. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have a great time talking with this fascinating Florida Femdom and kinky Mistress. There are lots of personal stories about being a real human person who is also a Femdom Mistress. Each Mistress has a unique path. Mistress Rogue shares about her BDSM kink journey: ** getting introduced to BDSM ** the journey from submissive to Dominant ** the importance of mentoring in the BDSM kink community The relationship between a Mistress and her submissive can be intense and powerful. This BDSM kink podcast episode has insights into: ** How a Femdom creates a kink or power exchange scene ** The importance of a Domme being able to read her submissive in a session ** BDSM scene negotiation before the scene ** Sub drop and Domme drop Mistress Rogue brings up the importance of boundaries, rules, safe words, medical conditions, and triggers. Ms Olivia points out that these are the types of questions that an experienced Mistress will ask. The ladies talk about scenes that were challenging or confusing at first. For example, Mistress Rogue mentions her initial fear of sounding and how she learned to love it. This leads to a conversation about erotic humiliation, intense edge play, and the unique transformative experiences that BDSM sessions can facilitate. Mistress Olivia recommends abook called Radical Estacy by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton All three discuss the preconceived ideas about a Dominatrix - that to be a Femdom means you need to be a mean Mistress with a stern or angry demeanor. They talk about stereotypes of what a Dominant is and how the Domme should or should not behave. Mistress Rogue: MistressRogueFL @ gmail.com https://mistressrogue.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Nov 13, 2023

Your Femdom hosts love to get questions from listeners. This episode is inspired by Sissy A who writes, ““I love feminine things, panties stockings bras but I don’t want to suck cock, am I still a sissy?” What a great question! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika explore the variations and nuances of sissy training, behavior and styles of play for feminization transformation. Some of the topics: ** sissy porn is great for humiliation, coerced bi, sissy cuckold husband, etc. but porn depictions of kink, BDSM and sissy play are always exaggerated. Your mileage may (and will) vary. ** different ways in which a sissy can be submissive ** sometimes feminization can bring up cock curious desires where the sissy is coerced into having sex with a man or men. ** emasculation where the male traits are eroded or eliminated when being sissified ** the role of humiliation in BDSM, feminization and sissification ** the importance of vulnerability when in a safe space ** gender and erotic desires** chastity and the pussy free for life sissy ** types of sissies ** traditional wife, sissy maid, and more All this and more in this week’s episode. If you have a question, comment or show suggestion - get in touch! Ms Olivia: olivia @ enchantrixempire.com Ms Eriks: erika @ enchantrixempire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com / Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Nov 6, 2023

The Scarlet Mistress joins the ladies to talk about CFNM. CFNM stands for clothed female naked male. There are so many ways to go with this type of fetish scene as you can hear in this episode. Miss Scarlet mentions BDSM parties run by Dominant Females. Each Femdom brings her male submissive with the understanding that all the men at the party will be required to be naked. What happens at CFNM parties and what kinds of CFNM games are there to do? Ms Scarlet brings up the human monopoly board, where the play pieces are naked men. Of course, this cracks up Ms Erika and Ms Olivia. Listen to the ladies talk about the spots on the board where naked men are required to do pushups, jumping jacks, hula hoop, dance, and more activities … including a penis measuring station! Penis measuring makes Ms Olivia think of sph and erotic humiliation. Is humiliation always part of CFNM play? This leads to a conversation about power exchange scenarios that might (or might not) involve humiliation but all involve submission to the Dominant Woman. Each lady talks about her favorite CFNM scenes: ** CFNM strip poker ** MILF roleplay, where the mature woman tricks the younger man into taking off his clothes for her. ** Trapped and tricked until he is naked and exposed—like being tricked into being a nude model at an art class. Of course, there’s lots of laughter, teasing, and creative idea cross-pollination. Do YOU have a favorite CFNM scene, or did you hear one that you want to experience? Miss Scarlet: https://www.thescarletmistress.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Oct 30, 2023

Miss Fiona joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to take part in what’s called the largest sexual personality survey ever done. Yep, you read that right. Pornhub and the Museum of Sex partnered with academic researchers on a project to create a sexual personality test on Pornhub! Since the ladies are often cruising around Pornhub, we, of course, had to take the survey to find out our sexual personalities. This leads to a conversation about all kinds of things. For example: ** the Explorer vs Bonder scale measures your preferred type of romantic bond. Find out where Ms Erika lands. ** the Physical vs Mental scale shows that Mistress Olivia is more stimulated by mental imagery, foreplay, erotica, and the anticipation of sex than the typical person. Little wonder why phone sex is the perfect career! ** Miss Fiona found out that she prioritizes her orgasm more than she realized, or more than she admitted to herself. The sex survey is the starting point for a conversation about intimacy, erotic pleasure, Femdom control, polyamory, and so much more. Sex Survey: https://www.pornhub.com/sextypeme Ms Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ \ Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Oct 23, 2023

Ms Brighton joins the ladies to talk about cuckold fantasies. Did you know that one survey found that 2 out of 3 men have some kind of cuckold desires? That doesn’t really surprise these Femdom Mistresses but the same study showed that one-third of the participating women had thought about cuckolding. What makes this such a powerful fantasy? Mistress Olivia says she’s surprised that more women aren’t into the hot wife or cuckold lifestyle. Ms Brighton points out that a number of women are interested in this as a cuckoldress or a cuckqueen. What is a cuckqueen? That’s a woman who gets sexual pleasure when her male partner has sex with other women. Ms Brighton has a theory that cuckolding has always been popular, but it is more popular these days because guys grow up watching porn. They want to have the experience of watching (and maybe participating). Each Mistress talks about some of their favorite cuckold scenes. Ms Brighton brings up cuckolding a man with her (a woman) being the “bull” with the man’s wife or girlfriend! Ms Brighton is the Domme to both the woman and her partner. Ms Erika’s loves scenes with the “uninvolved cuckold” meaning he’s not involved in the cuckold relationship other than to know that it exists. He might be in chastity while his hot wife sends texts and photos about her hot date. Ms Olivia talks about being back home with her cuckold, giving him a sensual handjob with a loose grip while talking about being pleasured by the big, fat cock from her lover. All three ladies talk about cuckolding in their private lives. Other topics include: Is cuckolding about revenge or humiliation? Does a cuckold always have a small penis? Can this be a tender, loving gift from her husband because he knows she deserves great sex?What makes a cuckold scene memorable? How does cuckolding work with a Distance Domination Mistress? How does each lady make the scene even more intense? All this and so much more, including a request to hear from you about being a cuckold in fantasy or reality. Ms Brighton’s cuckold blog: https://thecuckoldlife.com/ Ms Brighton’s main blog: https://enchantrixtease.com/ Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Oct 16, 2023

The ladies continue the conversation with Kaytlin Bailey, a globally recognized leader in the sex worker rights movement. She is the creator of the non-profit 501c3 Old Pros - a media organization set up to create the conditions to change the status of sex workers in society. This episode includes personal stories to illustrate various points, for example: Where did the term sex work come from and why is it used? What are sex worker rights? Why should the rights of sex workers matter to you? Who is sex worker? Why is that term used as an umbrella term? What are some political changes that currently make in-person consensual sex work more dangerous? Learn about the gap between what legislators say they want to do and how laws actually affect people. How does current legislation effect legal sex workers, the BDSM / kink community, and LGBTQ people? What can you do to help support the ladies you know, adore and cherish? Kaytlin is the creator and host of The Oldest Profession podcast. This podcast is designed to use storytelling to shift beliefs and break down taboos about consensual sex work. The Oldest Profession podcast is now in season 5 and reclaims the history of individual sex workers by showing who we are as entrepreneurs, rebels, visionaries and community builders. This episode takes you inside some of the things we, as sex workers, talk about, work for and want for our community - not just for adult content creators, providers and kinksters but also for clients. Kaytlin Bailey: https://oldprosonline.org/ Sign up for the newsletter!! https://kaytlinbailey.com/ Decriminilize Sex Work: https://decriminalizesex.work/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Oct 9, 2023

We want you to check out another podcast. It’s called The Oldest Profession podcast. Host and creator Kaytlin Bailey joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika. This episode includes a candid conversation about whorephobia, slut shaming, sex work advocacy and life as sex workers. Kaytlin Bailey talks about being drawn to “bad girls” from an early age and then learning about the power of courtesans throughout history. She tells us about becoming a sex worker by choice and from a place of privelege as a way to explore to find her own truth about sex, boundaries, and erotic experiences. Insights into the connection between body autonomy, the ability to negotiate consent and sex work are examples from history and her own life. The ladies talk about the difference between a lover and a client. All three agree that clients often treat us better than some past lovers in terms of respect, kindness and value of the time spent together. This leads to a conversation about the spectrum of choice, circumstance and coercion for those who become sex workers. In the Nevada brothel system there is a push to call ladies courtesans instead of escorts. That discussion leads to a conversation about names that includes the use of the term sugar baby or sugar babies. Kaytlin is also a standup comic. She talks about the historical similarities between court jesters and courtesans. She turned her experiences into a critically acclaimed one woman show called Cuntagious. She is working on the second show called A Whore’s Eye View. Kaytlin Bailey: https://oldprosonline.org/about/ https://whoreseyeview.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ PS: When Kaytlin talked about the link between the military and sacred whores, Ms Olivia tired to explain about seeing a production that used ancient plays to shed light on current issues. She didn’t remember the name but looked it up later. Check the the Theater of War: https://theaterofwar.com/projects

Oct 2, 2023

October is a special month for Femdoms and chastity lovers everywhere. Why? Because it’s LOCKTOBER - named for a challenge to spend the entire month locked in chastity. Ms Harper is today’s guest. All three ladies encourage chastity for the right pet or submissive. They are quick to point out that each person in chastity is unique and the style, duration and play depends on the Mistress, the chastity pet and the relationship with the two of them. This episode is inspired by a sissy who is considering chastity to demonstrate a commitment to the sissy lifestyle but needs support, motivation, guidance and encouragement. Ms Harper brings up great points about sissy identity and the role of a strong woman in behavior modification from psychological reprogramming. This episode includes: ** What is the role of chastity in feminization? ** How does a chastity cage enhance sissy training? ** What is a sissygasm and how does that work while in chastity? ** Why does a sissy Mistress use emasculation as a way of asserting her dominance? ** How does humiliation enchance sissy play? The ladies discuss chastity as a way to coerce, enhance or deepend feminine feelings. If you’re curious about how a strong woman uses orgasm delay and denial to turn ‘him’ into a sissy then this episode is for you! Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Harper: https://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/

Sep 25, 2023

Meet Coralyn Jewel - co-author of, When the Ice Melts: The story of Coralyn Jewel. This fascinating woman shares her journey from Olympic hopeful to thriving in the adult industry. The ladies have a conversation about the misconceptions around anything that has to do with the adult industry, sex work, BDSM, kink or sex in general. Coralyn talks about her path of self discovery from the discipline of elite figure skating to making her way into and then in the adult industry as a career. Ms Olivia asks about the Swingers Lifestle. Coralyn is an expert in the do’s and don’ts of the lifestyle, etiquette in swingers clubs and how to find out if you and your partner are ready to explore this fantasy in person. She has run hundreds of swingers lifestle events so this is the perfect person to hear about a bunch of insider info. Find out: ** Misconceptions about the swingers lifestyle. ** Different types of people who are involved in the swingers community. ** Is a swingers party only for couples? ** Is it possible to go to a swingers club solo ** The difference between a cuckold and a swinger ** How is consent handled in this kink scene ** How to communicate with your partner before, during and after a sex party. ** What is the difference between a full swap or a soft swap ** How to find an event and what to ask before you go Coralyn also has a podcast called Embrace Your Sexuality. The ladies talk about why it’s important to have real conversations about sex, sexuality and what individuals really need and want for their erotic pleasure. Coralyn Jewel: https://www.thecoralynjewel.com/ Embrace your sexuality podcast with Coralyn Jewel: https://www.embraceyoursexuality.net/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Sep 18, 2023

Olivia Bentley is today’s guest. You’ll hear why she prefers to be called a courtesan rather than an escort. She mentions the societal status of courtesans in ancient times. This leads to a discussion of power, independence and the role of erotic companions as power brokers in their own right. Miss Bentley is a fascinating woman: *15 years in the adult industry. * A Masters in Education. * An executive at an investment company * Competitive fitness model. She talks about her decision to become a local escort and then her move to the Bunny Ranch in the Nevada Brothel system. This origin story is one of creativity, triumph over adversity and a candid conversation about the stereotypes around paying for sex. The ladies talk about financial independence a nd the freedom to live full lives that comes from having a career in the adult industry. In the words of Olivia Bentley: “It’s a game changer to go pro hoe.” While that comment makes all the ladies laugh, there is truth to this. Other topics include: STD testing and the porn industry How Only Fans has changed the adult industry by giving content creators control BDSM, kink, fetish and erotic humiliation And how her love of lifting weights is opening a new niche - muscle worship! Find out about this kink and why it’s so popular. Olivia Bentley: https://olivia-bentley.com/ Olivia Bentley’s Only Fans page: https://onlyfans.com/liv.b Ms Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Sep 11, 2023

A listener question inspires today’s episode. Do you need a Mistress to train you for sissy sex? Sure, you can learn and do a lot from cruising the internet, watching porn and experimenting on your own. But, don’t you want more? Don’t you want to have the advice, support, guidance, and/or control of a Dominant woman? Who better to guide you in your sissy training? You’ll hear why these Femdoms say a sissy does’t necessairly want to be a women, but rather they want to emulate a female stereotype, an idealized woman. Ms Erika points out that experiencing sex in sissy mode means experiencing sex like a woman, ie being penetrated. Sissy training goals should include learning how to focus on erogenous zones that don’t include the penis (renamed the clitty). Ms Olivia makes the case that a credit card should be considered an erogenous for anyone who loves shopping for lingerie. Ms Olivia brings up how sissy training can be used to emasculate a man and remove those last traces of his so called masculinity. Sissy chastity training can be very effective in reminding the sissy who is in charge. Hint, it’s never the sissy. The ladies discuss whether every sissy needs to serve or service a man. Sometimes a Mistress will keep her sissy as her personal playmate, other times Mistress will insist that sissy learned to suck cock or take a cock in her sissy pussy. Ms Erika brings up strapon training for sissies. Ms Olivia brings up the previous podcast How to Give a Blow Job as an example of some training tips for cocksuckers. Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Sep 4, 2023

tOuch Kink is a new BDSM kink documentary billed as: An unprecedented journey into the secret world of pleasure, pain, and power. The producer, Todd “Max” Carey, joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about his unique and powerful documentary. Ms Olivia says this is the single best representation ever of our BDSM, kink, and Femdom community. Ms Erika calls the documentary tasteful and elegant - showing the humanity behind what others don’t understand or arbitrarily judge. Max says: “Sometimes we’re afraid of saying what we want or who we really are.” In this episode you will: ** Hear how a chance encounter with the famous Dominatrix, January Seraph, was the spark for this documentary with the goal of demystifying the BDSM / kink lifestyle and those who enjoy it. ** Learn the difference between consensual kinksters and abusive people. Max points out: “It’s not about what we do, it’s about how we do it.” ** See about BDSM and kink myths so you can decide for yourself if the myth is true. For example, a play scene might “look” sexual because the submissive is naked but it often isn’t sexual in the way that vanilla people think of as sex. ** Get to see BDSM conventions and kink play sessions to get an inside view of the people and activities. ** Understand the dynamics of the relationship between a submissive and a Femdom Mistress or Dominatrix. Hint: it’s all about trust, communication, connection and compassion. ** Experience play sessions and scenes, fetish conventions and individual conversations to get a sense of kinky people as individuals with their humanity intact. ** Listen to a candid conversation about BDSM and the mental health professional community bias against kinksters. The documentary is full of interviews with avariety of people who have different perspectives. Four people “anchor” the film: ** Grace: who is new to BDSM but willing to take a course run by Pro Dommes to “Awaken the Goddess” and then finds out some very interesting things about herself. ** Mistress Evilyn: A Dominatrix in the UK who was outed, vilified, and hounded by the British press. ** Slave Robin: A submissive who is owned by a Dominatrix. This good ole boy talks about the power of being seen, accepted and part of a community. ** January Seraph: The inspiration for the film talks about BDSM and female domination as a secret power that all women have but few claim and use. The late Mistress January has been a fearless advocate of BDSM and kink understanding and acceptance. We love the documentary tOuch Kink and want you to go see it. We know you’ll love it as much as we do. Touch Kink site: https://touchkink.com/ Ms Olivia's personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika's personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Aug 28, 2023

