#413 Chasing Trouble: Why We Fall for the Bad Boy or Hot Mess - with Dr. Ray Doktor

The Allure of the Bad Boy and Hot Mess Ever found yourself inexplicably drawn to someone who seems like a total train wreck? 🤔Join us as we dive into the captivating world of “bad boys” and “bad girls/hot messes” with Dr. Ray Doktor, a best-selling author recognized by the team behind the Chicken Soup for the Soul series and a respected relationship expert with over 28 years of experience! In this fun and insightful episode, we unpack the irresistible charm of these hot messes and explore why many of us can’t help but fall for them. Here’s what you can look forward to: Defining the Personas : What exactly makes someone a bad boy or girl? Let’s break it down! Attraction Uncovered : Why are we drawn to these wild personalities? Is it the thrill, the danger, or something deeper? The Friends Dilemma : Know someone who keeps picking the wrong partner? We’ll share relatable tips for those who feel stuck in a cycle of bad choices. Finding the Good Ones : Curious about how to shift your attraction to healthier partners? We’ve got you covered! Healing from Toxicity : If you’ve been in a painful relationship, learn practical steps to heal and thrive. Red Flags & Green Lights : Discover how to spot narcissistic or toxic partners before getting too involved. Dr. Ray’s Golden Advice : What’s the one piece of wisdom you need for dating success? Tune in for a playful yet empowering conversation that’s all about understanding love, attraction, and making better choices in relationships. Whether you’re single, dating, or just curious, this episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate your romantic journey. 🌟 Teaser : Stick around until the end for Dr. Ray’s pivotal advice that could change your dating game forever! For more from Dr. Ray, visit www.raydoktor.com or check out his free life hacks at this link . Don't miss out—this is one episode that promises to be both enlightening and entertaining! 🎧✨ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Get 10 sex-ed classes for under $50 here Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com