Ep. 287 - You Can’t Rush Your Manifestations: The Energetics of Desperation

It’s still early in the year, but for some reason around this time, people often find themselves carrying a sense of desperation and feeling behind. If this is you, one thing is certain – you’re not alone. This week, Lacy and Jessica take a deep look at the dance with desperation energetics. From overcoming half-hearted attempts at doing the work, to staying centered in the face of doubt and denial, this episode is your roadmap to reconnecting with your truest self and remembering where your path is. Learn how to let your subconscious unlock authentic desires and shed the baggage of perfectionism, regret, and that dogpaddling energy that isn’t taking you where you want to be. This episode is the perfect reset, and a much-needed reminder to keep building that trust muscle and following your intuition. You’re not behind, and it’s not too late. In fact, your manifestations are otw. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast In This Episode We Talk About: Embracing “cocoon season” and the rhythm of the winter season Understanding the energetic of desperation and why it can bubble up How toe-dipping and denial may be blocking you from your authentic desires How to stay centered when doubt creeps in Why being honest with yourself is always the first step towards moving through the desperation energetic Manifestation blind spots and the three archetypes that block manifestations How to build trust with your true self rather than seeking external validation Why internal clarity on our goals and desires is so critical to finding your authenticity Nurturing your inner child when triggers and trauma responses come up Understanding self-protection mechanisms and getting curious about your own nervous system responses How to let your subconscious help unlock authentic desires Letting go of perfectionism, regret, and dogpaddling energy How you can begin to build up that trust muscle with your own intuition THEMES / TIME STAMPS: Desperation defined and understanding this energetic (00:11:00) How to process and move beyond fear and desperation (00:25:40) Questions from the community! (00:52:00) Resources: Share your Challenge Manifestation Testimonials for a chance to be featured on Expanded! Join The Manifestation Challenge! Available in the Pathway until Feb 29th at midnight PST Act + Acre - 20% off with code TBM20 Scalp Detox Scalp Renew BHA Salicylic Acid Scalp Exfoliator Bon Charge - 15% off with code MAGNETIC Infrared PEMF Mat Expanded x Ep. 245 - How To Be Honest with Yourself: Why Self-Awareness is Everything in Manifestation Expanded x Ep. 279 - How to Unblock & Find Your Manifestation Blind Spots Expanded x Ep. 286 - How To Actually Surrender: The Process w. Sonya Find the Letting Go DI and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Monthly Check-in) Where To Find Us! @tobemagnetic (IG) @Lacyannephillips @Jessicaashleygill @tobemagnetic (youtube) @expandedpodcast HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now! The Expanded Podcast , from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM) , is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics . Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill , with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips , Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™ —our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart . This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible . Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind , believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest . Where To Find Us! @tobemagnetic (IG) @Lacyannephillips Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here @Jessicaashleygill @tobemagnetic (youtube) @expandedpodcast