Ms Erika has a confession. She’s never been to a BDSM convention. Today’s guest, Mistress Mia Darque, joins the ladies to talk about DomCon New Orleans. People come from all over the world for this kink event. DomCon is the premier professional and lifestyle domination convention and is now in it’s 20th year. If you’re looking for a kink event with lots of Femdoms and Pro Dommes, this is “the” convention for you. The goal of DomCon events is to bring the professional and lifestyle communities together. Miss Mia is on the Board of DomCon and shares what you can expect at a BDSM convention. She calls the New Orleans DomCon a fetishy, friendly family reunion. Worried you won’t know anyone? Don’t be. There are lots of events to get you mingling with others. Miss Mia explains what happens at the Lock and Key mixer and other events. You’ll also hear: ** tips on BDSM convention etiquette. ** how to talk to a Domme ** pros and cons of pick up play at a fetish event. ** behind the scenes of running a successful Pro Domme business ** challenges for people of color in BDSM spaces. DomCon: https://domcon.com/sessions/new Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Aug 21, 2023

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love answering your questions. A common question is something along the lines of “How do I find a Pro Domme?” What people really want to know is how to talk with a Pro Domme: how to communicate submissive desires, ask for kink scenes, and basically how to “not fuck it up.” The ladies are thrilled to have Mistress Mia Darque as our guest. Miss Mia calls herself the 6'3" Oklahoma Amazon, mature BBW and someone who has been in the BDSM and kink scenes for more than 20 years. ** Find out about Miss Mia’s personal journey in kink. ** Listen to our reactions to judgement by some lifestyle kinksters to Pro Dommes. ** We discuss the value and benefit of going to a professional versus an amateur ** Learn valuable tips on how to communicate with a Pro Domme Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Miss Mia is also on the Board of DomCon New Orleans. Next week, the conversation continues with questions and answers about what happens at a BDSM convention.

Aug 14, 2023

How do I get my wife to Dominate me? How can I get my girlfriend to act like a Mistress? These questions are so common these Femdoms give their answers from their perspectives. ** Hear why Ms Olivia says there is real value in going to a Pro Domme ** Ms Erika points out why experience is so important especially if you are new to kink. What are some of the BDSM terms? ** SSC - safe sane and consensual ** RACK - risk aware consensual kink ** PRICK or personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink. ** CCCC, or the 4Cs: Caring, communication, consent, caution. Ms Erika talks about the importance of trust and communication in any fetish or kink play. When you trust your Femdom you are able to let go and experience all the submissive sensations you want to savor. This episode has specific suggestions on how to figure out if you really want your partner to be your Domme. If you do want to bring her into your kink world, there are lots of tips on how to do it (especially if you have a vanilla wife). Then the two of you can begin the kink journey together creating your own Domme / sub relationship. Feel free to get in touch, ask questions, find out about getting a session with us: olivia@enchantrixempire.com erika@enchantrixempire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Aug 7, 2023

Listeners inspire this episode on the sissy maid. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about sissy training, feminization fantasies, qualities in a good/bad sissy, and how sissification is different from being a crossdresser or trans. This episode includes: ** What is a sissy maid? ** How to tell a service sissy from other types of sissies, including the cuckold sissy husband ** Is a sissy always expected to be submissive and obedient? ** Why ladies love the slutty sissy fantasy. ** Should a sissy be put in chastity for feminization? ** How humiliation, tasks and punishment are used in sissy training. ** Why degrading terms work so well in sissy play. ** How a Mistress uses coerced feminization in emasculating a sissy. ** How a Dominant woman uses coerced bi or gay scenes for sissification. ** Details about various kinds of sissy maid uniforms or outfits. Ms Erika talks about the Sissy In Depth Probe package available from the Phone Sex Assignments store: https://bit.ly/3EV1nKL The sissy test package includes email exchanges with both ladies. Today’s episode is inspired by these email exchanges and includes excerpts and questions from some of the people who bought the package. Ms Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress: https://bit.ly/3PYYM6K Ms Erika’s blog, Intelligent Phone Fantasy: https://bit.ly/3QuyR9b

Jul 31, 2023

How do I get my wife or girlfriend to be my chastity keyholder? How do I tell my partner I want to be put in chastity? I want some kink in our relationship, how can I get my wife to be kinky? These are just some of the most popular questions from our listeners and callers. Today, you’ll hear from a woman who went from being, in her own words, VERY vanilla to now the chastity Mistress of Mature Metal chastity cages. Meet Mrs. Mature Metal and learn: ** Her reaction when her husband told her he was going to make custom chastity cages as a business. ** What her husband did to spark her curiosity about chastity. ** How SHE feels about putting her husband in chastity. ** What she likes about a locking cock ring and the role of edging in tease and denial. The ladies all discuss things that work and do NOT work when trying to inspire a woman to get out of her sexual comfort zone. Ms Erika warns about kink dumping your partner. Ms Olivia says women are like cats (not just because we have a pussy). This is a candid conversation about sex, kink and intimacy from the woman’s point of view. If you’re kinky and trying to get your partner into BDSM, kink or chastity play this is the episode for you! MATURE METAL: https://maturemetal.com/ Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Jul 24, 2023

We get a lot of questions from listeners. Practical advice for feminization tips or sissy training are always top concerns. Today’s episode is inspired by several listener questions about how to find the best bra, which breast forms to get and how to online shopping suggestions for everything you need for feminization. Mistress Olivia used to work in a luxury lingerie salon and learned how to do bra fitting. You’ll hear how to measure your body to get the right band size. From there, it’s a “simple” matter of everything else! (Only kidding. We know it’s not simple that’s why we’re doing a whole episode on finding the perfect bra.) Ms Erika describes different styles of bras and both ladies talk about what they like and why. Anyone who is a crossdresser, sissy or trans will likely be looking for breast inserts or breast forms. The ladies go into detail: ** different types of breast forms ** pros and cons of each type of breast insert ** inexpensive DIY breasts that might also be fun for erotic humiliation ** recommendation on where to shop for breast forms Mistress Olivia points out that some crossdressers and sissies have some individual challenges with sizes. Three favorite websites are discussed: one for larger band sizes with small cup sizes and 2 other websites that have sexy plus sizes in lingerie. Legit advice, lots of laughs and even some “research” from writer/humorist Dave Barry, “Scientists now believe that the primary biological function of breasts is to make males stupid.”

Jul 17, 2023

Alice Little, elite Legal Sex Worker, Sex Educator, and Intimacy Expert joins the ladies to talk about artificial intelligence and the adult entertainment industry. Mistress Olivia starts the conversation with a quote from an article, by Alice, on AI and the sex industry: “Soon, we will be able to ask AI to produce videos, complete with computer-generated characters and settings, the content of which is limited only by our imagination and desires. And what we will desire more than anything is sex.” There is no debate - AI is here and here to stay. Now the question is, how will life change? Like most big innovations there will be a variety of impacts. Alice talks about her concerns for adult content creators AND consumers. Can a chatbot or AI ever replace a relationship with a human? - A Snapchat influencer set up a chatbot using Forever Voices and made more than $70,000 in the first week of release. Will AI ever be able to mimic or replace the ebb and flow of a BDSM session or any part of erotic pleasure? Mistress Olivia asks if Alice is concerned that her online content can be used to create deep fake videos and interactions. Alice mentions that is already happening and shares her experiences with fake twitter accounts, fake instagram accounts and even fake phone calls put together by scammers. This episode explores the nature of intimacy, erotic connection and how AI will change the adult industry.

Jul 10, 2023

Alice Little is fascinating, smart, and has stories galore. Ms Erika asks about a quote on Alice’s website: https://thealicelittle.com/ that says her philosophy is “...intimacy is a need, and far too often that need goes unmet.”This leads to a thoughtful conversation about the nature of intimacy, connection, the role of sex workers, and where intimacy fits in for a fulfilled life. Ms Olivia brings up Alice’s appearance on the Tim Ferriss Show podcast. Find out what surprised the ladies about his questions and attitude towards Alice. COVID ended up being a wake up call for many people - including those in the adult industry. For Alice, she decided that no matter what happened in the world she would be in charge of her destiny. That meant a look at her career to date. She decided to create multiple income streams, including OnlyFans and YouTube. The ladies talk about why and how she created the BRAND Alice Little Intimacy Expert. Did you know that Alice is one of the very few courtesans in the legal brothels who has training in BDSM and kink? She is also a BDSM educator and a switch. This leads to some stories about why expertise and experience really matters when it comes to fetish, kink or BDSM pleasure. A slut belonging to Ms Olivia wants to know if there is an opportunity at a legal brothel for a sissy male escort. Alice has some surprising info about men of any identity in the Nevada brothel system. “How to Give A Blow Job” is one of the most popular episodes on The Weekly Hot Spot. Alice graciously shares her blow job tips and tricks. What makes the difference between a good sex worker and a really great courtesan? Here’s a hint - it has less to do with sex skills and more to do with intangibles. This leads to a discussion about how to be very intimate and still keep appropriate boundaries. Alice introduces the term bounded intimacy and shares what that means. This episode wraps up with thoughts on sex worker rights and how to advocate for, or present, sex work as work. Alice says things like The Weekly Hot Spot podcast are part of efforts to combat stigma around sex, sex work and sex workers. NEXT week, part 2 with Alice Little - this will be a conversation about AI and the porn industry. How will artificial intelligence change the adult industry? That and more in the next episode of The Weekly Hot Spot.

Jul 3, 2023

Mistress Harper joins the ladies to talk about FLRs or Female Led Relationships. This episode is inspired by an email sent to Mistress Olivia asking what is real and what is fantasy with FLRs. This leads to a lively conversation with lots of laughs in addition to BDSM education from Femdoms who are in the kink scene in their private lives. They start with the common definition of Female Led Relationships and point out that this may or may not include BDSM, power exchange, kink or any of those sorts of activities. Learn: Experiences with FLR in their personal relationships (Ms Erika’s answer makes us all laugh) Levels of control in a Female Led RelationshipMs Harper makes the distinction between female led and “female did it” which is highly relatable! Whether the ladies WANT Female Led Relationships in their personal lives (the answers might surprise you). Mistress Harper has great insights into patriarchy, matriarchy, and gynarchy. What those are and how these terms relate to relationships where the Dominant woman is in control. There’s talk about the difference between how women exchange power and a power imbalance fantasy - the fantasy isn’t wrong, it’s just that it’s hard to replicate a fantasy 24/7 - and not hard in a good way, hard in the exhausting kind of way. These women are Femdoms who do Distance Domination so the conversation about FLR being sexualized is enlightening in terms of what is real and what is fantasy. What is the difference between a Dominatrix, Pro Domme, Femdom, Dominant and woman in charge? This ends up being a thoughtful conversation about gender, gender roles in society, malicious incompetence, work, culture, and social pressures to comply with what have been traditional norms.

Jun 26, 2023

Dr. Betty Martin joins the ladies to talk about BDSM consent and the conversation touches on so much more. Meet this fascinating person who has been a chiropractor for years and is now a sex and touch coach, certified Surrogate Partner, Sacred Intimate, Somatic Sex Educator and author of the book: The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent. The conversation includes: Issues of consent for sex workers and other touch professionals Why getting a “yes” isn’t enough, consent needs to be about mutual agreement How to apply to Wheel of Consent to Distance Domination and phone sex How the role of context and meaning makes all the difference with experiences. Dr. Betty brings up the 3 minute game popular in the BDSM world. That’s where 2 (or more) people take turns saying, “What do you want me to do to you for three minutes?” and “What do you want to do to me for 3 minutes?” Ms Erika asks how to use the Wheel of Consent with Distance Domination as an online Femdom Mistress. The ladies all talk about the value of working with a lot of clients as a sex worker. Experience and skill level really matters with all kinds of intimate experiences including distance domination and phone sex. Dr. Betty talks about her transition from chiropractor to sex coach to, now, self defined sex worker. Learn what a sacred intimate does. The ladies have a candid conversation about sex worker and who does sex work. Ms Erika tears up talking about her close relationship with a disabled man who thoroughly enjoys erotic humiliation at the hands of a Mean Mistress. Ms Olivia says she thinks of sex work as a calling and a passion. The ladies cover a lot of topics, have a bunch of laughs and, hopefully, inspire you to think about the role of sex workers in your own lives.

Jun 19, 2023

Think of BDSM as a 3 act play: BDSM negotiations, the kinky scene, and then, aftercare for the submissive and the Dominant. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the importance of aftercare in BDSM in general and, specifically for people who call Femdom phone sex for Distance Domination. Ms Erika gives a general description of BDSM aftercare: taking time after the play or scene to recover, get centered and tend to the physical and emotional needs of the Domme and the sub. First, they get sidetracked talking about men who like to hang up before or right after they cum. Ms Olivia points out that behavior like this is why many people go to a sex worker - to behave in ways that aren’t socially acceptable in a personal relationship. Getting back on topic the ladies talk about: The vulnerability of being a submissive How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress Sub drop Domme drop And, after care tips that include taking care of physical and emotional needs. These Femdoms give specific suggestions and how to apply this to Distance Domination sessions.

Jun 12, 2023

It’s summer and the ladies are inspired by pretty bare feet to talk about all of us with a foot fetish. Ms Erika leads off with a quick explanation of the difference between a kink and a fetish. The ladies answer listener questions: Do women think a foot fetish is weird? Do ladies like guys who are really into feet?J ust how popular IS sexual attraction to feet? The numbers might surprise you. Did you know there are a lot of really fun terms for foot play and the love of feet? Ever heard of the terms shrimping, turkey foot, piano man or sole mate? Mistress Olivia suggests they design a fetish play party with foot love as the theme. What “stations” will there be? The ladies both want emphasis on toot pampering and things like massage and pedicures. Both Mistresses thoroughly enjoy foot worship - kissing, licking and sucking our sensual feet. This leads to a conversation about the role of a mean Mistress and humiliation of a foot slave including things like coerced bi or coerced cock sucking. A Femdom or strict Mistress can include trampling and CBT using feet, stiletto heels and boots. As always, there’s the science behind the sex. Brain chemistry gives some clues about why feet are arousing and why smells can be so powerful and powerfully stimulating.

