579: 4 steps to become more confident & calm | Gabby Bernstein

“All that's required is the willingness to heal,” explains Gabby Bernstein. Gabby Bernstein, #1 New York Times bestselling author, spiritual teacher and entrepreneur, joins us to discuss her transformative 4-step process to truly connect to your inner self and heal, plus: - Gabby’s introduction to internal family systems (IFS) (~2:35) - What is ISF? (~6:50) - The role of mindset (~10:25) - Emotional reactions (~12:20) - The role of gratitude (~14:07) - The relevance of ISF (~15:35) - The 4 step process (~18:55) - Anxiety as a protector part (~24:45) - Taping into your self energy (~28:00) - Demo of the 4 step process (~31:35) - The perspective shift (~39:45) - Confidence and willingness (~41:10) - Accessing prayer (~43:20) - The tension between willingness and surrender (~44:30) - Gabby’s non-negotiables (~47:30) - How to instill this in younger generations (~52:40) Referenced in the episode: - Learn more about Gabby ( https://gabbybernstein.com/ ) - Follow her on Instagram (@gabbybernstein) - Read her newest book, Self Help - Learn more about The founder of Internal Family Systems ( https://ifs-institute.com/about-us/richard-c-schwartz-phd ) Join Gabby on her Change Your Life Tour in New York, L.A., San Francisco or Boston gabbyberntein.com/events We hope you enjoy this episode, and feel free to watch the full video on YouTube ! Whether it's an article or podcast, we want to know what we can do to help here at mindbodygreen. Let us know at: podcast@mindbodygreen.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices