About this episode
You finally build up the courage to say something vulnerable, maybe about feeling disconnected, wanting more intimacy, or missing the spark in your relationship. And then, instead of a conversation, you hear: "Well, I guess I'm just a terrible spouse then." This podcast episode dives into what's really going on when that phrase shows up. It's not about blame or guilt. It's often a sign of emotional overwhelm. We'll explore why this defensive response shuts down connection, what's happening under the surface, and how it can impact both emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage. If this phrase has ever brought your conversations to a standstill, this episode will help you understand it—and move past it—with more compassion and clarity.