Jun 5, 2023

PRIDE Month is a time for celebration, education and connection. Ms Harper joins the ladies to talk about PRIDE, BDSM, kink and connections with callers. First, how each lady identifies: Ms Olivia: Bisexual/pansexual and she/her pronouns Ms Erika: Heterosexual with bicurious rising. Ms Harper: Bi or Pan, Aromantic, and Genderqueer with pronouns she/they. First up, the history of PRIDE and politics of LGBTQ+ activism. Ms Harper points out that gay rights pushes society forward. This comment leads the ladies to talk about Queer influence on music, fashion, art and more. This episode covers: Cis and trans Use of pronouns Efforts to decouple the idea of gender and what society says gender is supposed to be The LGBTQ+ acronym and other ways to identify The difference between gender identity, sexual attraction and emotional partnerships. PRIDE and kink BDSM and use of humiliation in kink sessions

May 29, 2023

Mistress Olivia gets an email from a woman who is exploring kink with her husband. Ms Erika’s confession that she nibbled on a gummy before recording takes the ladies off on a tangent and oh what a tangent it is: Why Ms Erika says a cock can cure all Antics with Ms Olivia’s custom BDSM fetish furniture Sex with the guy that built the Queening Chair All joking aside, a listener question inspired this episode. This woman is getting into kink and realizing she is a Femdom! As she is exploring her power as the Domme in her relationship, she has specific questions that the Femdom hosts answer: Why it’s so exciting for the woman to be the Dominant one. How a shrinking fantasy is great for phone sex and Distance Domination. Ideas for her to try as she creates sexual roleplays in her own life. How to negotiate BDSM limits and get consent. Ways to create surprises in the scene. How to use pacing and layering to create the sensations the Domme wants the submissive to have. The ladies create a role play scene using foot worship, body worship, sensual humiliation, and more.

May 22, 2023

Hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika respond to emails that ask some version of: “How do I get my wife to be my sissy Mistress?” This is a common question. Some of the discussion is about sissy specific issues and some advice will apply to anyone who is a submissive trying to change a partner who isn’t already into kink, fetish or gender play. The first question to consider is: “Does your wife or girlfriend WANT to be your Mistress?” If you think she might be open to being your Domme, then this episode is all about how to talk about your sissy desires with her. What is a FLR or female led relationship? How does feminization and/or sissification work in a female led relationship? What happens in the rest of the relationship if he is her sissy cuckold and she is the Domme wife? What is monogamy in a kink relationship? How will a sissy perform in a cuckold relationship? Will a cuckold sissy husband be expected to suck cock and sexually satisfy men? Will erotic humiliation be part of your feminization or sissy play? What to do if your partner is also submissive but may be willing to learn to be your Dominant. Why BDSM negotiations are different with a Pro Domme versus non sex worker partner. What is topping from the bottom and why is this a bad thing? How to communicate your needs when you are a submissive. How do you both go back to your “regular” life when sissy play time is over?

May 15, 2023

In this episode, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Goddess Fiona. Ms Fiona mentions that she’s an introvert which leads to a conversation about shy guys and phone sex. Hear about the Mistress of the Day events- where each lady had a day where any previous caller could get 10 free minutes with the Mistress of the Day. This is free phone sex (duh!) and a way to say thank you to our loyal caller friends and for them to meet various ladies. Ms Erika and Ms Fiona describe very busy days. They also get into some behind the scenes conversations about short calls versus long calls, the creativity of back to back new callers and more. A listener named wellspanked asks about Mistress preferences for communication before a session. The ladies talk about being a Femdom, BDSM negotiations and miscellaneous things they want callers to know. Ms Olivia brings up a misconception she had when she first started doing phone sex as sex work. This leads to a conversation about why our relationships are often so much more than “just sex.” Ms Erika brings up feminization and what we all love about our friends who are crossdressers, sissies or transwomen. The girl talk is part of feminization and Ms Fiona talks about being a personal shopper to a favorite sissy. Ms Olivia takes us off on a tangent about pussy - different kind of pussy - she and Ms Fiona get to laughing about rowdy cats (of the feline variety). Lots of laugher, sexy talk and serious insights in this episode as we enjoy one another.

May 8, 2023

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika get into Masturbation May celebrations with tips for the ladies - anyone who identifies as a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman. This episode includes: Sissy masturbation tips including muffing, sex toys, DIY sex toys and remote controlled sex toys Sissygasm stories Sissy chastitySissy milking aka prostate milking and/or prostate massage Erotic humiliation ideas including ruined orgasms Sissy training and how to be a submissive sissy This episode is all about feminization by a Dominant woman or Femdom. Do you need sissy training? We have a Sissy Quiz and In-depth Probe package available in the phone sex assignments store that is a fun way to begin the relationship with either (or both) of us as your Mistress. Ms Erika also brings up the 30 day sissy challenge calendar and the 30 day feminization calendar. Both have feminization and sissy training tasks and so much more. A listener comment inspires a tangent on sex work. Yes, it is legit work and we make a living doing this. We also enjoy our paid Distance Domination sessions. The two are not mutually exclusive. Ms Erika wants the girly gurls to pay attention to lots of things before masturbating - setting the scene, sissy affirmations and these sorts of things. Both ladies talk about how to and why it’s important for any sissy to explore her body to find out what feels good when en femme.

May 1, 2023

We had so much fun at the Strok-a-thon a couple years ago that Ms Erika is organizing a mini stroke-a-thon. What is this cock stroking challenge? Find out in this episode. Ms Erika and Ms Olivia talk about masturbation and then bring in 5 of our participating Mistress friends. Ms Harper tells us about her dream penis, what she loves about JOI and one of her favorite masturbation moves. Goddess Fiona has a favorite masturbation move called the pepper grinder. The ladies all talk about the delightfully wicked things they do when presented with a small penis. Hint, it involves erotic humiliation. Goddess Rachel describes her favorite jerk off instructions, including a masturbation technique that has three parts to it. Mistress Danica talks about the challenges of something like the stroke-a-thon and gives a suggestion about how to make it to the finish line and earn sexy prizes from Mistress. This leads to a conversation about masturbation habits of the ladies. Ms Daphne points out that while male masturbation is called stroking, her favorite masturbation is the cock squeeze used in conjunction with the stroke moves. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika end the episode with cock stroking tips for Masturbation May. Enjoy the holiday and happy stroking!

Apr 24, 2023

Did you know that the Femdoms of LDW Group / Enchantrix Empire have meetings? It’s sex work so technically it’s a business meeting but, as Mistress Olivia says, sometimes we just shoot the shit and exchange recipes and talk about pets. At one of those meetings, Ms Erika and Ms Olivia realized that Ms Autumn hadn’t been a guest on the podcast - so today we (and you) get to know a bit about sensual Mistress Autumn. Ms Autumn describes some of her favorite calls starting with strap on sex. Ms Erika asks about Ms Autumn’s first experience with strapons or pegging. The ladies all get to talking about BDSM, fetish, and kink experiences including coerced bi, cum eating, body worship, foot fetish play, and erotic roleplay ideas. Feminization and sissy play is also a favorite of Ms Autumn who says she especially loves the slutty sissy! Don’t we all love a slutty sissy! LOL The ladies end with a lively conversation about masturbation. Ms Erika has a theory about why men masturbate more than women. Ms Olivia brings up porn which leads to a recommendation for a favorite lesbian porn site.

Apr 17, 2023

Ms Erika asks Ms Alina if her diverse background helps her be Dominant. Ms Alina describes herself as an Apex Predator Alpha Female. From there the conversation goes to what makes someone an Alpha - male or female. Ms Alina talks about getting into BDSM as a submissive to an older woman and her current management of an exclusive BDSM club for couples. Does this Mistress switch? Ah, you have to listen to the whole episode to find out. Currently, she lives the BDSM lifestyle with her male partner. What does it mean to be a Lifestyle Mistress? Ms Erika asks about a recent blog post about gender neutral BDSM and kink. Ms Olivia points out that being cock curious makes some men wonder about their own sexuality. In this episode you’ll also find out how to communicate with a Mistress or other sex worker.

Apr 10, 2023

Woah, the new sex toys are amazing! Ms Olivia and Ms Erika bring Mistress Hunter back for a conversation about fabulous sex toys, especially remote control sex toys that are controlled by a Femdom Mistress. Ms Hunter says these sex toys are a little bit evil in her hands and that’s what she likes about Distance Domination! The ladies talk about the newest toy from Lovense called the Gravity. That’s a suction dildo that vibrates and thrusts! Ms Hunter shares that she also likes using the We-Vibe and the Cellmate for chastity pets. There’s another type of toy that can be used via web or app control - that’s the estim or tens units. This leads to a lively discussion about funishment versus punishment. The mere mention of chastity and punishment brings up sissy training! Why? Because we adore our naughty sissies and know you need control, restraint and assignments! Ms Erika gives an example how remote controlled sex toys can be used with sissy maid training (and lots of other training examples). Mistress Olivia brings up the pros and cons of different kinds of lube when using sex toys or condoms on the sex toy: water based, oil based and silicone based. Ms Erika brings up the history of cock rings and points out they are still great to use if there is an issue with ED, erectile dysfunction. Ms Olivia is at first flabbergasted and then gets the giggles when Ms Erika tells how the ancient Chinese made their cock rings. They wrap up things with a story about Hunter, a giant suction dildo, air travel and a befuddled TSA agent who might still be in therapy.

Apr 3, 2023

It’s the anniversary of Mistress Olivia. The ladies talk about getting into phone sex, things they have learned from doing distance domination and more. Mistress Olivia talks about getting into phone sex as a sexy adventure; never expecting to stay in this long enough to make a career as a sex worker. Ms Olivia has a story about her first Mistress interview with the management of LDW Group. It could have been an epic fail since she was in a spot where talking dirty wasn’t an option. Have your porn habits changed, especially since the arrival of porn gifs? Ms. Olivia makes a comment that sparks a conversation about porn, trigger words, and a confession from Ms. Erika about her callers. You’ll get a peek behind the scenes as the ladies talk about some interesting calls, Twitter responses to a masturbation frequency poll, and speculation about the future of AI generative art for porn.

Mar 27, 2023

Goddess Danica joins the ladies to talk about all sorts of things. Of course, because this is a sex podcast, there is a lot of talk about sex! In between the sexy stories, you get insights into sex work and why intelligent phone sex is way more than naughty words or moans. All three ladies share first time or memorable experiences: Mistress Olivia describes her first visit to a lesbian bar. Ms Erika tells us about a picnic where more than food was on the menu. Goddess Danica shares a recent experience at a party and what a party it was! Threesomes, strapon play, BDSM styles, multi Mistress sessions and so much more. Does Goddess Danica switch and be submissive? Don’t you want to know!

Mar 20, 2023

Meet Mistress Lacey. She’s a young Mistress with a firm mind and hand! Ms Olivia and Ms Erika ask about her kinky journey. Ms Lacey says she thoroughly enjoys the humiliation aspect of being a young Mistress. She also likes being able to turn the authority of an older man upside down. This Mistress likes to, as she says, rule stuff, be in control and have her way. Speaking of humiliation, Mistress Olivia shares her introduction to small penis humiliation and her epic fail at this part of degradation play. You don’t want to miss how Mistress Lacey describes herself – it makes Ms Olivia and Ms Erika crack up laughing.

Mar 13, 2023

The ladies find something called the Human Sex Map of the World. It’s a fantasy map that’s a lighthearted look at the range of human sexual expression. This is created by Franklin Veaux - who is described as part mad scientist, part gonzo journalist. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the interactive map: you put different colored pins in sexual activities that you have: tried and liked, tried and didn’t like, want to try and think about in fantasy only. The ladies have a lot of fun exploring — crossing the Vanilla Sea and the Great Barrier Mountains to the Land of D/s where they find: chastity, orgasm denial, various kinds of submission and even human furniture. The Island of Uniform Fetishes catches Mistress Erika’s attention. Ms Olivia gets distracted by kilts and thinking about cocks and balls swinging in the breezes when kilt wearers go commando. The Land of Competition gets the ladies talking about blow job races and wet tee shirt competitions. Should this be turned into a sissy competition with activities and even prizes? Maybe! There are so many fun areas to explore and talk about, this podcast just scratches the surface of this fun interactive map. You need to check it out! Go to https://humansexmap.com/ . Send us your maps so we can see what you’ve done and what you want to do.

Mar 6, 2023

What is a sissy? Am I a sissy or a crossdresser? There are so many questions and comments from femme fans that Ms Erika and Ms Olivia put together something called the Sissy Quiz and In Depth Probe Package. This helps the ladies to get to know each one of you as an individual. The ladies talk about how to get the Sissy Quiz on the Phone Sex Assignments site: https://bit.ly/3EV1nKL Remember, there are things that tend to be common for each crossdresser or each sissy but each person is different and each feminization journey is unique. One new sissy recently said this podcast has “really helped me be more open with my sissy desires.” This podcast episode covers the desire to have a wife be more Dominant, what NOT to say to a partner new to BDSM or sissy play and more advice about relationships and feminization. This Sissy Quiz helps you to begin to think where you are in your feminization and where you’d like to see the transformation go in the future. Most of all, it helps your Mistresses guide (or make) you get to the next level in your femme transformation.

Feb 27, 2023

Sex historian Dr. Kate Lister continues the conversation with Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika. Ms Olivia leads off with how sex work revealed the value of her time. Ms Erika adds that moving from salaried worker to Distance Domination showed her how every single moment of her time is valuable whether doing sex work or anything other activity. This leads to a conversation about skills learned during sex work that apply to other areas of life and work. Dr. Kate brings up boundaries (or lack thereof) in academia. This inspires a conversation about skill training in phone sex, running a business, and negotiating the gray area of paid intimacy. Other topics in this episode include: Sex toys in days of yore including what might be a stone dildo that is 6,000 years old ! Figging and using root vegetables for anal play A question from a listener about spanking leads to talk about corporal punishment in the 18th century. BDSM in the 18th and early 19th centuries. Crossdressing, feminization and sissification Male chastity Erotica through the years including the value of 50 Shades of Grey Dr. Kate has a podcast called Betwixt The Sheets which is the history of sex, scandal and society. You need to listen to this podcast! You will love it as much as we do! Dr. Kate ends our podcast episode with an assignment that makes us all laugh!

Feb 20, 2023

Historian Kate Lister - author of A Curious History of Sex and Harlots, Whores and Hackabouts joins us to talk about international commerce - only kidding - we are, of course, talking about SEX. Professor Lister is a Dr. of Literature and History and Senior Lecturer at Leeds Trinity Univ. in the UK. Ms Erika asks about BDSM and kinky sex. Dr. Kate talks about what might (or might not) be one of the oldest representations called the Tomb of the Whipping. This leads to an interesting conversation about how kinkiness has changed over the years. Which era and location was kink heavy? Here’s a hint, it’s called the English Vice. Ms Olivia shares that she calls a woman a cuntwaffle when she’s mad but reading A Curious History of Sex made her rethink her use of the word cunt. This brings up a conversation about language and reclaiming words like bitch and slut. Dr. Kate has a website called Whores of Yore and a twitter account of the same name. As the ladies talk about this Ms Olivia asks a questions and is gobsmacked by the answer. This episode (and the one next week) has history, current events, naughty stories, behind the scenes info about sex work and so much more!

Feb 13, 2023

What’s your Mistress style is one of the most common questions we get. That’s the first question Ms Erika asks of today’s guest, Ms Riley. She describes herself as a sensual tease Mistress with a mischievous side to her. Just how cunning? Hmmmm. Just wait until you hear the conversation on this episode - Mistress Riley can be wicked in all the best kinds of ways! Sexual roleplay, JOI and cum eating are specific turnons for this young Mistress. Ms Olivia loves cum eating so this leads to a lively conversation that includes a devious trick to make sure that someone who wants to eat his own cum actually does it. Ms Riley makes an offhand comment about being more docile years ago and that leads to a conversation about being more commanding, being submissive or a switch, and lessons learned from doing phone sex. What do sex workers feel about men who think they can “do anything” when they’re paying for sex? The ladies have words about and for those arrogant guys. Other topics include cuckolding and how to handle non-sexy shame of being a cuckold. The conversation about how to set boundaries for kinky sex can apply to all sorts of erotic play. BDSM consent, how to move a fantasy into reality and these sorts of things are a realistic look at consensual kink play. Ms Riley has lots of blog posts for the sissy gurls, crossdressers and transwomen. All three love feminization so this is a long conversation about everything femme. Fun and funny - Miss Riley is a great guest!

Feb 6, 2023

First question of this episode is from Mistress Olivia who asks Ms Tabetha her bra size and favorite place to buy lingerie. The ladies go on excursion and end up talking about putting Mistress panties in a shadow box for collectibles, whether dinosaurs could masturbate with short arms, and other weirdness. Mistress Erika brings us back to the Mistress Interview asking Ms Tabetha about a quote on her blog. Ms Tabetha talks about being a strong woman who is also a Femdom. This leads to a conversation about men who yearn to give up control and be submissive to a woman. Ms Olivia brings up the learning curve of doing Distance Domination and phone sex. You’ll get behind the scenes stories of how the ladies do what they do. Each person that does sex work has a unique path into this business. Ms Tabetha might have the most unusual entry. You’ll need to hear how she ended up at LDW Group. Have you ever been curious about the difference between webcam and phone sex? Ms Tabetha has done both and breaks it all down … including starting when she was in a burlesque troupe! This interview flies by and, don’t worry, Ms Tabetha will be a guest again soon!

Jan 30, 2023

Mistress Harper joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for some fetish fun and kink conversation. Ms Harper describes herself as: sensual, sadistic, smartass and badass. That’s a great combo! Ms Harper is active in the face to face fetish scene. She talks about the difference between distance domination on the phone and face to face kink play. Each one has some unique attributes but there is overlap which makes both very fun. Are you curious about what goes on in the mind of a Sadistic Mistress or a Mean Mistress doing rough BDSM? Ms Harper gives her insight on sadism, pain, arousal and how she thinks of her role as a Domme during intense BDSM scenes. Ms Olivia asks if Mistress Harper had any worries about enjoying pain play. This leads to a discussion about consent in BDSM and negotiation in fetish scenes. A casual mention of a bullwhip leads to questions about how to learn how to be a Mistress who can literally crack her whip. Ms Olivia shares her experience of trying to learn to use a bullwhip.The ladies come up with a wicked Giantess scene featuring a whip with the tiny man attached to the cracker at the end of the whip. Oh noooooooooo poor tiny man! The “how did you get into sex work” question is always fun and Ms Harper shares how she got into phone sex. Ms Erika brings up someone who wants to learn to be more submissive to his wife and have HER be more Dominant with him. All three ladies have lots to say about how to talk to your partner about your kink, fetish or BDSM desires. Chastity is a favorite topic, so there is a long conversation about chastity training, dos and don’ts about chastity training, advice about chastity cages, keyholding and long distance chastity. This episode is full of BDSM advice, sex education, stories and laughter about quirky things about sex work.

Jan 23, 2023

Are you a closet sissy? Are you a crossdresser on the down low? Are you proud of being femme and want to share that with a woman who appreciates you? What questions do you have about feminization, being a sissy or pretty much anything else? We have answers, lots of answers. Ms Erika talks about being the person to trust with erotic secrets and desires that you can’t share with anyone else. Mistress Olivia shares an email from someone who is Dominant in lots of other areas but wants to explore being submissive while dressing en femme. Both ladies share ideas, insight and their own experiences with trying new experiences. One sissy has a question and shares that she masturbates to our kinky podcast. This gets the ladies talking about when, why and how they masturbate. Ms Erika points out that some callers only want girl talk, fashion help or shopping suggestions and little or no overt sex. Ms Olivia points out that a sense of community and support can be super important. Grab your lipgloss, put on your panties and settle in for some sexy girl talk!

Jan 16, 2023

Do you love pretty feet, sexy toes and luscious legs? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how your foot fetish makes a woman feel really good! Ms Erika calls this episode Fun with Feet but it’s really anything below the waist. The ladies got really frisky planning this episode and decided to give a snippet of what a foot worship call so you can get a taste of the experience. (Yep, pun intended. I couldn’t help it. Sorry, not sorry.) Find out why Ms Erika calls stockings leg jewelry. Ms Olivia says a garter belt frames a beautiful ass like artwork. The ladies touch on stilettos, boots, bare feet and more. Psssst, this isn’t all that adorns sexy feet or legs – Ms Olivia points out that many a footjob leads to cum eating!

Jan 9, 2023

Mistress Hunter joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about cum eating. Why is this naughty taboo so hot for so many men? For many, they only want to fantasize about eating their own cum. Others are upset when they want to do it but lose the desire once they have an orgasm. Ms Hunter says, there are three types of cum eatesr: those who want the fantasy only, those that will do it for their Mistress or a woman that enjoys it; and those that are just cum sluts for whatever reason. There’s a long conversation about the humiliation of a Dominant Woman making him eat his own cum. All three ladies agree that cum eating doesn’t have to be humiliating, it can be a really wonderful way to exert control over a submissive male. It can also be his way of entertaining his Mistress and hearing her laugh at some of the things he does to please his Mistress. Ms Olivia brings up putting a sissy in chastity to make sissy eat cum. The ladies all talk about some cum sluts in their lives and how much fun a sissy can be! Several listeners have questions the ladies answer. Does wanting to eat cum make me gay? If I eat my own cum, will I want to suck cock? What does it MEAN that I want to eat my own cum? Hear all the stories about favorite cum eating experiences in session and in their private lives.If you are a cum slut or a wannabe cum eater, this episode is for you!

Jan 2, 2023

It’s a New Year! Lots of people make resolutions so Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika decide to talk about expanding sexual boundaries.Ms Olivia has an announcement. The new website that has the transcripts of podcast episodes is finally up and she promises to get the backlog of episodes posted asap. Here’s the website: https://weeklyhotspot.com/ Ms Erika points out that hard boundaries are always respected but there are some kinky activities that people are curious about but just haven’t done. Ms Olivia talks about people who listen to the podcast and say, “hey, I want to try that.” Since both ladies love research, they get to talking about some interesting poll numbers. Who watches porn while masturbating. What percentage of men use imagination while masturbating.This leads to a conversation about how Distance Domination and phone sex is different from porn. Hear Ms Erika’s reaction when Ms Olivia asks if she watches porn during her time away from the phones. The majority of people moan or breathe heavily during sex but some (1%) do something that makes the ladies crack up. Did you know that strapons were originally for impotent men in the 1950’s? Did you know that searches for lesbian scissoring is up more than 700%? The ladies have lots of weird sex and interesting insights. You never know what you’ll hear. Oh and Happy New Year!

Dec 26, 2022

As we close out the year, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika say thank you to listeners.Ms Olivia brings up the growth of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast. Do you have a favorite episode? The ladies talk about the two top podcasts and speculate about why each topic is a favorite for our kinky conversations. Ms Erika talks about why it’s important to get our kink positive vibe out in the world. You know the ladies joke and laugh but we are also serious about being sex positive. Sex should be FUN. Since it’s the end of the year, Ms Olivia lists the top 10 episodes that include: Cock control, tease and denial, guided masturbation Feminization and sissy training Cum eating and Cock sucking Erotic humiliation and so much more. This leads to some sexy conversations about why we love each of those topics. You’ll also hear some ideas about podcasts for 2023. Enjoy and thank YOU for everything this year.

Dec 19, 2022

This episode is all about turning your sissy fantasies into sissy training. Mistress Erika talks about how to keep your sissy training going even when you have to do your feminization on the down low. Ms Olivia loves to combine sissy training and fantasy roleplay scenes. This works really well, especially with the coerced sissy who will do what Mistress says, or else! Ms Erika points out the erotic power of fear of exposure. That might also be part of a sissy humiliation scene. The ladies give details on some feminization training tasks: Wearing panties under male clothes. Using feminine grooming products like bath wash and lotion. Moving in a way that reminds you of your feminine side. Locking up that clitty with sissy chastity. Using cum eating to prepare sissy for cocksucking training. It’s not all raunchy talk. Mistress Olivia asks Ms Erika about the importance of choosing a sissy name that fits your type of sissy. Are you a bimbo or slut? Are you elegant or the girl next door sweet? Mistress Olivia mentions 2 places that do in person feminization. Both ladies talk about some specific sissy fantasies and give their special spin on those hot roleplay ideas.

Dec 12, 2022

We know holidays can be busy and stressful. Sometimes that means a loss of libido. In this kink podcast, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how cock control can improve your libido. Some people can’t do a session, so we have JOI to the rescue. Ms Erika gives tips on finding some private time. There are also options for enjoying some discrete, naughty fun: Sexy texting sessions Email masturbation training programs Phone or skype if you do have solo time. Ms Olivia shares a cock edging assignment using bubble wrap - there’s an unexpected twist that will surprise you. Mistress Erika gives ball work instructions - testicular massage works wonders. It can increase your libido and make your erection nice and firm! Ms Erika explains how to do her “O” cock stroking technique. These Femdoms talk about how they design tease and denial sessions for those who love cock control. There are several more edging instructions: Stroking and using cum cubes or ice cubes to pace your delay. Using different hand positions to enhance your orgasm. Using cock exercises to increase your size and endurance The mindfuck of a ruined orgasm Masturbating with panties And more This is homework that you will thoroughly enjoy doing!

Dec 5, 2022

It’s Mistress Erika’s anniversary doing distance domination and phone sex. Ms Olivia asks about Ms Erika’s erotic journey. The ladies talk about how to: How to learn to celebrate your sexuality Why it’s hard for some people to embrace what makes them feel good. What is “normal” sex and who decides what is outside the norm? Ms Erika’s plans to celebrate her anniversary Of course, Ms Olivia takes listeners on excursion with a conversation about stripper music versus burlesque music. Both ladies talk about some of the behind the scenes activities. Why sex work is certainly fun, it is also a profession and they are highly skilled professionals. Oh and hear why Ms Erika ends the podcast licking her fingers. You know you want to know.

Nov 28, 2022

Ms Freda returns to LDW. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find out all kinds of things they didn’t know about this mature, sensual woman. Hear why Ms Freda has personal experience with a man who is cock curious and wants to suck cock in the presence of a Dominant Woman. Learn about the Candyman. Oh my! This is quite the story. Ms Erika asks about favorite callers and roleplay calls. Ms Freda talks about her sweeties, her lovely sissies, and says she has a special place in her heart for the sissy girls. She mentions her love of sissy training, feminization shopping and even discipline of a naughty sissy! Mistress Olivia says she feels privileged to be able to be that safe place for someone to explore their desires. Ms Freda agrees and talks about the importance of being non-judgmental and guiding with love.

Nov 21, 2022

The ladies talk about kink, creativity and more with Dirk Hooper. He’s a lifestyle kinkster, BDSM mentor, award winning artist, fetish photographer and author. Have you ever wondered if you could turn your love of BDSM and kink into a living? That’s exactly what Dirk did. Ms Erika asks why and how Dirk ended up using his creativity in the erotic arts and sex industry. Mistress Olivia brings up the book, Dominatrix Boss, by Asher Lake (Dirk’s pen name for BDSM erotica). The ladies talk about why they love the book and the relationship between the Femdom and her male submissive. There’s not enough really great Femdom erotica and they beg (or order) Dirk to finish the sequel. All three talk about BDSM and kink in popular culture. Dirk says all sort of fetish play is way more popular and accepted than ever before; he thinks that people who enjoy only vanilla sex might actually be in the minority. Finally, want to get your Mistress something really special? Hear about commissioned artwork that is stunning. It’s fascinating to hear how Dirk turned his personal journey of BDSM into a thriving life and lifestyle.

Nov 14, 2022

The new design for the Sissy School site is the inspiration for this episode. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about all the LDW Group sites for the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans women. Sissy School Sissyville Sissy Style Magazine Get Girlie The ladies share questions from several sissies. Topics include: How to come to terms with your sissy desires, feminine side or crossdressing activities. How to avoid purging all your pretty feminine clothes. How to explore sissy desires. Ways to honor your feminine self when you need to dress in male clothes. How to handle things when your partner knows but doesn’t want to participate. How the Sissy Training Calendar can help you on your feminization journey. And, why it’s important to have support in your feminine journey.

Nov 7, 2022

Hurricane Ian slammed into Florida knocking Ms Erika off line for a bit during LockTober. The ladies decide to continue chastity during No Nut November. Mistress Olivia asks Ms Erika about her chastity pets. This leads to a conversation about the mental and emotional parts of chastity, including how a Chastity Keyholder decides how long someone will be locked up. What is a prostate orgasm and why does a Mistress do prostate milking for someone in long term chastity? Speaking of long term chastity, the ladies go from Locktober to No Nut November to Denial December … then, perhaps, Jerk Off January. We’re (maybe) joking about extended orgasm denial. The ladies talk seriously about expectations around chastity, concerns, and common questions. One reason why both Femdoms like chastity is for the behavior modification. It’s perfect for sissy training, enhancement of submission, and more.

Oct 31, 2022

Duchess Willow says, “Every year, at the Monster’s Ball, something supernatural happens to the guests.” Today, you get just a taste of a sexy, spooky story by Duchess Willow, the Ebony Femdom. What happens at the Monster’s Ball? Ohhhh just listen! Ms Erika and Ms Olivia talk with Duchess Willow about writing erotica. She’s been writing Ebony Femdom erotica for years and you will be surprised at the reason why she started exploring that creative side of herself. This leads to a conversation about writing and the ladies come up with a plan to publish erotica. Ms Willow is well known for her love of all things Giantess. Ms Olivia has an off the cuff idea to do a Christmas tree covered in tiny men - Ms Willow adds, “...and their tiny erections.” Sexy, smart and very fun - Ms Willow is one of our favorite guests. She has her own podcast on Anchor FM - you can find all her links on her blog: EbonyFemdomPhoneSex.com

Oct 24, 2022

What really makes Halloween fun for you? Is it the sexy, naughty costumes? The chance to be and look slutty in public? The candy? Something else? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have a special Halloween series of podcasts. First up, Miss Constance tells us about the blog train and what that means for you.Maybe you get a treat, or you might get tricked. The very lucky ones might get all that and more. Ms Brighton thrills with a spooky, sexy, and very sticky story. You’ll never read the words “drip, drip, drip” without thinking of this yummy tale. Miss Mandy has a transformation story where a lovely and shy trans girl has a BFF who pushes limits. Here's a hint, the skirt will be very, very short! The ladies all talk about storytelling, creativity, chocolate, and sex.

Oct 17, 2022

“You’re so smart, what’s a nice girl like you doing sex work?” We sometimes hear questions or comments like that so we decided to talk about it. What exactly is a ‘nice girl.’ Is phone sex something ‘nice girls’ don’t do? Does a woman in the sex industry need “saving”? Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about the importance of business acumen and professional skills for anyone doing Distance Domination. Why do these smart, successful, creative women choose to do phone sex? Is there a social expectation that women should provide sex or emotional labor for free in order for it to be appropriate or real? The ladies tackle the stigma of sex work, judgment, and much more in this episode about why 2 successful women choose to phone sex as a career and a calling. You also get real answers to questions about what we do: Do you work off a script? When do you think of someone as a regular caller? Funny, thoughtful and mostly irreverent - we’re glad enjoy our kinks and kindness.

Oct 10, 2022

Who pays for an online domination call just to be ignored? Meet the sissy that pays for an ignore call while the ladies talk about …. Whatever we want to talk about! Only kidding. (maybe) Erotic humiliation, control and mindfucking are some elite Femdom moves - the Ladies talk about BDSM and the joy of being the woman in charge. Mistress Olivia brings up the 30-day sissy training calendar. Ms Erika mentions the blow job training. Ignore slave sissy is busy sucking a dildo while the ladies discuss cock sucking, cum eating and why one pet will always think of his Mistress when he eats a pudding cup. Lots of talk about erotic humiliation, small penis humiliation, and embarassing tasks for the submissive to do.

Oct 3, 2022

Kay Marie is a self proclaimed suburban MILF. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia get with Kay Marie to talk about her podcast, Happy Hour with Kay Marie. We all go off topic right from the start of this episode and Kay Marie says that’s the perfect way to showcase her podcast because it’s organic and just flows without a topic or outline. Her podcast is also a bit different in that she does her show live and interacts with her fans live in the Community Kink chat room. In this episode you’ll find out about Kay Marie’s style on a phone sex call, what calls she likes to do and calls she does not want to do.

Sep 26, 2022

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about podcasting, sex and random silliness with Mistress Hunter. What makes a sex podcast sexy? Why did Ms Hunter start a podcast called Sexy Story Time? Is it better to structure a podcast or do an organic, stream of consciousness podcast? This episode ranges from sexy to sweet to smart along with a dash of naughty.

Sep 19, 2022

Hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika answer listener questions about sissy transformation and feminization. Some of the questions are from people who are new to the podcast and are just starting to explore their feminine side – others are from callers who want to share their experiences with the Sissy Training Calendar and Feminization trance audio. Have the episodes on being a crossdresser, sissy or trans helped you to explore your femininity? The ladies talk about how important it is to have a community around you. You’ll hear specific answers to questions from a new sissy, a sissy who has to stay in the closet and another sissy in chastity.

Sep 12, 2022

Did you know that Mistress Becky has a Masters in Mental Health Counseling? She joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about sex, sexuality, mental health, BDSM, and so much more! Ms Erika leads a conversation about sexual pleasure for people with disabilities. Her ignore pet says that people see him in a wheelchair and don’t think he has sexual desires including cruel erotic humiliation. Ms Becky talks about how powerful it is to get your sexual needs met and how erotic pleasure is a tool to express our experience of life. Mistress Olivia thinks of sex work as a calling and a privelege … even in Mean Mistress mode when the inner sadist comes out to play with the quivering submissive. Hear a discussion about CBT and how to do intense sessions for pain sluts whether it’s real life instructions or a fantasy roleplay. Questions for listeners include: are you surprised at what you are learning about Ms Becky and other Mistresses?

Sep 5, 2022

What do you want to know about life as a phone sex operator? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listeners behind the scenes of life and love on the phone. Ms Olivia shares an email that prompts a conversation about cost, value and sex work in general. Mistress Erika has some great ideas about why some people send a really explicit email as a first email. Are you curious about how to communicate with a Femdom, a phone sex operator or other kind of sex worker? Hear what these women say about some of the crazy things said to them. A headache and edibles lead to an fun conversation about how to say smart cars in a sexy way and why WAP (wet ass pussy) is the perfect song. It’s not all joking around, there is a serious conversation about how to communicate what makes you hot when you’re a shy guy. Don’t miss confessions of first phone sex calls - weirdest phone sex calls and nuances of BDSM and Distance Domination. What do you want to know? Take a listen to the first batch of questions; we promise to do this again.

Aug 29, 2022

In this episode we interview our friend and fellow podcaster, Duchess Willow Munroe. She is wicked smart and incredibly sensual so this conversation covers a little of all sorts of topics. Duchess Willow has a podcast episode about remote control sex toys. This leads to a thoughtful conversation about intimacy, distance domination, safe sex, and connections with our callers. Of course, since this is a sex podcast, the conversation gets … well … sexual! Hear: Why Ms Olivia wants to be a guy. What Duchess Willow enjoys with her special friends; if you want to get the Duchess off, you’ll find out how to do it! A podcast question from Ms Erika leads to a conversation about creativity. And … if all that isn’t enough … there’s a discussion about Ms Willow’s Dick Ratings, good penis size, shrinking a tiny man so small he ….. Well, you best listen to find out.

Aug 22, 2022

Today’s guest, Mistress Becky, calls herself a natural born pervert. You’ll want to get all the details on this Femdom Mistress. She is sensual, strict and smart. Ms. Erika asks about favorite sex toys. We learn that Becky used to sell sex toys and is getting a new kind of vibrator that tracks your orgasms using bio feedback. This leads to a conversation about how to fuck with a submissive using remote controlled vibrators. Mistress Olivia starts to design a phone sex cock teasing assignment and you hear the brainstorming around this idea. We take you behind the scenes so you hear a bit about how we do what we do. All the ladies love the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans. Ms Olivia asks about favorite places to shop and other tips for our femme friends. There’s also a serious conversation about kink friendly therapy, BDSM and mental health and the issues of shame around sexuality, sex and sexual pleasure.

Aug 15, 2022

Ms Erika asks about the recent sex-cation (oh yeah, you want some of that too, don’t you?). Find out why: a kinky lesbian would be a submissive to a male Dom kudzu should be considered a sex toy or at least, a BDSM pervertable and how a chance encounter unleashed a Femdom in all her glory! Lots of conversation about BDSM, fetish play and favorite sex toys.

Aug 8, 2022

Find out what Ms Ryan needs for “the safety of those around me.” Get your head outta the gutter; this has nothing to do with sex. Don’t worry - most of the rest of this episode IS about sex: BDSM, kink, fetish, D/s negotiation and so much more. Ms Ryan talks about finding balance with the Mean Mistress side and the sexual woman in charge side of her personality. Hear Ms Olivia’s story about getting stopped by a sexy female cop while on the way to a fetish party. Mistress Erika’s question about time away from sex work and kink leads to Mistress confession time. We learn things about Ms Ryan that even we didn’t know! The three ladies have a fun conversation about strapons, “Darth” the strapon cock, remote controlled sex toys, chastity training, cuckold scenes and how cuckolding brought Ms Ryan true love.

Aug 1, 2022

Mistress Erika has a lively conversation with Ms. Claire. This is part of a series of interviews where you get to meet the Ladies of LDW Group. This is a wide ranging conversation about sex, sex work, kink, Femdom and fetish friendly communities. Did we say, sex? Yep, we talk about sex. Oh and you’ll get insight into the stranger things that go looking for Claire - she swears she doesn’t go looking for them.

Jul 25, 2022

Today the ladies talk with The Dicktator. That’s not a typo. Mistress Cassandra is known for her love of chastity and all things that involve cock control, hence the name of her chastity training blog: TheDictator.com. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk all things chastity with Ms Cassandra. You’ll hear a conversation about BDSM explorations, what makes someone a “Lifestyle Domme”, pain play, the difference between in session and out of session, and more, including what this Femdom does in her time away from controlling naughty submissives.

Jul 18, 2022

Co hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika interview their friends and fellow Femdoms. Even after knowing one another for years, there’s always something new to learn and Ms Hunter is full of surprises. Imagine being a TSA agent and encountering Miss Hunter. In her bag, Mr. Fat Cock (a giant dildo) that she was bringing to a Mistress Meeting. All three ladies share stories about internet controlled sex toys. Find out why Mr. Hunter says: “I’m just one man!” Hear about Ms Erika’s pet who found love in a department store aisle. Have you ever wondered what a phone sex call sounds like? We do a three way scene and give you a sense of how erotic phone sex can be.

Jul 11, 2022

The Weekly Hot Spot returns! Meet some of our special, kinky friends of hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika. Find out about the exciting relationship Miss Madison has with her pillows. Listen to the ladies talk about using an Hitachi Magic Wand. And hear a confession by Madison that takes the podcast into a whole new direction for a bit.

Apr 25, 2022

Today’s topic is inspired by a conversation overheard by Mistress Erika. Someone said, “What kind of guy calls phone sex?” The ladies discuss who calls and why. Have you ever called a phone sex chat line? Have you ever gone to a sex worker? Hear how Ms Olivia and Ms Erika got into the business of erotic pleasure. Find out some of the common reasons why someone calls for distance domination. The ladies point out that calling a sex chat line is often not about sex per se; it can be about intimacy, vulnerability, and questions that can’t be asked elsewhere.

Apr 18, 2022

Today it’s all about the rear view … not the rear view mirror, your rear end. This listener inspired episode is all about anal sex. Most questions and concerns fall into two broad categories: psychological and physical. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love strap on play, anal sex and exploring all sorts of erotic pleasure. You’ll learn why they both say anal pleasure is something you want to at least try (because you’re likely to love it!) Miss Rachel joins the ladies to talk about why she loves anal and how she handles her submissives. They discuss wow to get your head around psychological worries like the common question: “If a guy likes anal does that mean he is gay?” Ms Erika gives specific tips on hygiene before and during anal sex. Each Mistress shares examples from her own experiences with anal sex; including thoughts on how to share sexual desires with your partner. You’ll hear tips, advice, practical suggestions, specific stories of some hot anal experiences and much more. Come for advice - stay for the excursion about how to set up a submissive race where the subs are bouncing on dildo balls. Enjoy!

Apr 11, 2022

Remember Mistress Erika talking about her ignore slave? Did you wonder who pays for a phone call just to be ignored? What’s going on and, more importantly, WHY? Ignore slave doesn’t even have a name and Ms Olivia calls it, “it.” This podcast is recorded while the ladies ignore it, who called in and is paying for a 2 Mistress call. Ignore slave sent Ms Erika an email listing the reasons why it likes ignore calls - the ladies read the reasons and discuss. So — what’s the deal about sexual humiliation? Who is a sexual machochist? Why is erotic humiliation called pain for the brain? What is human furniture? Why does someone like being teased for having a small penis? Why are these types of submissives so much fun for a Femdom to torment? Learn how each Mistress incorporates neglect play into kink scenes that also include things like bondage, covering eyes and ears, or other types of sensory deprivation like a vac bed. You’ll hear why is trust so important with BDSM partners and some details of how to create a consensual slave contract. Many parts of BDSM are about the paradox of pain being pleasure. Listen to each experienced Mistress describe why the mental anguish of sexual humiliation hurts so good.

Apr 4, 2022

Today’s episode is all about erotic audios. There are several different sites to hear or get erotic audios. The ladies talks about pre-made erotic scenes and assignments. These out of the box audios are pre-made and ready for purchase. Custom erotic audios are also available and involve more interaction with your Mistress to make sure both of you are on the same page with the details of your sexual fantasy. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share behind the scenes details of what goes into creating a custom audio. Ms Ruby joins the ladies to talk about bringing her audio mixing skills as a musician to the erotic audio scene. Ruby says erotic audios are works of art and she loves creating soundscapes full of layered sounds. Hear some of the most unusual requests for custom audios - including furries, Giantess squishing miniature vampire girls and hiccups.

Mar 28, 2022

Do you know who first coined the term cock control? Headmistress Ms Ally, creator of the LDW Group network of femdom phone sex, actually has a copyright on the term! Whatttttt????? You find out fun facts like this on today’s episode. What makes us cock control experts? How do you know if you want to be a submissive or simply want a woman in charge to be sexually assertive. Ms Erika says this might be Femdom lite and both ladies agree it’s fucking FUN! The ladies share their favorite stroking ideas, masturbation games and more. This is chock full of news you can use including specific edging tips for you to try during or after the podcast.

Mar 21, 2022

Sissy trance audios and anything to boost feminization are very popular right now. Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia created a 30 Day Calendar for the sissy girls and a 30 Day Calendar for general feminization. Today, they talk about the trance audios that go along with the feminization training programs. You’ll hear the difference between feminization and sissification, including how to use trance audios to increase submissive feelings as any femme girl learns to fully obey Mistress. Ms Erika talks about how a trance audio works on your subconscious to fully transform your mindset to embrace feminine feelings, mannerisms and actions. Mistress Olivia admits she has a learning curve with audio tech as both ladies share the behind the scenes stuff about how they make sissy trance and feminization audios.

Mar 14, 2022

We love all of our new listeners! We’re glad you found our kinky podcast and are sending us questions. Mistress Olivia points out there are a lot of submissive men who want to know how they can inspire their wives and girlfriends to be more Dominant. Ms Erika gives specific suggestions about how to introduce kink into your sex life including ways to gently (and effectively) talk with your partner about your true sexual desires. You’ll hear real questions and answers on topics like tease and denial, chastity, feminization and sissification and more. It’s a fun sometimes rambling conversation that covers everything from speculation about dinosaur sex to compassion for a new listener who says she is a lost sissy.

Jan 24, 2022

New Year and new ideas for our kink podcast. We have so many things to talk about - including feminization and sissy tips for Valentine’s Day, best stroking techniques for Masturbation May and, of course, anal play for Aptil 15th tax day (because if you’re going to be fucked in the ass, it might as well be fun). Ms Erika offers to find out how to do the technical things to incorporate some live podcasts where we answer your questions live. We might even decide to pop Ms Erika’s girl on girl cherry LIVE on a podcast.

Jan 17, 2022

What’s on your sexual bucket list? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find a list of sexual bucket list ideas and talk about ones they’ve done and what they’d like to do next. Ms Olivia goes on an excursion into the Superman origin story. Ms Erika reveals a fear and Ms Olivia has an idea of how to overcome that during sex on a cruise ship. All this leads to a conversation about some possible changes to The Weekly Hot Spot including ideas about doing some episodes live. Do you want to be able to have a way to send messages to each Mistress while we are recording? Now is your chance to tell us what you think.

Jan 10, 2022

People who aren’t into BDsm might cringe at the sight of spanking, whipping, caning and other rough play but impact play is a huge part of kink culture. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share what they love about this classic activity. Why does a Femdom like inflicting pain? Why would a submissive crave physical suffering? The ladies talk about impact play and why punishment is often called funishment.

Jan 3, 2022

Happy New Year! Today, the ladies talk about how to BE a lady or a slut! Seriously, it’s all about feminization and sissy training. There are lots of ways to explore and enhance your feminine side. We are talking about 2 calendars for 30 days of feminization and sissification, including things that you can do to maintain your feminine mindset even when you aren’t able to get all dressed in your pretty or sexy clothes. Mistress Olivia gives an example of a sissy trance audio. Mistress Erika talks about reaffirming affirmations coupled with actions. Naughty sissy training includes things like blow job training exercises, how to have a sissygasm and whether or not to put a sissy in chastity. Remember, it’s a New Year and time for a new you!

Dec 27, 2021

It’s the final podcast for 2021. Hosts Olivia and Erika talk about doing the podcast, listener reviews, kink things to try and just general conversation. Poetry, porn … kink and confessions … Femdom insights and more. Until … Ms Erika admits to something that involves butterscotch and that inspires Ms Olivia to confess … And then, all bets are off. Stay safe and have a kinky New Year!

Dec 20, 2021

Ever wondered how you can get your erotica published? That’s what we’re talking about with today’s guest, Dirk Hooper. His book (under his pen name Asher Lake) is called: Dominatrix Boss - a BDSM Femdom Tale. Before getting to the writing and publishing advice, we talk about BDSM and the kink community. Dirk talks about what he calls a Domme deficit: way more male submissives then there are Femdoms. There are lots of writing and publishing tips. Including one that inspires Ms Erika to change the way she writes her own erotica based on how we both do phone sex calls. Dirk has a surprising tip about writing while you’re horny and channeling your sexual arousal into your erotica. Enjoy and send us links to your own erotica!

Dec 13, 2021

As we close out 2021, we talk with some of our Mistress friends about some things they love in their private lives. Ever wondered if a Femdom binge watches a tv show? You’ll find out! Also hear some movie reviews and find out more about your Mistress. The Welsh Mistress Miss Ruby has a fabulous book suggestion about the neuroscience of orgasm delay. We were shocked to learn something about our favorite Babe with a Boner, Miss Bethany. Trust me, you want to know this! Also, Miss Daphne shares why a book written in 1865 is her favorite read for 2021. Finally, Miss Madison touches our hearts with her favorite thing of 2021. These round robin conversations with our Mistress friends are always a fun time!

Dec 8, 2021

One thing we love about doing this podcast is that we get a chance to talk to our friends and coworkers. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika did the best and worst of the 2021 review. The categories are tv shows, movies, documentaries, books and our personal favorite, sex toys. This episode features The Scarlet Mistress, our first conversation with Miss Riley and our favorite babe with a boner, Bethany. Be sure to come back next week for three more of our Mistress friends and their top picks in pop culture (and sex toys).

Dec 6, 2021

Are you ready to get Femme for the holiday? You’ll need some feminization assignments and sissy training from Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and special guest Miss Ruby. Each Mistress talks about how she personally stays in touch with her sexy side during the busy holiday season. Find out what Ms. Olivia said that made Ruby say, “That’s the weirdest fucking thing I’ve ever heard.” Of course, there are lots of laughs and some serious conversations about holiday stress and our LGBTQ friends. For the transwoman, crossdresser or sissy the holiday can cause unique stresses and issues. Each Mistress has specific suggestions and assignments to help girly girls stay in touch with a femme side no matter the outside circumstances.

Nov 29, 2021

Did you know that Princess Cassidy is in school, studying the psychology of fear? Yep and that’s why Princess Cassidy is the perfect guest to join Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode on holiday stress. There are lots of tips and vanilla ideas of how to keep your sex life going during the holidays. You’ll enjoy the kink guide to coping with holiday stress even if you can’t get to one of the recommended fetish or kink activities. Ms. Olivia recommends Spanksgiving the kink convention in St. Louis. Ms. Erika wants to go to Hedonism in Jamaica. Princess Cassidy wants to go anywhere that is not a stay-cation! Don’t let holiday stress stop your kinky play! Check out simple ideas and assignments for some discrete erotic play even if you don’t have all the alone time or privacy that you want.

Nov 22, 2021

What do you do with leftover holiday food? Join Ms. Erika, Miss Constance, Ms. Hunter, and Mistress Olivia for this fun conversation about the wet and messy fetish. Miss Constance tells us about her puppet who loves sploshing. These funny stories inspire the ladies to laughter and the celebration of kinky fun in all its wicked aspects. Ms. Hunter says you can incorporate sploshing into a lot of other fetish and kink roleplay scenes like cum eating, submission, humiliation and more. Ms. Erika brings up thoughtful points about how there’s nothing wrong with enjoying something like food play or any kink. Others might not “get” the erotic enjoyment but that’s okay, we do get it and will enjoy it with you! Listen to this episode and celebrate this food driven holiday in a whole new light.

Nov 15, 2021

Straight married corporate dude to smokin’ hot trans woman: an interview with Maria Konner. Maria is an author, vlogger, video blogger, musician, and FEMbassador She answers listener questions like: How do I come out? How did you leave the suburban, corporate, and straight world to follow your dream? What is it like to be a transwoman? Are you able to support yourself now that you are living en femme. How do you describe yourself - what about sex, what about relationships? Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have the best time with Maria!

Nov 8, 2021

This episode is inspired by requested and unsolicited dick pics. Hear Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about setting up the new Dick Review where the penis rating team tells you what they think. Ms Olivia interviews 5 women who are cock connoisseurs. Each woman talks about what she likes and doesn’t like when looking at a penis. You’ll be surprised to hear the controversy over a certain part of the penis. Find out what happens when one Mistress compares the penis to an item of clothing. Hear ideas like setting up a Dick Museum and more. There is a lot of laughter amongst the legitimate cock rating appraisal criteria that includes: Overall size, shape and curvature Circumcised or uncircumcised What makes a cock head sexy or not Veins: yes or no on Manscaping preferences You’ll also hear an idea about offering a “how to take dick pics” service to help you improve your dick pics.

Nov 1, 2021

This How To Give A Blow Job episode is in response to questions from callers. Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and Goddess Mandy describe how they each give a blow job in their personal lives. It’s okay to need to learn how to suck cock, everyone has a learning curve. Just wait until you hear about Ms. Olivia’s epic blow job fail. Whether you are bi sexual, gay, cock curious, submissive, cuckold or sissy - the tips and techniques from the ladies will get you started on the path of cock sucking success OR you can simply listen to the sexy voices and enjoy as you give yourself a hand. These experienced Femdoms talk about who needs to learn to suck cock, why many men are cock curious, the different sexual roleplay scenes that incorporate cocksucking, and so much more.

Oct 25, 2021

Fall into the sultry, sexy voice of today’s guest, Mistress Rachel. We talk about Femdom, kink, passion and so much more! Ms Erika starts us off with talk about the epic cock stroking Strokeathon. Ms Rachel shares her love of masturbation, insight into being one of her favorite playmates and her fascination with anal. Ms Rachel’s confession about ass play ends up being the quote of the day. All the ladies talk about what kinds of calls and callers they enjoy. There are some great tips about how NOT to communicate with a Mistress and the difference between being an erotic partner and being submissive. Ms Erika has some fascinating things to say about erotic humiliation. Ms Rachel shares her thoughts on the value of degradation scenes and hardcore humiliation. The ladies talk about exploring the kink world and learning things about themselves and others. Ms Olivia has an insight into why she loves phone sex during a conversation about war. Ms Rachel is a deep thinker and her insights prompts a conversation about intimacy that you won’t hear anywhere else.

Oct 18, 2021

Imagine being a crossdresser for years and finally coming out to your mother. That’s just one of the moving stories from this week’s guest, Yvonne. Ms Erika tears up talking about all the crossdressers and sissies who call us and ache to be accepted. This episode runs the gamut of poignant to playful. All three ladies dish about fashion, makeup and how to develop a personal style. Yvonne talks about how a supportive community helped her realize she is not transgender or a sissy. Ms Erika and Ms Olivia dream about a feminization school and list what training classes need to be included in the curriculum. You hear the science behind how to make your voice sound more feminine and get a feminization voice assignment from Ms. Erika. All this and more when you slip into something pretty for this episode.

Oct 11, 2021

Time for the Halloween edition! Princess Cassidy joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about scary movies, fetish fun and why vanilla women like to dress like a slut one day a year. Cassidy shares her Psychology major and talks about her focus on fear studies. Olivia brings up superhero outfits and kink. Erika shares some of her best costume choices. There’s a bit of everything in this episode including the world’s most hideous candy. Happy Halloween from all of us to you!

Oct 4, 2021

Today’s guest is an award winning journalist, fetish photographer, 20-year kinkster and BDsm mentor. Dirk Hooper is a fascinating guest with insight and lots of stories. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Dirk about why it’s so hard for a submissive man to find a Lifestyle Domme and how the BDsm community acts towards sex workers and Pro Dommes. The conversation evolves into porn and why Dominance and submission is so hard to accurately depict. All three weigh in on the value (or damage) of Fifty Shades of Grey. His personal and professional goal is to dispel myths about BDsm. For example, what it’s like to be a switch. He talks about being a sexual submissive and why the feelings are so hard to replicate anywhere else. Dirk has been on both sides of the whip, so to speak. Of course, there are all sorts of interesting excursions into other topics including: Ms Olivia’s love of comics art, a discussion about NFTs, crypto currency and the future of content creation, so much more!

Sep 27, 2021

The premiere chastity cage creator, William from Mature Metal, talks about all things chastity. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have questions from callers. You’ll find out why Mature Metal’s custom sized chastity cages are so comfortable. You’ll get answers to common questions like hygiene and stealth while in chastity. Are your balls high and tight? Does that make a cage uncomfortable? There’s a solution! Circumcised versus uncircumcised means you’ll want to wear different style cages. Are you (or your keyholder) looking for the smallest cage imaginable? They’ve got you covered! Find out why Mature Metal has the BEST customer service!! You’ll also hear how William got his vanilla wife to fully embrace kink and chastity! This is one of our favorite interviews ever! It is informative, useful and, of course, full of laughter!

Sep 20, 2021

Want to know what happened in the Strokeathon? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give you the down and dirty on this exclusive event with 10 Mistresses watching strokers. Here’s the lineup: Olivia, Madison, Erika, Willow, Riley, Hunter, Daphne, Bethany, Rachel & Harper. Miss Constance joined as the Mistress of Ceremonies. What exactly IS this edging event where each Mistress TRIES to make the men cum. Did anyone last the full hour?

Sep 13, 2021

Get up close and personal with the Mistresses of the Strokeathon. This is part two of the special double episode. Each Mistress brings her special blend of experience, sensuality and wicked imagination to see if she can make the cock strokers pop their cocks! Remember the top 3 winners of the Strokeathon will earn some great prizes - and they will work for it! Rachel is the perfect mix of pure sex and wicked edging instructions. Harper talks about her BDsm history and how guided masturbation is a special treat when combined with power exchange. Willow has some wicked plans for the stroker contestants; if they can handle Willow, they might be able to last to the end of the Strokeathon. Madison has a lot of ideas about how to torment cock strokers - will they be able to refrain from cumming? Daphne won’t say exactly what her special move is but we know it’s going to topple hard cocks. Finally, Bethany points out that because she has a penis she can really torment the strokers - find out the favorite stroking instruction of this Babe with a boner. All this and so much more in this episode.

Sep 6, 2021

Meet the ladies of the Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with each Mistress about this test of cock stroking stamina. Each participant will try to NOT cum until the end of the hour. Who will explode first and why? Will it be when Rachel describes what she’ll wear to the Strokeathon? Harper’s lube recommendations get the ladies thoroughly sidetracked on the luxurious sounds of a throbbing cock aching to explode. Willow’s sensual voice and her guided masturbation preview make Olivia and Erika decide to wear a strapon to the Strokeathon so they can also stroke their own dick. Madison is a thrilling addition to the LDW phone sex team. Hear her plans for her first group event. Daphne enchants the ladies by pointing out the intimacy of being able to bear witness to this intimate display of masturbation. And finally, Bethany is liable to make you lose it just listening to her say what she’s going to wear to the Strokeathon. Hint - socks, a smile and a hard cock. All this and so much more in this episode.

Aug 30, 2021

It’s question time! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listener questions and comments. This episode covers all kinds of calls and callers. What do the ladies think of the human connection that they say is only possible on the phone? Why is this intimacy so powerful on a phone sex call? It’s not all serious, as you know if you’re a fan of this sexuality podcast. You’ll hear Ms Olivia plead for one particular humiliation caller to call her. Ms Erika has special insight for the older sissy who is just learning to love her sissy self. The Mistress hosts are full of advice, insight and, yes, the random excursion into a bit of whacky topics.

Aug 23, 2021

It’s time for STROKE-a-thon 2021! Miss Constance joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for the stroke-a-thon announcement. This cock edging challenge will put your stamina up against all the Mistress masturbation experts. Can you hold out for a whole hour? Sure, maybe you can if you’re doing it on your own but with Mistress after Mistress taking turns with some wicked tease and denial, will you be able to hold on until the end? The last one stroking wins! Actually the top three expert strokers will win prizes. This is going to be a very fun event, Saturday, September 18th at 6 pm eastern. Sign ups close on September 15th. In the podcast you’ll learn about Ms Olivia’s fascination with bacon lube, why Constance is making her chastity pets sign up for the stroke-a-thon and why Erika telling her pets to “inspire her” is the best mindfuck of all.

Aug 16, 2021

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika are joined by a very special guest -- the very sexy Phoenix. Today’s episode starts out intending to talk about sex music, sexy music, fetish scene playlists and what songs makes the ladies hot. There are multiple excursions into various sidetracks - why Phoenix isn’t living in Paris right now and her roommate who might be named after cheese. Sometimes it gets serious with talk about women performers, sexual harassment and more. Erika does her best Marilyn Monroe happy birthday impression and Olivia loses her shit over names that make her laugh. All in all, it’s fun, funny, sexy, and raunchy - just what you expect from The Weekly Hot Spot.

Aug 9, 2021

This episode is a different kind of movie review. Ms Cassidy is a huge movie buff and joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika to talk cinema and sex. A movie doesn’t have to be sex or BDsm themed to have some hot scenes. You’ll hear the ladies discuss what they like and why. What is porn versus erotica leads to an interesting conversation about sex workers, female empowerment and what Olivia does for the quick Big O. Cassidy’s love of vampires lead her to a series of books that she says makes her so hot. Hear why Erika asks, “What the fuck is wrong with me?” and now has her own sexy assignment to do. As always, there is lots of laughter and general naughtiness.

Jul 5, 2021

This episode is all about cock control - including the origin of the word cock control. Did you know this term has a copyright? Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia are joined by Ms Hunter to talk about: stroking, edging, tease and denial, ruined orgasm and, of course, chastity. The ladies share their favorite stroking techniques and say that they know more about a penis than the men who are attached to the penis.

Jun 28, 2021

What is a switch in BDsm terms? Hosts Erika and Olivia both identify as a Dominant only, meaning they don’t switch, but this week’s guest, Daphne, does switch! Why would a Femdom also be a submissive? What is the difference between a submissive or bottom and a Domme versus a Top? Daphne has a 20 year experience as a lifestyle submissive. She knows exactly what it is to be submissive. Find out how Daphne uses her experience as a submissive to be a wicked Femdom. Hear how the ladies think of phone sex versus in person BDsm play. You’ll hear the answers to this question: “Have you given your heart to a caller?” This is a fun, sexy episode with behind the scenes stories and so much more (including the formal name of a fear of turbines).

Jun 21, 2021

It’s Question Time for Mistress. Ms Erika and Ms Olivia answer listener questions and share experiences. The episode starts off with a comment that catches Ms Erika off guard. Hear why Ms Erika got a little flustered and how Ms Olivia is going to lure her into some new erotic adventures. Topics include: straight men and cock sucking, Ms Olivia’s adventure travels and how that applies to kinky sex, feminization and sissification, chastity, pegging, a big cock in panties, privacy and much more!

Jun 14, 2021

Your Femdom Mistress hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika are joined by Ms Daphne to spin the sissy training assignment wheel and give you feminization assignments. These transformation and feminization scenes include shaving 101 - how to shave and why it’s important to have a sissy nice and smooth! Learn how a Sissy Mistress picks her transformation assignments. Ms Erika spins the wheel and lands on Dildo Training woo hoooooo! Hear what happens when Mistress Erika takes her sissy dildo shopping laced with more than a little bit of sweet erotic humiliation. Miss Daphne goes next with cock sucking training which she says is one of her favorite things to do with a sissy. Check out all the sissy training assignments, do the assignments yourself and report back to the Mistress, or just come (cum) for the stories and laughter.

Jun 7, 2021

What is the Giantess fantasy and why is this a favorite fantasy roleplay scene for a Femdom? Ms Olivia and Ms Erika are joined by Ms Brighton who describes how she tumbled into Giantess roleplay as a niche. Ms Brighton gives some hot scenes describing what happens to one tiny man and how she lures him into her sexy trap. Ms Erika tells some secrets of the trade - how she spices up her custom erotic audios for Giantess connoisseurs and why she decided that tiny men don’t have a skeleton. Speaking of anatomy, what exactly does cell biology have to do with erotic pleasure? Ms Olivia explains how one tiny man ended up on a dendrite, her dendrite. It’s impossible to make up these stories from the frontlines of erotic pleasure. Just when you think you’ve heard it all, along comes another episode of The Weekly Hot Spot.

May 31, 2021

Today’s episode is all about men eating cum: Who does it, why does he do it, why would a Mistress want him to do it, and more. Mistress Erika sends a shout out to someone who tracks the cum loads he’s slurped up (hint, it’s in the thousands). Mistress Olivia gives a cum eating tip that involves a toothbrush. Both ladies talk about why cum eating is such a fun, sexy, and naughty taboo.

May 24, 2021

What does a Femdom Mistress look for in a sub? There are so many variables. It’s important to remember that BDsm play and the fetish players are people - so it’s never one size fits all for scenes and relationships. That said, there are some things that every submissive man needs to know when dealing with a Mistress. As a special bonus - hear why guest host Goddess Mandy shocked Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika.

May 17, 2021

Special Guest "The Scarlet Mistress" joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for a special edition of the podcast. Curious about what these these ladies say on a phone sex call? Ms Scarlet tells you about pegging in her own private life. Ms Erika weaves a lush fantasy about a sexy, slutty sissy. Ms Olivia talks about her favorite fetish play space and what she’d like to do there. These sexy scenes let you hear about strapon sex from the perspective of the woman doing the pegging! This is a trifecta of sexy naughty as your hosts reveal what they love, why they love it and more.

May 10, 2021

Erotic humiliation is a mystery to those that don’t “get it.” Listen to Mistress Olivia, Ms Erika and Humiliatrix Hunter talk about this special kink. You’ll hear about a six hour, multi Mistress humiliation call that included songs, tasks and even a feather duster. You’ll find out why it’s so arousing to have a sexy woman laugh at you. Ms Erika has insight into the psychology and physical reactions of humiliation. The ladies all talk about some of their favorite phone humiliation calls and so much more.

May 3, 2021

It’s the best month of the year - it’s Masturbation May! Princess Cassidy joins Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia for everything about self love: stroking, edging, delay and denial - tease and denial and even chastity as part of Masturbation Month. Find out how the ladies celebrate and how they plan to tease you.

Apr 26, 2021

Are you a sissy? What kind of sissy are you? Do you need sissy training and feminization? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how to best get the perfect femme girly girl. Listen to ideas for sissy assignments, how to practice being feminine, what to buy and wear and so much more! A Mistress knows when to encourage or humiliate a sissy. Your Mistress also knows how to help a crossdresser or trans girl live up to her full feminine potential. This feminization finishing school podcast is the idea of a special caller and we have fun with the conversation..

Apr 19, 2021

This week your hosts talk about how to choose a great Femdom Mistress. Mistress Erika did a twitter poll asking kinky men what they want in a Domme. The results surprised Mistress Olivia, who prides herself on being the Experienced Mistress. Miss Ruby has a funny story about a guy that ended up being shocked, shocked by her accent. Sexy, funny, informative and more - including a shout out to the WTF podcast!

Apr 12, 2021

Body worship 101 - What is bodyworship? How is body worship part of BDSM play? Why women like Mistress Olivia, Ms Erika and Ms Ruby love body worship. What these Femdom Mistress Goddess ladies do NOT want you to do when you do pussy worship or ass worship. Tips, tricks, naughty fun and some delightful insight into the naughty world of Welsh Mistress Ruby. Oh and an assignment and request for a specific kind of dick pics.

Apr 5, 2021

Why does a woman put a man in panties? Why does a man want to wear panties? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about all the panty loving men in their life - some of the reasons why men wear panties might surprise you. Slip on something silky and sexy for this podcast about why we love a yummy panty boy!

Mar 29, 2021

What at the top kinks during covid? A survey has the top 10 - today’s podcast continues with the bottom 5 in the survey. Mistress Olivia wonders if a foot fetish should really be called a fetish. Mistress Erika has stories about some of her favorite erotic roleplay scenes. Both ladies laugh and urge callers to have fun with sex - even the sadomasocaism pain play! Sounds like a contradiction in terms? What is fun pain or funishment? All this and more on The Weekly Hot Spot.

Mar 22, 2021

Guess what the top ten kinks are during the covid lockdown? Some are what you’d expect, but there are some surprises in there. This episode has the top five kinks according to a survey during the pandemic lockdown. Hear Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about 5 hot, naughty and very fun topics.

Mar 15, 2021

Do you take it in the ass? Each Mistress talks about strapon play. In this anal and strap-on basics for beginners you’ll hear Ms Olivia, Ms Delia and Ms Erika talk about: preparing for anal sex, how to ease discomfort of first time strap-on play, best lubes for pegging, and more. Hear each Femdom talk about what she likes about strap on play and why.

Mar 8, 2021

Your Mistress Hosts return with this sex in the time of COVID edition. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia introduce Mistress Erika to the show. What does a Femdom do to get her kink on during isolation? Which Mistress has the funniest kinky zoom call story? How can YOU masturbate in private at home. All this and so much more!

Jun 8, 2020

If you could make a rule for a day and everyone had to follow it what would it be? Delia and Olivia share their rules in this erotic podcast snippet full of real life Mistress talk. Delia wants some immediacy while Olivia wants people to try something new sexually. Enjoy the laughs! What rule would you make?

Jun 1, 2020

Phone sex is therapy or should be. In this erotic femdom podcast snippet both Delia and Olivia share their feelings about having to explain what they do in vanilla terms, and also agree that phonesex should be counted as therapy. What do you think after listening?

May 25, 2020

Even Femdom Mistresses dream of having a superpower!! In this erotic adult podcast snippet, Delia and Olivia share Real Life Mistress Talk and share their thoughts on what superpower each one would want to have. Enjoy this fun podcast!

May 18, 2020

Everyone has sexual limits or things they will not do sexually. Delia and Olivia share their sexual limits in this erotic podcast snippet. This week think about this question, "What would you NOT do sexually?" And send us some thoughts! You might inspire a new podcast.

May 11, 2020

If you could be Queen for a Day what would you do was the question posed in this adult podcast. Both Delia and Olivia had a sexual answer, and I bet that does not shock you! Enjoy this podcast and think about whether you would do something sexual, something philanthropic, or maybe you'd just be a Queen!

May 4, 2020

I bet you love to watch porn. A porn satire is often funny and sexy. In this adult podcast snippet, Delia and Olivia talk about their favorite porn satires and share a few laughs.

Apr 27, 2020

Have you ever had a one night stand? Delia and Olivia have too, and in this sexy adult podcast, they share their stories. A one night stand can leave you with a sexy memory as Delia shares or leave the other person wanting as Olivia shares.

Apr 20, 2020

When you have a phone sex session, do you want the Mistress to masturbate on the phone with you? Does her masturbation add to the call or not? Delia and Olivia share what they do in this erotic podcast snippet, and what they say just might surprise you!

Apr 13, 2020

Sometimes masturbation names can make you laugh. Fapping, stroking, jacking off, jerking off. Ok sure we get some, but others are really funny like peeling the carrot, flicking the bean, or even buffin' the muffin. In this Hot Spot Podcast Snippet, Delia and Olivia have some fun with female masturbation names!

Apr 6, 2020

Sometimes during kink conversation, we go off on a tangent. In this Hot Spot podcast, you will hear Ms. Delia and Ms. Olivia reflect on what would happen if they got arrested. Ms. Olivia talks about the time when she got pulled over on the way to the kink convention!

Mar 30, 2020

Sometimes things that are supposed to be sexually HOT just are not that way! In this Hot Spot podcast, Delia and Olivia discuss crotchless panties and flavored panties as well as flavored condoms in this podcast snippet. What things that are supposed to enhance your sexual experience leave things flat for you?

Mar 23, 2020

A BDSM playlist can set the mood for any scene. Both Delia and Olivia like "thumpy" beats that match the speed of flogging, spanking, even fucking. Lyrics that express your feelings during a scene can be powerful during play. What are your go-to BDSM songs or playlists?

Mar 16, 2020

This podcast discusses a sissification transformation in both real life and in Second Life. A virtual reality platform can give a unique place to experiment with feminine styles and looks. Sissy training and working with a Mistress can make your sissification journey even better! And sissy support groups do exist. You just need to know where to look. Join us as Sissy Sarina joins Mistress Delia and Miss Olivia to dish on sissification, seeing your sissy self in virtual reality and so much more!

Mar 9, 2020

Are you turned on by feet? A foot fetish is so common but at the same time, there are many differences and nuances to this kink. In this podcast, Delia and Olivia will discuss many aspects of the foot fetish kink, and even touch on why there may be a stigma to a foot fetish. So whether you love shoes and boots, pretty feet or smelly feet, kissing feet, foot jobs, or so much more, this erotic podcast will cover it.

Mar 2, 2020

Men everywhere worry about the size of their penis. Inadequate feelings can be damaging to a man's self-confidence or can grow into a wonderful small penis humiliation fetish. Delia and Olivia, two Femdoms explore the issue of penis size and discuss everything from measuring to SPH to penis growth in this exciting podcast episode.

Feb 24, 2020

Negotiating an alternative sexual relationship can be intense. Many people think that only the rules of strict monogamy exist, but that is not true! Polyamorous open relationships, swingers relationships, cuckold relationships and more exist on the relationship continuum. In this podcast Delia and Olivia explore all the types of alternative sexual relationships, and encourage you to research them for yourself.

Feb 17, 2020

We have essentials for your crossdresser makeup and feminization transformation. Any cis woman goes through lots of different styles. A trans woman, girly girl, sissy or crossdresser will also experiment with various styles and fashions. Don’t be afraid to experiment! It’s part of being feminine -- yes even if you buy something that you end up hating -- it’s all part of your feminine journey. Getting the perfect shave for male to female transformation Primer starts your crossdresser makeup Beard cover yes or no? Foundation recommendations Contouring makeup for male to female transformation Sexy eyes: What you need in your crossdresser makeup kit Delia loves under eye concealer Delia converted Olivia to concealer Eyebrows! Sexy eyes and luscious lips Crossdresser makeup and full feminization Sissy and drag queen makeup is more extreme False eyelashes Soft, feminine lips

Feb 10, 2020

Do you have sex toys? If you don’t, you are missing out on lots of fun. Mistress Delia and Ms Olivia talk about sex toys, Dominance and submission, why a Femdom uses sex toys and more. Olivia's tangent about paying for sex Delia on why there is stigma about sex toys for men Changing the way he thinks about sex toys for men Women and sex toys Delia's first sex toy purchase The hand versus a sex toy What Mistress tells a caller about sex toys for men Pros and cons of sex toys Ms Delia and Ms Olivia at a sex toy convention The Fleshlight Sex toys and premature ejaculation Mistress should be a model for a sex doll! Power exchange and remote control sex toys Remote control sissy chastity Remote control sex toys and Femdom Mistress Domination Ms Delia's wish list of sex toys for men What is sex tech and the future of sex toys Luxury sex toys Ms Olivia's wish list for this sex toy for men Sex toys on a budget Sex toys on Amazon Anal toys and sex toys for prostate play Lubes for sex toys Cleaning sex toys

Feb 3, 2020

You want rough kink from your Femdom Mistress. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about some things you need to know before you explore BDSM edge play, their experiences and why they want to petition a famous movie producer/director to do fetish porn! Frisky and fun episode. Being a phone sex Mistress BDSM and rough kink Rough kink is rough but compared to what? How intense can you take your rough kink? Safe, sane and consensual SSC kink SSC applies to Mistress too Risk Aware Consensual Kink RACK Experience counts, especially with rough kink Spanking on the phone sex call What is ‘real’ BDSM? Play party or Femdom phone sex call? Mistress talk about Femdom Porn Mental side of rough kink Ms Delia: Predicament play for the naughty sissy Ms Olivia: Predicament play with CBT Emotionally rough kink What is aftercare and why do you need it? Connect with Mistress

Jan 27, 2020

Mistress Olivia and Ms Delia interview sissy Becca about being feminized, sissy training, sissy chastity and more sissification! Difference between a sissy and a crossdresser Sissy training to find your style Best thing about being a sissy In touch with your feminine side How do you become a sissy? Sissy training helps a shy sissy What does sissy wear to her Mistress Interview? Everyone wants to know about boobs Sissy training and sissy support You are NOT alone Sissy assignments help with sissy training One favorite sissy assignment from Mistress Olivia Ms Delia and fucking machines Using chastity for sissy training Chastity helps end purging You are allowed a sissygasm Remote control chastity for the best sissy control Mistress controls chastity through the app When you don’t have a Mistress keyholder BUY the remote control chastity cage Discrete packaging for your sissy sex toys Connect with Mistress

Jan 20, 2020

He says, Mistress made me a cocksucker. Hear from the Dominant Women who like to turn, sometimes unsuspecting, men into cocksuckers. Are you ready to suck cock for her? How does he become a cocksucker? He’s not sure he wants to suck cock. Does sucking cock mean you are gay? When you only want the cock, not the man. Scared to be gay or bi sexual. He can suck his own cock! SHE made him a cocksucker. Cock curious confession. She knows how to make you suck cock. Where does the desire to suck cock start? He’s submissive and sucked cock for Mistress? Jack sucks cock for Ms Delia. Ms Olivia makes her man suck cock. Cock sucking and erotic humiliation. From cuckold to cock sucker. Mistress likes cocksucking porn. Coerced cocksucking. Sex is better now than in his 20’s. How many cock have you sucked? Cocksucker training. The sissy cocksucker Does sucking a strapon or dildo count as cocksucking training? He told his girlfriend he wanted to suck cock. Hiding cock sucking desires. Talk to your Mistress

Jan 13, 2020

Hot, kinky, naughty and taboo -- your Mistress hosts explore what makes a cum fetish and why eating your own cum is so sexy. What is a cum fetish? What is it about cum eating? From cum eater to cum fetish: one man’s journey Eating cum as a submissive It’s all about the money shot Steak and Blow Job Day Ms Olivia’s Sex Calendar Fetish porn favorites from Mistress History of cum eating Covered in cum and loving it Those HUGE cum shots in porn How to make you cum taste better Surefire way to taste your own cum Connect with Mistress

Jan 6, 2020

There is a subculture of feminization that the Mistress hosts love: poor unsuspecting men are tricked into feminization and manipulated to become the sissy Mistress wants. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia share their favorite idea of how to make a man get girlie whether he wants to or not! Tricked into feminization Common Themes of being tricked into feminization Chastity and feminization Tricked and sissified on a cruise Caught in Panties and Turned into a Sissy Tricked into Feminization after Male clothes were Donated Coerced Feminization, She will Make Sure You Obey Making him agree to be feminized Devious Mistress

Dec 30, 2019

It’s that time of year when many of us make New Year’s resolutions to do something or achieve a goal in the coming year. We want you to to have the best sex ever this coming year by making some kink resolutions to spice up your sex life. In this edition of The Weekly Hot Spot, your Femdom Mistress hosts, Ms Delia and Ms Olivia, talk about kink, BDSM, sex, imtimacy and how to REALLY ring in the New Year! Each Mistress makes kink resolutions Ms Delia and her kink resolutions Ms Delia wants more remote sex toys Ms Olivia has kink resolutions How to create your kink resolutions Ask these questions about your erotic desires Does a sexual fantasy count? Ms Delia’s fantasy in the virtual world Ms Olivia says make that fantasy real with DIY sex furniture So fucking kinky Your kink resolution plan Don’t you want a better orgasm? Each Mistress is a cock professional Cuckold fantasy or reality? Sex advice from sex, BDSM and kink experts Fantasy or real life for your kink resolutions? When it HAS to stay as a sexy fantasy Connect with Mistress

Dec 23, 2019

For many kinky people holidays are even more stressful than usual. If you need to hide your fetish then you know why you might be a little (or a lot) on edge. Just when you could really use the relaxation of great sex, you might find what you really want off limits. Maybe your partner doesn’t like or know you kink or naughty fantasies. Maybe you don’t want to tell your partner. Whatever the case, Mistress Delia and Mistress Olivia have some ideas about keeping your kinks on the down low or learning to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies. Do you need to hide your fetish? Does Ms Delia hide her Femdom kinky side? Ms Olivia on personal boundaries. What does Mistress say she does for work? Olivia’s kink conversation gone wrong. You don’t have to hide your fetish from your Mistress. HOW to hide your fetish. Danger of a shared computer when you hide your fetish. Word of caution when using gmail for kink play. Private and encrypted email for fetish fun. Should you join an online fetish group? Check out Enchantrix Empire for adult social networking. Before you say anything about your fetish. Ms Delia’s kink conversation epic fail. WHY to have a conversation about erotic desires. Fetish, kink or Lifestyle Femdom. Compatible kink partner. Talk to Mistress first.

Dec 19, 2019

What are the most popular sexual kinks? Where do you rate against the various lists of hot sex topics? Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about kinky sex (of course), what makes a fetish fun and share their favorite types of porn. Fetish versus kink What makes kink different from a sexual fetish Are popular sexual kinks going mainstream or is this still taboo sex? Is kinky sex a new thing? Popular sexual kinks in a mainstream women’s magazine Kink and fetish sex is more popular than you might think It’s not just men who are the kinky ones The Vice list of the top five most popular sexual kinks Number 2 on the Vice list of popular sexual kinks The sexy tangent and idea for a future Hot Spot What exactly IS taboo sex and why is it number five on the list? Kinky sex is hot and good for you Ms Delia’s story from a fetish convention Ms Olivia’s story from a fetish convention Ms Delia’s favorite porn Ms Olivia adds to the list of favorite porn Share your porn with a Mistress

Dec 9, 2019

The cuckold fantasy is the most popular sexual fantasy for men. Surprised? Don’t be. Two Dominant women talk about cuckolding, cuckold porn, and why the hot wife deserves great sex with her lover. The Weekly Hot Spot hosts Ms Delia and Mistress Olivia dish on why the cuckold fetish is so hot. Definition of a cuckold Cuckold Porn is huge on the internet The cuckold fetish is for smart people In the words of a cuckold husband Do women have the cuckold fetish Research shows cuckolding tends to be positive Communication in a cuckold relationship Types of cuckolds Voyeur —- Husband of an adulterous wife Submissive — in a Female Led Relationship Cuckold fetish from small penis humiliation Cuckold humiliation Bi curious, bi sexual or gay Sissy BBC - interracial cuckolding He has the cuckold fetish but she is reluctant Cuckold conversations with Mistress

Dec 2, 2019

In this interview with a crossdresser, Yvonne tells us about her journey to love and acceptance as a crossdresser. This special interview brings Ms Olivia to tears; Ms Delia and Yvonne dish on New England sports and all three ladies talk fashion fails, what it means to be feminine and why bridemaids' dresses are universally ugly (hint it's a conspiracy). Guilt and acceptance as a crossdresser Yvonne’s wedding gown for the interview Gender identity labels: help or hurt your search for identity? Crossdresser, Sissy, Transgender, transsexual, transvestite, drag queen Erotic pleasure and acceptance as a crossdresser Did you ever have doubts about being a crossdresser? How has the internet changed your self acceptance as a crossdresser? Finding resources for crossdressing and trans women. Did you or do you want to live fulltime as a woman? Acceptance and purging --- cycle for crossdressers Married crossdressers and being in a relationship Unique skin care for male skin Makeup for male to female transition Ms Olivia’s first attraction to crossdressers Finding your feminine style Ms Delia and Say Yes to the Dress Support and acceptance as your feminine self Crossdressing male to female MTF Both male and female: acceptance as a crossdresser Ms Olivia gets tongue tied and everyone laughs

Nov 25, 2019

Holidays are stressful. This is your public service announcement from you Mistress friends who urge you to add kink to voice holiday stress. Seriously, listen and learn all about BDsm and your mental health. You can listen naked and kneeling if you want. Check out www.theweeklyhotspot.com for a transcript and links. BDsm and your mental health Mistress says: add kink to your holiday BDsm good for your mental health Do not buy overpriced kink gear WHY is BDsm good for your mental health? There was a time when BDsm was a mental disorder Kink aware therapists talk BDsm and mental health BDsm and your altered state of consciousness BDsm from the submissive point of view BDsm from the Dominant point of view Avoid holiday stress altogether with a BDsm vacation Did you know there is a kink BnB? Take a kinky cruise. Stay connected with your Mistress --- Holiday schedule

Nov 18, 2019

Get your lube handy for this episode of tease and denial games. Mistress Delia and Mistress Olivia give some fun masturbation edging games, talk about their first encounter with tease and denial and generally dish on why the love being called a cocktease. What is a tease and denial game? Why are tease and denial games so much fun? The paradox of arousal: sexual denial. Edging and cock teasing means better sex. Scary statistics about premature ejaculation An orgasm is like pizza Orgasm control and the Dominant Woman Difference between T&D and chastity Favorite tease and denial games Lube suggestions for tease and denial games Mistress Olivia’s tease and denial assignment Mistress Delia’s tease and denial assignment Orgasm control by a Femdom Mistress

Nov 11, 2019

This episode is: Let’s make him a sissy! Each Mistress is a Dominant Woman who loves to turn some men into sissies. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia dish on everything about sissification and feminization in this adult podcast episode 124. Difference between a crossdresser and a sissy. Being a coerced sissy. The emasculated man turned into a sissy submissive. What is the ideal sissy look? Let’s make him a sissy slut. Why would a cis woman want to make him a sissy? Female Led Relationships and what happens after sissy play. Strap on with a sissy versus a crossdresser. When his wife decides to make him a sissy cuckold husband. What happens in sissy training. More sissy training assignments. Sissy needs cock sucking lipstick. This is the only lip gloss you need. Will a vanilla woman make him a sissy? Tip to avoid purging. How to get personal and practical support from a Mistress.

Nov 4, 2019

Does a woman enjoy feminizing a man? Listen and find out as Ms Delia and Ms Olivia share a wealth of knowledge about crossdressing and feminization. The girl talk includes tips and tricks for body transformation as well as some giggles about the joy of shopping for women’s clothing! Each Mistress has thoughts on these topics and more: Is feminization an erotic role play? Crossdressing brings out the woman inside Dressing in women’s clothes can be a kink or fetish. Dominant Woman puts a man in panties Panty shopping for your feminization Advice on tucking Feminization, transformation and gender identity Personal support and girl talk for femme girls Last Season Prada shoes scene from the movie Legally Blonde Are crossdressers gay? Another reason he wants to wear women’s clothes Male to female transformation Best way to stuff your bra when crossdressing Shoe shopping for crossdressers and trans women Ms Olivia’s femme bride Feminization guide for shoe shopping Do you think drag is different from cross-dressing? We need to talk about makeup for crossdressers and trans women

Oct 28, 2019

Where do you find a Domme that will match up with your specific kink, fetish and or erotic desires? Each host of this kinky podcast is a Lifestyle Mistress and a Femdom in her personal life. This podcast Ms Delia and Ms Olivia have practical advice for BDsm newbies and those curious about the fetish and kink community. Real submissives have questions like: How do I find a Dominant Woman? How do I date a Mistress? This podcast includes: How to find a Domme for your kink Does a Domme hide her female power? Dating a Domme The reality of a Lifestyle Domme BDsm connections BDsm relationships are still relationships Common mistakes from a submissive Feminization and the perfect Domme Email do’s and don’ts in the fetish world How to contact The Weekly Hot Spot Mistress hosts An email horror story and misbehavior on Skype A Domme is a real person, kink included Feminized and transformed by a Mistress Domme makes you suck cock Final thoughts on how to find a Domme

Oct 21, 2019

Your Femdom hosts answer a question from a listener who says: “I would love to find a Dominant Woman. It’s a hard thing to pull off. Most women that I have found are not into that, so I’m at a loss as to what to do. Any advice?” Mistress Delia and Mistress Olivia say why you can’t spot a Dominant Woman out in the world (hint: their example will make you laugh). These are Lifestyle Femdoms who help you avoid common pitfalls for those new to the BDsm community. The podcast covers: How to find a local BDsm group Do’s and don’ts at a munch Differences in BDsm groups Kinky relationships with real actual humans What is FetLife including one Femdom experience from FetLife How to describe yourself as a submissive Amateur versus ProDomme in the fetish world

Oct 14, 2019

The Weekly Hot Spot returns to take you behind the scenes of kink, BDsm, Distance Domination and phone sex. The hosts are Lifestyle Femdom’s who enjoy sharing their love of fetish, kink and erotic pleasure. This episode is inspired by a 2 Mistress call featuring Ms Olivia and Ms Delia. You’ll hear what the caller said about chastity and why his comment inspired a reboot of this adult podcast. We’ll give you a hint of today’s topic. The caller says he likes to use chastity as a reboot to his orgasm and sexual pleasure but he has a problem. The Mistresses talk chastity, cock cages and timing, how to keep someone sane in chastity, what to do when he can’t wear a cage all the time and so much more.

Nov 5, 2018

Ms Delia and Ms Olivia give tips on how to communicate your fantasy to a Mistress....and some things that you do NOT want to do when emailing a Femdom for your Distance Domination.

Oct 29, 2018

Your Mistress hosts talk about CBT --- pain play involving the cock and balls. What is it? How does each Femdom do a CBT session. How to do intense play that is still safe. What is sexy about CBT and some stories you won't hear anywhere else. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia LOVE CBT!

Oct 22, 2018

Sex is the topic -- sex RESEARCH specifically -- you might not be as much of a "pervert" as you think. Ms Delia shares what happened in her marriage when her husband said NO to kink for a time. Ms Olivia says her vanilla friends are kinkier than she ever imaged. Each Mistress has lots to say about new research out of the Kinsey Institute.

Oct 15, 2018

Each Mistress has lots of say about cocks --- size, shape, playtime, and more. Ms Delia talks about why this month is called COCK-tober. These Femdoms are in a mood in this adult podcast!

Oct 8, 2018

Mistress Delia and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing and sissy play. You'll hear some behind the scenes talk about gender, sexuality, sexual identity, fetsih play and how to buy panties! Plus a few giggles about how slutty a sissy can be.

Oct 1, 2018

Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about why phone sex callers want to talk to a Mistress --- some of the reasons might not be what you think. BDsm, fetish, kink, all kinds of sex and a lot of laughers.

Sep 24, 2018

Special edition of The Weekly Hot Spot featuring 2 Mistress Interviews -- co-host Ms Delia and HeadMistress Ms Ally. Ms Delia talks about how Distance Domination changes her in person fetish play and her evolving Mistress style. Ms Ally talks about creating LDW Group as a collaborative effort with kinky, sexy people like you!

Sep 17, 2018

Sexy feet, pretty toes, luscious legs --- Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about arousal from legs to toes --- boots, shoes, stockings and everything they cover. Find out why the Mistress hosts love foot and leg worship.

Sep 10, 2018

Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about all the phone sex calls that aren't about sex. This is an insiders look at the women behind the voices of Femdom Distance Domination -- When sex is NOT ABOUT SEX.

Sep 3, 2018

What is erotic humiliation? Why does someone get aroused by being called a loser or a pindick. Why do laughter and taunting make humiliation sluts so happy? It's all in the counterintuitive world of kink -- where the pain is a pleasure. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia are your hosts for this weekly exploration of kink, fetish, BDsm and all things naughty and wicked.

Aug 27, 2018

In this sexy episode you will learn how YOU can be connected with Delia and Olivia through toys you may have in your own home. The technology of remote sex toys can change your sessions!

Aug 20, 2018

What are Boundaries and WHY do Mistresses feel they are important? In this show Delia and Olivia explore this fascinating topic in BDSM.

Aug 13, 2018

Delia and Olivia take you behind the scenes to introduce and invite you to join them in the Virtual Word. Explore YOUR fantasies in 3D

Aug 6, 2018

Chastity have you curious? Do NOT miss this podcast episode. Delia and Olivia give amazing advice about chastity.

Jul 30, 2018

Delia and Olivia discuss HOW they got started in FETISH!!!

Jul 23, 2018

Delia and Olivia talk all about Cock Sucking! Enjoy this highly requested show!

Jul 16, 2018

Delia and Olivia discuss ALL things femme and fun!

Jul 9, 2018

Explore why Delia and Olivia LOVE the ART of Cock Control.

Jul 2, 2018

Meet your Hosts!